The biggest difference between the women of the Northern Dynasties and the women of the Southern Dynasties is probably in the relationship between men and women. Since Xianbei's marriage relationship for a long time was that the man went to the woman's house to be a servant before he could marry the woman home, it was easy for a woman to know what the man she was going to marry was like before she got married.

And the women of the Northern Dynasties, especially the Xianbei women, have a strong sense of self emotionally. "The bright moonlight and the stars want to fall, and if you want to come and talk about me early", "Lang doesn't miss women, and they work hard", all of which were poems left at that time, which can be described as fast talking, "If you like me, come to see me, you don't have to come to cover up", "If you don't like me, you can go your own way, don't cry and cry".

As for "the daughter talks about herself, so she enters Lang Jun's arms", "goes in and out of Lang's arms, and sits on Lang's knees", etc., the table xiàn is the hearty character of a woman in the Northern Dynasty when dating.

Under the influence of the Xianbei women in the north, if the daughters of the Han people from high-ranking families are not frank enough and shy in their behavior, they will be ridiculed by others. Even women with five surnames can often go out to play on weekdays and make friends between men and women normally - of course, the premise is to travel in the right circle.

The daughters of the Southern Dynasty are more lingering and compassionate, soft and tactful, which is related to the national character of the two places, in the North, the ideal spouse in the minds of Xianbei women is not the beautiful man of the Southern Dynasty, but a brave and tenacious warrior and hero.

The folk song left by Murong Xianbei "Lang is in the ten-fold building, and the woman is in the nine-fold pavilion." Lang is not a yellow harrier, where can he get a cloud finch? It has already shown that if you have no ability, you can't be a fierce falcon, and you can't marry the girl you like and go home.

As early as when He Mulan was in the camp in Montenegro, he heard many Xianbei men say that the character of Xianbei women has always been unrestrained and bold, but because the barracks are full of men, they are not deeply touched, and later when they saw the proprietress of the inn, Dou Yun, they roughly understood the boldness of women here.

Although the boss lady's object was wrong, He Mulan was a little embarrassed, but in general, He Mulan still admired the women's mate selection concept and values at this time, and also appreciated their active social activities and the inversion of the relationship between husband and wife.

The status of women in the Sui and Tang dynasties was so high, which had a lot to do with the legacy of the Northern Dynasties.

You must know that later Song Li and Song Li together, all kinds of rules and regulations that restrict women have become particularly outrageous, especially the various "worldliness" that erase women's spirituality and mutilate women's bodies are even more disgusting. In contrast, even if the women in the Northern and Southern Dynasties period looked more unrestrained, they were better than those in later generations who wrapped their feet and shouted "concubines" and "slaves".

"I" to call it, and the hostess must also appear during the sacrifice.

The attitude of the world towards women in the later world is simply a kind of historical degradation.

But no matter what, even if He Mulan was fully mentally prepared, when he arrived at the plum garden, he was still taken aback by the current situation.

The Plum Garden is a huge valley in the north of Pingcheng, although it is called "Garden", it is actually a large field surrounded by a wall, and pavilions and pavilions are built in it, like a garden.

The Hu people in the north admired the merry culture of the Wei and Jin dynasties, so the plum garden has all kinds of "meandering water" and "pillow sand stream pool", but most of the landscapes are actually natural, and there is no carving at all, so it adds a lot of wild interest. This year, the weather is cold, the plum blossoms bloom early, and many plum varieties that He Mulan has never seen are casually blooming along the road, and occasionally there are boys and girls talking under the plum trees.

She originally thought that the so-called "blind date meeting" was probably about men and women sitting separately, and then performing talents for each other, and by the way, they looked at each other and something.

It turned out to be a real visit for men and women......

He Mulan was not familiar with the path of Pingcheng, so he came with Su Hejun. Mangu had a headache when he heard about this kind of thing, so it was Chen Jie who followed He Mulan.

Di Yefei also received the post, but the post was not sent by the Empress Dowager Dou, but the Empress Dowager Dou gave it to the sons of several patriarchs of Gaoche, and the sons of several patriarchs of Gaoche had a marriage partner, so she gave the post to Di Yefei and several other friends from Gaoche military families.

They didn't think that they could marry any good couples here, but they were instructed by their elders to come and expand their contacts. All the men of school age who have some official positions and status in Pingcheng are in Meiyuan this time, even if they are not favored by girls, it is good to know more people.

Di Yefei was originally going to come with He Mulan, but Su Hejun instructed He Mulan to act with him that day, so He Mulan had to decline Di Yefei's invitation.

She guessed that Di Yefei was probably still a little uneasy when she participated in such a "blind date" for the first time, plus his status was much lower than all of them, and he might be more comfortable with a general from an ordinary military family. Even if these are abandoned, she and Di Yefei are so familiar with each other, even if they chat on the sidelines, they are not boring.

She didn't know that Di Yefei had already seen such an occasion when he was stationed in Jinshan's high-speed car, and the memories she got were really not very good, so she wanted to pull the calmer He Mulan as a shield.

As a result, He Mulan was taken away by Su Hejun, and Di Yefei could only follow the Cui family's children and nephews to the plum garden with a cold face.

The Han people are all active in the south of the garden, and the Xianbei clan and the envoys of various countries are haunted in the north of the garden, and the Empress Dowager Dou heard that she will not come to preside over the flower banquet until noon, and the idlers can not see her, so most of the young people still play by themselves, and do not take the trip to the plum garden as an occasion for entertainment.

Su Hejun is also a celebrity in Pingcheng, although the Su He family is not a noble, the Su He family is the eastern Xianbei, since Tuoba Xianbei went south, he has been following, the whole family has won the trust of the emperor, as far as the valued Cheng dù is concerned, it is by no means under the eight surnames.

So when Su Hejun took He Mulan into the garden gate, the news of Shiro of the Su He family spread all over the plum garden, and along the way, many young people who knew each other came to greet him.

Today's Su Hejun is wearing a white robe, white is the color that only the nobles from Xianbei in the east can wear, Xianbei people call it "white department", plus Xianbei people are still white, Su Hejun's white embroidered gold shirt is simply eye-catching, on the road Su Hejun is boasting about how difficult his clothes are.

"The material is secondary, this embroiderer is from the south, so the embroidery is from the south......" Su Hejun triumphantly pointed to the pattern on the sleeve: "Do you feel that you can't see the pattern at all?" When you get to a sunny place, when the light shines, all the dark lines come out......"

He Mulan, who was dressed in black on the side, interrupted him with a headache.

"Su Hejun, I know you're nervous, so you don't have to be distracted by nagging me so much. I really don't want to know how you're made of that shirt......"

"Who...... Who says I'm nervous? ”

He raised his arms in annoyance and began to speak to himself.

"I'm the only Lang Jun in the Suhe family who hasn't married, I have a good future, I look dignified, I went south to north, north to Rouran, west to Tuyuhun, south to Liu Song, where haven't I been? It's just a small plum garden......"

"Don't speak, a couple of women are coming towards us, right behind you."

He Mulan's eyes swept and saw several women in Xianbei costumes pushing and shoving towards this side, and couldn't help but remind him to stop dancing.

"Huh?" Su Hejun's face froze, and he didn't know where to put his raised arm: "Behind me?" Far away? I'll turn around now to see if it looks ......"

Monkey in a hurry?

"There are still a few feet."

He Mulan endured the amusement in his heart, "You should be natural." ”

"Of course you're natural, you're not a man!" Su Hejun lowered his voice and said angrily: "If you are like me, you naturally can't get up." And these women are obviously coming towards me, of course you are not nervous, if a large group of men come towards you, I will see you ......"

"This Lang Jun is the newly sealed Tiger Benzuo Sima, General Hua?"

A group of Xianbei women here are wearing narrow sleeves and waists, wearing a unique headdress of the Xianbei people on their heads, the crown on their heads is tied with a string of hanging pearls and jade, and there are several gems set on the side of the ears, and the eyes of the people who flash are blind.

Where had He Mulan seen the headdresses of Xianbei aristocratic women, and when he saw them putting such a large pile of jewels on their heads, he couldn't help but look at their necks a few more times with emotion, and then glanced at Su Hejun, who was eager to dig a hole and bury them, and then replied:

"Exactly down there."

The Xianbei woman who spoke glanced at He Mulan up and down, and shook her head: "You don't look good." ”

As soon as she finished speaking, Su Hejun beside He Mulan laughed out loud, and suddenly felt much happier in her heart.

"You're talking about......" He Mulan touched his nose, "but he doesn't make a living from his face." ”

Probably because He Mulan answered decently, and he was not as angry as they imagined after hearing it, the woman laughed generously: "You are quite interesting, I am the daughter of the Wei Chi family, and Yu Chi Kualu is the uncle." ”

"Ah, when I was in the army, General Domeng took care of ......"

That's weird!

He Mullan casually said a few polite words.

This group of girls obviously didn't come for his politeness, and Yu Chi Cuarlu's niece pulled out a girl with a round face from behind and patted her on the shoulder: "Didn't you keep asking just now?" Why is it going backwards now? ”

He Mulan's heart suddenly rose a bad feeling, and when he looked at Su Hejun, he saw that his face was full of schadenfreude smiles, and he couldn't help but feel numb in his scalp.

Facts have proved that since she crossed over, except for the head of the Yuan family who is not very clear-headed, most of the people who have expressed their love for her are women.

Although this has something to do with the fact that she is now walking in the world as a man, her own sexuality is normal, and she also has a faint headache a few more times.

Is this girl going to say something like "I've admired you for a long time"?

He Mulan's right foot had begun to slowly move back half a step.

The round-faced Xianbei girl looked up at He Mulan, looked at his clothes again, and suddenly asked, "Why don't you wear the clothes I made for you?" ”

"Huh?" Hermulan was stupid.

"What?" Su Hejun pricked up his ears to listen to the gossip, and he was stunned all of a sudden.

"Mulan, you're not kind, when did you make such a confidante and even accept other people's clothes......"

Su Hejun frowned.

"I can't even touch a woman in the army......" He Mulan looked at the round-faced girl who was obviously happy, and a terrible guess suddenly flashed in his mind: "Could it be that the robe sent by General Wei Chi at that time was ......?"

The round-faced girl's smiling eyes were all crescent-shaped.

"yes, yes, that's what I did. My uncle said that you like girls with good needlework, so I made a set of robes for the four o'clock. Don't you like it? Why don't you see you wearing it......"

"Poof!"

Su Hejun covered his mouth, ran straight to a plum tree and pretended to admire the plum tree, not daring to look back at He Mulan's face.

In addition to He Mulan and the round-faced girl, several other Xianbei girls also showed concerned expressions, wanting to hear He Mulan's answer.

If He Mulan is really a man, I am afraid that at this time I will have to think of a statement that will not hit this girl, but also be easily accepted, and politely refuse her kindness, thank her clothes or something.

Helplessly, He Mulan is a person with low emotional intelligence, and he really has no experience in this kind of thing, and the only "Zhao Ming" was crying and ran away by her.

So she froze for a moment and said dryly, "That...... There are too many clothes sent over...... The clothes I wore in the army were all rough, and General Wei Chi's material was so good that I didn't wear it......"

"Did you send too many clothes?"

The girl hung her head in disappointment, muttered for a moment, and then looked up again.

"My name is Yu Chiyan, you didn't wear them before, but now you are Sima, remember to wear them!"

"Huh? Oh good. ”

He Mullan nodded.

"But most of my clothes are left in the Montenegrin camp, and I have to ask someone to bring them when I go back."

Yu Chiyan really froze at this moment, and stomped her feet unwillingly: "You are really wood!" Forget it, I'll write to Abel to send it to you! You remember my name is Yu Chiyan! ”

After she finished speaking, she looked at He Mulan carefully for a while, focusing on He Mulan's ape arm and bee waist, and then calmly followed a few female companions.

When the girls of the Wei Chi family walked away, Su Hejun moved over with an expression similar to "laughing", and asked He Mulan funny: "I accepted other people's clothes and didn't admit it, huh?" ”

"Before the expedition, many generals inexplicably sent me clothes, and I couldn't refuse, so I accepted them all. Some are suitable, and the material is not expensive to wear. General Wei Chi and I have no personal relationship, and the clothes are made of fine brocade, where can I wear them to fight......"

He Mullan shook his head.

"After joining the army, the Chinese costume has nothing to do with me."

Su Hejun was still making fun of the rotten peach blossoms caused by He Mulan, but after hearing her emotion, he suddenly fell silent.

After being by her side for a long time, I always forgot her real gender.

There is a gender in this world, not a man or a woman, but like Mulan, which can no longer be defined simply by "what kind of person is she".

What was Mulan like before she joined the army? Is she also at home as a window and sideburns, and the mirror appliqué yellow? Is it the same as the sisters in the family, will they worry about wearing a red dress or a blue dress today, and will they be angry because they have one less suitable piece of jewelry?

Su Hejun moved his gaze to He Mulan's face, as if he wanted to detect the clues of her when she was still cardamom from her expression and appearance.

Do you wear rouge, comb your hair in a bun, and wear a narrow skirt at home?

Su Hejun imagined that He Mulan was dressed like this, and then ......

- shivered firmly.

"Hiss......"

Su Hejun rubbed his forearm with a strange face, and glanced at He Mulan a few more times.

"Are you cold? Wearing less? He Mulan didn't know why, and looked at Su Hejun who suddenly stood with his arms crossed, "Your suit is really outstanding, but it is lighter, and now it is early winter, although the silk cotton clothes are bloated, they are much warmer than the jacket." ”

"What do you know, this is called Fengyi ......" Su Hejun reflexively replied, and then looked at He Mulan: "What did you wear at home when you weren't a soldier before?" ”

He Mulan was stunned and recalled Mulan's girlhood.

"Except that they don't wear narrow skirts and pleated pants underneath, and they don't wear a crown on their heads, it's no different from their dress."

"Oh...... It's good that you're in the army......"

Su Hejun couldn't bear to look at him and covered his eyes.

"Otherwise......"

Otherwise, with her mediocre appearance, I am afraid that she will marry an ordinary and mediocre man, and then spend her life in a wasted manner.

That's a humiliation!

"Everyone in the world judges women for their looks and talents, and before I met you, I thought so." Su Hejun couldn't help but sigh, "I always feel that with my family background and talents, I will definitely marry a beautiful lady in the future, and then marry seven or eight beautiful concubines with beautiful and moving appearances and different appearances, and this life can be regarded as a complete ......."

And then you marry a woman whose family is truly amazing, and whose temper is just as amazing. Don't say that you are a beautiful concubine, it is estimated that if you look at other women more, you will be killed......

He Mullan complained silently in his heart.

"But after getting to know you, I think I'm a little shallow." Su Hejun shook his head. "There are thousands of women in this world, who said that you have to be beautiful to be a good match?"

"Huh? How can Su and Jun compare me? He Mulan smiled, "I am like this, it is estimated that I will not find one for thousands of miles." ”

"That's true."

Su Hejun nodded and looked up at the plum tree overhead.

There, many budding plum blossoms are dotted on the branches, and because they are not blooming, almost no one cares about them and no one appreciates them.

But he felt that this budding plum blossom was precisely because the time had not yet come, and he was even more looking forward to what it would look like.

"So ......"

Hermulan looked at him inexplicably.

Bare so many dots, what the hell was he looking at?

"General Flower! Oops, you're here! ”

A tall man wandered around near the gate of the garden, and finally found He Mulan and Su Hejun, who were chatting in this remote corner, and immediately ran over happily with long legs.

"I've been looking for you for a long time!"

"Alone, lonely, stupid!"

Su Hejun gritted his teeth and pronounced his name.

"Ah, Suhe is also there." Dugu Nuo walked in front of the two of them in three or two steps, and grinned as if he had just discovered Su Hejun: "You look really good in it, but I have walked all the way, and I seem to have seen everyone wearing it like this." Did you make an appointment to wear it like this? I knew I wouldn't wear this. ”

He patted the red clothes on his body, and seemed a little embarrassed that he was dressed differently from others.

"Ah, General Hua is wearing black! This makes it so much easier for me! ”

Xianbei nobles are still white, and on such solemn occasions, it is natural to wear white.

There are also official uniforms worn, but the official uniforms of the Wei State are not good-looking, and they seem to be wearing them to show off their official positions.

Even so, saying such a thing loudly, if it is not intended to be sarcastic, it may really be a lack of heart.

Seeing that Su and Jun were angry, He Mulan couldn't wait to take off his clothes and step on a few feet, and turned his head to play a round: "We are all men, and we can wear whatever we want." What are you looking for me? ”

Dugunuo laughed a few times, turned his head to see that the people in the family did not chase him out, and then said mysteriously: "My family has betrothed me to marry, but I have never seen the girl of that family, I am going to secretly go to the south garden to see ......"

"That's a pity, just your appearance, I'm afraid I didn't even see the faces of the girls, so I was forked out as a disciple."

Su Hejun sneered.

"Yes, yes, I think so too."

Dugu Nuo nodded again and again.

"So General Hua, can you please come with me?"

"What?"

He Mullan was taken aback.

"I'm going?"

"If I were really discovered, with a warrior like you, I would have been spared a beating...... Either you just protect me and don't get hit in the face. If my brother sees that my face is hurt, he will go back and beat me again......"

Dugunuo's innocent smile.

"I'll just go and see what the girl I'm going to marry looks like, and don't do anything ......"

"Why don't you go generously?"

Hermulan's eyes widened.

"Isn't it normal for unmarried couples to see each other?"

"Also...... It's not there yet...... The two are only ...... privately."

Dugu Nuo blushed suddenly.

"Actually, I'm also a high climber......"

He was probably not good at lying, and his face was flushed halfway through his words: "General Hua, I'll tell the truth, I just want to ask people if they want to." If I don't want to, forget it, I'll go home and discuss with my mother, don't delay others. ”

"Mulan, don't mess around with this bastard!"

Su Hejun was half frightened when he saw He Mulan's thoughtful appearance.

"If someone finds out, he's nothing, I'm afraid your reputation will be gone!"

"What a reputation do I have!" He Mulan stimulated him funny, "I don't want to marry any beautiful concubines, I'm begging for seven or eight beautiful concubines!" ”

"That's not what I meant!"

Su Hejun felt like he was going crazy.

"There are so many people in the garden to the south, it's hard to say they didn't know us, and it's not too late for us to run around until the queen......

"No, no, no! I've sent my family to ask where they are! Let's just slip over there! Dugu Nuo waved his hand again and again. Let's just say we're lost! You also know my reputation, it's normal to get lost, right? ”

"Humph!"

"General Hua, I really can't find anyone to help me, I go alone, I'm really scared." Dugu Nuo looked a little confused. "My aunt said that she was waiting for the water to be successful, but I always felt that the girl of the Han family was afraid that she was unwilling, and if she was not happy at that time, I would not be happy, and this pro-became would not be interesting. What am I going to do if I marry a girl who doesn't like me? ”

"Capricious! How can the marriage between the great clans be decided by whether you want it or not? Even if the girl is unwilling, if the family wants her to marry, she can only ......"

Su Hejun immediately put his hands behind his back, and prepared to say to Dugu Nuo with a look of "I want to educate you".

"Okay, I'll go with you."

He Mullan nodded dryly.

"Mulan!"

Su Hejun's eyes widened.

"Thank you, General Hua!"

Dugunuo was ecstatic.

He Mulan is willing to go because Dugunuo still maintains such a pure heart after Hua Mulan returns to the field, and is even willing to use his marriage to support the idol in his mind.

Since he can now say, "What should I do if I marry a girl who doesn't like me", then he is willing to treat Mulan as a wife in the future, and the trade-offs in his heart can be imagined.

She remembered that the Yulin Lang who went with him had canceled his "people have five long and one short", so his wife couldn't stand it and divorced, Dugu Nuo was annoyed and scolded angrily, but he didn't say a word about his wife's badness, and he didn't complain about his ex-wife like many men who left their souls and complained about how they weren't.

Maybe it's because he kept silent about his wife's badness that people think there's something wrong with him.

She thinks Dugunuo is a very cute and honest man, if it is because the girl was unwilling to marry him from the beginning and the two parties ended up in harmony, and even laid the beginning of "the combination of Han and Xianbei people is unhappy", it would be a pity.

Even if she is willful once, it can be regarded as if she wants to repay Dugunuo's favor for Mulan, and she is willing to help him.

"Su Hejun, I'll just accompany him on a trip. The Queen Mother didn't come, and now this plum garden is not a Longtan Tiger's Den, and it is enough for the two of me to go. ”

He Mulan nodded at Su Hejun.

"You're waiting for me here, I'll come back when I'm done......"

"Do you know the way of the plum garden? Do you have Han Chinese clothes? Do you know what the girl he's looking for looks like? Do you know how Dugu Silly Er can talk to people? ”

Su Hejun said a long series of words in a row, looking at He Mulan and Dugu Nuo, who had already been stunned, and shook his sleeves majestically.

"Uh......"

"Ah......h

"If you were my White Egret Officer, I would have sent you back to your hometown a long time ago." Su Hejun put his hands behind his back, craned his neck, and said with a squint:

"If you talk about such a thing as sneaking into the South Park, without my help, you will be embarrassed and thrown to the Taihe Hall tomorrow morning!"

He squinted at Dugunuo.

"Do you want to see your fiancée? Please, beg me, I'll ......"

Hahaha, struggle, brush your sleeves and go, as long as you have a little ......

"I forgot what you were capable of!"

Dugunuo looked fanatical.

He looked at Su Hejun, who had opened his mouth wide, and simply bent down and made a big salute.

"Please!"

The author has something to say: the second watch is about 8 o'clock.

Small Theatre:

"Please!"

Su Hejun: (depressed) You have to have a face!

The second stupid Dugu Nuo and the Dugu Nuo who courted in later generations: (laughs) If you want a face, you won't beg to be issued a good person card