Fu Chunhua didn't think so, in his previous life, his family was not even well-off, he could only be regarded as a poverty alleviation, just because of Gou Caixia, the family was also constantly fighting all day long.

The most angry thing is Fu Chunjing, I don't know if he really doesn't understand or fake, all in all, Gou Caixia doesn't care about him, and even sometimes he thinks what Gou Caixia says is very right.

It was the sentence: "I am the eldest son of this family, and this thing should be mine." ”

When he heard this, he got angry, when the family wanted to pay money, the eldest son disappeared, and when there was a little bit of small profit, he was the eldest son.

Therefore, the quality of this family cannot be completely said to be bad if it has money, and it is good if it has no money.

There are rich families in this world who can sustain for several generations, and it can only be said that parents educate their children properly, and do not spoil their children too much, because children are born with a blank slate, and any child is born to know what to fight for family property. The bad problems of children are all used to by their parents, and they have little to do with their children.

Therefore, the root of today's farce is not in those children, but in the old man Wan and Mrs. Wan, when the children were young, they did not educate well, but they have always been pampered, and it is strange that these children can learn well.

However, it can't be completely said that parents are used to children, so the child is not good, her little sister Fu Chunni was born pampered and grew up, but she is not like Fu Chunjing, she is much more responsible than Fu Chunjing. Later, when there was anything going on in the Fu family, Fu Chunhua did not discuss it with his eldest brother, but he was willing to seek the distance and go long distance to discuss with his sister.

But from the beginning, this parent is not spoiled and accustomed to the child, at least the chance of letting the child go down the crooked path is much smaller.

What real parents should do is not to leave their children a lot of inheritance, but to teach their children those skills and life experiences that they will know, so that children can avoid detours and grow up on their own.

Fu Chunhua couldn't help but say his concept, which made Fu Yongde and Xu Shuzhen, who were still complacent, fall into deep thought, even Fu Chunjing and Fu Chunqiang didn't speak, and began to carefully touch what she said.

Seeing that they couldn't understand it for a while, Fu Chunhua told another story that she had seen in a book, and it was a story that impressed her very deeply.

It is said that in ancient times, there was a merchant who was very good at business, and his family had a lot of money, but he didn't have a son until he was middle-aged. The husband and wife are very doting on this son, and they are reluctant to let him do a little thing, even if he wants the stars in the sky, the husband and wife are willing to go to the sky to pick them.

But such a son, pampered since he was a child, does not learn and has no skills, and when he grows up, the husband and wife are old, not only will he not know how to do business, but he will not do simple things, except for eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling all day long.

The husband and wife only began to get anxious at this time, but if they teach it now, they will not be able to teach it for a while, and the son will not learn it at all. The husband and wife thought of a lot of ways and made a lot of preparations, but they were afraid that if the two were gone, the son would starve to death.

Finally, when the husband and wife died, the son felt that when the original parents were there, they would not let this or that. It's okay now, no one cares, it's a good thing, I spend every day drinking, drunk and dreaming of death, and it didn't take long to scatter the wealth that the businessman had saved for most of his life.

The son was kicked out of the big house, with only a torn cotton jacket on his body, and he had no choice but to ask for food. The people in this city knew where he came from, and they didn't think he deserved it, and they didn't want to give anything to this man.

There is only one shop that sells steamed buns, and every time he goes to ask for food, he will be full. This son has been there many times, and he thinks that the owner of this bun shop is a good person.

Finally, one day he couldn't help but ask the boss: "Shopkeeper, I go to other places to ask for food, and others refuse to pay attention to me, why are you the only one who is good to me and gives me buns to eat?" ”

The owner of the steamed bun shop is indeed a good person, and he can't help but tell him a big secret, this steamed bun shop is actually bought by a businessman a long time ago, but he agreed with this boss that he can't tell his son the secret of this shop, he can only let him eat every day.

When the son heard this, he immediately took the bun shop back and drove the shopkeeper away.

A few days later, this little bun shop let him lose again, and now there was really no one to feed him, and finally on a cold winter night, the son was cold and hungry and froze to death on the street.

Speaking of this, Fu Chunhua paused for a moment, and Fang said: "I personally think that if parents love a child more, the more strict they are. Even if he goes the wrong way, he must help correct it. It's like a crooked sapling, if you want to straighten it, you have to tie a stick of wood to it and let it grow in the right direction, which is painful for the sapling, but only in this way can the sapling grow into a real tree. If the merchant had been ruthless in reversing his son's problems when he was young, the son would not have ended so miserably. ”

Fu Yongde nodded again and again after hearing this: "Chunhua is right, you can't spoil your child too much, if you love your child more, you should indeed be stricter with him." Shuzhen, I think you are too doting on Chunjing, if he has any requirements in the future, we can meet them, but it depends on whether that request is reasonable, if it is unreasonable, we must not agree. ”

Xu Shuzhen also nodded: "Yes, I think Chunhua and Chunqiang are stronger than Chunjing, Chunjing doesn't feel it when he doesn't have younger siblings, this is evident with his younger siblings, and his self-care ability is not as strong as the two little ones." It's also our fault, we always think that the child is so young, if you can help him, do it for him! ”

Speaking of this, Xu Shuzhen said to Chunjing: "Chunjing, you are the eldest brother, and your parents will be stricter with you than your younger siblings in the future, do you agree?" ”

When Fu Chunjing was in Wanjia, he was still quite happy to be able to eat so many delicious foods. But when something like that happened later, he also felt that the children and grandchildren of the Wan family were too unfilial, how could they be so angry with the two old men, and he felt that they should not be so unworthy for the sake of family property.

After listening to his sister's words, he also felt deeply, why as soon as his sister came back, the tiredness on his parents' faces was much less, not because his sister could do everything and could help his parents share a lot of things.

I used to be confused, I knew that I was good at eating, I was having fun, and I didn't take a help when the oil bottle was poured at home, and I would be the son of the merchant in the future.

So he also said to his mother very formally: "Well, I agree, I am the eldest in the family, I will be more capable than my sister in the future, and I will be able to learn to take care of a family before my parents are old." ”

Fu Chunhua couldn't help but burst into tears when she heard this, the eldest brother who had no responsibility at all in her previous life, the eldest brother who knew how to play in her previous life and didn't pay anything to the family, said such a thing today, she really wasn't reborn in vain.

Fu Chunjing strictly abides by his promise, and from then on, he will no longer need his sister to use material rewards to stimulate him to do housework, he is really learning how to take on the responsibility of a family, of course, this is a later story, not to mention it for the time being.

Fu Chunhua didn't expect this trip to ten thousand homes, but it made his brother completely change his thinking, which can be regarded as a great thing!

Next, Fu Chunhua talked about Mrs. Wan's proposal to invite everyone from the Fu family to dinner at noon next Sunday.

As soon as this topic was said, everyone in the Fu family looked at each other a little, thinking in their hearts whether they would still go to Wanjia for dinner?

Fu Chunhua knew the concerns in everyone's hearts, and said with a smile: "Dad, Mom, I don't think everyone should take this matter too seriously, Grandma Wan said, this time it will definitely not happen today." I thought that if we didn't go, it would be as if I had an opinion about Wanjia for today's matter, so I had already agreed to the invitation for next Sunday on behalf of my parents. ”

Fu Yongde also understood the meaning of this when he heard her explanation, nodded and said: "Chunhua, you are right, this incident today is not what the two old men want to happen, the starting point is still good, I want to accept you as my goddaughter and let everyone in the family see it, how do you know that such a thing will happen." If we don't go, it will be hypocritical. Okay, let's go again next Sunday at noon! ”

With Fu Yongde's decision, everyone else naturally had no opinions, and Fu Chunhua finally relieved himself and persuaded his family.

After school on Monday afternoon, Zhuang Hongzhe actually waited at the school gate, and Fu Chunhua asked in surprise: "Did you have scuds or what, and you arrived here so early?" ”

Zhuang Hongzhe smiled: "I didn't go to school in the afternoon, I accompanied my grandfather to the hospital, and I still didn't feel at ease, after all, the two old people were almost sixty years old." With the inspection of the hospital equipment, I can be completely relieved. I also came to report safety to you, the two old men are now in better health than the fifth uncle, and it will be no problem to live for another fifty years. ”

Fu Chunhua was also very happy to hear it, since this thing is so effective, in the future, his parents, grandparents, and grandfather can use one or two tablets for them, and they can live to be a hundred years old!

Thinking about it like this, her mood became even happier: "It's okay, it's our blessing that the old man can accompany us more!" ”

Zhuang Hongzhe was also very eye-catching, seeing that Luo Chunlin, Luo Jun and Fu Chunqiang were all in front of him, he didn't say much, until he got home, he followed Fu Chunhua and the two of them to the vegetable field, and looked at no one around again, Zhuang Hongzhe told what happened yesterday.

Fu Chunhua was very satisfied with what he explained to Old Man Wan and Old Lady Wan, she said with a smile: "In the future, if there is anything, I will say that I took it from you, and you have to carry it all for me, and you are not allowed to ask me, okay?" ”R1152