Chapter Eighty-Four: A Difficult Marriage
(Girls' Literature)
"Emma, how many years!?" Bai Yanyan looked at Cong Jiajia in horror, "Don't let her watch it for a few years, just let her watch my son for a few days, I can't bear it." Bai Yanyan narrowed her eyes, gritted her teeth and said, "Even if I divorce Ye Xiang, I don't want to watch my children." ”
Cong Jiajia heard Bai Yanyan's idea of divorce, and hurriedly said: "Don't think nonsense, this is just a small contradiction, how can you talk about divorce, and also, don't talk nonsense in front of Ye Xiang when you say such things, Ye Xiang will be sad when he hears it!" ”
Bai Yanyan listened to Cong Jiajia's words, as if she had heard the funniest thing, and couldn't help laughing, "Ye Xiang will be sad?" Hahaha, have you ever asked me if I'm going to be sad? ”
Cong Jiajia looked at the tears in Bai Yanyan's smile, looked at the bloodshot in Bai Yanyan's two eyes because she couldn't sleep well, looked at Bai Yanyan's bleeding because of giving birth, and there was no blood on her face, looking at the crumpled hospital gown that Bai Yanyan was wearing, and looking at Bai Yanyan, who was much older in vain, her heart was sore and painful.
She stretched out her hand and hugged Bai Yanyan, and said in a choked voice: "My dear, I know that you have been wronged, but things are already like this, you and Ye Xiang are husband and wife, you have a common child, and you still have a life to finish, so you have to focus on the overall situation, there are trivial things happening in everyone's family, basically every mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will quarrel, but they must tolerate each other and run in with each other for the sake of their children, and slowly everything will pass." ”
Bai Yanyan was in Cong Jiajia's persuasion, tears flowed more and more urgently, lying in Cong Jiajia's arms, choked and said: "Jiajia I, when I think of my best youth, time is spent in such a trivial life, when I think of me to be entangled with such a pair of mother and son, I will feel very unworthy, I will feel that I have no meaning in living like this!" ”
Cong Jiajia patted Bai Yanyan's back, "Don't cry, crying is not good for your eyes, didn't you tell me before, we have to find a way to solve it when we encounter something, instead of shedding tears, this matter is actually not complicated, you and Mother Ye have no deep contradictions, and the current contradictions all come from serving this child."
You and Ye's mother can't communicate well, you can go and talk to Ye Xiang, and then let Ye Xiang talk to his mother, so that the matter will be solved, and you don't need to make such a big fuss and hurt the peace. ”
Bai Yanyan wiped away her tears and smiled bitterly at Cong Jiajia, "You can't understand how much Ye Xiang is protective of his mother, how obedient he is, no matter what his mother says, it is right, as long as I have a little contradiction with his mother, he doesn't ask about it, he just says that his mother is right." ”
Cong Jiajia touched Bai Yanyan's hair sympathetically, "You should have a good talk with Ye Xiang, when there is no one." ”
"He is now instigated by his mother, and he doesn't want to talk to him at all, so he naturally denies everything I said." Bai Yanyan couldn't tell Cong Jiajia that Ye Xiang wanted to beat her yesterday, Bai Yanyan couldn't tell Cong Jiajia that she had a big fight with Ye Xiang last night.
After Bai Yanyan quarreled with Ye Xiang during the day yesterday, she wanted to leave here, this trick scared Ye Xiang, Ye Xiang coaxed and persuaded, and finally coaxed Bai Yanyan well, but Ye Xiang's low-lying appearance angered Mrs. Ye, and Mrs. Ye took advantage of Bai Yanyan's inattention, and called Ye Xiang to the next room, reprimanded, educated, and made Ye Xiang understand a lot of truth.
At night, only Ye Xiang and Bai Yanyan were left in the ward, in order to take care of the child herself, Ye's mother asked the child and the confinement lady to live in her room in the name of letting Bai Yanyan rest well after giving birth, and Bai Yanyan and Ye Xiang lived in the ward here.
During the day, Bai Yanyan had already seen Mother Ye take care of the child several times without paying attention to hygiene, she endured it, and now she finally had the opportunity to be alone with Ye Xiang, she couldn't help but nag Ye Xiang and said, "Have you seen that the mother doesn't wash her hands at all before giving the child milk, and ah, the mother touches her hair, touches her feet, and touches the child's little hands......."
Ye Xiang frowned, and said unhappily: "Even if my mother touched her hair, touched her feet, and touched the child's little hands, she is also my mother, she is the child's grandmother, she has been in this habit for a lifetime, you, as my wife and daughter-in-law, should find a way to accept her, instead of finding fault with her, when you married me, you knew that my mother was from the countryside, and you should have thought that there would be today." ”
Bai Yanyan was choked by Ye Xiang for a long time and couldn't speak, she didn't expect that Ye Xiang, who had always been taking care of herself, would say such things to herself, it seemed that before herself and Ye's mother, Ye Xiang was still more protective of his mother's interests.
She took the pillow at hand, hit Ye Xiang, who was sleeping on the accompanying bed, and shouted in a low voice: "I tell you this, I don't mean to dislike my mother, if my mother treats me in this way, I can make do with it, but she can't do it with the child in this way, the child is so young, if you don't pay attention to hygiene, the child will be sick." ”
"My son doesn't need to be so squeamish to feed." Ye Xiang said sullenly: "When I was young, my kang was covered with mats, and the cracks of the mat were drilled out, my hands and face were black day by day, and I often ate the soil in my mouth, and I didn't have anything wrong with it, and I grew tall and strong, so children don't have to be too squeamish, and you don't have to be too spoiled with children." ”
Bai Yanyan was angry with Ye Xiang's fallacies, she slowly sat up from the bed, stared at Ye Xiang on the side, and asked Ye Xiang angrily, "Did your mother instill these concepts in you today, did your mother teach you to say that?" ”
"What do you mean by 'your mother', is it so hard that you don't care if she calls her mother!" Ye Xiang suddenly sat up from the bed and looked at Bai Yanyan angrily, "Bai Yanyan, in your heart, you have always looked down on my mother, you always feel that she is a rural person and is not worthy of the respect of you, a college student in the city, so when she came all the way to see you and came to take care of our children today, you still picked your nose and eyes at her, so you would be so rude to let her go!" When you're doing these things, have you ever thought that she's my mother!
Bai Yanyan, you can bully me, I can also get used to you and coax you, but if you want to bully my mother and be rude to my mother, it is absolutely impossible, I tell you, after tomorrow, you have to correct your attitude and treat my mother better, otherwise I will ...... I ......"
This is the second time Bai Yanyan has seen her husband Ye Xiang with a vicious expression towards herself, it was the first time at noon today, all after her mother-in-law came, the shock and anger made Bai Yanyan angry, the grievances that she had forcibly suppressed in the past two days, the anger seemed to be like a volcano was about to erupt, she asked Ye Xiang sharply, "How are you?" Are you going to divorce me? ”
The stubborn Ye Xiang, at the instigation of his mother, his temper rose at this time, he was silent for a while, and snorted coldly at Bai Yanyan, "If you are rude to my mother again and quarrel with my mother again, I will divorce you!" ”
Bai Yanyan's heart was instantly cold, when Ye Xiang raised his hand at noon and wanted to hit her, her heart was half cold, and now it was all cold, she was suddenly disheartened, and she didn't even have the mood to quarrel with Ye Xiang, in fact, Ye Xiang was not blamed for this matter, nor did she blame Ye's mother, only herself, why did she have a hot head and accept Ye Xiang in the first place?
She is such a smart person, she has forgotten that Ye Xiang is from a different background than her, different from the cultural education she received, and different from many of her concepts.
Bai Yanyan had a small quarrel with Ye Xiang last night, and it didn't solve any substantive problems, today Mother Ye went her own way and still served the child in her way, and the confinement lady wanted to take care of the child in the way of the confinement lady, but was denied by Mother Ye.
Bai Yanyan, who was not eye-catching, helped Yuesao say a few words, and then triggered today's catastrophe-like battle, first Ye's mother quarreled with Bai Yanyan, then Ye Xiang quarreled with Bai Yanyan, and then Ye's mother quarreled with Yuesao, Yuesao's sister-in-law was unwilling to get along with Ye's mother for a long time, so she simply left, and now Yuesao's is very easy to find a job, why bother being idle here.
Bai Yanyan saw that Ye's mother drove away the confinement sister-in-law, and quarreled with Ye Xiang again, Ye Xiang considered that the child and Bai Yanyan, who had not recovered well, really couldn't do without the care of the confinement sister-in-law, and ran out to chase the confinement sister-in-law, Ye's mother was very angry when she saw that her son was chasing the confinement sister-in-law, and stayed in the ward to continue to quarrel with Bai Yanyan, until Cong Jiajia came.
Bai Yanyan didn't know what to say about these messy things, in fact, it was not a big deal for them to quarrel, but this trivial matter in the eyes of outsiders was the fuse of the accumulated contradictions in their family.
Because of this trivial matter, the anger and grievances that were forcibly suppressed, and the forbearance and restraint of pain were stimulated, so it turned into such a fierce quarrel, sparing no effort to hurt each other, leaving no way back, and immediately breaking off their love.
Cong Jiajia is a person who has experienced a failed marriage, and she has also met a superb mother-in-law, she understands Bai Yanyan's hardships, at this time she doesn't know how to persuade Bai Yanyan to let Bai Yanyan divorce, by no means, Bai Yanyan and Ye Xiang already have children, and they have to live well for the sake of their children; Let Bai Yanyan continue to live with Ye Xiang, unless Ye Xiang's mother goes back to her hometown, otherwise their marriage will be difficult, and life will be unpeaceful.
Marriage and love are completely different things, love needs romance and warmth, while marriage needs stability and peace.
Cong Jiajia saw that Bai Yanyan was very tired, and helped Bai Yanyan to lie down on the bed, she just wanted Bai Yanyan to sleep for a while, and Ye Xiang came back.
Ye Xiang frowned and walked into the ward, with a tired face, there was a heavy shadow under his eyes, and the green and lush stubble came out, obviously because he had not rested well in the past two days.
Cong Jiajia is a little sympathetic to Ye Xiang, with such a superb mother and a spicy daughter-in-law, how can Ye Xiang rest well.