056 How to Build Faith?

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After returning to the county No. 1 high school, even if he drank a little too much at noon, Huang Jingyao was still a little dizzy when he arrived at the campus, but after making two cups of coffee and drinking it and resting for half an hour, he still appeared outside the class on time during the last self-study class in the afternoon.

When he arrived, he was relieved to see in the classroom, most of the students were studying, and this self-discipline was so heartwarming.

But after glancing around, Huang Jingyao naturally found a student sitting in a daze with a sad face, and he stood quietly outside the classroom for about two minutes, and the student was also in a daze.

Huang Jingyao sighed helplessly, he is naturally familiar with the guy in a daze, his name is Han Lei, he was born in a subordinate village of Luoquan County, he is one meter six or eight tall, his appearance can no longer be ordinary, and his clothes are relatively rustic and outdated in this era, the family environment is average, worse than Huang Jingyao's family background, Huang Jingyao's parents are both primary school teachers, and it is not bad to be in the countryside, it is much better than Han Lei's parents who are all farmers and have to go out to work in their spare time.

Han Lei's exam results have always been in the middle and lower reaches of the fifth class.

Saying that the middle and lower reaches mean that before Huang Jingyao came, when Wang Hao's group of errands had not yet broken out, he could occupy the midstream, and the errands began to break out, and Han Lei fell downstream.

When he walked into the classroom and alarmed a few students who were studying to look up, they were happy when they saw him, Huang Jingyao smiled and nodded as a greeting, and then his eyes fell on Han Lei, without saying anything, he gestured to Han Lei's table with his eyes, Han Lei gently stabbed Han Lei at the same table, Han Lei woke up, received Huang Jingyao's eyes, and immediately got up and walked outside the classroom.

After more than two months of polishing and communicating, Huang Jingyao not only established a relationship with this class of students, but also had a tacit understanding, just like the previous slight eye signal, the students could clearly understand his intentions.

Dozens of seconds later, when the two of them were standing outside the classroom, Han Lei smiled bitterly and lowered his head, his words were full of bitterness and guilt, "Teacher Huang, I'm sorry." ”

"Why did you say sorry to me?" Huang Jingyao asked gently.

"You gave me so much encouragement for more than a month before, and I have never met a teacher as good as you, but I didn't expect to fail the exam." There was a little more choking in Han Lei's voice, and his head was so low that he almost wanted to bury it under his chest.

He fell from the middle to the downstream after the outbreak of the poor students, it was really not that Huang Jingyao did not take care of him, Huang Jingyao's encouragement and even increased the students' natural behavior, and the previous month was inclined to the whole class.

But Han Lei's last exam, Chinese 108, mathematics 97, English 72, literature comprehensive 132, the total score is 409, compared with the average score of the five classes in the monthly exam.

As for Han Lei's talent?

Chinese 6, Mathematics 4, English 4, Politics 4, History 3, Geography 4.

Last month, because the talent value was not enough, Huang Jingyao only added two points of language talent to him, and the talent value of the increased 6 was already second only to the first student in the sixth class, but he only took 108, and even Han Lei scored 99 points in the Chinese test in the middle exam, and 92 points in the first monthly exam.

Doesn't he learn? In Huang Jingyao's encouragement, Han Lei has worked very hard for more than a month, and his efforts are not as good as Zhang Ting or Wang Xingjie, but he is also counted as good in the fifth class.

He has talent, foundation and hard work, but he did so badly in the exam, why? This kid has test anxiety!

Test anxiety is a relatively common psychological adjustment disorder among middle school students, the reasons for the formation are very complex, and the performance is mild and severe, Han Lei's performance is that as soon as he gets into the examination room, he is nervous and excited with cold hands and feet, rapid heartbeat and even dizziness, and then he is a perceptual disorder, he can often nervously read the test questions wrongly, memory impairment, and he can't recall things that are usually very familiar, and he immediately remembers it as soon as he gets out of the examination room. Thinking is sluggish and chaotic, and he can solve the questions that he can do as long as he is given a quiet and comfortable environment, but in the examination room, he can't reason and think, and he often makes mistakes.

When communicating with Han Lei more than a month ago, Huang Jingyao understood this, knew these problems, and gave him a lot of encouragement and comfort.

According to Huang Jingyao's understanding of him, he should score more than 120 points in Chinese, it is not difficult to play more than 90 points in English, and he can at least take the comprehensive test of more than 150.

So he can understand Han Lei's previous daze scene, and he also feels a little sorry for this little guy in his heart, the source of Han Lei's exam anxiety is that his parents expect too much from him, and he is also a very sensible and obedient good child, who has always wanted to study hard and get good grades.

He was admitted to junior high school by virtue of his strength, and he was also a good student in the middle school of their township.

The expectations of the elders in the family, his own desires, as soon as he went to the examination room, turned into a lot of pressure, so he was afraid that he would not be able to take the exam, and he would fail the exam. It was these tensions that made the first exam wrong, plus the county high school ranking was much lower than that of Zeng Township Middle School, and no one explained him, no one explained to him, no one explained various reasons to him, and he himself was also introverted, and the second exam was even worse.

After a few times in a row, this kid became less and less confident, his stage fright became more and more serious, and the anxiety in the examination room became more and more serious, so that it almost became a habit, and he couldn't play his true level every time.

The most fundamental reason for all this is that he is too introverted and has no self-confidence!

replaced Wang Hao, the guy who dared to hand in blank papers during the exam, do you think he will have stage fright? The exam is a game in the hearts of those guys, which means that you can take a vacation and rest after the exam, and stage fright is a joke.

"It's just an exam, you don't need to take it too seriously, I know that your strength is far more than those scores on the test paper." In Han Lei's slightly choked voice, Huang Jingyao also frowned a little, how to help an introverted and sensitive guy build confidence, this is really not easy.

Ordinary comfort has no effect on Han Lei, who has been like this for many years, otherwise he would not still have stage fright in the last exam and continue to play abnormally. If he wants to help this student regain his confidence, the best way is to do well in the exam room, but how easy is that?

Huang Jingyao's thoughts quickly flipped and he suddenly smiled, "Let's go, let's not mention anything else today, you come with me." ”

Han Lei was still in a low mood, but he still obediently followed Huang Jingyao out, and it wasn't until the two of them walked out of the teaching building and walked in the direction of the dormitory building that Han Lei became confused, "Teacher Huang? ”

"Don't worry about what you're doing, just come with me, are you still afraid that I'll sell you?" Huang Jingyao still smiled gently, took Han Lei to his dormitory, and asked the student to wait in the dormitory first, and then he walked out and went straight to the school commissary.