"Xiaohui wait, Chairman Xia Guofeng's daughter is also Xiao Zheng's confidante?" Zhang Wenjin couldn't believe his ears, how could this be? This is the chairman's daughter, a serious 800 golden branches and jade leaves.

"That's right, it's true, it's fake!" Xiaohui said.

"Isn't Charlene already married? How did she become Xiao Zheng's confidante? Zhang Wenjin asked.

"I said Dad, you are old thinking, and the current confidante does not have to have a marriage relationship to become successful. A confidante refers to a female friend who is spiritually independent, spiritually equal, financially self-reliant, and can deeply resonate. A confidante can be a listener of a man's hesitation in his heart, or a reader of a man's heart, and a woman who a man can tell her secrets but can't tell his wife, she is a woman who is different from both his wife and his lover. Zhang Xiaohui explained.

"I said Xiaohui girl, the more you explain, the more confused Dad becomes, different from his wife and lover, who is that?" Zhang Wenjin asked.

"Let's put it this way, when you are sick in bed and fighting with pain, holding your hand and wandering, the person who bursts into tears must be your wife, she is afraid of your pain, afraid of your death, she can't wait to hurt for you, die for you, she cries and cries, obsessively entangled, and makes you moved. The confidante is different, she doesn't cry, but she is sad, she just stands at the head of the bed, stares at you quietly, reads your heart, and then tells you with her mouth, her eyes, and her heart, she knows where your pain is, she understands you, and is willing to share it for you silently, so that your soul is no longer lonely. It can be seen that the essential difference between a wife and a confidante is: your wife cries because she loves you; Hongyan doesn't cry because she understands you. Zhang Xiaohui said.

"I said Xiaohui, how do you speak? How 'you', 'you', Uncle will be unhappy when he hears it! Zhang Zheng said to Xiaohui.

"Xiao Zheng, it's okay, Xiao Hui is just talking about things, I know she didn't mean me. What Xiaohui said is very interesting, it's really like that, you can go on. Zhang Wenjin said.

"Wait, I said Lao Zhang, listen to your tone, you have also had a confidante?" Wang Chunlan asked Zhang Wenjin.

"I said Lao Wang, when did I say that I have a confidante?" Zhang Wenjin retorted.

"What do you mean by saying, 'That's really the case'?" Wang Chunlan asked.

"I said Lao Wang, don't think about it, I mean that the two kinds of people Xiaohui talked about have distinct characteristics, each with its own characteristics, and there is really no other meaning. Besides, you know my character, temper and courage best, even if I have that heart, I don't have that guts. Zhang Wenjin said.

"Look, the fox's tail is exposed, and even the thief's guts are gone." Wang Chunlan said.

"Hey! Isn't this just a fun time for everyone to liven up the atmosphere? Don't you see that since Xiao Zhang came, my temper has also been much more cheerful? Zhang Wenjin said.

"It's true, in that case, I'll spare you from dying." Wang Chunlan said.

"Thank you, Madame, for your mercy, Xiaohui will continue your topic." Zhang Wenjin said.

"Confidantes are all extremely intelligent women, and they know best in their hearts: if a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must be a confidant that he will never get, understand him, but just don't belong to him; Give him the right amount of affection, but not affection; Give him warmth, but he must keep the bottom line of sexuality, because only if he can't get it, he will know how to cherish it. Confidantes do not have excessive financial and emotional requirements for the man, so they generally do not cause emotional crises and do not destroy each other's family relationships. Xiaohui said.

"What about lovers? What exactly is the difference between a lover and a confidante? Wang Chunlan asked.

"Lovers and confidants are different, lovers are often involved in the relationship of interests, including emotional relations, sexual relations and economic relations, etc., for the sake of lovers and make the war between husband and wife constant, the wolf smoke between the family is everywhere, and even lead to the disintegration of marriage and family There are many people. That's the biggest difference between the two. Xiaohui said.

"I originally thought that confidantes and lovers were the same thing, but after listening to Xiaohui's introduction, I realized that there was such a huge difference between the two." Wang Chunlan said.

"So, if the wife is the sun and the lover is the moon, then the confidante is the star. The sun and the moon are tired, there are times when they are noisy, but the stars are not, they twinkle and flicker, willing to be lonely but brilliant for a long time. Usually, the wife possesses the man, the lover shares the man, and the confidante is willing to dedicate and shape the man. Therefore, men often have her, and their lives become more connotative and energetic. Therefore, the confidante is the peerless beauty of the world. ”

"If you say so, can your brother and his best friends only become bosom friends who appreciate each other, respect each other, and support each other silently, and can't take the relationship further?" Wang Chunlan said.