Chapter 69: Refusal
It is often said that she would rather marry a small wife than a large concubine, Qin Ruwei no longer understands ancient times, but some deep-rooted ideas and systems are still clear.
As a wife of a small household, no matter how poor her life is, she is also a decent wife who wears red clothes and carries her husband into the main gate of her husband's house. And the concubine, when she gets married, she can't wear a red wedding dress, she can only wear pink or something, and she only quietly carries herself into the side door from the evening, and the children born in the future can't call herself a mother, a wife as a mother, a concubine, and then a daughter, and then have a chance, in terms of identity, she will always be lower than her sister-in-law, and what's more, she will be pressed by her sister-in-law for a lifetime.
Concubine, no matter how much she is loved, her husband's family will not be lifted, she will always be a concubine, and she can't even enter the ancestral hall after death. A concubine is a concubine, to put it bluntly, she is a slave, what if she is killed?
In this era, Qin Ruwei never thought of climbing the dragon and attaching the phoenix, let alone being a concubine of Rausch willingly, she didn't want to call herself a slave to her own flesh and blood.
Not to mention, Pan An is a gentleman like that, she is romantic, and her squinting appearance is not hollowed out, and she is not far from here, guarding an empty shell, she is stupid to go!
Yes, Qin Ruwei did not have the slightest joy, but was faint, and said to the matchmaker: "Ruwei has thanked Young Master Pan for his love here, and I want the matchmaker to run for nothing, I don't have any thoughts about remarrying for the time being, and I ask the matchmaker to speak for me." "Said a blessing.
It is said that Qin Ruwei should pick up a big broom and drive people away, but there is a saying that is very true, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain, what does Ma Matchmaker rely on for a living?
Mouthful!
If she is a matchmaker, who can say that she is a matchmaker, Qin Ruwei may not be afraid of the matchmaker, but she doesn't want to offend her, and then asks her to go to the towns and villages to promote her 'good deeds'.
How important reputation is, Qin Ruwei may not particularly care about it as a modern person, but she always has to take care of Qin Daniu and them, as well as two nieces, in this world, there will always be people who will be inadvertently implicated, and she can't be guilty of causing trouble, and let people smear her reputation in vain.
Therefore, not only did she speak well, but even before entering the door, she also told Qin Da Niu not to offend her and let herself deal with it, otherwise, according to Qin Da Niu's urgency, he would have driven people out long ago.
Mrs. Ma heard her refusal, sighed, and said: "My good girl, that's really a good family affair, marrying is to eat fragrant and spicy food, don't be stupid, besides, you are also a person who has been married once, is it difficult to still want to ...... This family matter, I think it is the most worthy, to put it mildly, it is really after this village there is no such shop. "I said it beautifully, but I muttered in my heart, there is such a rich and noble family watching, and he is turning his head and remarrying, he should not be in a hurry, and he is still making a gesture of Qiao!
What she was thinking in her heart, Qin Ruwei knew it at a glance, she sneered in her heart, but her face became more and more gentle, and said: "Even if I married once, I don't have that mind in my heart, Ma Matchmaker is also a woman, after my previous family affairs, my heart is not necessarily comfortable, what else do you have to think about family affairs?" There are dragons and phoenixes among people like Young Master Pan, I don't deserve it, and I bothered to ask Mrs. Ma to say. ”
This, if Qin Ruwei has a tough attitude, Mrs. Ma can still say a few sarcastic words, but she is used to doing this for a living, Qin Ruwei lowered her posture again, and said a little: "You have to think clearly, this time, it is not a problem to wear gold and silver, mountains and delicacies." ”
"Young Master Pan, I don't marry, and I can't climb high." Qin Ruwei's eyes were clear.
"Hey, why are you so dead-eyed, girl? Don't you think Young Master Pan is not sincere enough? Mrs. Ma was also a little worried, and said, "Okay, I'll invite him again." ”
Gu Shi's eyes turned red when he heard this, if it weren't for Qin Daniu glaring at her fiercely, he couldn't wait to respond to the family matter right now.
Thank you Taotao and other relatives for the reward, Mo Da~