(Girls' Literature)

Cong Jiajia whispered to stop Bai Yanyan from scolding, "Forget it, you can't solve any problems by scolding Cheng Nanwei at this time, you still help me think about it, what should I do now?" ”

"What can I do? Remove the child, of course! Bai Yanyan said simply: "You gave birth to a child for this kind of man who has lost his conscience, and your brain is in water?" Do you know how hard it is for a single mom to do? You have to work to earn money to support your family, and you have to take care of your children! It is necessary not only to take care of the child's physical health, but also to take care of the child's spiritual world! If you don't have this child, you can still look up proudly and look for the next diamond husband casually like a princess, but if you have this child by your side, your worth will be greatly discounted, let alone find a diamond husband, even if it is an ordinary man, there is no need for a woman with an oil bottle! ”

Cong Jiajia was shocked by Bai Yanyan's heartbeat, and had to admit that what Bai Yanyan said was right.

It's really not easy for a single mother to do, if Cheng Nanwei is affectionate and righteous to herself, leaves herself for some irresistible reasons, gives birth to children for him, and raises children independently and hard, this can be said to be a history of inspirational struggle for women, but Cheng Nanwei abandoned himself so cruelly, and gave birth to children for him again, it can only be said to be a history of women who are willing to degenerate!

Bai Yanyan saw that Cong Jiajia didn't speak, thinking that Cong Jiajia didn't want to take the child away, and continued to chatter: "Do you know how much energy it takes to take care of a child, a child can not only laugh, not only cute, he will cry more often, he will pee, he will find someone to hug, he will get sick, someone needs to take him to the hospital, and he needs someone to accompany him to play!"

As a single mother, you need to do these things yourself, no one can help you, even if you hire a nanny, you have to follow and watch, many of the current nannies are unreliable, while the parents are not at home, they all abuse the children!

Also, when the child is older, you need to send him to kindergarten and school every day, pick him up on time, you have to accompany the child all the time in the future, you can no longer go out to sing with friends, travel, you can't have any spare time, you can't even watch the movies and TV series you want to watch, you can't sleep a good night's sleep, you can't eat a meal that stops, and even going to take a shower is like going to the battlefield, you have to fight quickly, Jiajia, you want to be a single mother, do you have these preparations? ”

Cong Jiajia really didn't have these mental preparations, she was hesitant about whether she wanted to have a child, and she was intimidated by Bai Yanyan like this, she couldn't help but want to take the child away, but when she thought of taking the child away, her heart immediately fell empty.

No matter how Cong Jiajia resents Cheng Nanwei, she loves Cheng Nanwei, and she loves him deeply, there was a time when her biggest expectation and desire was to give birth to a child for Cheng Nanwei, and now this child is here, but she is late, do you want to take him out cruelly?

And how innocent the little life in the belly is, just because he has an unreliable father, so his mother will give him up! Today, the female doctor has said that her health is not good, it is a miracle to have this child, if she takes this child out, it will probably hurt her body again, and next time she wants a child, I don't know when it will be waiting!

Cong Jiajia will be affected if she gives birth to a child, and she will be miserable if she doesn't have a child! For a while, Cong Jiajia's heart was in a mess!

Bai Yanyan said that she was tired, so she went to drink some water, and when she came back, she saw Cong Jiajia hanging her head, her eyes staring at her lower abdomen, looking sad and pitiful.

Bai Yanyan sat beside Cong Jiajia, sighed lightly and said, "Jiajia, I am the mother of a child, I know that it is me who is doing evil when you let you take the child away, it is a cruel thing!" What I said to you before is just to give you a vaccination in advance, let you know the hard work of being a single mother, let you know the terrible consequences of a woman's life with a child, and if you think that none of these are problems, you will give birth to this child. ”

When Cong Jiajia heard Bai Yanyan support her for giving birth to a child, she immediately looked up at Bai Yanyan, and unconsciously, her eyes had this light of hope, "Really, do you really agree with me giving birth to a child?" ”

Bai Yanyan understands Cong Jiajia, as soon as she saw Cong Jiajia's expression, she knew that Cong Jiajia wanted to keep this child, in fact, this is a very normal thing, no matter which woman wants to have her own child, she doesn't want to take away the little life in her belly, maternal love is nature.

She stretched out her hand to hug Cong Jiajia, and said softly: "You have to be ready, if you leave this child behind, you and Song Chenfei will really have no chance, I am afraid it will be difficult for you to find a rich and handsome man in the future, because most men in this world are not love saints, and rich men will not like to marry a woman who drags oil bottles, even if he can do it, but the family behind him will never let him settle, and you have to face a lot of difficulties!"

Real life is one thing, children will ask for their fathers when they grow up, children without fathers by their side, education and training are problems, are you ready for this......"

When Cong Jiajia heard Bai Yanyan say this, her heart was shaken again, and now it is unfair to the child to take the child away; But the child is born without a father, and it is not fair to the child!

After thinking about it, she couldn't make up her mind for a while, even if Bai Yanyan was very good with Cong Jiajia, this kind of thing was a big deal, and she didn't dare to call the shots for Cong Jiajia casually!

Cong Jiajia had lunch at Bai Yanyan's house, Bai Yanyan asked Cong Jiajia to take care of the children for her, and she made four dishes with her hands and feet, kelp pork ribs pot, braised prawns in oil, garlic baby cabbage, and fried meat with fungus.

"Wow, just the two of us eating, how did you make it so sumptuous!" Cong Jiajia came to the dining table with the child in her arms and screamed in amazement.

Bai Yanyan snorted lightly and said, "You are pregnant now, of course you have special care and increased nutrition, and your appetite is so good, there are not enough dishes for you to eat!" ”

Cong Jiajia couldn't help but blush when Bai Yanyan said it, and smiled, "I'm on fire today, and my appetite is not as good as yesterday!" ”

The two of them sat down at the table to eat, Bai Yanyan couldn't help but give Cong Jiajia ribs and prawns, Cong Jiajia protested and said: "You don't have to give me vegetables, I will go to your house like returning to my own home, I will not be polite to you." ”

"I know you won't be polite to me, and I'm not here for you, these delicious foods are for the children in your belly." Bai Yanyan sighed and said: "You are too slow to react, and now you know that you are pregnant, you have not timely supplemented the nutrition that the fetus needs in the first two months, and ah, have you taken medicine indiscriminately in the past two months, and have you done anything that is not good for the fetus, you have to think about it, and you have to do a comprehensive pregnancy test, it is not easy for a single mother to do, you must give birth to a healthy child." ”

After Bai Yanyan's reminder, Cong Jiajia found that there were really a lot of things that she was negligent about, and if she wanted this child, she still needed to make a lot of preparations, first of all, to do a comprehensive physical examination.

Cong Jiajia, who had a good appetite yesterday, was so worried today that she couldn't eat anything, and under Bai Yanyan's repeated urging, she barely ate two ribs and a prawn, she thought that she would go to the hospital in the afternoon, and she had to do a careful examination to see if the child was healthy, and then consider whether to leave the child behind!

After Cong Jiajia had lunch, Bai Yanyan must leave Cong Jiajia to take a nap at her house for a while, as long as Cong Jiajia does not make up her mind to take the child away, it must be arranged according to the treatment of normal pregnant women, and strive to achieve the safety of adults and the health of children.

No matter how entangled Cong Jiajia was, in her subconscious, she still cherished the little life in her belly, she obediently took a nap at Bai Yanyan's house, and put her mobile phone far away from her to prevent radiation.

After Cong Jiajia woke up, she was ready to drive to the hospital for an examination, Bai Yanyan couldn't accompany Cong Jiajia to the hospital because she had to take care of the child, so she kept telling Cong Jiajia, "You must be careful when driving, now you are not alone, you must pay attention......"

Cong Jiajia, who was putting on shoes, nodded, suddenly turned her head to look at Bai Yanyan again, and said very seriously: "I am pregnant with Cheng Nanwei's child, don't tell Ye Xiang, who is the father of this child, don't say anything to anyone." ”

Bai Yanyan rolled her eyes, "You think I'm a fool, will this kind of thing be told to Ye Xiang?" Although Ye Xiang is my husband, he has a crazy admiration for Cheng Nanwei in his bones, and he will favor Cheng Nanwei when he encounters things.

Since Cheng Nanwei has abandoned you, it will have nothing to do with you in the future, and we will not do anything to use the child to hook up and tie him up, no matter how many difficulties you encounter in the future, I will help you, but I will never ask Cheng Nanwei for help! You are pregnant with Cheng Nanwei's child, don't let Cheng Nanwei know about it in this life! ”

Cong Jiajia gently patted Bai Yanyan's shoulder, worthy of being her good friend for many years, she was really too confidant, and she knew what she was thinking in a word.

She went downstairs to leave Bai Yanyan's home, drove to the hospital very carefully, and called the gynecology expert in the morning, asking for a comprehensive examination.

Seeing Cong Jiajia's solemn look, the gynecological expert thought that she must have wanted to leave the child behind, and said to Cong Jiajia with a smile: "You are right to do this, since you are all pregnant to such a big month, you have to give birth to the child, and it is really a happy and happy thing to have a child by your side."

And your physical condition actually does not allow you to have an abortion, a woman can do nothing, but can not have her own children, if a woman does not have children, no matter how successful her career is, she has a confidant around her, and there is countless money in her hands, there are always shortcomings! ”