For the vast majority of people, love is a process from fairy tales to fantasies, from fantasy to ignorance, from ignorance to fanaticism, and from fanaticism back to fairy tales.

The poor children are accustomed to obedience, to following a life trajectory that has been set and arranged from birth, to exchange what their elders want their children to do in exchange for what they want, from "laugh one, give candy." "When you get the first place in the exam, you buy a remote control car, etc., the consequence of this single-choice "life question" is the orientation mode of thinking, and the first thing you think about before doing anything is what kind of consent you need to get.

Love seems to have become the base of adolescent boys and girls rebelling against this obedience and enforcement of the management system, and the hazy feeling and desire for the opposite sex is, in fact, the desire for freedom, and the uncontrolled and templated of the soul is more intense than the freedom of the flesh and body, which is violently released when it has just escaped the monitoring of its elders.

Love is not a problem that can find one, two, or three steps in a book, two living people, never recognize each other, from acquaintance to nothing to talk about, from nothing to talk about for a while, which discipline do you use to outline this change? Physical or Chemical? Historical or biological?

From a boy's point of view, if you want to turn a completely strange girl into your lover, this is by no means a matter of solving a calculus, nor is it a matter of taking the fourth or sixth level of English, let alone eating a few meals and shopping a few times, it is simply too difficult! You have to consider the feelings of the people around you, you have to find a way to deal with the people around the girl, you have to start calculating the wallet, etc., even if this qiē is done, it may not be that the girl can become your lover, because you are not fighting alone, and the young men who are burned by the fire of youth are eyeing the pimples in their faces!

Many years later, when Li Deyuan told his son the story of Snow White, he suddenly realized why the protagonists of love in fairy tales are princes and princesses, and the people who weave these beautiful fairy tales are definitely not children, they are all big men and old ladies, who have endured the hardships of love in real life, so they don't want to tell the children in advance about the cold social side, princes and princesses don't have to consider the number of places to stay in Beijing, they don't have to be afraid of the school system, and they don't have to worry about the mortgage and bride price! There is no need to quarrel for firewood, rice, oil and salt!

At that time, no one dared to openly say that they were in love, and at that time the system clearly stipulated that they were not allowed to fall in love during the school, and once there were several regulations, the regulations could not stop these students.

The canteen sells rice by portion, regardless of whether you are a 300-pound man or an 80-pound sister, a piece of rice is given to you with a boxy shovel, and the energetic boy's rice is not enough, and if the two pieces of rice can't be eaten, it has to be poured and wasted, and most girls will be full of half of the rice.

Based on this unreasonable phenomenon that has not been cured for a long time, Beijing University of Science and Technology took the lead in setting up a "meal partner" in colleges and universities in the capital, where men and women buy two meals, one and a half for men and half for women, just as everyone can finish eating, and do not waste food, and enhance the friendship between classmates.

So at that time, there were countless pairs of male and female lovers on campus, as long as you asked them, the answer you had to be accurate: "We don't have partners, we are eating mutual aid groups, just eating together." "Eating together, and not admitting that they are the object, this school has no way to verify even if it is checked.

But there are also a few people who dare to openly admit it, Li Deyuan is this kind of person with brain problems! The counselor of the second class of their computer 91 is also surnamed Li, in his forties, with cut hair, always wearing a gray Lenin suit, never rubbing grease and powder, and looking like he is not smiling and rejecting people thousands of miles away.

Mr. Li still attaches great importance to Li Deyuan, and among the freshmen, Li Deyuan's old horse and old politics have the highest scores, thanks to Li Deyuan's old man's theoretical collection, Li Deyuan has nothing to look at, "State and Revolution", "Paris Commune", "Capital" and so on are all read in this way, so you don't have to go to the lecture to get high scores.

Secretary of the Youth League branch, member of the general branch of the school Youth League, member of the preparatory staff, member of the presidium of the student union, director of the work-study department, etc., it can be said that Mr. Li's strong recommendation of these titles on Li Deyuan has played a strong role, and now I heard that this student who has high hopes for himself took the lead in engaging in the object, and publicly admitted that he also ran downstairs to the girl to read love poems and sing with the guitar, and he still had a long head for this, and Mr. Li was angry!

With the idea of curing the disease and saving people, Mr. Li gave Li Deyuan three hours of painstaking psychological counseling, and Mr. Li's eyes were red when he said that he was emotional, but Li Deyuan sat there and said no, and he didn't say anything. ”

This can stop Teacher Li, stunned for a few seconds, first confused, then angry, then full of anger, why doesn't this student get oil and salt! But Li Deyuan, the teacher's anger, didn't seem to see it, and recited a piece of Lao Ma's original words to the teacher.

The so-called love is a strong, innocent and dedicated relationship between a man and a woman based on a certain social foundation and common life ideals, forming mutual admiration in their respective hearts, and longing for each other to become their lifelong partners. Sex, love, ideals, and responsibility are the three basic elements that make up love," he got up and bowed to the teacher.

This conversation was carried out twice, Mr. Li saw that the persuasion was ineffective, and moved the head of the department, Mr. Chen, Mr. Chen was admitted to Beijing University of Science and Technology in the year of the college entrance examination, and stayed in the school to teach after graduation, and the academic taste on his body was higher than the political taste, this time Li Deyuan did not recite the original text of Lao Ma, but had a heated discussion with Mr. Chen on love and marriage.

When the two sides were arguing with each other, Li Deyuan suddenly said: "Director Chen, we have all heard that your lover is also a teacher in this school, and we also heard that you fell in love when you were studying in this book, if this is true, then at least it means that this rule that you are not allowed to fall in love during your study in school has been resisting since your generation!" ”

Poor Teacher Chen's was indeed on good terms with his senior brother when he was reading this book, and at that time he was stricter than Li Deyuan when they were in school, until Mr. Chen graduated from graduate school and was going to stay in school, this relationship went from the underground to the bright road, so Li Deyuan brought out this past that Teacher Chen didn't want to mention, and Director Chen, who has always had a strong academic taste, was also annoyed and angry!

The last to come out was the secretary of the general branch of the school Youth League and the introducer of Li Deyuan's key training, Mr. Wu. When Li Deyuan met the retired Teacher Wu again many years later, the two only talked about the teacher-student relationship, and did not talk about the conversation about love.

But it is an indisputable fact that the thick glass plate on Mr. Wu's desk was cracked by Mr. Wu's palm, and the sudden changes that followed also showed that this conversation was definitely not such a pleasant process.

In addition to preparing for that, he has not been disqualified, including the title of secretary of the class league branch, and Ning Ning also firmly admitted that he and Li Deyuan were engaged in the relationship after accepting several levels of heart-to-heart talks, and as a result, the school notified the parents of both parties.

Many people persuaded the two of them, and said that if they didn't engage in the object, wouldn't it be over if they didn't engage in a "dinner buddy", what did Li Deyuan say? He said: "A gentleman is frank, if he does it, he will do it, and he can deceive in the name of love, isn't that a smear of love?" Let the storm come harder! ”

This generation of young people is basically like this, eager to be challenged and oppressed, the war is too far away from them, and there is nothing that can be a hero, and the quixotic obsession often turns people into paranoia.

What's the use of the parents rushing here, Ning Ning was scolded and cried and was slapped, Li Deyuan's old man thought about it, and went back after a drink with his son, the city can't be overwhelmed by dark clouds every day, and openly admitting that it is not a felony to be shot, and after the punishment is over, the attention of the school officials will turn to the used ones under the grandstand of the big playground, which is becoming more and more rampant.

Without pressure, Li Deyuan and Ning Ning calmly held hands and continued to store on campus, and as a commemoration of the two of them experiencing this turmoil together, on April 12, Li Deyuan's birthday, on the afternoon when Ning Ning and her class were in a big class in the big classroom of the ladder, after successfully avoiding the aunt at the door of the girls' building, Li Deyuan finally completed the arduous task and changed from a boy to a man!

Recalling this many years later, Li Deyuan will still blush, in the hot spring, in the drowsy afternoon, he and Ning Ning sat opposite each other on the shop with a curtain, who took the initiative first and couldn't remember, saying that the literary point is called the love to the depths of nature, and the grass is white and this is called holding hands and kissing to do that, it comes naturally!

Poor Li Deyuan's back was densely covered with beads of sweat the size of beans, and his head was like a king-sized hemp thunderbolt that had been blown up, which was even more whirling than drinking two bottles of stuffy donkeys, people, no matter how noble, fresh and elegant he said, in the end, he still couldn't get rid of the nature of animals, hehe, this point, even if it was a pawn of the prince and the peddler, the big guy would experience the same thing!

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