During the Batu era, I was unmarried, and I was very resistant to children at that time. Child slave is a term that wakes me up in the middle of the night.

Later, the shrimp girl was born, my ancestral home is Yongchun, and the people there are a bit patriarchal. My parents were no exception. But I'm in a special situation. I was only four years old when my parents divorced. It also shouldered the financial burden of the family. Householder. I like it on it. It's a bit overbearing, hehe.

I like my daughter very much, although the main reason for her birth is because the family must have a child. But I like it when I am born. It also changed the way the child slave was perceived. To make money desperately and let her go abroad has always been my idea.

At this time, there was a debate over whether to have a second child, which lasted for about two years. My father would have liked me to have a boy, he was standard patriarchal. But we didn't live together at the age of four, so I didn't feel much pressure. My mother didn't want to have another life, she was afraid of it. My wife wants a man and a girl. At this time, the brother-in-law gave birth to a second child and had two sisters and brothers. My wife's heart is moving, but I am as strong as Mount Tai. Insist on putting all the remaining family resources on her daughter.

It wasn't until my daughter was three years old that my perspective changed. The daughter is too lonely and too squeamish. The longing she showed to my brother-in-law and children, and the fact that there was someone stuffing around the house and piling up blocks, made me feel very uncomfortable. Due to the particularity of my family, everyone loves her very much, which also leads to negative personalities such as being quite unreasonable. The worst thing is not to know how to be grateful. She takes everything for granted. It is only natural that all people serve her. Even this emotion permeated the kindergarten.

Because of these, I agreed to have another child (that is, strong, said it would be in the second month, hehe. The biggest trouble came, and many people euphemistically said to go to B-ultrasound. Xiamen B ultrasound, 400 girls, 600 boys. My wife is also a little excited, thinking that a man and a woman are the most perfect. It was a lot of pressure, but I was able to bear it.

It's not a question of morality and opposition to abortion. Rather, they want to add family members naturally. On June 29, the second daughter was born. The eldest daughter was very happy, she would be a little humble, and she said that she wanted to be a role model for her sister. It can be felt that she already has some sense of responsibility. (Except for the incident of stealing my sister's milk powder)

The second daughter was born discriminated against, fined by the state, unable to enter a public kindergarten, etc., I hope she will feel lucky because she has a good sister.

The solution to fear is to walk into fear, which is always a product of the amplification of the mind. A child slave is still a child slave, and there is happiness when he is a child slave.

In the end, the second daughter is very beautiful, and when she reaches the age of one, she will send photos of her and her sister. Stay tuned...... (To be continued.) )