Wei Manwen was a little embarrassed and said to me: "Zhaoyang, let me invite you, I'm quite good at today's matter."

I interrupted with a smile: "Mr. Wei, we know each other so well, you don't need to see each other like this, I should thank you for this, the pasta in this coffee shop is good, why don't I give you a copy." ”

Wei Manwen nodded, I immediately beckoned the waiter to order two servings of pasta, and while waiting, the two chatted again, and I said, "Teacher Wei, you are teaching and educating people, do you think I am doing this right?" Actually, I'm quite confused! ”

"The reason why I am willing to help you introduce is to recognize what you are doing now, after all, the pressure of your own age and the pressure of your parents are here, but you yourself are not fully prepared, right?"

I nodded and said, "What you're saying is, Mr. Wei, can you feel the feeling that no matter what you do, it doesn't seem right?" ”

"But if you don't do anything, it doesn't feel right."

My bosom friend said as if it was hard to find: "Yes, yes, yes, this is this kind of mentality, I am about to be tortured, you help me analyze, analyze, what should I do to get rid of it." ”

Wei Manwen smiled and said, "Zhaoyang, what you are experiencing now is exactly what Robben experienced a few months ago, have you noticed it yourself?" But your choices are not the same. ”

I didn't come up with a reason, so I said, "Please ask Mr. Wei for guidance." ”

Wei Manwen nodded and said, "Do you remember a few months ago, Robben went to the small mountain village to look for me, what was my state?" ”

I reminisced a little, and then said: "You had a marriage contract at the time, and Robben stalked you, but you resolutely turned him away, but he was quite thick-skinned and stayed in the small mountain village. ”

"The result?"

"As a result, you and him left the small mountain village and regained city life."

"Do you think the result is good?"

I replied with envy: "A lover will eventually become a family, of course, in fact, I knew very well at the time, although what you said was so decisive, but you have not let go of Robben in your heart." ”

Wei Manwen's face was a little gloomy, but she smiled again and said: "Well, so in the end, I gave up Zhou Hang and chose to be with him. ”

I seemed to understand what Wei Manwen meant, but I didn't dare to confirm it, so I waited intently for her to continue.

Wei Manwen still said to me in the form of questions: "Do you think that your current state and Mi Cai's state are similar to us at that time?" ”

I began to sit down and think about myself and Mi Cai, and I really found that there were many similarities with Wei Manwen and Robben a few months ago, Mi Cai also said decisive words to me, and there was also a marriage partner, the difference is: I chose to let go in the parking lot that night, and Robben chose to continue to cling, but this similarity, can it say anything?

With such doubts, I asked Wei Manwen, "Can Mr. Wei tell me what you thought at the time?" ”

"If Robben had chosen to leave the small mountain village at that time, even if I loved him again, it would have been over between us, because he didn't give himself a chance, and he didn't give me a chance to let go." After a slight pause, she asked me again, "You sue me, do you still love Mi Cai?" ”

"Love, so I'm just now turning myself into a headless fly, after breaking up with her, I seem to have lost the direction of my life, the feeling of wanting to catch but not catching it is too painful I used to think that I could be strong, I can be okay, but when I heard her tell me: I will marry another man, I really have that feeling of collapse, and it is also from that time on, longing that I can complete the marriage in front of her, at least not too far behind, because I am worried that when I really hear the news of her marriage, I don't know how to face Mr. Wei, is this a sick psychology? ”

"Because I love it so much, it's distorted!"

I sighed, lit a cigarette, closed my eyes and smoked, suddenly a little bored with my current self, because I lost my soul, but there was no way to get it back!

Wei Manwen was silent with me for a long time, until the waiter came to remind me that this coffee shop is not allowed to smoke, and she apologized to the waiter on my behalf, and I also plucked the cigarette butt in my hand with apologies, looking at her a little blankly, expecting that she would continue to say something to me and make me less sad.

"Zhaoyang, your current undisciplined behavior stems from your own fear of getting hurt, and you don't want to go back to the hellish life that used to be for you, do you?"

"Yes, I don't want to reminisce about those years."

"Then do you think Mi Cai still has feelings for you?"

"Probably not, we haven't been in touch for a long time since we broke up, and she is quickly ready to marry the man who has pursued her for many years!"

"She told you in person that she was ready to marry that man?"

"yes, so I'm desperate!"

Wei Manwen's face became solemn, and she said to me: "Zhaoyang, I think you may not understand a woman's mind very well, at that time, Mi Cai may have hoped that you would speak up, she was forcing you to marry other men, but you misinterpreted it, and then she was disappointed, so she chose to go with the flow!" ”

"No, I won't misinterpret it, when we broke up, she said: I can't be my wife anymore in this life, so decisively!"

"I've also said this to Robben, and even really thought about it, but women are always emotional, the more painful things that make men suffer, the more likely it is that she said it when she was the most emotional, maybe after she said this, she regretted that you are likely to be misunderstood This terrible hand, the farther and farther, Mi Cai feels that you don't love her enough, and you think she doesn't love you enough!"

I was a little trembling by Wei Manwen, and said for a while: "Teacher Wei, this is just your personal judgment without basis."

Wei Manwen interrupted with a few words: "But it may also be the fact that you have come to this point, you can't let Mi Cai turn back and ask you to get back together, when you get along with her, will she always express her desire to say something and stop?" ”

I thought about it carefully, it seems that there are really many times, Mi Cai has such a table, so he nodded to Wei Manwen, but still said with the last doubt: "Teacher Wei, there are some stains that I really can't say, but I really save zài, my private life was too messy, she couldn't accept it, and this was also the fuse for our breakup!" ”

"I used to mind Robben's past, but love can't deceive people, I forgave her, maybe you used the wrong way at the time, so that this matter was too worse, plus Le Yao is a public figure, which magnifies the negative impact of this incident, and then you continue to stimulate her, making her make a wrong judgment However, Le Yao has now gone abroad, and this incident has gradually subsided, isn't it?"

I fell into the memories again, as if it was like this at the beginning, when those disgraceful pasts were revealed in front of Mi Cai, I always forced her to marry me, will this behavior make her feel suffocated at that time?

After Wei Manwen gave me enough time to digest, she finally said: "Zhaoyang, these words just now are the judgment I made for you based on the identity of the person and woman I came over, as for whether you want to choose to communicate sincerely with her once, you have to decide for yourself But I hope that you will!" Otherwise you're going to regret it! ”

At this moment, my heart became impatient, but when I thought of Zhuo Mei again, I suddenly realized that everything between me and Mi Cai was by no means as simple as Wei Manwen's analysis, I had no confidence to let myself stand on the opposite side of Zhuo Mei to communicate with Mi Cai, and our relationship was far more complicated than what she and Robben were going to come to at the beginning!

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