146. The scourge of quarrels

An old lady came that day, saying that she was helping her son tell fortunes.

The old lady is over sixty years old, and she has a son named Wei Chen, who is thirty-two years old.

Before Wei Chen got married at the age of twenty-eight, he had always been calm and quiet, although in the process of his growth, he was an unknown ordinary person, ordinary study, ordinary work, but he also lived without wind and waves, and lived a stable life. Isn't that how most people live?

But since Wei Chen got married, he began to have bad luck, the young couple often quarreled, and they divorced after just over a year of marriage, divorce just divorce! In this era, there are more divorced people, but since then, Wei Chen has been depressed and depressed. Because of his bad working condition, he made a mistake at work, which caused a lot of losses to the company, and was severely punished by the company.

After Wei Chen resigned, he began to look for another job, but he never found a suitable job, and his mood was even more depressed. This caused several mother-son quarrels, and then he simply closed the door, ignored how the old lady scolded and persuaded him, and he hid in the room silently to surf the Internet.

The old lady found out that her son was abnormal one night, the old lady got up to go to the bathroom, and saw her son sitting on the floor of the living room. Use a pair of scissors to cut the fabric sofa into a mess. Hearing his mother's angry accusation, Wei Chen looked up at his mother with a dull gaze, and said timidly, "Auntie, can't this be cut?"

Hearing this aunt, Mrs. Wei's whole body froze, like thunder, her son actually called herself aunt. Mrs. Wei woke up her husband, and the two sadly found that their son didn't know the couple anymore. The son is crazy.

Wei Chen's illness lasted two years. Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's bad, and the doctor said that such a disease often recurs, and it is difficult to cure it completely. Mrs. Wei felt that something was too strange, so she found Cheng Yao. Let's see why. There has never been such a case in her family and that of her husband. The son who has always been good is suddenly crazy. What's the problem?

After the old lady finished narrating, she scolded her former daughter-in-law for being a bad spirit, saying that it was because of her. caused his son to become what he is now. If she hadn't caused her son to divorce, her son would not have been in a trance in the company and caused a mistake in his work, and he would not have lost his job and become depressed.

Cheng Yao interrupted Old Madam Wei's accusation, "Old Madam Wei, I don't think your daughter-in-law is the culprit who caused your son's current situation, she herself is also a victim of this matter. ”

Old Madam Wei hated, "Victim? I'm afraid I'm the real victim, right? She is now divorced from my son, there is no relationship, but my son is my only son, I face him every day, but he can't even recognize me, the most painful is me. ”

"Yes, you are the most miserable person right now, and you don't want this the most, but with all due respect, you are the one who started this qiē. Even though you are unintentional, that's the reason for the truth. ”

"Why? How do you say that? Old Madam Wei was so surprised that she couldn't close her mouth.

"Red and white ceremonies are major events in life, traditional customs and habits are to be very grand, the reason why it is grand is because this is a very strict thing, the traditional customs of red and white ceremonies The most taboo is to have quarrels, that is, no matter how big the matter, you have to wait for a few days before talking. But in your family, you quarrel when you do white things, and you quarrel when you do happy things. This is a big taboo. ”

Old Lady Wei muttered to herself, "There is such a thing, but is it so strict?" ”

"Let's talk about the reason for your son's divorce first! Your son and daughter-in-law have a moderate match, which is not the best and most suitable marriage, but it is not bad, it belongs to a medium marriage, and you can live an ordinary life, but on the day they got married, you and your daughter-in-law had a big quarrel, and you also broke a bowl that accompanied the marriage, and the bowl that was generally married is of far-reaching significance, and the longer it is kept, the longer their marriage will be, and the better their life will be. Therefore, the bowl that the rich family marries is a pair of silver bowls, and the condition is almost the stainless steel bowl that is durable, because your daughter-in-law's family is from other places, and she doesn't know your customs there, but she only knows that there is such a thing as a wedding bowl, so she bought a pair of ordinary porcelain bowls, so it broke when she fell. On the big day, even the bowls used by the guests are taboo to be broken, not to mention such a pair of bowls of far-reaching significance, which have not been used once, and they are broken. How could their marriage not go wrong? It's inevitable that your son's job will be lost. The quarrel on the big day of marriage has opened such a head to the marriage, and the quarrel at the end of the three days of married life in the future is also inevitable, do you dare to say that there is no factor in the quarrel in their married life? I'm afraid that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the main reason, right? ”

Old Madam Wei lowered her head when she heard this.

"Let's talk about the reason for your son's mental disorder, when your mother-in-law died, your two brothers quarreled over a property left by the old man, and even fought a lot, but abandoned the cold body of the old man, and let the old man lie alone in the funeral home for three days, and the old man was the last journey in your quarrel. It is not advisable to quarrel about funerals, you must know this, but for the sake of immediate interests, you can't bear it for three days, because you don't know the consequences of this taboo. It's a thing that hurts future generations. Some people are usually not filial, but the old man is gone, but he is thoughtful, because he knows the severity of this consequence. ”

"But why did the two families quarrel and only hurt my son? A slap that doesn't make a sound isn't just our family's fault, right? Old Mrs. Wei was full of complaints.

"What year did the old man leave?"

"It's now in its fourth year."

"This kind of thing, there will inevitably be damage within three years, your son is the third year of the old man's illness, and their family should also be damaged, but the time is in order, the size of the process, and the situation is different, such as illness, accident and the like."

"I remember when you say that, I heard that their daughter was in a car accident last year, and the patella of her left leg was fractured, and she is still not well, is this also because of the damage caused by that quarrel?"

"That's true."

"But why is it that our family is more damaged than theirs? There will always be a better day when a fracture occurs, isn't my son's situation going to ruin his life? ”

"Didn't I say it just now, when your son's life event got married, you committed a big taboo again, you should have been happy, but you made a lot of noise, which not only affected his marriage, but also affected his life."

Old Mrs. Wei was already convinced of Cheng Yao's words at this time, her expression was gloomy, and she said anxiously, "Then what should I do?" Will my son's illness get better? ”

"You have to do a few rituals for the elderly, and you have to do a few excesses, and your son's illness will slowly get better after the hospital treatment. If you do it together, the results will be better, not only will your son's illness get better soon, but their daughter's leg will also recover better. ”

In the face of the cruel reality of life, the two brothers, who had already turned against each other for the property left by the old man, had to come together again for the sake of their respective children and discuss what to do for the old man. The two brothers did a few overdoses, and their hearts were also settled and calm, and half a year later, Wei Chen's illness really slowly improved. In addition, the brother's daughter's leg is also fully recovered.

At this point, they completely believed what the fortune teller said.

Some traditional customs really have their own reasons. Unfortunately, most people nowadays don't know the true meaning of these customs. (To be continued......)