87_8770086. To help others is to help oneself

Cheng Yao made all the money she earned from buying wool in Jade Hall, and she invested it all in charity.

A year ago, Cheng Yao was still worried about her family's financial situation, but now, making money is no longer a problem for her, in this world, there are still many people who are suffering because of poverty, disease, and disaster. Cheng Yao has experienced the hardships of not having money, so now that she has the ability, she will do her best to help others.

Since Cheng Lu entered Cheng Yao and Kaizi's love poverty alleviation charity, he has been refreshed, full of energy, and feels more fulfilled than he has ever been. In the state-owned enterprises for nearly 30 years, ups and downs, muddy, after coming to the charity, only to know that life can be so meaningful, people can live like this, in the process of helping others, their hearts are becoming more and more calm, the heart is getting wider and wider, and they have been depressed and unhappy, and now it seems that it is so insignificant and not enough to worry about.

Seeing that her father's mental state is getting better and better, Cheng Yao is very pleased, at the beginning, her parents said that they were not willing to follow her to Nanshi, because their baby son Cheng Yue almost had an accident, and under Cheng Yao's bitter advice, they took Cheng Yue here, and now it seems that this decision is right, after Cheng Yue came here, he quickly adapted to life and study here.

For my mother, life here is more convenient, as soon as I go out, there is a large supermarket outside the community, a lively commercial street, shopping is much more convenient. The most important thing is that the family lives together, and everyone happily performs their duties, which is the happiest thing for her.

Many people come to Cheng Yao for fortune telling, they are very blind, thinking that with a famous master to guide them, they can be reborn and change their fate, but in fact, Cheng Yao is very helpless, and often tells them that they are just giving guidance at an appropriate time, and the most important thing is that they have to work their own.

There was a girl who came that day, named Xiaoyu, accompanied by her mother, seventeen years old, which is the age when she should be studying carefree in school, but she has been taking a year off from school.

When she saw Xiao Yu coming in with her mother just now, Cheng Yao found that Xiao Yu was like a frightened little mouse, she was afraid of people and light.

Although she had heard Xiaoyu's mother talk about Xiaoyu's situation in advance, Cheng Yao didn't expect Xiaoyu's condition to be so bad.

Xiaoyu's previous experience was a taboo in front of Xiaoyu, so Xiaoyu's mother asked Cheng Yao alone to tell Xiaoyu about Xiaoyu before bringing Xiaoyu here.

One afternoon a year ago, Xiao Yu, who was in her first year of high school, was walking on her way home from school as usual, when suddenly a van stopped beside her, and before she could react, three men from the car dragged her into the car, and before she had time to shout and struggle, her mouth was sealed and her hands were quickly tied. The mobile phone on his body was also snatched.

Later, Xiaoyu was taken to a remote and humble place, and three men used Xiaoyu's mobile phone to call Xiaoyu's home to ask for money, and Xiaoyu learned that she had been kidnapped and the kidnappers extorted money from the family.

In fact, the person who the three kidnappers began to plan to kidnap was not Xiaoyu, but a girl about the same age as Xiaoyu, the girl's father was a big boss, although he was rich, but he offended people, so he was hit by someone to hit his daughter's body, and the stupid kidnappers made a mistake, but kidnapped Xiaoyu from an ordinary family.

Xiaoyu told the kidnappers that her family background was average, and her parents were ordinary salarymen, so she couldn't get the huge ransom offered by the kidnappers.

The kidnappers didn't believe it at first, because Xiaoyu was wearing famous brands, and it didn't look like a child from an ordinary family at all, but after calling Xiaoyu's parents, what Xiaoyu's parents said was the same as what Xiaoyu said, and the kidnappers confirmed that they really kidnapped the wrong person.

Poor Xiaoyu spent more than a month there in the dark, and was rescued by luck in a severe crackdown.

But in just one month, Xiaoyu has completely changed, she has become timid, sensitive, and afraid of people. I have been unable to adapt to the normal life of school. He did not dare to go to crowded places on the streets, so he had to stay at home, and he often woke up from nightmares at night, sweating profusely. What's even stricter is that Xiaoyu often commits suicide when her family is not looking, and doctors say that she has a very strict depression.

Cheng Yao had already told Xiaoyu's mother frankly, "Auntie, Xiaoyu has this kind of psychological trauma, you should take her to see a psychiatrist, instead of coming to me, I can tell you the truth, I really can't do anything about this situation." ”

Xiaoyu's mother had a sad face and sighed again and again, "I have taken Xiaoyu to see several psychiatrists, but there is no effect, I am a last resort, and I am in a hurry to go to the doctor!" ”

As a result, Xiaoyu's mother brought Xiaoyu despite Cheng Yao's dissuasion.

Cheng Yao tried to communicate with Xiao Yu on some easy topics, but Xiao Yu was very resistant, no matter how hard Cheng Yao tried, she was not willing to communicate with Cheng Yao normally. Cheng Yao really experienced the helplessness of the psychiatrist, the patient was unwilling to cooperate with the treatment, and no matter how clever the doctor's medical skills were, it would not help.

Xiaoyu's mother had already quit her job for the sake of her daughter and stayed at home with her every day, but her daughter's condition was getting worse and worse, and Xiaoyu's mother was anxious but helpless.

Looking at Xiaoyu's mother and daughter, one with dull eyes and the other haggard, Cheng Yao thought about it and said to Xiaoyu: "Xiaoyu, I just calculated it for you, in your life, the most unlucky and unlucky are these two years, as the saying goes, after the catastrophe, there will be blessings, but in this year, you can no longer stay at home all day, you should have more contact with people, so that your bad luck can completely dissipate." Xiaoyu listened to Cheng Yao's words, but her face was still expressionless.

Cheng Yao called Xiaoyu's mother to another room alone, "Auntie, in Xiaoyu's situation, she completely closes herself off and doesn't contact with outsiders every day, her condition will get worse and worse, you should take her out every day to contact people, of course, you have to take her step by step, first let her out of the house, adapt to walking calmly in the crowd, and then slowly try to contact people, so that she can return to normal life." ”

Xiaoyu's mother looked very embarrassed, "The psychiatrist has also built such a method, but she can't go out, I have taken a lot of effort to bring her to you today, do you know?" ”

No matter how hard it takes, you have to take her out of the door, this is the most critical first step to make her recover, I called and told the director of the orphanage, let you take Xiaoyu there every day to help, the director will give you some salary every month, so that you can not only have some income, but also be able to take care of your daughter, Xiaoyu faces those children every day, the pressure is not very great, and she will slowly adapt to the situation of contact with people, which is a triple win. ”

Cheng Yao's construction is undoubtedly the best, Xiaoyu's mother resigned for Xiaoyu, there is only Xiaoyu's father's income at home, and Xiaoyu has to be treated everywhere, the family has long been financially constrained, and now, being able to take Xiaoyu to work in the orphanage not only solves the family's economic problems, but also allows her daughter to go out of the house and contact with the outside, so that her daughter can do her best, such a method, of course Xiaoyu's mother is happy to accept.

After Xiaoyu's mother went home, she discussed it with her father and had a conversation with Xiaoyu together, "Xiaoyu, the family is in financial difficulties now, and my mother has found a job in the orphanage, but my mother is not worried that you are alone at home, but fortunately, the director of the orphanage said that I can take you there, and when I am doing things, you can watch TV and read books there alone, besides, Sister Cheng Yao is not suing you, this year, if you can go out more, you can bring bad luck out, and after a year, you will get better and better." ”

Xiaoyu didn't speak.

Dad said: "Xiaoyu, otherwise, let's go for a week first, for the sake of Mom and Dad, and for you, no matter how difficult it is, you can stick to it for a week, if you still don't adapt to it for a week, we will give up, okay?"

Xiaoyu also understands her parents' hard work, and she also knows that for herself, the family's financial situation is very bad, but she just can't suppress her mood and be depressed. After listening to her parents' words, she also wanted to try to change it, so that her parents would no longer worry about her, Xiaoyu nodded.

Seeing Xiaoyu's agreement, Mom and Dad breathed a long sigh of relief and finally took the first step.

Since then, her mother has taken Xiaoyu to the orphanage every day to work to take care of those children, and Xiaoyu has reluctantly followed her mother.

On the first day, when I arrived at the orphanage, I saw so many children chattering and playing in the yard, and Xiaoyu reflexively resisted and didn't want to step into the door.

"Xiaoyu, look at it, these are all children younger than you, you can't be afraid of these children younger than you, right? And they have no relatives in this world, they are the most pitiful people in this world, but they still have to live and live happily. Xiaoyu listened to her mother's words, and then walked into the orphanage with confidence. When her mother was busy taking care of those children and taking them to play, Xiaoyu sat indifferently in the room next to her and watched TV.

The next day, Xiaoyu no longer resisted going to the orphanage, but she was still indifferent to be a bystander, and on the third day, her mother would occasionally ask her to help with things, and gradually, driven by her mother, Xiaoyu unconsciously participated in her mother's behavior. A month later, Xiaoyu got into a fight with the children in the orphanage. For more than a year, Xiaoyu showed a heartfelt smile.

Xiaoyu's mother watched her daughter get better day by day, from starting to go out of the house, to being able to accompany her mother to work, to helping the children in the orphanage, integrating into the children, and playing happily with the children.

In fact, Cheng Yao knows that Xiaoyu's mother calls Cheng Yao every night to tell her about Xiaoyu's daily changes, and her mother also guides her daughter step by step out of her own closed space every day under Cheng Yao's guidance.

When Xiaoyu's mother saw her daughter and the children laughing happily for the first time, thinking that in the past month, her daughter had never committed suicide again, Xiaoyu's mother choked up and called Cheng Yao, saying that she finally saw her daughter's original appearance again.

A month later, the orphanage paid both Xiaoyu's mother and daughter, and Xiaoyu's mother took Xiaoyu and used Xiaoyu's first income in her life to buy a beautiful set of clothes.

Xiaoyu's mother and daughter didn't know that their salaries were paid to them by Dean Cheng Yaotongguò. Cheng Yao told the dean that she must not let Xiaoyu's mother and daughter know that their salaries were paid by her.

Three months later, Xiaoyu returned to school, and whenever she was free, she would often go to the orphanage to volunteer, and Xiaoyu gradually returned to her normal life