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Huang Jingyao said that the self-longing and admiration in adolescence are very different from true love, they are two different things, and they are not without purpose, he himself has walked through that age, and he has encountered some things, and he fell in love with a person of the opposite sex for the first time when he was a teenager, and that feeling is very unique and simple.

It's not just him, I'm afraid that for most men and women, that feeling is very unique, even if you really fall in love or get married in the future, you may not forget the unique ignorance of the first time in your heart.

But the feeling of that period will be so unique, often mixed with too much self-fantasy, whether it is a teenager or a girl, will put everything in their hearts on the object of illusion, and make the other party too perfect and idealized.

And the ideal and the reality?

If you actually talk about it once, you'll understand that those are two different feelings.

If the former has the opportunity to transform into the latter, for example, if you really achieve positive results with the object of your affection, this can also become true love, but at least not before the transformation.

It was from this as a starting point that he began to persuade Zhou Lu, in the process, Zhou Lu either pouted or glared at him depressedly, Huang Jingyao didn't care, and only smiled after rational analysis, "If you don't believe it, let's make a bet." ”

"What bet? You're not going to ask me to wait a year or two until I grow up to confirm what you're saying now, right? Zhou Lu still looked puffed up, and her tone was a little uncomfortable.

"It's really not, a year or two is too long. You're so smart. As soon as I heard it, I knew I was perfunctory to you. In this way, you can go to some friends, or seniors who are a few levels higher than you, or something, as long as they know each other, if they or they have someone they are dating, you can ask them what they think of love, and the current status of the relationship that is going on now, as long as you ask. You can see if what I just said is true or false. ”

Huang Jingyao smiled dumbly, he didn't lie to her, where did he need to say anything and wait for a year or two to perfunctory her, and as long as Zhou Lu dared to do that, he would inevitably find some differences between her self-admiration and the real love relationship between men and women, and then continue to correct the differences after discovering the differences, which would be much easier than now.

Zhou Lu stared at Huang Jingyao strangely in the laughter, and then suddenly whispered, "Actually, I also have two friends around me who are dating." They would occasionally talk to me about their boyfriends, and when they did, they would complain. There is sadness, there is ...... But at that time, I would have thought, if it were you, you wouldn't be like that. ”

“……”

Huang Jingyao was speechless again for a moment before shaking his head and said, "Your kind of listening can be regarded as a kind of understanding and contact, but the contact is too shallow, I just suggest that you go deeper and know more, and I am definitely not as good as you think." ”

started to persuade again with the previous theory, and chatted with Zhou Lu for more than half an hour, and the food they ordered was also served in the process, but neither of them ate much.

Feeling that the time was almost up, Huang Jingyao said with a smile, "Okay, you can try what I said before, and then calm and rational analysis, you are so smart, as long as you do it, you can determine whether I am lying to you, and now it's not too early, do you go home, or go back to school first and change your clothes and then go back?" ”

Zhou Lu still had some reluctant looks, but she didn't object anymore, and then Huang Jingyao took her back to school, and after the little girl changed into normal clothes, she stopped a taxi to take her home.

Looking at the vehicles that disappeared into the night, Huang Jingyao himself breathed a sigh of relief.

It's just that this persuasion can't completely end Zhou Lu's feelings, but as long as she can calm down, it can be successful with other means.

Walking to the dormitory with some ease, Huang Jingyao hadn't walked yet, and a mobile phone ringtone rang from him, and when he grabbed the mobile phone and looked at it, he found that it was his father's phone.

"Jing Yao, you're on holiday, right?"

Waiting for his father's hearty laughter to sound, Huang Jingyao also replied affirmatively, and after a few simple words of laughter, Huang Weibing on the other side of the mobile phone said, "Since you have a holiday, then come back tomorrow?" There's something I need to discuss with you at home. ”

Huang Jingyao was also stunned when he heard that there was something at home, but when he carefully discerned his father's words, there was only joy and happiness that could not be concealed, so he answered affirmatively, and hung up the phone after this, stood in place and thought about it, Huang Jingyao took his mobile phone and began to dial, this call was made to Qin Xingpeng.

He is not far from his hometown in the first high school of the county, more than 30 miles away, if he borrows a car, it will take one or twenty minutes to drive home now, and now it is only seven or eight o'clock in the evening, which is not too late.

More than half an hour later, when Huang Jingyao drove back to his hometown, as soon as he arrived at the door of his house, he saw that his courtyard was brightly lit, and when he got out of the car and walked into the yard, he saw his father sitting in the living room drinking and eating, and he was the only one.

"Jing Yao? Why did you come back at this time? When Huang Weibing also got up in surprise and asked, Huang Jingyao smiled and said, "I borrowed a colleague's car, and it was convenient to come back, what happened?" ”

"Forget it, come back now, come back now, haha, it's good that you know if you're back now, your sister-in-law has it, and I'm finally going to hug my grandson."

"Ah~"

When this sentence landed, Huang Jingyao also shouted in surprise.

"Your brother and the two of them have been married for more than three years, and they finally have it, you young people are really afraid of any pressure, if you want me to say that I want to give birth, I will take care of it with your mother after I have a child, and I will not delay your work, isn't it?" Huang Weibing opened his mouth excitedly and annoyed, and it seemed that he was reprimanding Huang Jinghou, but Huang Jingyao was a little uncomfortable with that look.

However, Huang Weibing only said casually, and after speaking, he beckoned, "Come, sit, such a big happy event, let's have a few drinks to celebrate." ”

Huang Jingyao sat down with a smile, and after smiling and touching a few glasses with his father, Huang Weibing said again, "By the way, Jingyao, how much money do you have in your hand now?" If you have enough money, get me some first? Some of them are easier said than done...... Well, your sister-in-law is now more than two months pregnant, and she should take good care of her, and your mother plans to take a long vacation to take care of her over there, but after that, she will also take care of her in all aspects, such as renting her some better houses, plus buying more supplements or something. ”

"The main thing is that I was sick a few years ago and tossed a lot of family funds, and your brother got married and borrowed a lot to build a house, and your mother and I have just paid off those foreign debts in the past few years, so you should borrow me first."

When these words landed, Huang Jingyao's drinking movements froze, and he was embarrassed and embarrassed after two seconds.

This kind of embarrassment and embarrassment is not anything else, it's not that he can't come up with the money, it's not that he is unwilling, but his father borrowed a word to say that he is so embarrassed, and the other is that after he came to this day, he neglected to improve the living environment for his parents more, etc., which made him even more embarrassed and embarrassed.

This is definitely Huang Jingyao's own negligence. (To be continued......)