218. 218 The Woke Woman
As soon as the day dawned, Ye Qing got up, helped the baby change the diaper, and fed the baby again.
Xiao Zhenzhen is very well-behaved, she doesn't cry or make trouble, as if she knows not to wake up her father.
Gao Cheng still slept soundly, because he was too tired and sick, and he lay there and slept very deeply.
Ye Qing carefully took off the empty bottle on the drip rack, he took the injection late last night, although the nurse could be called 24 hours a day in the hospital, but in the end she personally pulled out the needle for him.
He is in good health, and he rarely gets sick on weekdays, but the more such a person suddenly becomes ill, the more severe he becomes, and in just one night, his whole person has lost a lot of weight.
She had never seen Gao Cheng so haggard, even if he flew for a week before, he had never been so tired.
Perhaps, it is the mental tiredness that is greater than the physical tiredness.
Ye Qing couldn't help but soften his heart a little. No, it's a little distressing.
Confucius said that you should not do to others what you would not do to yourself, in fact, it can also be understood as exchanging hearts for hearts. When a person is so worried about you, he is not hard-hearted, and it is impossible to be indifferent.
Gao Cheng is actually a very expressive person, and he knew it from the time he proposed to her, but such a gorgeous rose and such a shining diamond ring never really moved her.
It's not that she's cold-blooded, but those superficial things that really make her tempted. She has no worries about food and clothing since she was a child, and her ability to make money when she grows up is not bad, she can support herself well and let herself live a delicate life, so the material given by men really can't get into her eyes.
Women like sweet talk, and she is no exception, but she just listens to those romantic little tricks, how can she take it seriously? A man's words are credible, sows can go up trees, let alone men's sweet words!
Ye Qing knows that this point is actually very bad, women live too shrewdly, and many times it is not a good thing. As the saying goes, fools are foolish. But she's a smart woman.
A smart woman is often smart in success and smart in defeat. Therefore, in love and marriage, she has always had reservations. Because she is so smart that she knows how to protect herself from getting hurt. But because of this, she made the man feel absent-minded, made him lose his balance, and pushed him away from him step by step.
In fact, at the beginning, the model between the two of them was quite good, she was not as delicate and clingy as an ordinary girl, and he didn't rely on her so much, they had common advantages, they were very independent, they were very self-contained, they remained independent of each other, if they were separated, with a mysterious beauty.
It turned out that when they were in love, they showed their best side to each other and kept the most private side to themselves, but after getting married, the two faced each other day and night, shared the same bed, and shared everything, and she began to be afraid.
Seriously, she wasn't used to that, she had lived alone for more than 20 years, and suddenly another person came in her personal space, which made her very uncomfortable, or rather, she didn't want to adapt. She is used to being independent and used to protecting herself. To put it bluntly, she actually has no sense of security.
But Gao Cheng is a gentle and elegant man on the surface, but he is strong and domineering in his bones, and his requirements for his wife are not to be said to be obedient, but he must also be centered on him. And she, apparently, does not meet his standards. What's worse is that she won't even try, and she even resists.
She also knew that she was not good like that, but it was not a mistake, everyone had their own right to decide their own way of life, so the more he demanded of her, the more she felt disobedient and maverick.
She admits that she is very stubborn, but this is not cultivated in a day or two, she has been stubborn since she was a child, and her luck has always been very good, even if she is stubborn, it has been smooth sailing along the way, so this has strengthened her self-discipline.
Recently, a new word has become popular - the woke woman. There are many kinds of women in the world, there is a kind of so-called awakened women, they are alone in the world, stay sober, they are financially independent, independent in thought, not blindly obedient, not blind, clearly know what they want, never follow the crowd, no matter how noisy and turbid the world is, they still remain sober and live in the present.
Pan Jin said that she is a typical awakened woman. Maybe it's a bit too much of a compliment, but she doesn't think it's an honor. In her opinion, there is only one thing she is most in line with - sobriety.
However, it is not good for people to live too soberly. If you see everything clearly, you will lose your motivation in life. Don't fight, don't grab, don't care, it seems open-minded, but in fact, life will be a lot less fun.
She is well aware of her own problems, she should belong to the obsessive-compulsive disorder, and has a slight mental cleanliness, and she is also a perfectionist, and her attitude towards love and marriage is: rather lack than abundance.
Therefore, when Gao Cheng had some flaws, she did not hesitate to ask him out.
But in fact, she knew very well in her heart that it was not his fault that they had come to the step of divorce, not Liu Yinyin's fault, she was also at fault.
But sometimes it's not that I don't understand, I just don't want to understand; Sometimes it's not that I don't know, I just don't want to say it; Sometimes it's not that I don't understand, but I can't do anything about it, so I keep silent.
One thing is for sure, his liking for her is not fake, but how long can a man's liking for a woman last under the woman's long-term silence and passivity? Even if he is the sun, there will be a time when it will burn to the end.
She thinks she is a strong person, but a strong person is not necessarily a strong person. The rigid one is easy to break, and the soft one lasts forever. People should learn to improve their own personality, control their own feelings, and not act excessively willfully. It's a bit painful, but if you want to be successful, remember that mature people do what they have to do, not just what they like.
Some people are kind to you, first sweet and then bitter. At first, you feel that you are in love to death, like glue, but in the end, it becomes weaker and weaker, and you break up soon. And some people are the slow-burning type, and at first you feel indifferent to death, and you don't even want to talk about it. The longer you can be contacted, the better he will be for you. Because the person who loves you in the beginning wants to get you. The person who loves you to the end wants to be with you.
People always say that in love and marriage, it is the woman who is easily hurt, but after the two of them go around and around, he is the one who is the most affectionate.
So, she has to be kind to him in the future.