There are a lot of recent plot developments that involve the first social relationship that humans face after birth, the parent-child relationship between parents and children. We have seen too much of the selfless dedication of parents to their children, and it seems that it should be how parents dedicate themselves to their children, and everything that parents do is naturally their children, and they cannot have their own private property, so is this the case?

Many of us seem to have the misconception that children are born and deserve to be taken care of by their parents, and it will be like that. So what is the reality, many of us are unwilling to face the reality, so there will be so many tragedies.

The reality is that parents' care for their biological children is largely based on the amount of affection between parents, and the deeper the relationship between parents, the more delicate the care for the child will be, otherwise this care will be more superficial and even boring.

Many women think that having a child with a man can tie him up is extremely wrong, and that the child will not tie a man to a leash, but will drag an innocent life to hell. It is easy for a man to have a physical relationship with a woman, but it is very difficult to be the soul mate of the man, especially for those who are good.

Human beings are also animals, at best, they are intelligent advanced animals, human nature and animal nature are constantly at war in everyone's heart, and many people will misread animal nature, thinking that the violent god horse is animal nature.

In fact, the animal nature I interpret is that the weak eat the strong, seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and reproduce; That's the 12 words. Human nature is the overall situation after having wisdom, and can make trade-offs for immediate interests for the sake of longer-term interests, and has faith and belief, and does not hesitate to sacrifice one's own interests and lives for this.

Human nature or animal nature is more in a person, and the more this person behaves like a man or a beast.

This is also the reason why many anthropologists like to study large animals that live in groups, such as lions in the African grassland, and study their behavior is more helpful for studying human social behavior.

The article mentions Ye Bai's previous life, as a person who reads the article, everyone will have some anger in their hearts, that is, the original partner worked hard for life, which led to the deterioration of the body, and the born Ye Bai had congenital heart disease, so that the wealthy husband found a new love, and this new love was also full of money and life. So let's look at it from another perspective, the Ye Bai's Erniang in this is actually really not interesting, it's too bad!

A conspiracy that can be seen is not a conspiracy, her behavior has aroused Ye Bai's desire to survive and fight, and she successfully blackened the girl with heart disease, so I said that Erniang is a complete idiot!

So let's take a look at this Ye Bai, after she synthesized her abilities and the resources at hand, she made a very wise decision, that is, to avoid the edge, make full use of the resources in her hands and her own characteristics, paralyze the enemy, and strive for her own father's only remaining kindness, not that she wants this father's sincerity or any fatherly love for him, at this time she no longer wants it, or she will come, what she can do is to make a false promise, let the environment develop in her favor, accumulate strength, and fight hard!

Ruined the place where there is no longer any nostalgia and humanity!

Let's look at Ye Bai's modern father, from his point of view, he feels that his original partner failed to give him a healthy son is the incompetence of the original partner, he has long forgotten or simply feels that a woman has a marriage with him, and it is normal to make all efforts for the life in marriage, even if he sacrifices his health, it is a normal thing, in reality, there are many men, who feel that giving a woman marriage is a supreme gift to this woman, then this woman is a dog in the family, A cow, exhausted and dying, will die when this man needs it, and he does not have any psychological burden.

This is the responsibility of Ye Bai's mother, she did not see the reality clearly, and did not recognize the true face of a man and made mistakes!

Just like that Feng Xiuyun, seeing now, I still don't think there is anything wrong with Qiu Yun, he doesn't love Feng Xiuyun, it is Feng Xiuyun who wants to die or live to marry, in that society, men and wives and concubines are in groups, and treat Feng Xiuyun, he is hindered by the master's kindness, so put her in the back house, give you an aunt position, raise you, and at the same time play a little role to block the queen mother. Then, he doesn't love Feng Xiuyun, so he naturally has no feeling for the children born by Feng Xiuyun, which is normal!

Autumn Leaf White's family affection blank, or the fatherly love blank is caused by her mother, and it has nothing to do with Autumn Cloud! Some people may want to jump out and say again, children are born, how can you be responsible, don't go to bed if you don't love women, have a relationship, etc.!

This is the misunderstanding of women, Qiu Yunshang got Feng Xiuyun back to the back house, if Feng Xiuyun is not allowed to conceive a child, can she still survive in the back house? At that time, after the woman got married, she had to rely on the man's luck to measure the value of the woman!

Going back to what I mentioned above, there are many reasons why a man can have a physical relationship with a woman, because the chances of loving a woman and having a relationship with him are not high!

As a social person, you are yourself first, and then you are all kinds of social roles. If you can't protect yourself well, how can you protect the people and things you love?

Love is not a word, behind it is ability and responsibility.

I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman working hard with her husband, but only if you have the ability to protect yourself, protect your health, and protect your property.

I've always felt that I'd rather face an ugly reality than forget to be vigilant for the sake of false goodness.

There are very few people who can stick to their hearts under the changes in the environment!

The vast majority of people will give birth to such and such animal hearts due to changes in the environment. Complaining and resentment won't solve the problem, it's your ability to solve the problem.

As some people gradually become more materially wealthy, the divorce rate is rising, the number of children in single-parent families is increasing, and extramarital affairs are commonplace, resulting in huge psychological problems for minor children, and then more social problems. Then the solution is very complex, it is not a simple how, how, there is no ready-made answer. So to deal with the situation faced by Ye Bai, the only way to solve it is to be more violent and ruin this cancer.

Only by beating him can he really set an example, and will people who have this heart be afraid and dare not act rashly.

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Lotus Shadow writes the twelve words "the weak eat the strong, seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and multiply" is very good~

By the way, in the current environment, the divorce rate of big data is 50%, that is, if everyone in a college class is married, half of them will get divorced, and the divorce rate in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen is the highest, and some have surpassed foreign countries.