"Sister Luan, Sister Luan."

Gu Xin hurried into the house as always, and when she entered the door, she saw Li Luan'er sitting on the couch and looking at her, she smiled and asked Ruizhu to bring tea to drink.

Li Luan'er got down from the couch: "Why are you here today?" I also said that after you got married, I was afraid that you would forget my sister, but how do you know that it was Baba who came to see me, which is rare. ”

Gu Xinhan laughed: "How can I forget my sister, isn't it that I am busy moving and have no time, no, I will come to see my sister as soon as I settle down." ”

"I didn't hurt you in vain." Li Luan'er nodded Gu Xin's forehead with a smile, and ordered Ruirui: "Go and serve the melons to Grandma Xing." ”

A moment later, Ruizhu made tea, and Ruirui came in with a plate of chopped melons.

Gu Xin cheered, took a piece of melon and took two bites, sat on the chair and said indistinctly: "It's still my sister who loves me, so I know that my sister will eat well with me, and sure enough." ”

Li Luan'er shook her head helplessly: "Why is it the same as before when you get married, do you also learn to be steady." ”

"My father-in-law said that I don't need to change, and that it would be good for me to do this." Gu Xin looked up at Li Luan'er: "Besides, I am not ignorant, and I am only like this in front of you, and I am the most dignified and polite in front of outsiders." ”

Speaking of this, Gu Xin sighed: "Speaking of which, my mother-in-law is really good to me, she doesn't have a biological daughter, so I love me like a daughter, I wanted to accompany my mother-in-law more, but my sister-in-law doesn't know what's going on, it's always not yin or yang, I really can't stand it, so I discussed with my husband and moved out early." ”

"What's wrong with your sister-in-law?" Li Luan'er was a little curious: "You have a father-in-law and mother-in-law, where is her turn to say something, and why do you want to be like this because of her." ”

"Who knows how my sister-in-law grows, according to me, she is sick, how old is she dressed old-fashioned, dressed older than my mother-in-law, if you don't open your mouth, you have it, as soon as you open your mouth, it is a woman is a woman, and the people who listen are bored. Speaking of the Xing family's sister-in-law Wang Shilai, this Gu Xin was angry: "I complained to Xianggong, and Xianggong only said that she was sick, and said that he was afraid that I would learn badly from her if I always lived in one place, so I hurriedly moved out." ”

This last sentence made Li Luan'er laugh and cry a little when she heard it: "Your father-in-law looks like a very safe person, how can he say such childish words." ”

Gu Xin waved his hand: "Xianggong is the same as me, he is the most stable in front of people, but he also loves to talk and laugh in front of people, he said that my temper is just right for him, if I change to a sister-in-law, I am afraid that I will not be able to stand it for a day." ”

Li Luan'er really agreed with this, nodded and said: "What your father-in-law said is also reasonable, whoever marries a woman like Wang can't stand it, you still have less contact with her in the future, I think your mother-in-law also knows what kind of person she is, and I don't blame you for alienating her." ”

Gu Xin finished eating the melon, took a sip of tea, and nodded one after another: "Exactly, exactly, don't you know that I got up early to meet my in-laws on the first day of marriage, my sister-in-law waited early, after all, she is a sister-in-law, I gave her a salute and nothing, I saluted her once, who knew that she was proud, and was stunned and pulled me to say the words in the fourth female book, what do you mean to be filial to my in-laws, serve my father-in-law, love my brother and sister-in-law, and say what to say that I should not talk too much, not be jealous or angry, and give more concubines to my husband in the future." ”

"You say you listen to her like that?" Li Luan'er knew that Gu Xin was not a good wood-like temper.

"How can I be?" Gu Xin smiled: "This is the first day of the wedding, and I don't want to turn my face with her, so I answered, but I didn't take it to heart, but I saw my mother-in-law change her face and glared at her several times, and my father-in-law was also very angry. ”

"What eldest sister-in-law is like a mother? She deserves to say the same thing. Li Luan'er was angry when she heard this, and slapped the table: "Your mother-in-law is like that." ”

Speaking of this, Gu Xin snickered, and laughed for a long time before saying: "How can it, my mother-in-law heard about her and asked her to go over and scold her, saying that she is still a lady from the Hanlin family, and she even dares to say such things, what is the eldest sister-in-law like a mother?" My mother-in-law scolded her for disrespecting her in-laws, and she dared to say that her sister-in-law was still there, and she dared to say that her sister-in-law was like a mother, was she looking forward to the early death of her in-laws, and asked her if she had raised my father-in-law to grow up? My father-in-law spent her money or ate her milk, she dared to say the word mother, scolded her face flushed, and when I went back, my brother also heard about it, and was stunned to give her a faceless, and when I saw her later, she still had a palm print on her face, I really don't know what she thinks, people like the Xing family, such good in-laws, and the eldest brother is not unreasonable, and my father-in-law also respects her very much, but she can live her life like a yellow lotus, and it is really clear that the husband and wife and Shun are born rich and noble. It also made her as aggrieved and depressed as a little cabbage. ”

Li Luan'er shook her head with a wry smile when she heard this: "She is not good, where does she want to live a good life, she clearly wants to use your family to fulfill her good reputation, who knows that she has suffered from herself not only did not get the love of others, but became more and more troublesome, and no one was tired of her." ”

Speaking of this, Li Luan'er said again: "You are not allowed to learn from her, speaking of these four women's books, I think you also know who wrote them." ”

Gu Xin nodded: "How can I not know that there is no one in the world who knows how to read." ”

Li Luan'er took her hand and whispered: "I'll talk to you today, and you just listen to it and write it down in your heart, don't spread it out." ”

After Gu Xin agreed, Li Luan'er lowered her voice and said: "Let's talk about the female commandment first, this female commandment was originally written by Ban Zhao in the Eastern Han Dynasty, Ban Zhao's husband died early, and it is not easy for her to be orphaned and widowed, and when the children are older, she hopes that her daughter can marry well-behaved, at least without losing people, so she wrote a female commandment to her daughter, this is a book written by Ban Zhao to teach her children, but in order to make women be docile and obedient, they imposed this book on all women, which is unfair, you look at the history books, Ban Zhao is just a widow for her husband and teach her children, The rest, she wrote a book for her brother, and later went in and out of the court and participated in political affairs, which gave everyone a good reputation, and later generations mentioned that they only knew Ban Zhao, and they didn't know their husbands. ”

Speaking of this, Gu Xin's eyes widened when he heard this, and he looked surprised and happy: "What my sister said is extreme, I didn't expect it." ”

"The other internal training is just the chaos in the palace in the early days of the founding of the dynasty, Queen Taizu made it in order to teach the women in the palace rules, the palace is not more than usual, where can people be asked to do it, and the female Analects, which were written by women in the Tang Dynasty, my sister probably didn't know what the Tang Dynasty was like, the concubines of the Tang Dynasty could live outside the palace, and there was adultery and incest, and the author of the female Analects was only for the sake of the families to be able to stabilize some of them, so this book was written, and there was another female filial piety scripture, which was just to teach women filial piety, in fact, it really wanted to talk about it, The more lacking there is, the more people advocate something, when women are the most domineering, they want women to be more submissive, when there are the most corrupt officials, they are the most demanding to be honest and honest, and if you really want to talk about it, it is just talking, and you can do it anywhere. ”

Li Luan'er smiled and pinched a piece of melon and took a bite: "What about our women, take this female four books and read them, when we can protect our interests, we will talk to others about the four female books, and we are tired of it, if we don't listen, people often say that it is better to believe in books than to have no books, who can really be consistent with the books, if you really want that, the women in the world have not all become the same, what is the interest." ”

Gu Xin had never heard such an argument, and after listening to it, he felt like a bosom friend, jumped up and said excitedly: "Sister's words are very true, I was impatient to read that, but my mother always asked me to read it, saying that I will understand when I grow up, and now I really understand what my sister said, and I thank my sister for her teaching." ”

Li Luan'er smiled and nodded: "You can do it if you have a number in your heart, but don't learn from your sister-in-law who is stupid in reading, not only can you not be loved, but you will be disgusted, and people will abandon the dog, and you will be miserable." ”

"Uh-huh." Gu Xin nodded vigorously, his eyes were full of respect: "I listen to my sister." ”

Gu Xin sat down again and asked Li Luan'er in a low voice: "Brother-in-law is okay now, my sister hasn't gone out for a few days, my mother asked about Mrs. before, Mrs. only said that my sister took care of my brother-in-law at home, and said that my brother-in-law's leg would be fine in a few days, and I was very happy for my sister when I heard it." ”

Before she could say this, Li Luan'er heard a voice outside the door before she could answer: "Your brother-in-law's leg is really good." ”

But I saw Yan Chengyue wearing a cyan robe embroidered with dark patterns, a jade belt around his waist, his hair combed high, fixed with a jade crown, and he stood at the door so straight, with a light smile on his face, he was really a gentleman like jade, gentle and handsome.

"Brother-in-law." Gu Xin was startled and hurriedly got up and saluted.

Li Luan'er also got up with a smile: "Why are you here?" ”

Yan Chengyue had a smile on his face, and the joy in his eyes seemed to overflow: "Lady, I can come from the wing room today, are you happy?" ”

"Happy." Li Luan'er nodded: "Come and sit down quickly, it's too tiring." ”

Yan Chengyue entered the house in response and nodded to Gu Xin in return: "Second Grandma Xing comes to sit and sit when she has nothing to do, your sister is also boring at home alone, you can talk to her to pass the time." ”

He sat down and smiled at Li Luan'er: "I heard all the words of the lady just now, what the lady said is very true, if you all act according to the four books of women, the women in this world have not all become carved out of a mold, what is the interest of living like this, according to me, those women who write books are mostly born in turbulent times, and they write these books just to protect themselves, those reputations are imposed by later generations, and it is impossible to say that the author of the book does not have that meaning." ”

Gu Xin smiled when he heard this: "I can understand how bold my sister is, it turns out that my brother-in-law is used to it." ”R1152