Wang Jian's fried chicken sales are so good that they explode.

As a beneficiary of the new economy, he is careful not to increase sales too much.

Buying more than a dozen chickens a day, with the population of the capital, is quite reasonable, if a few hundred fried chickens are sent every day, then everyone knows that there is a problem.

Besides, who would really do anything to sell fried chicken.

I remember a few.

Appetite is indeed a very important desire of human beings.

You are a rich second generation who likes women, and three or four times a day is enough to drain you.

But the appetite is almost endless, even if you are full, and I have the wisdom of the Great Roman, that is, what if the chef in the back moves out another table after enjoying a feast, and picks his throat until he vomits.

In this way, the appetite is also very easy to satisfy, well.

The fried chicken was quickly fried to ten porcelain coins each, which had no price, and began to be ordered in advance beyond the time limit.

The shopkeeper simply proposed to Wang Jian to provide live chickens and other things for him to make in the store, but Wang Jian categorically refused, and at the same time, after he left, there were always mysterious people who kept following him.

That's all.

Finally, the shopkeeper asked with some hope: "Brother, there is a matter, a great thing, a housekeeper asked, do you have any other big dishes?" ”

"Yes, I will KFC, McDonald's, Pizza Hut and other dishes, all of which are home-cooked. ”

"Obediently, there are so many twists and turns in this Hou Mansion, it's like this, there is a son-in-law, I'm very curious, that's a big man, if you serve him well, there is a high probability that you will have the opportunity to become famous in this capital, and when the time comes, brother, I will still rely on you." ”

Wang Jian was not surprised by this.

Those who have never worked hard and worked hard are better to return to the leaders to serve well.

Diligent and down-to-earth completion of work is only the foundation of excellent employees, but not sufficient conditions. Of course, maybe people who are crazy, people who love to kneel and lick, and people who work very perfunctory do not complete their work tasks well at work, but they do not meet the conditions does not mean that you are eligible for the subject. Since you want to be recognized by the leader, you should at least have a better relationship with the leader, right? It doesn't mean that you can talk to the leader on the back and give gifts, at least you can chat with the leader on an equal footing? Play a dozen balls? Or communicate with the circle of friends in private? In short, you have to let the leader know that there is a person like you...... So I think it's not enough to be diligent and down-to-earth, and it's more important to have interpersonal relationships. It is not required that you get along with your leaders and colleagues through the fear of horses, flattery, courtesy, New Year's gifts, etc., at least you should make them feel that you are an interesting, reliable, and worthy person, right?

Ability can be improved, but emotional intelligence is hard to change. Unless you are particularly capable and others can't achieve it, leaders still like to pat on the back. First, sycophants have high emotional intelligence, at least they can read words and feelings. Second, the most important thing is that people who are sycophants basically cooperate with the leadership. Third, sycophants can cater to the mood of the leader, some leaders are not short of 100 yuan at all, but if you give him a favorite gift, even if it is only 60 yuan, he will be very happy.

Dogs are raised for leisure, and cattle are raised for life.

Does anyone prefer to be a dog or a cow?

Going to work is also painful for the leader, and there are personnel needs to make him miserable in his position, the difference is that your authority is small, and you raise two ornaments on the table, and he has a large authority to raise individuals in the unit.

The first is to be good at understanding and respecting the leader's decision, strong execution, know how to give face to others, high communication and interpersonal skills, and the important thing is to complete the work and achieve performance as the leading and purpose, in this case, "patting the horse" is a compliment, is the ability of the individual, let's not be jealous; The interests of others, this is what should be hated. But don't look at this kind of person as having success for a while, if he is having fun now, he will definitely be pulled out of the list in the future, isn't Comrade He Shen in the Qianlong period an example? What a glorious and powerful person he used to be, but in the end it was not a sad end of ruining himself and committing suicide by having his family robbed!

In many cases, it is better to hand a cigarette when the leader needs it.

Human nature is like this, people understand it, but leaders are also people, so it's normal to earn more as a cook than a scientist.

There are desires that we tend to feel in our hearts that are not very good, and that prevent us from becoming who we really want to be. So we want to restrain it, to correct it.

But in fact, satisfying desires, like restraining desires, is to regulate the state of life itself. From paramecium to human beings, life will generate needs and problems all the time, and we need to solve them to maintain the balance and stability of life itself and maintain the "homeostasis" of life.

Neuroscience studies have shown that desire comes from the brain's dopamine system. Scientists did an experiment in which the dopamine system was removed from the mice, causing the mice to lose their desire. A mouse without desire will not have any will to act, and even if it is thirsty and hungry, it will not actively seek these life-sustaining substances.

Desire arises from the spontaneous system of life, and it has the meaning of regulating the state of life. But if desire is so good, why should we refrain from it?

This is because satisfying desires is the local optimal solution for the living system to solve the current dilemma, not the global optimal solution.

When there is a problem in life, we will automatically seek a solution to it immediately, and it is urgent. If we can't meet the needs of the moment, life will be in danger of collapse. As the saying goes, "hunger, don't choose food", even if you eat poison, it is better than starving to death now.

The brain's unconscious processes are ultimately presented in a conscious way, which is the desire to be aware, expressed, and communicated.

Desire to play games, smile at the moment. But if he wastes time, he will be heartbroken. Addicted to smoking, he is "raising his eyebrows" at the moment. However, instead of considering the accumulation of time and lung damage, it will cost you a long life. The brain thinks not only about the present, but also about the future. Human beings have an incredibly powerful ability to plan than other animals, and this is the function of the new brain.

Restraining desire is the global optimal solution made by the brain based on existing information. Unless there are special circumstances, we don't feel like our lives are on the line, but we feel like we should be alive for a long time. We may not feel like we have that belief, but we'll plan for 10 or 20 years. The idea was based on the belief that we would live for at least 20 years. If the earth is at the end of the world, we will not have this belief. We may save money for life in 20 years, but if the future is uncertain, we will have fun in time.

So, for the benefit of living longer, the brain predicts the future based on its actions in the moment. In order to avoid future harm, or to achieve future happiness, the brain forces the present to act. 、

Everyone will experience all kinds of emotions, all kinds of encounters, good and bad. It is not that if you have experienced good, you will spread good, and if you have not experienced suffering, you will spread suffering. After going through a lot, the vast majority of people will have a fixed mindset, and most people spend their main energy on things related to their desires. But more often than animals, which are almost entirely bestial, humans accidentally experience mysterious emotions. Animals will love their children and protect their children as their lives, and humans will also love their children and protect their children as their lives. There are also all kinds of emotions, joys and sorrows, which many mammals have. But many people feel that these are not the whole of our lives, and we experience something deeper. Although desire brings us a lot of pleasure, we still seek out that wonderful inner feeling. The question is: How strong is this feeling? How much do you pay for it? The vast majority of people are content to indulge in the pleasure of desire, but some want to break free from the bondage of desire! So, you ask this question. This is a very niche issue. Because the vast majority of people have not yet reached that level and are aware of their need to control their desires. This topic is destined to be read only by a very small group of people. You have to explore your inner thoughts more on your own, because you don't think like many people.

Desire is a universal ability of animals, and desire can make it easier for us to adapt to the environment, so that you can run more desperately when you encounter danger, eat more food when you are hungry, and sow as many seeds as possible. The human brain is still limited in its capabilities, and what we see and experience is very different from what we actually do. For example, if someone talks about a beautiful woman in front of you, all kinds of descriptions are in line with your requirements. Your brain is immediately very excited, very eager to meet or get this person. Often when you see this person, you will inevitably be disappointed, and people will fantasize and beautify their imagination. That's where emotions come into play. Distorted facts. Even if you haven't seen the real thing, all kinds of desires such as pleasure, pain, hatred, etc., will distort the facts. That's why some people like to immerse themselves in lies, even if they already know it's a lie. Or numb yourself with alcohol or drugs to achieve a kind of psychological comfort. However, there is another group of people who want to see the world more realistically, and want to understand the order behind the world. Because any kind of emotion distorts the consciousness in our minds, we learn self-control, restraint, precepts, and self-discipline.

However, we should not put this order above desire. We all experience order through desire. Order is the direction of development of desire, but there should be no distinction between high and low. Wanting to control desires is also a human desire. Each of us has experienced desires, and the vast majority of us will be immersed in them, and they have no intention of leaving. There is a part of it that feels more and they want to know more about the world. So they try various ways to reduce their dependence on desires and hope to see the world without distractions. In the beginning, it was like a newborn exploring a new world. Everything is new and difficult. When we accumulate to a certain extent. Our worldview, the whole world I see, is very different from ordinary people. However, even at this time, don't think that you are in a higher state of thought, superior to others. Even if we keep practicing, we can't completely abandon our desires, which will still accompany us for the rest of our lives. Desire is a tool for our cultivation, and every emotional collapse is a lesson that we should study well. We don't really want to control our desires, but we try to be controlled by them as little as possible. When you experience a lot of order, you still think about why we need order and what is the use of order. Order, like desire, controls our behavior.

Biologically, the human mind, the whole world we feel, our consciousness and self. It's the interaction of neurons, bioelectricity, and various hormones. And all of this is made up of the rules of this world and developed. If there is a God, then this God is the rule of this world. Everything in this world is made up of God. Each of us is a god too. God is in us. But these are things that we can't feel, and we can only indirectly experience the tip of the iceberg of God through our various senses. What we see is all illusions, when you have more of this awareness. You will know why emptiness is color, and color is emptiness. And our self is also a hue that the rules of this world make us feel.

The effect of placebo is that peace of mind and body can be achieved with a slight dose. Or it makes people feel present, satisfied. Tactile comfort is not only the touch of acquaintances or relatives, even from strangers, skin contact will bring psychological comfort when people are empty and angry. Smell and taste. Familiar flavors will evoke memories at the bottom and make people choose to give up their defenses. Or a story, a lie. It can also be a placebo, deceive yourself, and temporarily calm your heart. When I say it, it seems to be getting more and more out of the way. What everyone wants to know is how to control their desires. How to say it came up here. But I also want to remind everyone that controlling desires is not removing desires. Because the growth of every living organism is divided into different stages. Desire is the soil on which we live. The more abundant your desires, the more fertile your soil will be. I also believe that the naughtier the child, the smarter they are, because they don't try as many possibilities as possible. Connect as much energy as possible. The prodigal son does not change his money, you have to be bad enough to see more exciting and in-depth things, and if you have seen better, you can put more things. I think that men should explore areas that women dare not explore, so that they can have stories to attract women. It's far away again. Cigarettes are actually a very typical placebo, not only can you hold that cylinder in your lips, feel the taste of reunion since childhood, and then inhale the warm air into it, fill the whole lungs, so that you don't forget to breathe with nervousness. Finally, nicotine can also effectively divert people's attention. Even if the person concerned is slightly nervous and causes his lips or fingers to tremble slightly, most people will not easily notice it. If you think smoking is cool when you are young and ignorant, then when you are an adult, it is also cool to quit when you say quit. The placebo is the medium through which we need to experience the world from moment to moment. Ordinary things like eating and drinking Lazar make us feel like we exist. Higher levels don't make you happier, but lust and placebos can. When you run out of energy and can't move on, you can consider a basic placebo, but choose one that has no side effects and no harm. I would like to remind you again that when you are pursuing a higher level, you should be gentle with your previous desires. Because you grew up from there, and if you feel that lust is holding you back, it's because you haven't grown up in the new soil. And you have to think about what desires you are missing in the environment of previous desires.