Chapter 189: Arrogance
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Learning to fight is not safe at all.
Because it's easy to die.
It's like now, Wang Jian has at least three times, and the crescent moon is raised nobly, and he can almost slash at Bai San.
Bai San was calm and relaxed at first, but as Wang Jian became more and more proficient, he also remembered the dance postures and footsteps he had learned from several girls in Seven Colors before, and these were naturally not a problem.
A person's attitude towards competitors is the height of his life.
There are some people around everyone, who do one line and smash one line, and they can't see where he has shortcomings, but rats cross the street, and everyone is dissatisfied.
Thinking about it, it is nothing more than doing so many immoral things at the beginning.
It may not be the viciousness of the anger of people and gods, sometimes it is to take advantage of a little advantage and play a little trick, but in these details, there is a person's bad intentions.
This little sprout is enough to crush a person's pattern.
The so-called pattern is not how to praise and love the people you like, but whether you can at least have a clear conscience about those you don't like.
For Wang Jian, killing people is the next thing, and revealing the true face of a pretending criminal is the most pleasant thing.
What should I do if there is such a big man with a good background to harass his girlfriend?
Life and death are downbeat, and if you don't accept it, you will do it!
This is what Wang Jian particularly likes to say.
When you meet a strong competitor, especially if you start dating such an excellent woman, almost the whole world is your enemy.
The higher the environment, you will feel that there are one or two people around you who have much stronger social skills than you, and there are one or two people who have much stronger business skills than you, and there are one or two people whose writing skills are much stronger than you, and then you find that in fact, you can surpass them if you continue to work any point.
At the beginning, there was still a gap in my heart, but when you encounter a strong opponent or a group of strong opponents, the first thing you have to do is to correct your mentality.
Getting your mindset right is the first step you need to defeat your opponents, and you should accept the reality that there are people who are better than you and some people who are very strong.
If you always feel inferior in your heart that others are better than you, then you will naturally have an inferiority complex in that aspect. What's more, the current level of education is so developed, and the experience of people is so different, and it is normal to meet people who are stronger and better than themselves.
If you only encounter one strong competitor, you can't stand it, then in the face of a group of strong opponents, this person can only become the bottom doomed to failure, and will work and end his life. And it hurts a lot, because you always feel that no matter what effort you try, there will be someone better than you.
Therefore, mentality is the first step, you have to accept the reality calmly, rush forward bravely, and return to the sentence mentioned at the beginning, life and death are downplayed, and if you are not satisfied, you will do it!
Don't be afraid!
Isn't it just a rich second generation, I've beaten it.
Step 2: Draw the emphasis.
For different people, there are important skills and core skills that must be possessed. You have to make a list of these skills, and then look at which area you are the weakest and which area you have a certain foundation. Make a plan for yourself and break through one by one.
Looking at the opponent again, there must be a problem, Wang Jian understood one thing very early, the secret realm could provide Bai San with everything, but it couldn't give him a chance to experience life and death!
Of course, at this stage, he doesn't have to think about whether the opponent is strong or not. You just need to practice your own skills first.
By the time you're done with the job, you'll find that you've shortened the distance between you and your opponent a lot.
Step 3: Find an edge. Wang Jian knows very well where he has a foundation and talent, knows what the opponent's weaknesses are, first starts from the aspect where he has an advantage to further establish the advantage, and then chooses to break through from the weakest aspect of the opponent, further narrows the gap between you, and finally accumulates strength in the opponent's ability that is also very strong, confronts him, competes head-on, and defeats him.
What is Wang Jian best at? Use his brain and work hard.
Of course, there are also people in this process who do the opposite, that is, directly compete with the opponent's strongest ability, and directly surpass him from his strongest ability.
For example, if you have money, you will slap your face with money or something.
The above talked about the basic approach of facing challenges and facing competitors, and now I will explain the problem of mentality from another aspect.
First, we must accept the reality that there are always people who are better than ourselves. People have different experiences, and everyone's personality is different, so different people and different abilities have been created, and different backgrounds also mean different backgrounds.
Second, we must always maintain our original intention. Maintaining the original intention is not only to require you to maintain the original impulse and original intention of chasing women, but also requires you to maintain your curiosity about everything like a child, you think about when you learn to learn things and see the fastest, that is, when you are still very young, at that time you are curious about everything, you want to touch anything, smell it, taste it, so when you meet someone better than yourself, you meet a strong competitor, you should meet with him for a while, to understand his routines, to see what kind of way he works and how to compete, and learn and grow from the opponentIt is also a very important lesson in life.
Third, always run at the forefront.
This is the gap in fate,.
From the moment humans are born, they decide the difference between easy mode and hard mode.
The strong take fate as a reference and are indomitable.
But the weak take fate as their sustenance and deceive themselves.
Often fortune tellers are people who are unsatisfactory in life, and those who ask about their careers every day are in trouble, and those who ask about their feelings every day are unhappy. But forget it once, if it's not enjoyable, count it again.
Hear the truth, dissatisfied, continue to count. Fortune tellers can spend money to find it until they find what they want to believe. When I meet a satisfactory word, I am still unsure, and I have been entangled, hoping that others will say what I like to hear, and I hope that everyone will say the answer they want to get.
Generally, such a figure-of-eight pattern is relatively low. Bazi's career is also affected by the environment in which he was born. Therefore, if the eight characters are good, they may not necessarily be able to reach a high degree of career. For the same eight characters, there will also be high and low, but the state is similar. Just like a peony flower, it must look the same, and the growth cycle is about the same. But the same peony flowers, the soil is different, the fertilization is different, there must be some are worse and some are better.
The best is the Oiran, but this is also a peony flower. No one can calculate the attribution of the feelings in the eight characters, what is this person's name, where does he live, and how long can he accompany you.
But more people want to have a lifetime, be good to themselves, have good conditions, and look good. Most people take this as a positive fate to pursue hard. Please, how many of them can live in a house for 70 years?
Can you drive a car for 20 years even if you have to change it? Even if you have such a great person, can you always cherish it? People in the world swear to pursue it when they can't get it, and after they get it, they treat it as a mustard, ignore it, and pursue other new feelings. And the marriage year, from a technical point of view.
One is that there is a problem with the marriage palace, and it will be saved every time there is a lot of luck. Or the marriage palace is no problem, the official star wife star is revealed in the passing years and married. But this sign can be encountered several times in a person's life.
Excluding the particularly poor marriage pattern, in the past 20 years, ordinary people, judging from the technical indicators, there have been several marriages in a passing year, and it is not absolutely a single year. Of course, some people are very accurate, but if you put it in tens of thousands of cases, it is true that this indicator is floating. In ancient times, the premise of seeing life was to see men and women living together, and today's men and women have lived with many people before marriage, so this matter is not so certain.
This is also the reason why people with emotional twists and turns are always dissatisfied. 100,000 people may die in an earthquake, and do all these people have information about the catastrophe? Absolutely not. So the fate of man, the numerologist sees a part of the law. Part of it is personal choice, and part of it is providence.
If everything is guided by numerology, it is often self-defeating. Be objective, cheer up, be a little ambitious, face what you should face in life, accept what you should accept, and work hard. Of course, some people are destined to not be able to work hard, so don't cry and mourn every day. Make yourself happy and live comfortably.
A person's life (place of birth and date) is a car, once born, the model configuration is fixed, and the luck (the year after the person's birth and the surrounding people and environment) is the road, and it is generally fixed since birth. But since we are human beings, we will have thoughts and actions, so we must consider subjective factors. Because you don't know what your future road will be like, you don't know what state you will be in when you walk, and you don't know which road is more suitable for your car when you are at a fork in the road.
People who pay attention to fate are basically unwilling, some people say that fate is an excuse for the strong to humble the weak, this sentence can be understood no matter how you understand, because no one can come up with evidence of the existence of fate, so there are too many people who stand and talk without backache.
It can be regarded as predestined, but it must not be pessimistic, some people's good luck comes early, some people come late, and some people's good luck is intermittent.
The laws of operation of the objective world are in line with the laws of physics, including the microscopic world at the quantum level, which does not have a significant impact on the macroscopic physical world, although it is uncertain, but it is also in line with the probability of generalization. Isn't human subjective initiative unconstrained by the laws of physics?
Human thinking is based on the operation of the brain, which is essentially cranial nerve activity, while cellular activity is actually an organic chemical reaction process. What's more, the human mind is essentially a reaction to the objective world. We often say that a person who sees something, or experiences something, suddenly "understands something".
This means that the mind is not closed, but connected and influenced by the outside world. Personality seems to be ethereal, but in fact it is people's inertial reaction and way of responding to external information, which is not fundamentally different from thinking. Therefore, everything that a person encounters has a definite antecedent.
The person's reaction to the combined effects of these events will also have definite consequences. Faced with the same situation, different people will react differently and have different consequences, and that is also because of the different antecedents that shape them. If a person succeeds, he dares to say that luck has not played a role? Taking a step back, is it that he is smarter than others, is it that he has created it himself?
No, it's that he's genetic, well-developed, and well-trained. Is his personality better than others tempered by himself out of thin air? No, it is because he has been nurtured, influenced, and experienced. He is healthier, more energetic, and more willpower than others, and there are traces to follow. So I think that as long as the amount of computation is large enough, these can be calculated, that is, predictable. But is there anything in the universe that is so computationally massive and so fast? That's another topic. Maybe the universe itself is a computational process, and each of us's life is to display the results of calculations in ultra-high frequency updates. These results are strung together, and we call them fate.
Fate is not a closed road, in my understanding, it is more like a tree, we are born in the soil, send out seedlings, and as we grow up, they branch out. Each tree has a different appearance, with unique branches, and different branches will produce fruits of different sizes and grades. Life begins with the trunk of the tree, and each branch is a choice, and we come to the treetops and see the final result in the choice again and again. We can have different choices, and through our own efforts, we can climb to a higher branch and achieve a different life. But the root of all this is how many branches and fruits there are in the tree that fate has given us.
The journey of life is like the sailing of a ship, and luck (good or bad) is like a sail that can either speed up the ship or deflect it off course. And all that people do about it is in vain: like the helmsman of a ship, if he works hard and constantly he may help the ship to sail smoothly, but a sudden gust of wind can make all efforts useless. However, if the wind is right, even unhelmed boats can sail smoothly. The best way to describe the power of fate is the proverb: "If you are lucky, you will not die if you throw it into the sea." ”
There is another kind of influence in our lives. It's an old-fashioned but long-proven saying: we're often more stupid than we think. But on the other hand, we are often smarter than we think we are.
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