"It's better not to, put away your curiosity, curiosity is the enemy of a person's loss of judgment." Du Qinghyun vetoed Fang Mu's idea, "There are still a lot of things you have to learn now, don't run around before you leave the school." ”

"Yes, Du Ye." Fang Mu is not as flexible as Yuan Yuan, and she will not be coquettish, her serious appearance adds a bit of seriousness to her delicate face, "Du Ye, I suddenly have a bad premonition, Fu's father and son may not be able to help up, even if Fu Rui changes his life against the sky and forcibly improves his fortune, with Fu Weiqiang's nonsense, sooner or later he will drag Fu Rui off the cliff." Although Shi Zhenxiang is dead, the sequelae are still there, and I always feel that the follow-up development of Shi Zhenxiang's incident will make Fu Weiqiang fall to pieces. ”

"Who said that you want to help the Fu father and son?" Du Qinghyun smiled meaningfully, "There are two things I want to do, one is to help Shi De to the right path, let Shi De follow me, and let him realize the greatest value of life." The second is to persuade Yuan Yuan to leave Bi Wentian, Bi Wentian is following an evil path and will not end well, out of love for Yuan Yuan, I hope she will find her lost. ”

Here it is again, Fang Mu rolled her eyes helplessly, she obeyed Du Qingxun almost everything, only one thing, she didn't like Du Qingxun's self-flaunting very much, some things were obviously mundane things to compete for fame and fortune, and he had to go to great lengths to find a great and glorious reason to cover it up. However, she understood the meaning of Du Qinghyun's words, Fu's father and son were just Du Qingxun's stepping stones in order to get Shi De and Yuan Yuan, as long as Shi De and Yuan Yuan were in hand, the life and death of Fu and Yuan Yuan were not in Du Qinghyun's kind consideration.

Although he didn't have a good impression of the Fu family and his son, let alone knew him, Fang Mu still felt sad for the Fu family and his son, but Fu Rui was also the head of a dignified city, but he didn't follow the right path, and raised an unsuccessful son, so that Du Qingxun had a chance to take advantage of him and firmly control him in the palm of his hand. If Fu Rui is upright and no one is selfish, Du Qinghyun will have no chance. In the final analysis, everyone's fate is their own voluntary choice, whether it is good or bad, don't complain about it, blame it, only blame yourself for not grasping it well.

Well, since Du Qinghyun has been flaunting himself all his life, and if he is not allowed to elevate himself, he will not agree that it will not go well, Fang Mu simply changed the topic: "Du Ye, last time you said that you wanted to tell me about the thirteen laws of life, and now you have time to ......"

Du Qingxun smiled: "Fang Mu, it's not good for you to steal from Yu Shuai behind your back." But forget it, Yu Shuai is not as perceptive as you, and he is not yet at the level of knowing the thirteen laws of the Dao, so it doesn't hurt if I tell you first......

"The thirteen laws of life are: one, the law of cause and effect, two, the law of attraction, three, the law of conviction, four, the law of relaxation, five, the law of the present, six, the law of 80 to 20, seven, the law of due, eight, the law of indirectness, ix, the law of generosity, ten, the law of non-retribution, eleven, the law of loving oneself, twelve, the law of forgiveness, and thirteen, the law of responsibility." Du Qinghyun did not pause in the middle, and said it in one breath.

Fang Mu thought thoughtfully after hearing this: "How to explain the law of loving yourself, the law of forgiveness and the law of responsibility?" ”

Du Qingxun said: "The first ten, do you know the meaning of the Dao?" ”

"You can guess a rough guess, it's the last three, I can't figure it out, please Du Ye to solve your doubts."

"Okay, let's start with the eleventh law of loving yourself." Du Qinghyun's personality is very indifferent to what he encounters, what Fang Mu says, he usually does not refute, with a spring smile on his face, "All the thoughts and actions of thinking about others and helping others, as well as all the success and glory, all stem from the most basic starting point - love yourself." How can a person who doesn't even like himself and doesn't love the world love others? Loving oneself is not the same as selfishness, but allowing you to love others, love the world, and make due contributions to others and the world under the premise of cherishing everything about yourself, including your body and your reputation. ”

"Well, I get the law. Mencius said that a gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall, and a person can only love himself first in order to establish himself to love the people of the world. There is such a story that when Su Dongpo was the judge of Fengxiang Mansion and Zhang Dian was the commander of Shangzhou, the two traveled to Xiantan together. There is a cliff with only a single-plank bridge on it, and the abyss is under the single-plank bridge. Zhang Dian proposed to let Su Dongpo cross the bridge and leave ink on the cliff, but Su Dongpo did not dare. Chapter, however, looked calm, tied himself to a tree with a rope, leaned over the bridge, and wrote a few words on the steep stone wall. Su Shi couldn't help but stroke his back and sighed, those who can fight hard can kill people...... Zhang Dun Ha laughed. ”

Su Dongpo saw that Zhang Dian was a person, a person who does not cherish his own life, and will not cherish the lives of others. Sure enough, it was this Zhang Dian, who later became the prime minister, with great power, no mercy in rectifying political opponents, killing people without blinking, and even proposed to dig up Sima Guang's grave and whip the corpse. Because of his disagreement with Su Dongpo's political views, Zhang Dian was also ruthless to Su Dongpo and demoted Su Dongpo to the remote Huizhou. In Huizhou, Su Dongpo took suffering as pleasure and wrote in the poem - for the poet's spring sleep, the Taoist lightly beat the fifth watch...... When the poem reached the capital, Zhang Dian thought that Su Dongpo could be so free in adversity, so he demoted him to Danzhou (now Hainan) farther away. In the Song Dynasty, the exile of Hainan Island was only one level less than the crime of copying and beheading the whole door, which shows the ruthlessness of Zhang Mourning, and later, Zhang Dian was included in the "Biography of the Traitorous Minister" by the "History of the Song Dynasty". Fang Mu talked about historical anecdotes, such as a number of family treasures, after she finished speaking, she nodded slightly, "Master Du, I don't know my understanding, right?" ”

"Ha Lu Ha ......" Du Qinghyun smiled heartily, "Yes, very good, Fang Mu, you know that what I like the most is your understanding of drawing inferences, you understand it very correctly, people who cherish their own lives will cherish the lives of others." Okay, now the twelfth law, the law of forgiveness. Forgiveness is a measure of strength, and it is the only way for a person to be reborn. The seeds of hatred and remorse can grow into a towering tree that hinders progress and success, and forgiveness is a sharp axe. ”

Remember, there are three kinds of people you want to forgive, and the first person you need to forgive and forgive is your parents. No matter what your parents have done or are doing badly to you, you must forgive them completely and completely. Because after all, they are the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, and bringing you to this world is the greatest gift. The second object of forgiveness is all those who have hurt or are hurting you in any way. You don't have to be good friends with them, you don't have to let them know your forgiveness, you just have to forgive them simply, completely and unreservedly. After all, their harm to you has trained your life and made you forbearance. The third object of forgiveness is yourself. Whatever bad things you've done in the past, first sincerely repent and promise not to do it again, and then — please forgive yourself. Guilt and remorse are just heavy mental shackles, which will not make you make a difference and will not help your progress in any way, so forgiving yourself and letting go of your psychological baggage and moving forward bravely is the correct outlook on life that a person should have. ”

"All things in the past, such as yesterday's death, and all things that will follow, such as today's life." Fang Mu nodded and agreed again and again, "Forgiveness actually means letting go, and letting go can you be comfortable." ”

"The last law is responsible for the law. The law of responsibility, as the name suggests, is that a person must be responsible for what he does, whether it is a small action you inadvertently make, or an unintentional word, but the unintentional small action affects others, and the unintentional words also hurt others, don't think that you are unintentional and unintentional, you don't have to be responsible, the law of heaven and earth is harsh and ruthless, and it does not spare you because of your unintentional and unintentional actions, nor let you go because of your ignorance. Therefore, the law of responsibility is to remind you that I am fully responsible for everything I do, my circumstances, and my life. A person who always remembers his responsibilities can always check his words and deeds, be cautious, like facing the abyss, and walk on thin ice, so that he can always be invincible. After finishing speaking, Du Qinghyun glanced at Fang Mu meaningfully, "Fang Mu, after knowing the law of responsibility, do you still think that it is hypocritical and superfluous for me to seek a righteous and bright starting point no matter what I do?" ”

Yes? Fang Mu was shocked in his heart, and his face turned red, it turned out that she was dissatisfied with Du Qinghyun's self-proclaimed Du Qinghyun had always known it, she thought that she was hiding very deeply, Du Qinghyun didn't know anything, and for a while Mu Ne said: "Du Ye, I, I ......"

"Don't blame yourself, don't think too much, I don't mean to blame you, I just want to remind you that sometimes seeking a fair and honest reason for yourself is not only to cultivate your own kindness, but also to make your heart very peaceful and peaceful. Of course, then again, kindness must not be all public intentions, and among good intentions, there are also selfish intentions. Du Qinghyun smiled, "Fang Mu, improve well, work hard, you still have a long road in the future, and there are still a lot of battles with others, sometimes the victory or defeat is not the disparity in strength or the quality of the timing, but may only lie in a thought." ”

Du Qinghyun said a lot, his contest with He Zitian and Bi Wentian, in the key battle to distinguish the winner from the bottom, it was a thought that decided who had the last laugh.

"There is one more thing I don't understand, Du Ye, since Yuan Yuan is a congenital master, with her, I can help you tide over the disaster, why do you have to let Shi De follow you?" Originally, Fang Mu wanted to say that he wanted to rob Yuan Yuan for the sake of Lu, and even snatched Shi De, but under the influence of Du Qinghyun's words just now, she also used a tactful and upright statement.