In the sauna, I sat with my father, wrapped in a bath towel, endured the heat, and when I lowered my head, sweat dripped down my nose, which was not a pleasure for me, but I liked it, and he enjoyed the heat here with his eyes closed.

I waited patiently, and after a while, Ban Dad finally said to me: "You can choose to live in Xuzhou this time, your mother and I are very happy, but I am also worried that Xiaomi will not be able to adapt to life here." ”

"Daddy, I'm afraid you don't know yet, in fact, this time back to Xuzhou is the meaning of Mi Cai, you also know, she has always been a more rational person, since she chose to go back to Xuzhou with me to live, she must have been psychologically prepared enough, so you don't have to worry about this at all."

"There will still be a sense of disparity."

I didn't immediately respond to this sentence of the board father, in my brain, subconsciously thinking about Mi Cai's past and present, maybe she will have a sense of loss, but it should be overcome, and I can only hope that she will overcome, now I really have no conditions to realize the previous life for her, and prepare those luxury goods that can highlight the value of women.

And in my subconscious, she doesn't seem to need those meaningless feminine luxuries, she is the kind of woman who can wear the stall goods with a sense of luxury, which is not an exaggeration at all, her beauty does not only come from her appearance, but also from her inner temperament and strength.

I finally said to my father: "The sense of disparity is only temporary, she came to Xuzhou with ideas, and when her life is full, she will not think too much about the days in Suzhou." ”

"What about you? Did you come back with an idea? ”

"I just wanted to tell you about this, this time I went back to Xuzhou, I plan to open a café, and I will operate it for the time being, which can be regarded as a guarantee of life."

Daddy took off the towel covering his face and looked at me with a frown

I didn't expect this reaction from Daddy, and asked suspiciously, "Don't you support me opening a café?" ”

"Zhaoyang, either you will find a job, or you will do your career as before, your current choice is a plaything, do you know yourself?"

I was surprised: "I'm losing my mind with a plaything? ”

Daddy's expression became more and more stern: "Xuzhou is not a small city, you want to do a career here, it's not that you don't have the opportunity to open a coffee shop, I can't agree with it, you should also think about it again, you can't always indulge in your own cognition, talk about hobbies, talk about style, and reject those things you should do." ”

"Daddy, if you say that, I don't understand that I open a coffee shop, run it well, and I can earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, and there is no problem at all to ensure my life, how can this have anything to do with the loss of my mind from playthings? I also need capital and effort to open a coffee shop! ”

"Zhaoyang, your life does not depend entirely on yourself, you have to build enough confidence that I will say a word to you, you must remember in your heart, only if you get it first, can you keep it! Think about what you deserve and what you want to keep. ”

"Is life really that complicated? Daddy, look at Xiao Yun and Wang Zheng for yourself, they are very simple and ordinary, but I think their lives are very good, and you didn't teach me that before, right? I really don't understand what you're talking to me today! ”

Ban Dad seems to have become a designer, he tirelessly designed my life as the premise, said: "I tell you this, not to deny Wang Zheng and Xiao Yun, the young couple, their family environment and growth experience itself is ordinary, their current life corresponds to this ordinary and ordinary, then this is the right look at Xiaomi?" You should ask yourself, have you really built the corresponding self-confidence to live with her? ”

"This" I was a little depressed.

Ban Dad said earnestly: "I hope that between you and Xiaomi, there must be a person who is sober Xiaomi has suffered such a big change, she can hardly be said to be rational at this time, so I ask you to stay sober and figure out how to grasp the balance between the two people, otherwise you will still go through the old road before." ”

I was even more depressed, because I felt that it was difficult for me to have the talent to do what Ban Dad said, but it seemed to make sense! Because he doesn't like to express much, he has expressed too much to me in this short period of time, his over-rationality, often based on his correct judgment of the development of things, for example, he has been a deputy section chief in a state-owned enterprise for more than 10 years, is a far-sighted correct judgment, he has no worries about food and clothing all his life, never need to remind him to live with fear, I really experienced it personally, when his superiors came to my house to drink, he envied his unfazed and frank life after drinking.

Seeing that my expression was solemn but he didn't say anything, he said again: "I also want to talk about you Zhaoyang, you have been an overly emotional and rebellious child since you were a child, since you started high school, you got tattoos, smoked, and ran to the bar with a guitar, these are in the eyes of me and your mother, it's not that I don't want to control you, it's that I can't control it, this is your nature"

I argued, "But is sensuality a bad thing?" I smoked, got tattoos, and ran to bars, but in order to live up to you, I got into a good university! ”

"This is the contradiction in you, and it is also a place where it is difficult for us to control, sensibility is indeed not a bad thing, but rational people often have the ability to change the development of things, while emotional people can only change themselves according to the development of things, there is a big difference between the two, you have not seen through this difference yet!"

I suddenly thought of Fang Yuan because of Daddy's words, he was a representative of reason, so he strategically controlled Zhuo Mei and got the one he wanted, but what about me? Along the way, in various unexpected events, gains and losses, and then change yourself to a point that even feels strange to yourself!

I seem to be a fragmented person, and I have never had a central idea to support my life, which is very different from Fang Yuan, but why does Mi Cai say that I have something similar to Fang Yuan in my bones? I was messy at this moment, and I didn't know how to judge myself, let alone how to absorb Daddy's admonition to me.

Daddy didn't put too much pressure on me that night, but I knew it wasn't going to be the end of what he told me, and I did need a little space to digest what he had told me today

Back at the residence, there were only me and Mi Cai in the room that had already been cleaned up by my mother, she was doing skin care before bed at the dresser, and I was sitting cross-legged on the bed meditating, I had a hunch that life back in Xuzhou would not be as simple as we imagined, and what happened in Suzhou was not the end

After Mi Cai sorted out the care supplies, she asked me with a sense of relief: "Zhaoyang, do you have a detailed plan for opening a coffee shop?" ”

I replied: "I don't have a detailed plan, but Luku has successfully operated so many unique coffee shops, and these successful experiences give me the confidence to create a successful café in Xuzhou without the help of the platform." ”

Mi Cai nodded trustingly

I asked her again, "What did you talk to my mom about tonight?" ”

"Well, I didn't talk too much, she talked about those things at the poker table, and I couldn't quite understand it, but she said that tomorrow morning she would take me to familiarize myself with the city of Xuzhou, and then buy some vegetables by the way."

I smiled and said, "I think you can learn the skills of mahjong as you like, and with your IQ level, it's really trivial to win some living expenses at the poker table in the future!" ”

"Zhaoyang, are you kidding me?"

"It's a joke, but it's a small bet, learn to play mahjong, and it's not bad to use it to kill time in the future."

"I think, let's talk about how much money you are going to invest in opening a coffee shop, the scale and direction of the operation, the location of the store, the selection of the target consumer group, and the cost control, you should have roughly thought about these, right?"

I immediately threw a tricky question at Mi Cai: "Do you say that the location of the store pù is used to establish the investment budget, or the investment budget is used to establish the location of the store pù?" ”

"I think it depends on how much money you have to invest in it, and that's a premise."

"yes, how much money do I have to invest in it?" I jumped out of bed as I spoke, moved a chair and sat down next to Mi Cai.

Mi Cai took out his wallet from his handbag very seriously, and then took out the bank card inside, and calculated a clear account for me, and the result was that we could only take out 50,000 yuan to open a coffee shop, and the estimated investment in my heart should reach at least 500,000, so as to realize my idea of operation, so the gap of 450,000 yuan has become the sorrow of the two of us, and I don't have the heart to sleep, the two of them hold their cheeks, and stare at each other for a long time!! We once said that the money invested in the coffee shop must not be bothered by the father to solve it for us.

Mi Cai finally made up her mind and said to me: "Zhaoyang, why don't you take the money that my aunt gave me and invest it first."

"This is absolutely not good, first of all, my investment budget is at least 500,000 yuan, and I think you want to find an opportunity to repay this money to them, or I will sell my house in Xuzhou first, or go to the mortgage to make a loan, but I have to inform my father and mother."

Mi Cai immediately wondered: "The house is the foundation of life in the eyes of their older generation, can they agree?" ”

I was filled with a burst of sorrow, although my mother did not express her position, but Ban Dad has made it clear that he does not support me to open a coffee shop, and I think: I still need to calm down tonight and understand what he said to me today, so as to find an answer that can fit my future life with Mi Cai.

In this way, life back in Xuzhou is not as simple and easy as imagined, and this is just the beginning

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