"What? Are you saying my daughter has a mental illness? This can't be, my daughter has always been normal, it can't be mentally ill. Pan Yuexin's parents were very surprised after Bai Lao finished speaking.

"Nothing is impossible, mental illness does not mean that it is neuropathy, these two are two concepts and cannot be confused. Modern urbanites, who don't have spiritual problems? Excessive stress, mortgage and car loans, fear of marriage, fear of having children, for example, depression, paranoia, some disorder symptoms, fetishes, pedophilia, etc., there are too many of them. Bai Lao explained.

"From my diagnosis, I can be very sure that she has certain problems, and you, as parents, should also have discovered that she has a different relationship with normal people."

Lesbian?

The two elders thought of the word at the same time.

In fact, Pan Yuexin's parents know that she likes women, although Pan Yuexin has not said it, but the state of the expression for a long time, as well as the results of the secret investigation, Pan Yuexin's parents are very clear.

At that time, the two of them didn't accept it very much, but if they thought about it carefully, it was useless to oppose it, maybe it would make their daughter more rebellious, so the two of them turned one eye open and closed one eye for the time being, and they found an expert to consult, and the expert told them privately, many people have this problem in modern times, especially some girls during school, which is normal.

Just like many boys have a voyeurism-voyeurism, they have been lying in the women's toilet since they were young, peeking at the bottom of their skirts, and being particularly curious about women, which may come from growing up curiosity, or it may come from other aspects.

When normal people reach adulthood, they have their own three views, their own emotional world, and the stereotype of their thinking patterns, and these problems can be changed.

Hearing these words at that time, Pan Yuexin's parents were also relieved, indeed, this is not a big problem, they are all some of the practices that children are ignorant when they are young, besides, women and women are together, there is nothing to lose, just let it go for the time being, and let the children grow up by themselves.

"And your daughter has a natural fear of marriage, the reason why she has a different emotional outlook from normal people is from this reason, she is afraid of marriage, what kind of Cheng dù is afraid, I will give a score."

Bai Lao Zhengse explained: "Some people are afraid of marriage, although they are afraid, but they will still marry other people because of various pressures, such as the requirements of their parents, and slowly heal themselves, which is a little slighter." If it is heavier, it will be very resistant, and even commit suicide. ”

“…… But what the two don't need to worry about is that the daughter of the two is a warrior, and the warrior has her own mental capacity, so you can't see it before the marriage, that's because she endured it, but when it came to today's engagement banquet, she couldn't help it, but she still forcibly endured, and eventually led to physical problems, and these problems could not be treated by doctors with drugs, so my advice is, postpone the marriage. ”

"Bai Lao, what do you mean, how long will it be delayed?" The old man frowned and asked.

"At least when this disease is cured, I can give her counseling treatment every month, and then with some drugs and acupuncture, with her martial arts ability to resist pressure, it shouldn't be long, but it still takes a while to delay, you can postpone it indefinitely."

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In the lounge, Pan Yuexin complained a little about Fang Xu.

"What do you say is bad, you have to say that I am a psychopath?"

"It's psychotic, it's not the same as neurosis." Fang Xu explained.

"Aren't they all the same? You're just mentally ill, I'm fine, if this matter gets out, and when other people see me in the future, they won't hide far away? Pan Yuexin looked at Fang Xu depressedly.

"What's this, as long as you don't get married, we can bear any kind of outcome, and besides, you don't seem to like people bothering you, right? Just followed this opportunity, if someone comes to provoke you in the future, you will pretend to be a psychopath, beat him, and don't break the law, anyway, with Bai Lao's proof, the law can't control you. ”

“…… You're too dark in your heart, pretending to be a psychopath and beating people? Pan Yuexin glared at Fang Xu, and then said: "It's a little darker, but the old lady likes it, okay, just do it." ”

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When Fang Xu and Pan Yuexin negotiated, Bai Lao also talked about it with the two elders.

In fact, even if Bai Lao does not build any postponement of the marriage, it is estimated that the Pan family and the Jiang family will automatically postpone it, because Pan Yuexin is the main person in the marriage, she has a physical problem, and it is impossible for this marriage to continue to be held, and it is also this kind of mental illness, although Bai Lao said that mental illness and neurosis are two concepts, but ordinary people will not think so.

It's impossible for the Jiang family to really take a mentally ill daughter-in-law, isn't this a joke.

Therefore, there is no way to change the fact that the marriage date will be postponed.

When this matter is reported, after the Jiang family and the Pan family know the situation, it is estimated that the best choice should be for the Pan family to find a new girl to be married, take Pan Yuexin's place, and marry Jiang Xiangnan, the eldest son of the Jiang family.

You must know that this marriage is not only a matter of the Jiang family and the Pan family, but also the Gao family and the Lin family.

Therefore, the postponement also means that there will never be a way to resume the marriage.

This is exactly what Fang Xu wants.

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Then Pan Yuexin left with her parents, and after the family of three left, Fang Xu was called to the courtyard by Bai Lao, and the old and the young sat opposite each other and refilled a pot of tea.

Talking about Fang Xu's matter, Bai Lao was interested in listening, but Fang Xu was a little awkward to talk about it, because this matter was not a glorious thing after all.

Stepping on two boats is a dream for many men for men, but let him not shy away from announcing it, especially when he tells it to his elders, it is a bit tasteless and difficult to speak.

What's more, Fang Xu is not just two boats, Fang Fei is one, Qin Lan is one, these are all children, and then there is Pan Yuexin, and the other bunch is a little related, such as Wang Keke......

But strictly speaking, Fang Xu's personality is not born like this, he can't deal with emotional problems, mainly because no one teaches him.

Before the age of five, the mother is responsible for instilling some views on love and the world, and after the age of five, the father should make human rules for him for a long time, what to do and what to do, all by the parents, the closest first teacher, to tell the child.

Especially after the age of ten, this is a very critical period, and people's three views are also in this period, from the age of ten to fifteen, they begin to be truly stereotyped, and at this time, Fang Xu, no one taught him, he was in boundless pain and learning.

This is also the main reason why children from single-parent families have mental illness, and those with good and enlightened parents may educate children who may not achieve anything, but they will know more about the three views than children from single-parent families, behave in the world, and have a very sufficient sense of security in the world.

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