(460) Each has his own thoughts, and both sides calculate!
However, if they don't want to be isolated, they don't want to be targeted, and if they want to live well in the family, they have to learn to calculate, learn to say every word, and they can't just talk. The first time may be passive, the second time may be helpless in the face of such a situation, and the third time may be ...... Fourth ...... Over time, there will always be a time when you reach the bottom line of your patience, and when this compulsion becomes a habit, an essential instinct in your daily life, when you speak, you will naturally start to calculate.
is the so-called 'at the beginning of a person, nature is good', whether it is the Ji family, or the Dongli family, or those clansmen of the big families who were blacklisted by Ouyang Xiasha, they are not born to be traitorous villains, nor are they born with all kinds of calculations, all kinds of despicable and shameless means, of course, not the kind of devils who will use all kinds of ruthless methods to seek money and kill people, kill people, destroy families, and don't even blink their eyes, to put it bluntly, they will become like this, they are all slowly formed the day after tomorrow. In other words, these temperaments of theirs were all developed later, and they have nothing to do with birth or anything.
Like the first clansmen of these families, most of them have such thoughts, most of them are because of their personal desires, and a few of them are forced to do it because they have no choice but to force themselves. However, even if this small part is forced to be helpless at the beginning, and then after avoiding the danger, it will gradually produce a kind of greedy selfishness, and then slowly, it will become the same person as the majority of people who are troubled by personal selfish desires, as the so-called 'from thrift to luxury, from luxury to thrift' is what it means, and then with the continuous expansion of this selfish desire, correspondingly, what they do is more and more cruel and ruthless.
And their descendants will be like this, first, is the reason for teaching by word and deed, as the ancient proverb says, one by one dragon gives birth to dragon, phoenix gives birth to phoenix, the son of the mouse will make a hole, and the so-called tiger father has no dog son, these two sentences, in fact, express a meaning, that is, parents are the child's first teacher, the behavior of parents will affect the child's life, from the perspective of family education, parents have high quality, good family environment, and the children cultivated must be very good. Of course, there is no absolute in anything, isn't there a saying that one dragon gives birth to nine sons, each different? Therefore, it can only be said here that most of the descendants are like this, following their elders to learn the same, well, there are some of them who still have a conscience and do not have crooked seedlings, but such seedlings, even if they cannot be affected by the first point, that is, words and deeds, will definitely be forced to be like this by the second point; Therefore, the second is that the family environment has been brought into this way by their predecessors. Even if you are not a good seedling that has grown crooked, even if you still retain the only remaining conscience under the education of your elders, so what? As I said before, as long as you want to live well, you don't want to be isolated and targeted by your people, you have to force yourself to become like this, once or twice, you can't accept it, three or four times can barely face it, and in the long run, even if you have more conscience, no matter how strong your perseverance, there will always be a time when the bottom line will be broken, and when the time comes, habit will become natural, and you will be completely assimilated.
Okay, let's move our attention back to the various calculations between Ji Xiaowu, the Seventh Elder and the Uncle of the Ji family!
"Little uncle, no, but, believe me, as long as we are careful, there will be no problem. Unless the one on the fourth floor disregards face and deliberately targets! "Sure enough, for the dissuasion of Uncle Ji's uncle, not to mention the Seventh Elder who has always had his own ideas, it is Ji Xiaowu, who usually has no own opinions and is most willing to listen to the opinions of Uncle Ji, all of whom decisively chose to refuse. But thinking about it, it's no wonder that they chose it this way, the reason is actually very simple, you know, although the uncle of the Ji family has been talking to dissuade them, but he has not clearly provided them with a specific reason, as for Ouyang Xiasha will turn around and pit them? To put it bluntly, it is just a speculation of the uncle of the Ji family, a possibility, or a very low possibility, at least in the eyes of Ji Xiaowu and the seventh elders, this is how they see it, a possibility and speculation with a very low possibility, that's it. Ji Xiaowu, how could the Seventh Elder easily give up the imminent success and the imminent revenge for such a small possibility? Especially when they don't feel like there's anything wrong with their plans.
"Then be careful!" Uncle Ji was there to dissuade him for a long time, just so that in the future, after they failed, he could shirk his responsibility, otherwise, why do you think that such a smart person as Uncle Ji would take such a person, who can't even convince himself, and has no reason to persuade people? Is it really that there is no basis and no reason? The answer is not really, it just depends on whether the uncle of the Ji family has a heart or an unintention.
In fact, to put it bluntly, Uncle Ji's behavior was just for the sake of pretentiousness. This is not to say that the uncle of the Ji family has a black heart, how ruthless, or how perverted, he actually likes to watch people's jokes and see the people suffer, but the uncle of the Ji family understands in his heart how stubborn and stubborn the two people are Ji Xiaowu and Seventh Elder. You know, they completely belong to the kind of people who once they have their own thoughts in their hearts, then at that time, no matter what others say, it makes no difference whether it is reasonable or unreasonable, they are only willing to believe in themselves, and they are definitely not the kind that will not hit the south wall and never look back, so for this moment, the uncle of the Ji family did not continue to dissuade them, but just pretended to tell them to be careful, there is nothing strange or incomprehensible. In other words, Uncle Ji just doesn't want to do useless work.
But if you think about it carefully, in fact, this is indeed the case, knowing that no matter what you do and how hard you put your heart, there will be no change in the final result, so why do you have to waste your energy and time thanklessly? Isn't that stupid?
Of course, in order to avoid some follow-up troubles and punishments, what should be done, what should be said, what needs to be done and said, but compared to sincere dissuasion, this pretentious move seems a little empty, but Ji Xiaowu and Seventh Elders, who are in a state of excitement, didn't notice this at all, and this is also the fundamental reason why Uncle Ji dared to open his mouth without any effort or connotation.
"Understand, little uncle, you just like to worry about the sky! But to put your mind at ease, we promise we'll be careful! "Well, the facts have proved that Ji Xiaowu and the Seventh Elder really didn't notice the perfunctory attitude of the Ji family's uncle, and they still thought that it was the Ji family's uncle who thought too much, and even in order to stabilize the Ji family's uncle, Ji Xiaowu also dissuaded the Ji family's uncle in a serious way.
"Hey! I know what I'm talking about, and you won't listen to me, but I'm your leader, and I'm responsible for you, right? So, I think it's better to be conservative. I don't know why, I always have an inexplicable ominous premonition in my heart! "In order to be able to perfectly shirk the responsibilities and punishments they have to shoulder once their ultimate task fails, Uncle Ji is really fighting this time, and even his usual most disdainful premonition is said to be used without hesitation, it seems that this so-called punishment should be very serious, otherwise, Uncle Ji will not work so hard, right?
If there is only the so-called responsibility, or a few words of strong condemnation, with their cheekiness that has been honed in the Ji family, they can not care about the results at all, especially the existence of the Ji family's uncle who has been mixed in the entire Ji family for many years, has been in a high position, and holds a lot of power, even more so, but the Ji family's uncle is still working so hard, it seems that this punishment must not be ordinarily serious, and even the high-level Ji family with power like the Ji family's uncle cannot be spared. Thinking about it like this, it's no wonder that Uncle Ji is so desperate.
But then again, presumably in the heart of the uncle of the Ji family, the punishment is terrible, and the loss of face in public is even more terrible, and this habit of dying to save face is some of the shortcomings of the family that seem to be engraved in their bones.
The uncle of the Ji family couldn't imagine that if he was in charge of the high-level of the Ji family, he would be punished in front of the entire family, including those juniors who didn't know how many generations lower than him, where would his old face go? How will you come out to meet people in the future? Therefore, in order to avoid such embarrassment and unhappiness, don't blame him for playing tricks, and even use his most unsightly but useful premonition in the past.
Okay, it's a bit farther away, then again, in the face of Ji Xiaowu's appearance of swearing to comfort himself, although the uncle of the Ji family didn't have any other expressions on his face, except for worry or worry, he also had a completely 'I think about you, I am good for you', but in his heart, he couldn't help but sigh: 'Child, let's have a snack!' Otherwise, if you're like you, sooner or later there will be a scene where you are sold and you help you count the money! ’
Of course, these words are just what Uncle Ji is thinking about in his heart, if he really wants him to say it, he will not do it. First, what he said would not affect anything, how could the stubbornness and stubbornness of those two people be shaken by his words or two? Second, he is not stupid, how can he bluntly tell the other party that he is laughing at them? Even if they don't care at all, can't they just open their mouths? After all, just because they don't care doesn't mean they haven't heard, right? And they still have to at least maintain a semblance of friendliness and brilliance, okay? Otherwise, he wouldn't have been so laborious in pretending, plus all kinds of calculations and all kinds of means, would he?
"If something happens, we will take care of it ourselves, little uncle, don't say it again!" Ji Xiaowu didn't think much about it, and followed the words of the uncle of the Ji family, as if he reacted instinctively, and blurted out the words of the uncle of the Ji family so naturally.
That's right, this sentence is the purpose of Uncle Ji's words for such a long time and acting for such a long time, so after hearing Ji Xiaowu follow his words and give such a promise, although Uncle Ji still has a worried look on his face, he is really happy in his heart. In the words of Uncle Ji's family, no matter how good they are at this time, as long as they don't promise anything, there is room for regret. And once this is promised, the result will be different, after all, although their Ji family has no advantages in other aspects, they still have the point of keeping their promises.
However, since it was a decision made by two people to make a move against Ouyang Xiasha, it was obviously not possible to just have Ji Xiaowushi's promise. Therefore, although the uncle of the Ji family was very happy about Ji Xiaowu's ascendancy, he was not too happy to forget the existence of the seven elders.
And in fact, it is true, no, after Ji Xiaowu gave a promise, the uncle of the Ji family didn't say anything, didn't do anything, just shifted his gaze to the Seventh Elder, and stared at him thoughtfully.
"That's right, if something happens, we will bear it ourselves, and in the same way, if something is achieved, so that the person really suffers, it will affect the auction later, and we can take advantage of it, then when we go back to report to the family, we will not have any credit from you!" The Seven Elders, who were stared at by the burning gaze of the Ji family, didn't want to promise anything, after all, the Ji family's uncle was smart and knew that he was planning for himself, and the old fritters like the Seven Elders who could mix with the elders were certainly not stupid, how could he not know that there was a risk of failure in everything, no matter how confident they were, they had to think about it in times of peace, so that if something really went wrong in the end, they would not panic and be overwhelmed, right? And once he fails, he can have one more backing, or the one who bears the main punishment, why should he push it away? But in the end, I really couldn't stand the scorching sight of Ji Xiaowu and Uncle Ji's double expectations, coupled with the attitude of 'If you don't agree, I will let you do nothing' in the eyes of Uncle Ji, the Seventh Elder had to choose to compromise. The root of the compromise is the result of being forced to do so, and the Seventh Elder himself is a high-minded and arrogant person, so a person like him, even if he is forced to accept something, he will definitely not let that person have a good time, and he will definitely find ways to find a place for himself from other aspects. It's like at this moment, didn't the Seventh Elder directly cut off the possibility that Uncle Ji wanted to get credit from them? After all, in the eyes of the Seventh Elders, the possibility of their failure was very small, that is to say, the chances of the Ji family's uncle getting credit from them were quite high, at least in the hearts of the Seven Elders and Ji Xiaowu, they all thought so. Therefore, the Seven Elders cut off the possibility that they could get credit, and I have to say that it is really ruthless.
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