"You're right," Ning Xi nodded, "but the new will become the old one day." Those who can grow old together, how do they do it so that their husbands don't get tired of it? Or, are they lucky enough to meet a good man? ”

"I'm looking for an answer too." Ruyu smiled, "But I can be sure that women are not tired because you are not good, no matter how good a woman is, if she meets a man who is not affectionate, she will not escape the fate of being abandoned." The head of our Qinglou, I met a man who kept saying that he was willing to marry her, and he had already saved enough money to be good, but he didn't expect that the front foot just walked out of the gate of the Qinglou, and the man said that he would not marry her, on the grounds that she was born in a Qinglou. Later, I found out that the man was much better with another woman who was far less beautiful than her! ”

"That other woman was abandoned in the end, right?" Ning Xi smiled bitterly.

"I don't know." Ruyu said, "But the other woman is much smarter than the previous one, and she still asks the man for the money." I think that even if she was eventually abandoned, at least she would have received the man's money, and it would not be too much of a loss. ”

Ning Xi was silent. At the beginning, she told Yu Rui that she was willing to be a couple in distress with him, and as long as she was with him, she could do without anything. As a result, he didn't appreciate it, he didn't say anything, and he didn't even want to give her a few pennies. In his opinion, those things outside the body were what she herself said she didn't want, and he had no reason to give her anything. So, he took it all for granted, and wasted her best time in vain.

If she does it again, she must open her mouth, and she must ask for what she should want! Even though she didn't like it, it wasn't the thing itself, it was a man's intention.

"It's not too early, I'm going to go to the Qinglou to see if they're lazy." Ruyu stood up and said, "Sister, I live at No. 28 Tianping Road, and I can come to me at any time if I have something." ”

"Wait!" Ning Xi also stood up, "I'll go with you!" ”

"What, you said you were going to the Qinglou?" This time it was Ruyu's turn to be surprised.

"Anyway, I'm not a girl who hasn't left the cabinet, why can't I go?" Ning Xi seemed to have made a lot of determination, "Besides, you can open a green building, I'll go see what's wrong?" ”

"Good!" Ruyu patted Ning Xi's shoulder, "Then sister will take you to have a look!" ”

Emerald Red House.

As soon as he entered the door, the old bustard hurriedly greeted him and said with a smile: "Master, you are here, come in and sit down." He glanced at Ning Xi beside Ruyu again, and said with a smile: "This appearance is a sign, is it new?" ”

"Don't joke," Ruyu's face sank, "This is the owner of the restaurant, my friend." When you see her in the future, it will be like seeing me, do you hear? ”

"Oops," the old bustard hurriedly bent over to Ning Xi's side and apologized, "Madam, don't be surprised, the villain has eyes and doesn't know Taishan......

"Okay, I'm not angry, you can go with your business." Ning Xi was very tired of her cozy attitude, and hurriedly dismissed.

"Yes, yes, I'll go down." The old bustard left in amusement.

Ning Xi glanced in disgust in the direction she left, and couldn't help but lower her voice and asked, "Such a hypocritical person, you dare to use it?" ”

"Where does the sincerity come from to be a bustard?" Ruyu asked rhetorically, "No matter what she thinks in her heart, as long as she obediently does what I say, and doesn't do anything behind her back, it's enough." She approached Ning Xi's ear and lowered her voice, "It is also a skill to be able to let reluctant people do things for you. ”

"It's still my sister who has the ability," Ning Xi nodded, "In the future, my sister will often ask my sister for advice." ”

Several bewitching women passed by and said hello to Ruyu. Ruyu nodded to them, and after they walked away, Ruyu said to Ning Xi, "Did you see the woman in blue just now?" ”

Ning Xi glanced in the direction they had left and shook his head.

"She came almost at the same time as me, and after I took over here, she came over and assured me that she would never do anything right." Ruyu said, sighing, "Originally, she was an innocent woman, but when she first came, her face was like ashes, and she didn't say anything when she asked her." Now that I've been staying for a long time, I've lost my nature, become sleek, and be very good at dealing with guests. Later, I heard that she was also abandoned by her husband, and in order to take revenge on her ex-husband, she chose this method. ”

"Isn't that too much to lose?" Ning Xi asked.

"Whether it's worth it or not, only she knows in her heart. After so many years, she has also become popular, although she is not as good as the top brand, but she is also famous. She said that her ex-husband was disgraced because of this, and she had made trouble many times, but she sent them away. ”

"In this way, although I took a ride, it also dealt a fatal blow to that man." Ning Xi sighed, "Although the Qinglou woman is not very good-looking, but being able to become a leader in this profession is also a lot of hard work. There is nothing to despise about such a way of life. Although Ning Xi agreed, she knew that for her, such a way was not advisable.

"Yes, every woman has her own story." Ruyu said, "Before I came, I didn't look down on them. However, none of them came here voluntarily from the beginning, and behind the glamorous, they were all helpless! ”

"You're here, but you've seen a lot of stories." Ning Xi smiled bitterly.

"Yes, it has become a common thing here." Ruyu said, "But it's more about separation." Although there is the unwavering love of the Qinglou woman in the play, in reality, which man is willing to be serious about the Qinglou woman? Most of them are not tired of playing and then find various excuses to break up. And the woman who gives her heart will only be greeted by physical and mental exhaustion until she dies. ”

"Break up?" Ning Xi sneered, "Those of us who have been wives are still like this, let alone the people here, it's just a show." ”

"When it comes to breaking up, there are many ways, and men will always come up with all kinds of tricks to hurt the woman who once loved him deeply. If you want to say that this is the most cruel one, and the one I scoff at the most, it is the 'cold treatment', which slowly consumes your feelings and stamina, and eventually breaks you down. Ruyu said, her expression becoming serious.

"Tell me what it is."

"The one I used to be broke up with me in this way, and I know it very well. After coming here, I realized that I was not the only one who was victimized. I summed it up, it's a long process, first of all, he suddenly treats you not as close as he used to, for example, the affectionate address to you suddenly disappears, or, no longer speaks affectionate words. You notice that something is wrong and ask him, but he says that you are thinking too much. Speaking of this, she glanced at Ning Xi deeply.

"And then?" Ning Xi asked.

"He's suddenly busy, but we don't know what he's up to. Busy and busy, he seems to have forgotten your existence, and if you don't take the initiative to find him, he will definitely not take the initiative to find you. ”

Ning Xi's eyes widened suddenly, these words are so familiar.

"You start questioning him, you start reflecting on yourself. But he won't say anything, and will still say that you think too much. Then, your relationship may ease up a little, but the time is very short, just when you think you have returned to the past, suddenly back to the stage just now, if you don't take the initiative to find him, he will never look for you. ”

"That's right, that's right." There was a hint of anger in Ning Xi's eyes.

"You become more and more reluctant and want to know why. However, his attitude towards you is becoming more and more perfunctory. Perhaps, if you look for him, he will avoid you. If you talk to him, he will also divert the topic, in short, he will squeeze you everywhere and ignore you. After a while, you break down until you give up and decide to leave him. ”

"It's exactly the same." Ning Xi sneered.

"In the end, you mention the breakup, and he is silent. Maybe I will keep it, but I definitely don't really want you to stay. ”

"Why is this happening, you know?" Ning Xi raised his head and asked.

"Probably because he wanted to separate for a long time, maybe he was afraid of taking the charge of abandoning his wife, so he tortured you like this and asked you to take the initiative to break up, so that he could get rid of it." Ruyu said angrily.

Ning Xi's hand clenched into fists and clenched his teeth tightly: Yu Rui, do you hate me so much? Do you have to torture me in such a cruel way? What do I owe you!

"When I found out that this was a common trick used by men, I was as angry as you." Ruyu took Ning Xi's hand that was clenched into a fist and said softly, "However, most of the men who will break up in this way are cowardly and incompetent, they evade responsibility, are selfish and ruthless, and they are never worthy of a woman's love." He doesn't deserve you, and you don't need to bother with him. ”

"yes, he's not worthy of me." Ning Xi sneered, "At the beginning, he said that I was not worthy of him. ”

"Don't be disappointed," Ruyu said, "There are still good men, it's just that you and I are not blessed to meet them." Like me Amma, he has always treated my mother very well. Something happened to my mother, and the queen mother forced him to divorce his wife, but he refused to give up, and comforted my mother not to blame himself. ”

"I can't complain about others, it's all fate." Ning Xi smiled bitterly, "If you want to complain, you still blame myself, I don't know people clearly, and I mistake fish eyes for pearls." ”

"It's a lesson," Ruyu said, "What kind of love, what kind of man, you are the most important." In the future, love yourself well. ”

"Thank you, I feel much better when I say it." Ning Xi smiled slightly.

"Look for me anytime in the future, and I'll go to your place often." Ruyu said with a smile. "Remember to prepare good food and wine."

Recalling this, Ning Xi smiled slightly. She can develop so well in Shanghai, and there is no lack of help from Ruyu, and she can be regarded as one of her few confidants in Shanghai.