Chapter 590: Dislike Me
"Because the person providing the hematopoietic stem cells must be in good health, and at the same time, they should be in the prime of life. The matching degree of Ruyu's parents and his brother's hematopoietic stem cells should not be a problem, the problem is that they are both older, and their physical health is not very good.
Dean He, an expert in the treatment of leukemia in China, told me that if Ruyu's parents did not meet the physical conditions, they would theoretically not be able to provide hematopoietic stem cells to his brother.
If they meet a certain standard, that is, it is very far-fetched to provide hematopoietic stem cells, such as Brother Yu's transplantation, there should also be comorbidities such as bleeding and infection.
Even if some corresponding measures are taken to reduce the rejection reaction after surgery, it may be difficult to achieve normal hematopoietic reconstruction.
If that happens, not only will it fail to achieve the original intention of a complete cure, but it will also aggravate his condition, and the consequences will be unimaginable.
At that time, it is a trivial matter to spend high treatment costs in vain, and the key is that with the current physical condition of Ruyu's parents, it may be difficult to bear the huge blow caused by the pain of losing a child. Ruyu's family, which has been struggling to support for many years, will also fall into trouble.
You and I both know what kind of person Ruyu is, she is filial to her parents, and her brother has a deep brotherhood, she saves money and puts almost all her energy into the family. She loves and gives to her family far more than she does herself.
Over the years, she would rather endure the pain and swallow tears than see any problems with her family. She has already had too many bitter pasts, and after this period of adjustment, she finally got rid of the pain of the past.
Now, she has not lived a comfortable life for a few days, she has encountered unprecedented difficulties again, Ruyu is a woman after all, even if she is strong, I am afraid she will not be able to face such a huge pressure and heavy blow. As her sister, I really don't want to see her hurt again, not even a little bit.
Ding Lu held Lin Fei's hand tightly, her eyes were full of worry, and two lines of tears slid down to her cheeks, "Although it happened to Ruyu, I feel very helpless, sad, and scared, my heart hurts......"
Lin Fei was deeply moved by the sincere friendship between Ding Lu and Yan Ruyu, opened his arms and took the woman into his arms, caressed her jade back and comforted her in a low voice: "Ding Lu, don't cry, I know that you and Ruyu have a deep relationship, anxious for her, worried about her."
Don't be afraid, things are not yet to the worst. As long as there is a glimmer of hope, we have to do 100 per cent of our efforts. ”
Ding Lu lay on Lin Fei's chest, her shoulders trembled, and she sobbed and said: "I know very well that things are indeed not the worst, and we will go and take Ruyu's parents to the hospital in a while, so that they can undergo physical and laboratory tests, I look forward to a miracle."
Do you know? I'm not so pessimistic, it's just that I know Dean He's medical experience, and since he raised these concerns and concerns, he will naturally have a reason.
If he could not find a matching hematopoietic stem cell for Ruyu's brother to transplant, he would not have lived for three months at most with the deterioration of his condition only by relying on drugs and chemotherapy.
Our Oriental hematopoietic stem cell database has been established for more than ten years, and there are only more than one million pieces of information in it.
I've also learned that as long as there is a glimmer of hope, I have to do my best to do it. But this too little hope is almost tantamount to despair......"
"As long as people live, they must face many things, and birth, old age, sickness and death cannot be avoided by anyone.
As an emotional person, no one wants to see their loved one leave this world. But no one can stop this from happening.
You know some medical knowledge, and you should also know that human life will become very fragile in the face of some diseases, this is an unchangeable fact. As long as we do our best, there will naturally be no regrets in our hearts. As for the consequences, that's beyond our control.
I firmly believe that no matter how difficult things are, Ruyu can survive tenaciously. She is a strong woman, but also a person who understands that she should be able to accept all kinds of realities, whether they are good or bad.
To put it mildly, even if she loses all her family, she doesn't lose the whole world. In her life, there are at least good sisters like you who really care about her and worry about her.
In this world, no one's life can be smooth sailing. Take Ruoyun as an example, the pain she has experienced in the past is far greater than you can imagine.
Also, there is me, and I am living a good and happy life now. I once told you that I have never felt the love of my parents since I was a child.
However, God is fair, let me meet you, let me have so many people who love me and I love around me.
Although I sometimes feel very sad and distressed, I feel that this is a burden of happiness, even if I am tired and miserable, I can bear it, and I think it is very worthwhile!
Because you are none other than my women, and you are not just lovely women, but also honorable women. ”
Lin Feiqiang laughed and whispered, "Little goblin, stop crying." Let's go see Ruyu first, and then go and pick up her parents later, if their hematopoietic stem cells fully meet the transplantation criteria, aren't so many tears in vain? ”
Ding Lu listened to Lin Fei's words, gradually stopped crying, and said softly: "I know, don't cry." ”
"That's right." Lin Fei let go of Ding Lu and held her face, "No matter what happens in the future, don't shed tears lightly, you know?" ”
Ding Lu blinked, pursed her lips and said, "Do you dislike me for not being strong enough?" From then on, it will not ...... Loved me......"
"I know how to say stupid things, I solemnly tell you now, little goblin, I don't want to see you cry, I just hope you can be happy, without the kind of thought you just said.
Besides, your tears today have touched me deeply, not only will I not dislike you, but I will love you even more. ”
Lin Fei explained softly, "Because it is these tears that let me understand you better and let me see your kind and fiery heart more clearly!" ”
Ding Lu pursed her lips and smiled, stared at Lin Fei's eyes, and asked softly, "Really?" ”