419 jokes about the strict management of wives and the great wisdom of life

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At this moment, the object of everyone's ridicule immediately changed from Liu Dongshan and Li Banxia to Shangguan Wurong and Zhang Fengwu.

Shangguan Wurong was dumbfounded by Zhang Fengwu's words, but his heart was sweet, and his little face was red when everyone laughed.

"Oh! Look at what I saw, our Shangguan Woman's face was as red as a monkey's ass, it's really amazing~~"

Li Banxia finally seized the opportunity, this girl laughed at her so much, she still has no grace to repay her kindness and revenge at this time?

Shangguan Wurong slid off Zhang Fengwu's body on her stomach, propped up her arms, covering her face, her face was as red as a boiled dried shrimp, Li Banxia was fascinated, her reaction was much more interesting than her own.

In this way, her reaction just now was not so embarrassing.

"Brother Zhan, Brother Liu and Brother Zhang are all so good, what about you, do you remember?"

As soon as he finished speaking, he received another blow on the forehead. This record was not given by Zhan Yang, but by Shangguan Wurong.

"Xiao Aya, my eldest brother hasn't married my sister-in-law yet, what did you ask him to remember? But you, do you know how many days you know my eldest brother? In the last sentence, Shangguan Wurong whispered in her ear in a tone that only she and Yan Yan were talking about.

Yan Aya stabbed Shangguan Wurong with her elbow, Shangguan Wurong exhaled pain and obediently retreated. It's just the ill-intentioned smile on her lips that made Li Banxia guess a little bit about what she just said.

Zhan Yangjing drank his wine. But the laughter is silent.

"Okay, okay, I won't ask you. Brother Zhan always likes to pretend to be cool, and he can't think of anything out of his mouth. Yan Aya is well aware of this, usually Zhan Yang is like an impermeable wall, you can't even think of hearing his thoughts.

Yan Aya turned her head, fixed her eyes on Liu Dongshan again, and said in her heart: Brother Liu is still easy to talk to, she wants to dig, dig hard, dig a little more about Dr. Li and Brother Liu.

"Brother Liu. I would love to know more about you and Dr. Li, let me ask you some questions, can you answer them? ”

Li Banxia suddenly had a bad premonition, and as soon as she heard it, she knew how straight Yan Aya's little girl spoke, and it would be strange if Dongshan didn't suffer a loss if she faced her. Liu Dongshan is not Zhan Yang, he is too honest, so honest that not only can't lie, but also doesn't know how to put aside the topic. Or move out of the majesty of the big brother, so that this little girl does not dare to make a mistake.

Look, Yan Aya can't get a bargain from Zhan Yang. Don't look at Brother Zhan, who is usually very talkative, but he doesn't want to talk about it. Even if the little girl rolled on the ground, he would not say a word more than if she begged him.

Liu Dongshan, naturally, does not have such skills as Zhan Yang.

But. Liu Dongshan may not have Zhan Yang's skills, and his ability is not small. It's just that you have your diamond. I have my porcelain job, just as good. The methods are different, and the ones you are good at are also different.

Liu Dongshan didn't doubt him, and just wanted to agree, Li Banxia hurriedly stopped her and stretched out her big hand to Yan Aya. "Hey, hey! This Dongshan can't promise you for the time being, it depends on what questions you ask, if the questions you ask are acceptable, Dongshan will answer. If it's too boring or too gossipy, Dongshan won't answer you. ”

Yan Aya secretly called a mistake, this Doctor Li really understood her thoughts, and knew that he would block her with words in advance and prevent Liu Dongshan from taking the bait.

Shangguan Wurong was a fox, and finally Yan Aya's attention shifted from her to Li Banxia, where was she willing to let her slip away. So he coughed twice, pretending to be a good Samaritan and proposed: "A few of us get together today, it's a rare fate." Although they haven't known each other for a long time, they have also experienced a tribulation together, and they are difficult brothers, difficult sisters and sisters, what can't be said. Taking advantage of the wine, what to say, anyway, it's just a fun, and when you wake up after dinner, everyone forgets. I don't think everyone should be restrained, just ask if you want to, say what you want, isn't it also happy? ”

"It's still Wurong who has a point!" Yan Aya hurriedly agreed.

Li Banxia wanted to say more, but Yan Aya quickly said: "Doctor Li, if you do this again, I suspect that Brother Liu is afraid of guilt~~"

"I ......" Li Banxia smiled, "Fear of the word ~~, there is another saying, do you want to know?" ”

"Yes."

"It's called tracheitis."

"Tracheitis...... What is it? ”

"Stupid! Tracheitis, isn't it a strict wife? Homophony~~ "Shangguan Wu melts his brain and melon is really good, so I can understand it when I hear it."

was laughed at by Shangguan Wurong and turned into a stupid person in front of her sweetheart, she didn't do it. Yan Aya held on, and said: "I already knew this, isn't it my wife who is strict, do you really think I am stupid?" ”

"Huh! I already knew~~" Shangguan Wurong exaggeratedly learned Yan Aya's appearance, laughing at her hard mouth.

Li Banxia smiled and watched the two fight, and when it was almost over, he said: "The wife is strict, that is, the man who is afraid of the inside, according to me, he is a real smart person and has great wisdom in life." ”

"Cut! Doctor Li, look at what you said, you are still smart in fear of guilt, but you are simply cowardly and not good at all. "Although our Miss Yan is a woman, what she likes is a real hero like Zhan Yang, a hero, like that kind of man who is afraid of guilt, no matter how good she is, Miss Yan doesn't like it.

Liu Dongshan was still smiling from beginning to end, even if he was said to be afraid of guilt, he was not embarrassed or embarrassed. If the object is Li Banxia, even if he is afraid of guilt, he will admit it, and he will be willing to do it.

"This is true for some people who are afraid of inwards, but there are others who are not."

"Miss Li's words are very interesting, Zhan wants to hear it."

"Zhang also wants to hear it."

Liu Dongshan also turned his head, eager to hear what Li Banxia would say.

"A man who is afraid of guilt may seem less heroic to others, but it can give you more security. Many women like to take care of everything at home, like to take the initiative, and even her husband wants to listen to herself, but in fact, this is just her lack of security. Of course, the considerate husband is willing to cooperate. If you are not considerate, you may have a pair of resentful couples. The wife is strict, the wife is strict with you, and it can also be interpreted as caring and caring for you. ”

"I have heard people say that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. On the contrary, the stricter the control, the deeper the love. Accepting 'strict management' in a low-key manner to bring more security to a woman, who would be more considerate than them for such a husband? ”

"But doesn't this make a man look too cowardly and incompetent, lacking in assertiveness and courage?" Yan Aya protested in a low voice, although she also hoped that one day Brother Zhan could let her "be strict", but she still liked the current Brother Zhan even more. Brother Zhan, who is "strictly controlled", is not Brother Zhan.

Yan Aya is still a little girl after all, although she is very smart and very capable, but after all, she is still an age full of fantasies about love and full of worship of heroes, such a girl would rather be a moth to a fire, like to ignore her heroes, and will not notice a man who pays silently for her and is willing to be a strict wife.

"No, some men are very assertive and courageous, but he cleverly conceals his own elegance and is willing to be a 'strict wife' in the eyes of his wife, which is a great wisdom of life."

"How?" Shangguan Wurong couldn't help but ask.

"Usually, men who are willing to be 'strictly controlled' are not very willing to cause trouble, and they are accustomed to the life principle of 'big things into small things'. They usually don't take it seriously, since they are all a family, who makes decisions with ideas is not the same? In fact, this is the wisdom of men, take the initiative to be a 'strict wife' man, do not have to worry too much about anything - since two people are worried at the same time there will inevitably be contradictions, why not simply deal with him just obey, just say everything well, occasional opinions, must be the finishing touch, will only make women both surprised and happy, such a mode of getting along is not also wonderful? ”

When these words came out, not only women, but even men flashed a flash of thought between their eyebrows.

That's right, what Li Banxia said about fear of guilt does not mean that this man is really weak and useless, but a man who is considerate, knows how to live wisely, and has the heart to run a family.

A smart man is not fighting with a woman for control of the family, nor is he arguing with his wife so much that he is blushing and complaining that the other party does not have any personal space for himself. Your wife feels secure, she feels loved, and she hears everything you say in her ears and in her heart. Whether it is a man or a woman, in the name of love, everything is willingly and wonderful. Being "strictly managed" by his wife is not only the way to love his wife, but also to make the family harmonious, and at the same time to avoid a lot of troubles for himself, why not?

This view was consistent with many situations in ancient times.

Men are in charge of the outer court, and women are in charge of the inner court. If the inner courtyard is harmonious, the family will be auspicious. But any man who has a rich harvest as a career, fame and fortune and a family always knows when to delegate power and how to seize people's hearts.

It is also said that men have conquered the world, and women have conquered men. Men and women, no matter who is strictly controlled by whom, even if it ends miserably, how do you know that person is not willing and has no regrets?

Looking around at the three women at the table, one closed his mouth and ate a small dish comfortably. The other two secretly glanced at the men around them, probably thinking about what kind of method they had to use to get their beloved to the point of being "strictly controlled by their wives".

The men laughed one by one, and they laughed so unhappily.

However, they had to admire Li Banxia's ability to change the topic, those two wolf-like women, look, they have become tame little sheep now!

………… (To be continued......)