Chapter 63: No One Wants to Manipulate Me
Chen Mingyuan smiled lightly: "Aunt Cen, if you have something to say, just say it, there is no need to insinuate with me." ”
Ruohan crossed his arms and walked up the steel ladder in a graceful manner, and said: "I know that you don't like to listen to these words, if it is an outsider, I will ignore it, but I can't sit idly by and ignore your business." ”
Chen Mingyuan walked side by side with her, his heart was like a mirror, "You want to talk to me about Yin Xiayuan and their family, right?" ”
"That's right!" Cen Ruohan said simply: "The matter of the two of you, it stands to reason that it is inconvenient for me to say anything, but I still have some advice I want to remind you." ”
Without waiting for Chen Mingyuan to respond, she continued: "As far as I know, you have only recently become familiar with it, first of all, because of her father's illness, their family has no money to go to treatment, and you helped her at this time, and you contributed money, and found my mother's relationship to rescue her from the aquatic fire, which can be called affectionate and righteous." ”
"Then, it was her brother's affair, which was encountered by you again, you did not hesitate to owe Lu Weiting a favor, but also to help fish people out, which can be regarded as benevolence and righteousness!"
"With these favors, it's hard for you to have a close relationship with her, depending on the situation, you almost have to capture her heart, right?" Cen Ruohan said with a smile: "It's just, let me ask more, can you be sure that she will really like you because of this?" ”
After all, she is a few years older, and she was born in the family of an official eunuch, and her insight into human affairs and sophistication is far more thorough than ordinary people.
For Chen Mingyuan, she knows the roots, and she is by no means a gentleman who relies on her family background and bullies men and women, but it is difficult to guarantee that no woman will spy on the Chen family's family property, so as to deliberately approach and lure Chen Mingyuan!
Of course, through the side of the inquiry, and contact, she saw that Yin Xiayuan is not the kind of woman who hides her scheming, don't look at Yin Xiayuan is reserved and virtuous on the surface, but she is extremely resolute in her bones, the reason why she accepted Chen Mingyuan's favor this time must also be an expedient measure when she is in a desperate situation, perhaps, there is also a little reason why she has a good impression and trust in Chen Mingyuan.
But because of this, Cen Ruohan will be even more worried.
"I see what you mean." Chen Mingyuan said slowly: "Are you worried that she is forced by the situation to be with me, or is she grateful for a while, and when her family is completely out of trouble, this relationship will dissipate, right?" ”
"Since you know everything, you mean that you don't mind this, as long as you can get her, you will be satisfied?" Cen Ruohan persuaded: "Mingyuan, you have to think clearly, this kind of relationship is purely established on a material basis, and when this foundation is not stable, where will the two of you go?" At the end of the day, it is you who will be hurt by each other. ”
"Unless you are sure that she will accept you from the bottom of her heart, and at the same time, you must also give up your desire to control her, I can see that she is very assertive and will not be easily manipulated by others."
In the face of Cen Ruohan's sharp questioning, Chen Mingyuan did not hesitate or hesitate, and said calmly: "Aunt, I have known her for five years, and I know no less about her than you have in the past few days. ”
"I don't deny that our relationship was based on my assistance, but can you be sure that after I give up on her, I will find a girl who doesn't care about my family background at all?"
Ruohan was speechless for a while, and then acquiesced.
Indeed, with Chen Mingyuan's background identity, whether it is found by himself or arranged by the family in the future, who can guarantee that there is no doping of interests?
"And you can also see that Yin Xiayuan is not the kind of secular woman who pursues high and noble status, she is very independent and self-reliant, which is already commendable in this era, instead of looking around with a lantern, I might as well take this scoop of drink in the three thousand weak water, no matter whether her heart really falls to me or not, she will face me with a sincere and calm attitude, and will not pretend to deceive." Chen Mingyuan's smile flashed with a hint of warmth, "At least, at this stage, it seems that I have a good chance of winning." ”
Ruohan also heard his determination, I am afraid that it will be useless to persuade him again, and as he said, a woman like Yin Xiayuan is indeed rare, if she can really capture her heart, it must be a splendid relationship.
But when she thought of the situation of the Yin family, she still couldn't put her mind down, and after walking to the steel plate corridor hovering above the warehouse, she hesitated for a moment and asked, "You have already passed your own level, but are you sure that you have passed the level at home?" ”
With the powerful position of the Chen family, the children's mate selection partner will definitely not be mediocre, like Chen Mingyuan, the eldest grandson, the value of marriage must be reflected in the interests of more!
This is the so-called political marriage.
It's ridiculous to say that being born in a wealthy family can enjoy the glory and wealth that ordinary people dream of, but as everyone knows, behind the glamorous, there is also a sad side, such as not being able to decide on their marital happiness.
Ruohan is deeply aware that she did not have the slightest emotional foundation for Zhou Zhexiong at the beginning, but because of the words of the matchmaker, she could only reluctantly maneuver, she was very helpless, but she also knew that this kind of marriage combined for political and economic purposes abounded in Yanjing, Zhonghai, and many families in China.
Affection and reason are two different things, even if they have no feelings for each other, in order to maintain the need for an alliance of interests in the name of marriage, they still have to show affection, harmony and respect in front of the world.
Fortunately, Cen Ruohan temporarily got rid of that shackle, but when he saw Chen Mingyuan and Yin Xiayuan, he couldn't help but feel deeply worried, with Yin Xiayuan's ordinary embarrassing family background, could he be recognized by the Chen family?
At least, for now, there is not a glimmer of hope!
There is a sentence, Cen Ruohan didn't dare to say it, she wanted to remind Chen Mingyuan not to forget the marriage of her parents, it was because of Yang Xiuning's humble rural background that she had been coldly regarded by the clan for more than 20 years, until she gritted her teeth and stood firm, and at the same time, Chen Mingyuan turned the tide in this turmoil and initially united the family strength, which improved the status of the mother and son in the family.
Also as a woman and an elder, Cen Ruohan didn't want Yin Xiayuan and Chen Mingyuan to experience such a misfortune again.
Chen Mingyuan was clear about her concerns, he didn't move, but his eyes were extremely clear, and he suddenly walked to the windowsill, stretched out his hand to open the window, and the breeze on the riverside blew in his face.
"Auntie, in the past 20 years, the reason why I didn't want to make progress was because I didn't know what I wanted."
Chen Mingyuan's tone was calm and steady, and his eyes revealed an indomitable determination: "But now it's different, I have a goal I want to pursue, and in order to achieve the goal, I will never give up easily, no matter how many difficulties and dangers there are on the road, I will not hesitate to take half a step back!" ”
"I will take on the responsibilities of the family and do my best, but I have my own bottom line of principles, and I will never allow my life to be manipulated and manipulated at will, and no one will think about it!"
Seeing his determination at this moment and the depth of his eyes, Cen Ruohan's heart throbbed suddenly, and he felt that the man in front of him and the boy in his memory were completely like two people.
In the past, she would never believe that the introverted and shy boy would have this life realization, but after that earth-shattering turmoil and the contact these days, her impression of Chen Mingyuan is changing rapidly, showing maturity that does not match her age from time to time, as well as that kind of outstanding calm momentum, even her father is afraid that he is too much!
"Mingyuan, you've changed!"
After a long time, the thousands of words in Cen Ruohan's heart could only be converted into this sentence.
Chen Mingyuan turned his head to look at her, and said with a smile: "Aunt, haven't you heard a sentence, people will have an urge to strangle themselves in the past every few years, because this proves that people are improving, and at the same time express their resentment and unwillingness to fail in the past, if there is no such impulse, then I'm sorry, this person can only be strangled by life!" ”
"Besides, I don't think there's any harm in the changes I have made in the past few years, at least I've made myself and the people around me better."
"I really don't know where you realized so many crooked reasoning."
Ruohan couldn't cry or laugh, but he still agreed with this sentence, thought for a moment, and said: "It seems that you are determined to win Yin Xiayuan, I won't do this thing of beating mandarin ducks, as for her and her family going to Zhonghai this time, I will tell my mother that she is my friend, and she will not let your family receive rumors, how to explain it later, you think about it carefully." ”
"But let's say it first, whether they will object or not, you have to be patient, and you must never be angry with your family or even fall out because of this matter, which will only make things worse, do you know the way?"
Chen Mingyuan nodded and smiled, "Don't worry, aunt, I have a sense of proportion." ”
As for when to talk to your family, at least you have to wait until you have more say in your home.
Ruohan smiled bitterly: "Alas, patronizing and worrying about your affairs, I still have a bunch of troubles to face." ”
"It's still early, just rush to your future net worth as the richest man in the mainland, how can you sell it at a price for a lifelong event."
"Come on, when the old pearl is yellow, it will be difficult for me to take care of the little white face."
Chen Mingyuan nodded matter-of-fact and said: "This is a good idea, but you don't need to waste a lot of youth in vain, you can act now, if you really can't find a ready-made one, I'll grieve myself......"
"Stay where it's cool!"
Ruohan glared at him coquettishly, and then turned his head with a smile, but there was a faint hint of loss in his expression.
Forget it, as long as he can be happy.