Chapter 917: Teachings
Shui Qingshuang's question made Dai Siqi's thoughts fly back to six years ago. She and Lin Fei shed tears outside the station, returned to Guanhai Town with Shui Rulan, and with the assistance of her senior sister, she climbed Cangya Mountain and stepped into the Peony Hall, reuniting with her mother who had been absent for more than 20 years. The moment when the mother and daughter wanted to see each other made her unforgettable for the rest of her life.
During the few days of the short reunion, the mother and daughter were like shadows during the day, and they slept in the same bed at night, saying a lot of things. Dai Siqi told Shui Qingshuang about her life over the years, and she also truthfully told her about Lin Fei.
Shui Qingshuang didn't blame Dai Siqi after hearing this, she actually expected such a result. In those days, the mother also confided in her daughter the words that had been suppressed in her heart for so many years.
On the day Lin Fei was shot and injured, although the two were thousands of miles apart, Dai Siqi seemed to have a premonition, and she was restless and had trouble sleeping. Shui Qingshuang saw that Dai Siqi had something on her mind, and she didn't want her daughter to suffer from lovesickness, so she asked her to go down the mountain to find Lin Fei in advance.
The mother and daughter said goodbye at the foot of Cangya Mountain, Shui Qingshuang took a bowl of clear spring for Dai Siqi to drink, and used the remaining drop of water in the bowl to write the word "water" on the palm of her daughter's hand. At that time, she didn't give any explanation, she hoped that Dai Siqi would slowly understand herself.
Dai Siqi has always believed that the word "water" represents her mother's water Qingshuang, and now, she has a new understanding of the word "water......
"I remember! That's the word 'water'......" Dai Siqi sniffled.
"Tell me, why should I write you the word 'water' with spring water?" Shui Qingshuang asked softly.
"My mother wrote the words in the palm of my hand with spring water, and although it soon disappeared, it was forever engraved on my heart." 'Water' is my mother's surname, which means that my mother and my heart are connected, no matter where I go, my mother is always thinking of me, and my heart will always have my mother's ......"
Dai Siqi paused slightly, sat up straight, and looked at Shui Qingshuang, "Now, I also realize one of its meanings, that is, my mother hopes that I can be able to stop my heart and have a peaceful and natural state of mind like you."
To take the simplest example, I recognized you six years ago because my surname Dai is the surname of my Master Leng Yue. Sister Rulan and I, who know the inside story, have mentioned it to you and asked you if you would like to change my surname to 'Chen'. You told us at the time, forget it, don't change it, your name is just a code, you don't need to care too much. If you see my dad in the future, he will support your ......."
Shui Qingshuang's tearful face showed a smile of relief, and then said calmly: "That's right, the heart is like stopping water, it can be said that the geese cross the cold pool, and the geese pass through the pool without taking a photo; The wind blows the bamboo, and the bamboo does not leave a sound when the wind blows. Things come and go, and things don't stay. We must know how to remember, but also learn to forget.
Remember loved ones, lovers, and friends with a grateful heart. Forget your troubles, sorrows, and pains with an indifferent meaning. This is one of the expectations that my mother expects from you, and now that you have realized it, it means that you have also done it. But this alone is not enough. ”
"Hmm......" Dai Siqi listened intently, "Daughter, listen to your teachings." ”
Shui Qingshuang continued: "Water is also rigid and soft, still and moving, flat or undulating, small or boundless. When the peach blossoms are flowing and feminine, they are wild and rippling the shore.
You've read the book, 'The peach blossoms are gone, and there is no heaven and earth that is not on earth.' It's about the femininity of water. And 'the rocks and clouds collapsed, and the waves cracked the shores, and a thousand piles of snow were rolled up.' 'It shows the masculinity of water. However, the two are inseparable, and they must be integrated with each other.
There is nothing softer in the world than water, yet it can penetrate the hardest things, nothing can surpass it, 'dripping water through stones', this is where 'Joude' is. This is even more weak to defeat the strong, soft to overcome rigid.
Water, eternal, is as diverse as the world. Life is like water, and life should be like water. In the face of darkness and evil, we must dare to stand up, dare to face it, be indomitable, fearless, and destroy it like an angry wave crashing on the shore. As for the way, it is like water, it can be rigid or soft. You can attack or outwit.
In this regard, Lin Fei has done a very good job. Similarly, Ruoyun is also very good, she can be called a heroine among women. In the shopping mall, in the face of strong competitors, what she does, you have also participated, you should have a deep experience. ”
Dai Siqi blinked, "I understand, what you mean is that I not only have a peaceful mind, but also learn from Lin Fei and Sister Ruoyun, and dare to take responsibility and face it like them." ”
"Yes, it is impossible for people who are shy away from cowering to be at peace." Shui Qingshuang nodded, and put her hand on Dai Siqi's tear-stained face, "There is one more point, my mother hopes that you can understand the meaning of goodness like water." ”
Dai Siqi frowned slightly, pondering for a moment, "Mother, I understand, water benefits all things, nourishes all things, but it does not compete with all things, it has the most modest virtue."
Like you and your father, to be able to live here is actually to live in a good place, to be able to be humble. You want us to have a deep heart, close to each other when making friends, sincere in our words, methodical in our work, and omnipotent, and at the same time to be on standby.
If we do these well, we will have the same quality as water, and we will have no quarrel with all things, so there will be no worries and sorrows, and our state of mind will naturally be more peaceful. ”
"That's a good ......" Shui Qingshuang smiled and nodded, fully affirming Dai Siqi's answer, and then paused intentionally and looked at her daughter's eyes quietly, "The river and the sea are the confluence of hundreds of rivers, and the reason why it can become the destination of a qiē river is because he is good at being in the downstream position, and this is how the 'King of Hundred Valleys' came about." Daughter, tell me what else is embodied in this? ”
At this moment, Dai Siqi fully understood her mother's good intentions, she and Shui Qingshuang looked at each other, and said two words, "Tolerance." ”
"Yes......" Shui Qingshuang held Dai Siqi's hands again, "The sea is inclusive, and tolerance is great." In this regard, Ruoyun did the best. You can have today, in addition to Ruoyun's kindness, her tolerance has played a vital role.
If she hadn't let go of this at the beginning, Lin Fei would not have been able to give you other women's titles so smoothly, even if he was responsible for you, your identity could not be a wife, but a lover.
Ruoyun hid from Lin Fei and informed me to go to your wedding, and at that moment, I was deeply moved by her. The ten of you are evenly divided in terms of heart, appearance, intelligence, and ability, and if you tell the truth, Ruoyun is slightly superior. And she can dominate the crowd and occupy the most important position in Lin Fei's heart. It's not just her looks, it's her heart, her bearing.
A large part of your happiness was given by her, and it should be said that it was shared from her. Therefore, as long as you have the opportunity, you must treat her like your own sister, love her more, help her, share happiness with her, and share the ups and downs......"