Chapter 23: Self-control
"He said to me that I am the most suitable woman for you, and he also said that he would persuade you to return to me and let you wait for me alone." After Yue Qingying left Rong Jingtai, she thought about it a lot, and finally figured out one thing, Mu Jinnian called suddenly, ostensibly for her good, but in fact, he must have hidden selfishness secretly, otherwise with Mu Jinnian's relationship with her, how could he have the leisure and kindness to help her?
Mu Jinnian must not have a good heart.
In fact, Yue Qingying realized so quickly that Mu Jinnian was not out of kindness, and she had to thank Mu Fang for reminding her. Although Mu Fang's words were direct and cruel, they made her figure out a truth, the destined part of a person's fate really cannot be changed, for example, she met Mu Jinnian before she met Shi De, and waited for Mu Jinnian for a few years, and for example, she was a few years older than Shi De, her youth couldn't afford to wait, and for example, she was neither as gentle as Biyou, nor as generous as Xia Hualuo, and she could help Shi a lot in her career.
Moreover, Shi De doesn't owe her anything, since Shi De knew her, Shi De has always been helping her and her family, if it weren't for Shi De, her career would not have reached the current scale, if it weren't for Shi De, Dad wouldn't have been promoted to mayor, maybe even the position of deputy mayor would not be guaranteed...... She has no reason to blame what she gets, and if she loves her, it is her blessing, and if she doesn't love her, it is her life.
It was Mu Fang's words that made her figure out a lot, there are too many helplessness in life, it doesn't matter, as long as you let go of the life that can't be transformed, stretch out your arms to embrace the luck that can be changed, and life can also be wonderful. She lived well before she was gone. In the years that followed, she could live happily as well.
What's more, there is the same idea that Midsummer is the same as her, Midsummer can be single, why can't she be single? It's good to be single, a person has no worries, is not burdened by worldly life, travels if you want to travel, and takes a vacation if you want to, you don't have to care about anyone's feelings, and you don't have to look at anyone's face.
Life is about the more you have, the more painful it is, because the more you have, the more you are afraid of losing. When a person feels that he can lose everything and it doesn't matter what he does, he has attained true freedom.
If Mu Jinnian knew that a clever plan he had carefully planned was inadvertently cracked by Mu Fang when he was just implemented, he would definitely hate Mu Fang to the core. However, in addition to hating, he will also deeply appreciate the correctness of a wise saying - people are not as good as heaven.
It turned out that Mu Jinnian was making waves behind his back, and after listening to Yue Qingying's words, Shi De understood that Mu Jinnian wanted to use Yue Qingying to disturb his mind, so as to achieve the purpose of further weakening his fortune, it seems that Mu Jinnian is going to stand on the opposite side of him without hesitation.
Mu Jinnian really wants to go all the way to the dark? Did he do this, was it Bi Wentian's instructions, or did Mu Jinnian have to trample him under his feet in order to reach the peak of his life?
"Mu Jinnian wants us to turn against each other."
"I know." Yue Qingying nodded, seeing that Shi De was as calm as water, knowing that Shi De was not really angry with her, she was relieved, "I have already thought about it, Shi De, I want to be a celibate like Midsummer." ”
"I'm sorry, Kiyokage, I know your feelings for me, but I can't make you a promise because I ......"
"No need to explain, give, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, there is nothing wrong with not loving someone, I understand and respect your choice." Yue Qingying didn't wait for Shi De to finish speaking, then interrupted him, what she didn't know was that Shi De actually wanted to say that he was already engaged to Xia Hua, and He Ye had designated Biyou for him, and his marriage might become the fulcrum of the next battle.
Whether the person who married him was lucky or unlucky, it's really hard to say now.
Seeing that Yue Qingying was really open-minded, Shi De secretly breathed a sigh of relief, but he didn't expect Yue Qingying to figure it out by himself, which is also a good thing, the bell must be tied to the bell, and the heart knot can only be solved by himself, perhaps thanks to Mu Fang's enlightenment, he secretly thanked Mu Fang.
"Let's not talk about this, let's talk about how to plan for the future in the future." Yue Qingying smiled, "I will devote my life to charity in the future, and I hope that all those in need of help will have the opportunity to meet me, and I will do my best to help them get through the difficulties of life." ”
Yue Qingying has such a heart, her future life path will be smooth sailing and infinitely bright, Shi secretly praised, and simply told her what he would think in the future.
An hour later, Shi De sent Moon Qingying back to Hamamori. On the way home, he was in a good mood, and hummed a song "Look Back Again" to the music in the car.
When he was about to arrive at Rongjingtai, he suddenly found that there was a figure in front of him who was a little familiar, who it was, he didn't think about it for a while, and when he wanted to take a few more looks, the other party turned around and couldn't see it.
Who is it? Shi De returned home while thinking about it, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that something seemed wrong, but he just couldn't remember who the other party was.
If Shi De remembered who the other party was when he saw the other party for the first time, things might have a later turn, because the person Shi De saw was
And it's only Yuan Yuan, and Liu Luoluo. The most important thing is that Yuan Yuan and Liu Luoluo are leaving Shimen and heading to the capital.
"The car behind just now seemed to know us, and stared at us for a while." Liu Luoluo glanced back at Shi De's car, but unfortunately, Shi De's car had already driven into the community at this time.
"Maybe." Yuan Yuan replied absentmindedly, his heart up and down, up and down.
It has been two days since she came to Shimen from the capital, and what happened in the past two days has not been turned upside down, but it has also changed her life to a certain extent
According to the clues provided by Yu Shuai, Yuan Yuan found Liu Luoluo without much effort. However, after finding Liu Luoluo, she did not alarm her first, but secretly observed Liu Luoluo for a long time, and only after being sure that Liu Luoluo was the person she was looking for, she showed up when the opportunity was right.
When the opportunity is right, it means that Liu Luoluo is alone, and Yuan Yuan quietly appeared in front of Liu Luoluo when Liu Luoluo got off work.
Liu Luoluo has been in a good mood recently, not only has his work been smooth, but since he fell in love with Zhao Feifei, the whole person is radiant, as if he has stepped into the spring of life, the sun is shining, the birds are singing and the flowers are fragrant, and the future is full of flowers.
She was originally born in a civilian family, and her job was average, with a monthly income of only more than 400 yuan. When she fell in love with Huang Wenxu before, Huang Wenxu's income was not high, and it was difficult for the two to go out for a meal, and because Huang Wenxu's family needed to rent a house in Shimen in other places, she sometimes had to fund Huang Wenxu.
Although Huang Wenxu doesn't make much money, he is poor and short-minded, smokes and drinks excessively, and half of his monthly income is spent on smoking and drinking. As a result, I can't make ends meet every month. If it weren't for Liu Luoluo's funding, Huang Wenxu would have even had a problem surviving.
Liu Luoluo persuaded Huang Wenxu more than once and asked him to restrain a little. It doesn't matter if a man always has a low point in his life, as long as he has the spirit of striving for progress, as long as he is strict with himself and works hard, he will always have a day to get ahead. But I'm afraid that a man has no ability but has a temper, and he can't control his desires.
A man without self-control probably can't achieve great things. Liu Luoluo once said to Huang Wenxu that with your current income, if you quit smoking and drinking, you can save some money in a year, and after two years, you may have the capital to do business. But now that he is smoking, drinking, and lavish, is he living a tight life all his life?
Huang Wenxu said eloquently, is a man still called a man if he doesn't smoke or drink? Liu Luoluo scolded him angrily, I don't know if I don't smoke or drink is still called a man, I just know that a man doesn't even have the courage and ability to quit smoking and drinking, he won't do anything big. Self-control is the cornerstone of a man's success, and a man without self-control is destined to be a wreck.
As a result, Huang Wenxu was not only not touched by Liu Luoluo's encouraging words, but intensified his eating, drinking, and merrymaking, and also self-anesthetized and said that people are not romantic teenagers
Liu Luoluo was completely disappointed in Huang Wenxu, coupled with Huang Wenxu's rat belly and chicken intestines, not only was she small-minded, but also liked to be suspicious, so she gritted her teeth and made up her mind to break up with Huang Wenxu, and sent Huang Wenxu a paragraph: "There are two things in this world that others can't snatch: one is the dream hidden in the heart, and the other is the book that is read into the brain."
Huang Wenxu didn't listen to it, and decided that Liu Luoluo had climbed a high branch when he left him, and he didn't want to duel with Zhao Feifei. Zhao Feifei found Huang Wenxu without saying a word, and punched Huang Wenxu in the face, making his nose blue and swollen, and he almost knelt on the ground and begged for mercy.
Since then, Huang Wenxu has completely walked out of Liu Luoluo's life.
Liu Luoluo's choice is right, more than ten years later, Huang Wenxu is middle-aged, still earning a salary of one or two thousand yuan a month, still a moonlight clan, neither can bear the responsibility of a man to support his family, nor does he do anything valuable for the society, he has not even paid a penny of taxes for the country, he has done nothing, he has achieved nothing, and he has no sense of existence for anyone.
People who have no sense of existence in society and for others are the saddest people.
After falling in love with Zhao Feifei, Zhao Feifei's down-working spirit and unwilling fighting spirit deeply attracted Liu Luoluo. Men should be like men, they should shoulder social responsibilities on their left shoulder, and family responsibilities on their right shoulder.
With the help of Zhao Feifei, Liu Luoluo quit his original job and entered the Binsheng headquarters as a clerk, and his income soared from more than 400 yuan to more than 106 yuan. The increase in income and the sweetness of love made Liu Luoluo taste the beauty of life, but at the same time, she missed her twin sisters even more.