On the other hand, if all you see when you open your eyes is an indifferent mother or a sad mother, the child's feeling in his heart will become, I may have hurt my mother, or my mother doesn't like me at all, and he just feels insecure. The third source of security is the harmony of the parents. If the relationship between parents has always been conflicting, for example, if the parents of the family quarrel all day long, or even fight, the child will be very scared on the one hand, on the other hand, the parents who devote themselves wholeheartedly to the process of fighting will completely ignore the child's feelings, then such a child will also be very insecure. The attachment relationship between mother and child, stable object and harmony between parents is an important reason for affecting children's sense of security. For example, if someone recalls that he is most afraid of being alone, and being alone makes him feel particularly insecure, then it can basically be judged that there is a problem in the mother-baby relationship. When I am alone, the subconscious scene where I have a need when I was a child but no one responds comes out, and the fear of being threatened for survival also comes out, so this person feels very anxious and insecure. A sense of security is the first feeling we experience after birth and has a very important value for our whole life. Intimacy, and some emotions, are built on a sense of security.

"What happened?"

Wang Jian felt very depressed, and after slowly waking up, he found Jin Mingyu lying in front of him, lying on his side.

No, Xuanyuan Mingyue!

Thinking of this, he suddenly woke up, and then threw himself at the other party.

Xuanyuan Mingyue's reaction was almost simultaneous.

This girl was more affected by the crossing than Wang Jian, but she seemed to be more skilled.

Wang Jian first thought of grasping the hand, but Xuanyuan Mingyue did it as a poke in the eye.

In the end, Wang Jian avoided the scourge of blindness, but his hand was inevitably scratched.

Xuanyuan Mingyue actually has a knife in his hand!

"I see, just now I thought it was very discordant, in fact, it was very simple, the rich family, the children go to school, not to live in the villa, I can bear it, but the dormitory is actually a six-person room, I can't bear it, what a bad place it has to be, you say a double room, I believe it, you pretend to be an earthling, pretend not to be like ah. ”

Xuanyuan Mingyue shouted: "Let go, you traitor, otherwise, you will die without a place to be buried!"

Wang Jian said: "Manly man, if you don't let it go, you won't let it go, but you first tell you honestly, what are you people in the White Emperor Secret Realm talking about." ”

"When did I say that I was the White Emperor's person!"

"Not from the White Emperor Secret Realm?"

Wang Jian rolled his eyes, as if he had caught some logical loophole.

"Hmph, anyway, your idea is definitely not honest, I will return to our Suzaku later, let you taste what is called the ten tortures of the Manchu Dynasty, hum. ”

"Go home, which home are you going back to?"

Xuanyuan Mingyue struggled, although she had great strength, she was not an opponent that Wang Jian had been tempered for a long time.

Wang Jian smiled and said, "Earth, Vermilion Bird University, believe me, as a person from the secret realm, you will be absolutely treated, I believe, this is absolutely heavy." ”

"So, you pervert, let me go immediately, you see, what kind of place is this!"

Wang Jian only realized at this time that it was very dark around.

Of course, this could have been explained by the fact that it was night.

But no.

It's dark all around because there's something wrong with the place they're in.

If it's a dark night, there will be stars and moons anyway, and even at the beginning of the month, there will be some light.

Even on a cloudy day, the radiation of the object will at least let you see something.

But now, it's really pitch black in the distance.

It's dark.

Wang Jian quickly locked Xuanyuan Mingyue, and since he was not handcuffed, he naturally used a rope that was easiest to catch on his body.

His trouser belt.

Xuanyuan Mingyue, who kept resisting, also made Wang Jian understand why she resisted, it seemed that she had just ...... herself

Well, let's observe the surroundings first.

There is no case in the outskirts.

Nothing.

But he finally noticed that something was wrong.

The ground here is a huge rock.

Wang Jian didn't dare to walk around, because he didn't know which direction to go, it was so dark here.

Where to go?

"I have something of light on me, let me go, and I'll take it. ”

"I almost forgot, who knows if you have any moonlight treasure boxes or anything like that, and then kill me and let me search for it. ”

"Stop, you give me ......"

Wang Jiancai didn't care about this.

Sure enough, this Xuanyuan Mingyue didn't know when she got the clothes of a woman from the mission, maybe she secretly captured someone and changed her clothes.

However, women, even if they are from another world, can't just accept other women's underwear.

Sure enough, it is still a strange style, and it is by no means an ancient style that matches the outerwear.

Of course, Director Wang naturally doesn't care about these, but takes these things, regardless of whether he understands them or not, in his hands.

"There is one thing I don't understand, since you play infiltration, I have no doubt about your identity, at least because you are not strong enough and there is no threat, so I trust you very much, if you return to the earth, won't it bring more harm, why. ”

"You still don't understand, your concubine, the artifact that will be opened soon, will take us somewhere, and if we go there, I will almost be directly exposed. ”

Wang Jian blinked, thought for a while, and said, "I see, but what about the two of them?"

"How do I know. ”

"What you do, you dare not confess!"

"Okay, of course your woman has abandoned you and returned to her destination, we have been disturbed here, and here we are, I can tell you, there are thousands of space debris, no one knows where they are, we have been randomly transferred here, and we can't find a home. ”

Wandering outside, no matter where you are, your heart will always be in the direction of home, where there are parents who give you life, brothers and sisters who accompany you all the way, lovers who love each other, and lovely children, home is always the softest and sweetest place in people's hearts. Home is like an old raincoat that you have worn for many years, and only in the storm can you reflect its true value. Home, not necessarily saving, as long as a "love" word.

Although this love word cannot be eaten or drunk, as long as it is embraced, no matter how precious things in the world are, they will become eclipsed.

Because there is a home, there is a deep concern, life will not wither because of no roots, and because there is a home, the whole body is full of warmth and happiness.

Each of us is like a kite that takes off with a line, starting from home, flying ourselves, and constantly pursuing the life we want, if the line is broken, we will plunge down, do not know where to go, and become a rootless duckweed, that thread, one end is connected to the ardent expectations, thoughts and care of the family, and one end is connected to the wanderer in the distance.

Parents are here, don't travel far, there must be a way to travel.

When you travel far away, it accompanies you on the road, it is an umbrella, you read, it sits with you, it is a lamp, you take dreams as horses, wander the world, it gives you strength, gives you direction, and is home after all. The human heart is the most contradictory thing in the world, it is sometimes wild, it wants to fly everywhere, but its most ordinary and deepest need is only a habitat, that is, home.

A home is not a house, not a space built up of materials. It's a place where you can heal your wounds, a place where you can take off your disguise without being careful, and a place where you can cry and laugh heartily. There, there are your dearest parents, your favorite children, and your dear partner who takes the best youth to accompany you through a hard life. They are the most important people in your life. Even if it is as cold as winter outside the door, when you push the door open, it is a spring breeze. Home is the warmest place in the world. So, the most important thing you should bring home is happiness, not trouble. The best thing you can do is to make the people who love you the most happy.

Home is a warm harbor for each of us. At home, we should talk about love, and we should talk about unconditional consideration for each other. When a couple has a conflict, the way to deal with it is not to stay overnight, you must make it clear, and you must distinguish between me and me. Over time, they came and went, and there was a dispute with each other.

The husband often couldn't compete with his wife, so in order to rest early, he had to compromise and end up. This lady has won many battles and is complacent. Later, she found that her husband was getting farther and farther away from her, and even the factory had moved to the suburbs, and sometimes she would not return home under the pretext of being busy. The wife had no choice but to sulk. Later, under the persuasion of her sisters, this lady understood: home is not a place to be reasonable. A hundred years ago, Mr. Wang Fengyi left four sentences to the world, "Husband and wife are unreasonable, and you will be angry with reason, husband and wife should intercede, and intercession hurts each other."

Besides, where is the reason? The reason is in the human heart. When our inner conscience can compare things and things, we can get the happiness of our hearts in the present moment according to their state of mind. When the heart is happy, look outside, everyone is a good person, and everything is a good thing.

Home is a place that can shelter us from the wind and rain, home is a place that can give us warmth and hope, home is a harbor that we can dock at, and home is also our spiritual sustenance. It is home that gives us hope and allows us to enjoy endless joy, home is a post station for the journey of life, life is a ship adrift in the sea, and home is the safest harbor. Home shows us the way forward, and gives us a pair of wings to fly freely. No matter where the dream is, the love of a lifetime is only home, and home is the harbor of our happiness.

Sociologists say that home is the smallest cell of society, and marriage scientists say that home is a world of two people who depend on each other through thick and thin. What exactly is home, many people think that this is a question that is not worth thinking about.

Home is a harbor of feelings, home is the cradle of growth, home is a habitat of the soul, home is the place where you can indulge yourself, and home is a spiritual paradise. Home is all the emotions you have with your family, when you have it, it is as ordinary as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and when you lose it, you can't get it back.

How to deal with the relationship between husband and wife is the most critical issue at home. As the saying goes: "A hundred years of cultivation can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of cultivation can be slept together." "Husband and wife are two hemispheres," one half of the ball cannot roll, and there must be another hemisphere. So how can husband and wife get along with each other so that the family can be harmonious? Husband and wife should get along with each other with understanding, trust, respect, and tolerance. It's like holding a handful of sand, holding it loosely, it doesn't leak at all, and the tighter you hold it, the more it leaks.

Home is a culture, home is a period of time, and home is a feeling. Husband and wife are like two legs, they have to stand firm and walk, and no one can do without each other, why do they always complain about one leg to the other. Some couples say that they have been married for decades without contradictions and differences, and it can be asserted that at least one of them is irresponsible for the family and cares about the other party. Marriage is a comfortable trouble. Family is not a place to be reasonable, and the way of husband and wife is "rare and confused." "If neither of them wants to be confused, the family will never be at peace.

Today's divorce is a "disease of wealth", if you are poor, you want to be safe, and if you are rich, you want to change. A marriage without love is unstable, a marriage with only love is also unstable, and time and distance can warm up and cool love. The worst woman also wants to find an excellent man, and the worst man also wants to find an excellent woman, so marriage is an eternal regret.

Men are philosophies, women are poets. Philosophy without poetry is boring, and poetry without philosophy is superficial. Philosophy is rational and poetic sensibility, if a man wants to understand poetry, he must first understand his own philosophy, and if a woman wants to understand philosophy, she must first understand her own poem, and the depth of philosophy can only resonate with a poem with appropriate charm, so the best is not necessarily suitable for you, and the best is the best for you.

People's knowledge structure and emotional experience construct a conscious "self". The family is the most important source of influence in the process of individual "self" awakening and formation. The meaning of self-cultivation in Confucian culture is also contained here. People get affection from the family, and because of love, they form a new family and produce new affection. Family is always an important source of personal intimacy. The acquisition of individual knowledge and ability first comes from the family. The knowledge structure of an individual is first formed in the family, and the habits and ways of thinking of people are also formed in the family first. Although schools and society will change people's knowledge structure, it is difficult to change people's habits and ways of thinking. Many habits and ways of thinking formed at an early age will follow people for a lifetime.

The family is the basic economic unit of society and the basic unit of social relations, and in an agricultural society, the family is also the basic unit of social production. We will not discuss these too much, but when we expand our horizons, we can find that the family is an important source of influence on the formation of an individual's "self" consciousness, and the family is also a special category of social power relations. Moreover, the family has the potential to become the basic unit of the innovative system of the future.

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