Marriage does not necessarily pay attention to the principle of reciprocity, but the vast majority of marriages with too large background disparities are unlikely to have a happy outcome, although there may be a short-term sweetness in the early stage, but in the end, it is generally destined to end miserably.

A long time ago, there was a saying that poor couples mourned, and even folk slang also had the saying of "poor", when people were poor, they would be angry all day long, so there would be the existence of Pepsi mourning.

On the surface, marriage seems to be a matter between two people, but in reality it is not.

If the family backgrounds of the parties to the marriage are too different, then even if the marriage is achieved, what will happen afterwards will be anxious and troublesome, and there seem to be many such examples.

Chu Jingxuan is a very smart girl, so she will not immediately refute Ye Kai's statement, but falls into deep thought.

What Ye Kai said may not be very popular, but he has absolutely no malicious intent.

He just said very frankly some facts in the family circle, just like Chu Jingxuan's family conditions, it is not easy to find someone who can be worthy of her, and it is inevitable that there will be a one-sided situation between unequal families.

Especially in one of the few big families in the republic like the Chu family, a son-in-law who does not have a certain background is estimated to only be discriminated against and suppressed, which Chu Jingxuan cannot tolerate.

And Chu Jingxuan can't bear her future husband, who has to rely on the Chu family to live a mess.

After such a calculation, Chu Jingxuan was a little sad to find that it was really difficult to pick out the prospective husband who could enter the gate of her Chu family.

Even if he meets someone he likes, he doesn't care about his background, but if the other party doesn't care about his family, then he is likely to be an extremely selfish person, if the other party cares, then he will live under the huge shadow of the Chu family for the rest of his life, no matter what, this will be an emotional drama destined to end in a tragic way.

"Or, what you said has some truth......" Chu Jingxuan sighed and said, she observed Ye Kai carefully, and found that Ye Kai's expression at this time did not show the slightest hint of frivolity and impetuousness, but a rare solemnity and calmness, which made her heart move and lose her mind a little.

Or, he walked downstairs duplicitously today, just because deep in his heart, there was also the kind of subconscious that Xiang Ye Kai said was at work? Chu Jingxuan thought about it, but after all, she still couldn't make it clear, what was her true heart?

"Think about it, I'm very serious." Ye Kai saw that Chu Jingxuan was in deep thought, so he said softly.

For Chu Jingxuan, the eldest lady of the old Chu family, one of the best girls in the capital, after Ye Kai first met, except for a trace of admiration for her beauty and bearing, the rest is pity, if a girl like her unfortunately falls into the trap of family marriage, and is tied up with a person who wants to do it, I am afraid that there will be no happy time in her life.

Relatively speaking, Ye Kai felt that his appearance was Chu Jingxuan's transfer opportunity, at least Ye Kai thought that he was the only good match for Chu Jingxuan.

Of course, if she was a little older than Chu Jingxuan, it is estimated that she would not be so entangled.

In the final analysis, this is just a little psychological obstacle for a young girl, in fact, as long as you accept it, it is not difficult to overcome.

Ye Kai quietly walked out of the house, Chu Jingxuan was contemplating, and he didn't even notice it.

Comrade Chu Feng and Chu Yunsong were on the top floor, and through the floor-to-ceiling glass, they saw Ye Kai walking out, and then drove away.

"What will be the outcome of their talks today?" Comrade Chu Feng asked.

"It's hard to say." Chu Yunsong thought about it and said, "But since Xiao Jing is willing to go downstairs to see Ye Kai, and she is dressed beautifully, I don't think the conversation will collapse, as for Ye Kai's performance, it is unknown." ”

"Ye Kai's performance is estimated to be no worse." Comrade Chu Feng said, "Just look at him turning his hands into clouds and turning his hands into rain, squeezing the old Chen family to the point that there is no way out, you can know how powerful he is." ”

"...... like this" After Chu Yunsong heard this, he hesitated slightly, "It's just that such a person is really a good match for Xiao Jing?" ”

As Chu Jingxuan's father, Chu Yunsong is more concerned about his daughter's lifelong happiness, and everything else is secondary.

From the perspective of political means, Ye Kai's wisdom is naturally impeccable, and he is far above ordinary people, he is a future star who cannot hide his brilliance, but from the perspective of married life, it is difficult for Chu Yunsong to believe that he can do things well, even if his daughter has the identity of Xuanhe like the eldest lady of the old Chu family, she may not be able to suppress him.

If there is really a problem in their married life in the future, Chu Yunsong's heart will obviously not be able to let go.

"If you want to know the result, just go downstairs and ask?" Comrade Chu Feng saw his son sitting there and tangled, so he waved his hand.

"That's just as well." Chu Yunsong nodded, and went downstairs.

"Xiaojing, how were you talking?" When Chu Yunsong went downstairs, he saw his daughter leaning on the sofa, with two big eyes open, thinking about something intently.

"Daddy." Chu Jingxuan replied, but she was still a little lazy.

Obviously, the conversation with Ye Kai just now made Chu Jingxuan's heart feel a little confused, and she needed some time to talk about these issues and think them through.

"That kid didn't say anything overdone, did he?" Chu Yunsong asked with some concern.

"Of course not, people just shattered your daughter's inherent ideas in a few words." Chu Jingxuan rolled her eyelids and replied a little helplessly, "But if you think about it carefully, what he said does make some sense." ”

"Then do you think his external conditions are still acceptable?" Chu Yunsong asked.

"External conditions?" Chu Jingxuan thought for a while and said, "It should be regarded as outstanding, at least among the capital families, there is really no one who can compare to him, but I feel that he is a little sharp now, it may not be a good thing, at least until he reaches a certain height, it is not good for him to be too dazzling." ”

Chu Yunsong nodded in agreement.

Ye Kai is excellent, but at his current age, if he shows an unusual side in front of everyone, causing everyone's brilliance to peel off, and he is the only one left to dazzle, it is estimated that everyone's hearts will not be very comfortable, especially young people of the same class.

From this point of view, Chu Jingxuan's gaze is also very accurate.

"Even if the external conditions are passed, what are the internal conditions, and is there a preliminary feeling?" Chu Yunsong asked again.

"It's so easy to look at a person's nature." Chu Jingxuan shook her head gently, thinking of Ye Kai's performance today, and the way he seemed to look at himself with fear today, he suddenly said, "At least it won't be a hypocrite, no matter how profound it is, I can't see it." ”

When Chu Yunsong heard this, he felt that his daughter's evaluation of Ye Kai was still very high, and no young man of the same level had ever received such a comment from Chu Jingxuan, which at least showed that Ye Kai had indeed entered his daughter's heart, although it was not clear whether it would go to the future, but for the old Chu family and the old Ye family, Chu Jingxuan's little affection for Ye Kai was likely to be an important fulcrum to change the relationship between the two families.

The cooperation between the two families of Ye Chu is already imperative, which cannot be denied.

Since Comrade Chu Feng gave up the old Chen family, the influence of the Chu family in the center has indeed been much weaker, and it is impossible to confront Comrade Fang He and his family head-on, and even the influence of Comrade Jiang Cheng is much weaker.

In today's center, almost all forces are being weakened, and only Comrade Jiang Cheng holds the name of orthodoxy, and his strength will become stronger and stronger, which is also an issue that needs to be carefully considered by Comrade Chu Feng.

In order to unify the voice of the party, centralization is necessary, but this centralization of power needs to be controlled within a certain range, otherwise, absolute power will easily lead to absolute power, which Comrade Chu Feng cannot tolerate.

Therefore, the attitude and support of the old Ye family is very crucial.

The marriage between Ye Kai and Chu Jingxuan is only a matter between two families on the surface, but in fact, if you think about it far-reaching, you can see Comrade Chu Feng's good intentions, through the power of the old Ye family in the family, to change the composition of the central power, and strive to maintain the balance of forces of all parties at a more suitable node.

With such a political purpose, it is certainly impossible for Chu Jingxuan and Ye Kai's marriage to be hindered by others.

But relatively speaking, Chu Yunsong hopes that his daughter can live happily, which is the most important thing.

Therefore, Chu Yunsong quickly told his father his daughter's opinion of Ye Kai.

"Not enough precipitation?" After Comrade Chu Feng heard this, he smiled.

Comrade Chu Feng felt a little relieved about his granddaughter Chu Jingxuan's vision, she saw it very accurately!

Ye Kai's current problem is indeed that the precipitation is not enough, just floating on the top, of course, it is a bit of a momentum to guide the country, but if it is for future development, it may not be a good thing, so the point pointed out by Chu Jingxuan is very important for Ye Kai's future growth.

It's a pity that Chu Jingxuan is a girl, otherwise, the old Chu family will not give up the key training of the third generation, after all, if a girl wants to take a career in office, she is congenitally insufficient, even if she can succeed, the price she has to pay is too great, and there is no happiness at all, so the old Chu family would rather put the future on Chu Jingxuan's future husband.

In fact, this difference is not big, because aside from the bargaining chips at the political level, the economic impact of the old Chu family is not comparable to many people.

"Then let him settle for three years!" After thinking about it, Comrade Chu Feng finally made a decision.

(To be continued)