51_51928 "Who said it wasn't a big deal?" Zhang Chunfang's eyes widened: "Can it be a trivial matter to inherit the lineage?" Also, Is it wrong for me to want to hold my grandson? ”

"That's right, you're right, it's my fault with Guli. (starter)" Ma Xiaoyao said hurriedly.

"I wondered, why don't you want to have children?" Zhang Chunfang asked, "You and Gu Li's salaries are not low, right?" What's more, your father and I still have some savings, which is more than enough to support a child, not to mention that your father and I help you with a child, you just need to be ready-made parents, don't you want a child at all? ”

"No, Gu Li and I also want to have children, it's just ......," Ma Xiaoyao wanted to explain.

Zhang Chunfang waved his hand: "I don't want to listen to your explanation, you can tell me clearly now, when are you going to have a child!" Give me a letter of approval! ”

Ma opened his mouth, then closed it again.

"What? Is it that hard to be honest! Zhang Chunfang was a little angry.

"It's not difficult, it's not difficult at all to be honest." Ma Xiaoyao smiled: "Next year, next year at the latest, Gu Li and I must have children!" ”

"That's what you said, you can't do it then, don't blame me for turning my face!" Zhang Chunfang said viciously.

"Okay, don't worry, since I promised you, I will definitely not go back." Ma Yao patted his chest vigorously.

"That's pretty much it." Zhang Chunfang's anger finally dissipated, and a smile appeared on her face.

Finally got my mom! It's not easy! Ma Xiaoyao breathed a sigh of relief in his heart.

"Children" is a problem that can not be avoided by any family, but giving birth to a child is definitely not a trivial matter, we must be cautious and cautious, and we must not be hot-headed, regardless of the birth and raising of children, today's social pressure is huge, the cost of raising a child is very high, not only need to be taken care of, but also cost a lot of money, in a word, it is not easy to raise a child now.

I once read a diary in which someone said, "In a few years, children will only belong to the luxury of rich families." This sentence seems very extreme and annoying, but if you think about it carefully, there is some truth, it is very difficult for ordinary families to support a child.

Let's make a ratio, Zhang San and Li Si got married at the same time, and gave birth to a child at the same time, Zhang San's family is rich, hire a nanny with Su zhì high for the child, buy the best milk powder for the child, let the child live in the most comfortable house, go out to play and hire bodyguards to ensure the safety of the child, and when the child grows up, Zhang San will also take out a sum of money to let the child open a company, even if it loses, it doesn't matter, Zhang San is fully capable of making his child worry about food and clothing for a lifetime.

Li Si's family is poor, both husband and wife are ordinary workers, the salary is not high, after giving birth to a child, the wife has to ask for leave to take care of the child at home, the husband goes out to work alone to earn money to support the whole family, the pressure is very high, the money is tight, the child can't afford to hire a nanny, can't afford to buy high-quality milk powder for the child, and has no money to buy a house with a good environment, and no money to hire a bodyguard, even if you buy a toy for the child, you have to think about it for several days, and in the end there is no cheapest toy, after the child grows up, Li Si has no ability to help the child, can only rely on the child to fight and struggle, the child has been wronged, sinned, and suffered outside, and Li Si and his wife have no choice but to shed tears.

Li Si's children finally have two fates, first, to fight for their own strength, and finally get rid of poverty, to create a rich life with their own hands, so that their parents can follow them, and second, to be an ordinary person, live an ordinary life, follow Li Si's old path, and finally do nothing for a lifetime.

Because Zhang San has money, he can have unlimited children, and he can raise a few if he is willing to raise a few, but Li Sisheng is super stressed when he raises a child.

That's the gap, that's raising children.

Unconsciously, I remembered the sentence "In a few years, children will only belong to the luxury of rich families." ”

Ma Xiaoyao has lived for more than 30 years, he has seen too many things, he and Gu Li's salary is indeed not low, and the pressure of having children is not great, the key problem is that Gu Li is now in the rising period of her career, once she has a child, she will delay her work, and the delay is also very long, and then Gu Li may lose the glory she has now, it is because she is unwilling, so Gu Li has not had a child for a long time.

Ma Xiaoyao can understand Gu Li better, but as he gets older, Ma Xiaoyao also begins to have opinions about Gu Li, he does not object to Gu Li being a strong woman, but at least the duties of a wife must be fulfilled, right?

Sometimes, Ma Xiaoyao wishes that he would have a child, so that he doesn't have to worry about it, the key is that he is a man, and he does not have the function of having children.

"Alas......" Ma Xiaoyao stood on the balcony, looked at the starry sky in the distance, and sighed softly: "Headache...... What a headache......"

"Why sigh?" Ma Dahai appeared behind at some point.

"Dad...... When did you come? Ma was stunned.

"Not long after I arrived, I heard you sigh." Ma Dahai smiled slightly: "It's because of your mother, right?" What nasty things did she say to you? ”

Ma Xiaoyao shook his head: "Mom didn't say anything unpleasant, she just forced me to have a child." ”

"What? You don't want it? Ma Dahai was not surprised, as if he had expected Zhang Chunfang to do this.

"It's not that I don't want it, it's just ...... The reason for this is a bit complicated...... "Ma Xiaoyao didn't know how to explain it.

Ma Dahai glanced at Ma Xiaoyao deeply: "It's the reason for Guli's side, right?" ”

"I ......" Ma Xiaoyao just wanted to speak, but was interrupted by Ma Dahai.

"Gu Li is indeed capable, our Ma family can marry such a daughter-in-law is really a blessing from the previous life, but ......" Speaking of this, Ma Dahai's tone suddenly changed: "No matter how capable Gu Li is, she is also a woman, as a woman, especially a married woman, you have to fulfill the obligation of being a wife?" You can't make the whole family discord for your own selfishness. ”

"Actually, Gu Li also wants to have children, but she is now on the rise in her career......" Ma Xiaoyao was interrupted by Ma Dahai again before he finished speaking.

"If you have a child, will it affect your career?" Ma Dahai said in a deep voice: "In the final analysis, it's all your own guessing, Gu Li wants a child, can the superior leaders be unsympathetic?" You can still go to work if you are pregnant, as long as you are careful, after giving birth to a child, you can rest for two months, and then the child will be handed over to me and your mother, let Gu Li continue to go to work, and if you calculate it, it will delay Gu Li's time for two months, can't she even squeeze out two months? ”

Ma Xiaoyao crooked his mouth: "Dad, is it inaccurate for you to count like this......"

"What's wrong? I'm more experienced than you! Ma Dahai was speechless when he blocked Ma Yao.

Parents are parents, no matter what they say, as children must listen, if they dare to resist, it is unfilial, no matter who they are, they don't want to bear the reputation of unfilial piety.

"Your mother is not wrong, you are not young, if you don't want children, it will be difficult in the future, hurry up and discuss with Gu Li, find a time to do this, as long as you have a child, your mother and I will never talk to you again." Ma Dahai said.

"My mom wants grandchildren...... What if we give birth to a girl......" Ma Yao held back for a long time, and then held back such a sentence.

"What age is this? It's the same for boys and girls, and your mother and I won't have an opinion. Speaking of this, Ma Dahai added: "You work harder, if you can give birth to a boy, it will be better." ”

Giving birth to a child is completely up to luck, where can you decide? Ma Xiaoyao was speechless in his heart.

"It's late at night, let's go back to sleep." patted Ma Xiaoyao's shoulder, and Ma Dahai turned to leave.

"Alas......" Ma Xiaoyao sighed softly: "In life, there is too much helplessness...... Child...... It seems that the matter of having a child is really going to be put on the agenda......"

……

Ma Xiaoyao really counted, he didn't rush to leave after coming back this time, he lived directly at home, played chess with his father every day, chatted with his mother, occasionally went out for a walk with the family, and then gathered around to have a reunion dinner at night.

Originally, Ma Xiaoyao planned to stay for a few more days, but a phone call disrupted his plans.

"Mr. Ma, I've come to the capital, where are you now?" Wu Ying's voice came from the phone.

"Where's my home...... In this case, you go to Guangming Square and wait for me, and I will go to you immediately. After making an appointment with Wu Ying to meet, Ma Xiaoyao hung up the phone, and then turned around to say goodbye to his parents.

"What? Just two days before leaving? Zhang Chunfang's face suddenly sank.

"Isn't this temporary......" Ma Xiaoyao said with a bitter face: "Mom, I'll come to see you when I'm done." ”

"When you're done, I don't know how long it will take." Zhang Chunfang snorted.

"Alright, stop losing your temper." Ma Dahai persuaded: "Xiaoyao is busy with work, so let's not drag him back...... Xiaoyao, you go and get busy, and come back to see us when you have time. ”

"Good people have made you do it! I've become a bad person! Zhang Chunfang glared at Ma Dahai fiercely.

"I ...... I ...... "Ma Dahai was squeezed and didn't know what to say, this daughter-in-law of her own, she was sharp-tongued, and arguing with her was simply looking for abuse."

Zhang Chunfang stood up and took out a plastic bag from the cabinet: "This is the clothes I bought for you, you can take them." ”

"Mom, I'm ......" Ma Xiaoyao wanted to say something.

"Don't say it, it's wrong for Mom to be angry with you just now, in fact, Mom just can't bear to let you go." Zhang Chunfang shook his head slightly: "You have grown up, and you are no longer the little kid who didn't leave under my knees, you have your own job and your own way to go, and I, the mother, shouldn't hold you back." ”

"Mom, don't say that, it's all children who are not filial, and they can't accompany you often......" Ma Xiaoyao's eyes were a little moist - 47 + dwruuo + 12210712 - >.