731 Happiness is earned on one's own
The time since the holiday of Jasmine Group is very short, even if Yang Hao gathers all the four women to meet, he still feels that the time is too short.
On Sunday night, Yang Hao accompanied Qiu Yunzhen to her grandparents' house for dinner, and the old man Qiu knew that Yang Hao had returned to the capital, and he also roughly knew that it was very dangerous for him to go back, and called Yang Hao to the study to ask a few words.
Just when Yang Hao was chatting with Old Man Qiu, Grandma Qiu was also talking quietly with Qiu Yunzhen.
"Yunzhen, what the hell is going on with you, it's been a few months, and you two haven't been together yet?"
Qiu Yunzhen nodded a little embarrassedly: "These three months, isn't he not here." ”
Grandma Qiu grabbed Qiu Yunzhen's hand very sadly, and asked in a low voice: "What's going on with you now, tell grandma, what are you going to do, you can't just keep putting it off like this, you are going to the capital for the New Year soon, if the people of the Yang family see that you are still a big girl, then I am afraid I don't know what jokes to make, if your grandfather knows about it, I'm afraid your grandfather will be furious." ”
Qiu Yunzhen also felt a little aggrieved in her heart, and said in a low voice: "I am quite active now, and I have slept in a quilt, but he has always ......."
Qiu Yunzhen is still a girl after all, and she is embarrassed to say some things, and when she says this, her face is already red.
Grandma Qiu was slightly stunned: "I slept in a quilt, and he still didn't have sex with you?" Zhenzhen, you whisper to grandma, is there something wrong with Xiao Yang's body? ”
Qiu Yunzhen hurriedly shook her head, there is something wrong, there is nothing wrong with him, every time he sleeps together, he is behind his back, which makes people die of shame, and it is even more obvious in the morning, where does this look like he is sick.
"No, no, grandma, don't think about it, he's in good health, I slept with him, I can feel it."
Grandma Qiu is really strange now: "That's a strange thing, my granddaughter is so beautiful, like a fairy-like beauty, she wants to have a chest and a face, she wants to have a figure, he sleeps next to you, he can bear not to be moved, Zhenzhen, what the hell is going on?" ”
Qiu Yunzhen opened her mouth, but hesitated again, bowed her head and said, "Grandma, don't ask." ”
Grandma Qiu heard Qiu Yunzhen say this, she suddenly became a little angry, and reprimanded in a low voice: "You are our only granddaughter, and your marriage is also set for you by your grandfather, we don't care about you, who cares about you, grandma is a person from the past, and not an outsider, what can't you tell grandma, you said it, maybe I can help you come up with some ideas." ”
Qiu Yunzhen was entangled and hesitant, don't look at her vigorous and resolute at work, she is the female president who everyone in the company admires and fears, but emotionally, she is really a new tender among the new tender, although she feels that she and Yang Hao's affairs should indeed be left to the two of them to solve by themselves, but she also knows that grandma gives herself a little advice, after all, as Grandma Qiu said, she is a person who has come over, and she will definitely know a little more in this regard.
Qiu Yunzhen hesitated for a long time, and finally couldn't help but whisper: "It may have something to do with my previous attitude towards him...... He, he said there were women outside. ”
Grandma Qiu's face changed suddenly, and she became very solemn: "There are women outside, real or fake?" ”
Qiu Yunzhen also said with some worry: "He said it, but he didn't say who it was, I don't know if it was really this thing before he left Zhonghai to go to the capital last time, or if he just wanted me to leave him, so he said that......"
"Leave him?" Grandma Qiu was more and more confused by Qiu Yunzhen: "What the hell is going on, why do I suddenly think that you have a lot of things to hide and haven't told us?" ”
Since it was all said here, Qiu Yunzhen also let go, and explained in a low voice the relationship between herself and Yang Hao before, Grandma Qiu heard the relationship between Qiu Yunzhen and Yang Hao, and she didn't know how to evaluate it for a while, and said angrily and helplessly: "You guys, it's really ......"
Qiu Yunzhen grabbed Grandma Qiu's hand and shook it very girlishly: "Grandma, you give me an idea, what should I do now." ”
Grandma Qiu sighed and asked seriously, "Before I give you an idea, I want to ask you, do you like Yang Hao now?" ”
Qiu Yunzhen nodded without hesitation: "He looks very lazy, as if he doesn't care about anything, and he also has some small habits that I don't like very much, but over time, I also know who he is, in fact, I think that we sleep together now, and he also endures it very hard, but he may be sorry for me, or he doesn't want me to regret it in the future, so he endures it like this." ”
Grandma Qiu pondered for a while, and said softly: "According to what you say, no matter what, he is a man with affection and righteousness, maybe he really has a woman outside now, but he is sincere to you." ”
Qiu Yunzhen sighed: "Yes, but I'm like this, isn't it enough?" ”
Grandma Qiu looked at Qiu Yunzhen kindly: "Do you want to hear grandma's opinion?" ”
Qiu Yunzhen shook her head as a matter of course, and said all this, didn't she just want to hear what her grandmother gave?
"As a woman, everyone wants to find a man who is dedicated to himself and treats himself as a baby all his life, but in fact, it will not be so perfect, there will always be all kinds of problems, grandma and your grandfather were married, and they were introduced by others, and they got married without even seeing each other, if you want to be like the love that you young people talk about now, we didn't even know what the person we married looked like, let alone love, but I was very glad to have met your grandfather in my life, Although we have quarreled and argued, your grandfather has been very good to me all his life......"
"Now the times are different from before, as long as the rich people are always three wives and four concubines, otherwise they can't hold their heads up in front of people, now advocate equality between men and women, everyone has more choices, you can choose to pursue or accept your own life, but no matter what, I always feel that when looking for a man, you must find a man who is affectionate and righteous to you."
"Yang Hao is so patient, he does this, it has always been for your good, that is because he has principles, he has a conscience, he is not like ordinary men, he can't wait to put beautiful women on bed, this is an advantage, although this is also his disadvantage in a way, because if she does have a woman outside, it is likely that she will not let go, and because of your attitude towards life with him, he has a husband and wife with others, even if you change your point of view now, you want to be with him, and you want him to give up cleanly, I'm afraid it's not easy......"
Qiu Yunzhen heard her grandmother say such a lot, but she was a little confused: "Grandma, what do you mean by saying this, should I insist or give up?" ”
Grandma Qiu sighed and said: "I can't give you a specific advice, I can only tell you that happiness is earned by yourself, since you chose that method, you have to pay the price for your own method, you think he is a good person, then you have to fight for it, there are fewer and fewer good men in the world, especially men like Yang Hao who have a family background and have the ability and no bad temper, affection and righteousness, if you miss it, it may be a lifetime, because of your beauty, your money, Maybe you can find a man who is dedicated to you, but after all, which is happier and which is what you want more, you need to weigh ......"
After a slight pause, Grandma Qiu squinted her eyes and smiled: "Besides, my granddaughter is so beautiful and capable, and she is still his wife, can't she even earn an outside woman?" ”
When Qiu Yunzhen heard Grandma Qiu's last sentence, she finally understood what Grandma Qiu meant: "Grandma, do you mean to let me fight?" ”
"Of course you have to fight!" Grandma Qiu knocked Qiu Yunzhen's head with hatred: "Do you think that happiness falls from the sky, happiness is earned by yourself, women and men get along, this is war, but also art, different methods should be used for different men, you have to know what your man thinks, what he wants, and where his bottom line is, which step you can tolerate, and even what can be even if you quarrel, but it will not hurt the bottom line of feelings, this is what you need to ponder, If you find out all of his qiē, happiness will often come naturally. ”
Qiu Yunzhen thought about her grandmother's words, and whispered, "I know." ”
"It's not enough to know, but to do it!" Grandma Qiu taught bitterly: "You are now husband and wife, but you refused to have normal sex at the beginning, Yang Hao is a normal young man, can you not think about it, not to mention people like him, I don't know how many women are staring at it, you don't know how to cherish it, push him out with your own hands, and now you have tasted the consequences, right?" ”
Qiu Yunzhen said aggrievedly: "We didn't see each other at the beginning, so we got married, I must be dissatisfied, and he was lazy and unenterprising when he came out, just like a gentleman who eats and waits for death, how can I be willing?" ”
Grandma Qiu snorted, and didn't criticize Qiu Yunzhen anymore, but just whispered: "If you want me to say, what you need to do most now is to have sex with him and become a real husband and wife. ”
Qiu Yunzhen's face suddenly turned red: "I've taken the initiative enough, who knows that he can still be unmoved like this......"
Grandma Qiu patted Qiu Yunzhen's hand: "Since you have reached this point, why don't you do more, or that sentence, happiness is earned by yourself, and it will not fall from the sky, although I don't spend much time with Yang Hao, but I believe that my eyes haven't been spent yet, I bet that as long as you become a real husband and wife, Yang Hao will definitely become more and more obedient and will definitely be more good to you." ”