"A teenager went to visit a wise old man. The boy asked, how can I become a person who pleases both myself and others? The old man smiled and said, "Child, it is really rare to have this wish at your age, let me give you four words." ”

"Which four sentences?" Ye Da couldn't help but interject.

"First sentence: Think of yourself as someone else." Shi Dechong Ye Da nodded, "The young man thought about it for a while and said, when I am in pain and sorrow, I treat myself as someone else, so that the pain will naturally be alleviated." When I'm happy, I think of myself as someone else, and then the ecstasy will become a little calmer, isn't it? ”

The old man nodded in approval, and then continued, in the second sentence, to treat others as oneself. The boy pondered for a while and said, "Is it right that you can truly sympathize with the misfortunes of others, understand the needs of others, and give them appropriate help?" The old man smiled and nodded at the young man before continuing, the third sentence, treating others as others. ”

The young man thought silently, thought for a long time, and finally figured it out, and then looked up at the old man, does this sentence mean that the independence of everyone should be fully respected, and the core territory of others should not be violated under any circumstances. The old man smiled with satisfaction, very good, that's it! The fourth sentence is, think of yourself as yourself. ”

Seeing that the young man seemed to understand, the old man said gently and patiently, this sentence may be too difficult to understand, keep it for you to taste it slowly in the future! The boy pondered for a long time, figured it out, and said, I think, it at least means that we must take responsibility for ourselves. The old man smiled, noncommittal. The young man asked again, "How can these four sentences be unified?" The old man said that it is very simple, with a lifetime of time and experience. ”

"To treat yourself as someone else is to be open-minded, to treat others as yourself is to be tolerant, to treat others as others is wise, and to think of yourself as yourself is to be enlightened. Perhaps the root of a person's greatest trouble, or trouble, is that sometimes they take themselves too seriously, and sometimes they don't take themselves too seriously. Shi De finished telling the story and looked up at Ye Dacheng, "I don't know my story, can I satisfy Ye Dong?" ”

"Haha." Ye Da laughed, "You mean, you are the young man in the story, and I am the wise old man in the story?" ”

"It can be understood that way." Shi De also smiled humbly.

"Tell me, what help you want from me." Although Ye Da Da doesn't trust Shi De 100% now, at least he is willing to cooperate with Shi De, "Mu Jinnian is much shallow compared to you, he only knows that he will put forward conditions when he comes up, and he doesn't forget to step on you a few times." I don't like to step on other people's positions the most in my life, I have the ability to climb up by myself and step on other people's shoulders, what kind of hero is it? Xiao Shi, you have been here with me for a long time, and you haven't even said a bad word about Mu Jinnian, just rush to this, I recognize you as a person. ”

"I came to see Ye Dong because I wanted to chat with Ye Dong, talk about life, and tell stories." Shi De smiled.

"And the story? Well, you speak, I listen. Ye Da got up and walked towards the vegetable patch in the courtyard, "Let's go, talk while working, and don't make mistakes." ”

Ye Da picked up a hoe and began to hoe the ground, and Shi De also picked up a shovel to help.

"Nowadays, many young people don't understand a truth, as soon as they go to work, they want to make a lot of money, and they always feel that the salary given by the boss is too low, but they don't understand a truth - no boss will give you glory and wealth in vain, and glory and wealth are only in their own hands. Once upon a time, there was a fruit stall, and the owner couldn't stand all the time to greet customers because he was old, so he posted a sign to recruit clerks. A few days later, a young man came and asked the boss how much money he would use a month to ask him to help, and the boss smiled and said, "Where can we pay the monthly salary for our small stall business, of course, it depends on your efforts, how many fruits can be sold in a day, and the money received will be given to you one-tenth of it, and it will be paid in cash every day." ”

When the young man heard this, he looked up and down at the dilapidated stall in front of him, and said with a stinky face, no, this is too insecure, and he turned around and left. A few days later, another young man came, asked the boss how to calculate the salary, the boss said the daily salary again, the young man listened to it and thought about it, and asked, it doesn't matter if you receive it every day, the important thing is how much does this fruit stall earn a month? The boss said that the fruit is divided into seasons, and the business is also divided into low and peak seasons, and if it is good, it can be 50,000 yuan, and if it is bad, it may only be 10,000 yuan. The young man scolded when he heard this, saying that he would not get glory and wealth in this kind of business for a lifetime, and only fools would come to sell fruits. Again, he finished and left. ”

What does it mean? Ye Da listened with relish, and while hoeing the ground hard, he smiled and listened to Shi De's talk. He had the patience to wait for Shi De to reveal his true intentions at the end of the story.

A few days later, another little boy came and asked the boss how to calculate his salary, and the boss also said that he received a daily wage. The little boy smiled and said to the boss that it was not possible to increase the percentage of the daily salary on holidays and weekends, and receive two-tenths of the day's income, and if the day's income exceeded 10,000 yuan, he would receive three-tenths. The boss laughed and touched the little boy's head and said, you are so smart, and you know that business is better on holidays and weekends, so do what you say! However, even if it is a festival or a weekend, it is not easy to have an operating income of more than 10,000 yuan! ”

The little boy didn't care what the boss said, after he took over, he began to work, washing the fruit with water every morning, and then constantly changing the position of the fruit every day, on holidays or weekends, he put up a few posters, saying that if you spend more than 1,000 yuan, you will get 100 yuan of fruit, and let customers choose. Unexpectedly, in the first month, the little boy received a salary of more than 30,000 yuan, which is equal to an average daily salary of more than 1,000 yuan. Although the owner of the fruit stall paid a lot of salary to the little boy, he was also happy to sit in the rocking chair every day and watch the little boy run in and out, earning him more money than before. ”

A few years later, the boy had made enough money to buy the owner's fruit stand. After his ingenuity, he devised more promotions, and the business was better than before, and of course the profits were higher, so he opened a second store. A third store was opened a few months later, and by the time the boy was an adult, he was already a billionaire, and he had prosperity and wealth before the age of thirty. Shi De wiped the sweat from his head, "According to the survey, more than 70 percent of the world's office workers are dissatisfied with the salary given by the boss, even if they know that the boss's business is declining and their income is decreasing, these people still advocate that the boss should pay more salary." Obviously, these 70 percent were the first young people to apply for the fruit store. All they want is a guarantee, whether they are working hard or not, or whether they can really help their boss at work, they just want the boss to give them a stable and undiscounted dead salary. ”

Seeing that the meaning that Shi De wanted to express gradually became clear, Ye Dacheng also straightened his waist and wiped the sweat on his head.

At the same time, there is reason to believe that among the 70 percent of office workers, there are also many young men who come to the fruit store to find a job, and this kind of office workers think that the boss of the world is born with a bunch of glory and wealth in his pocket, lives in a mansion, drives a good car and eats food, and if the boss does not give you a little benefit, he is a stingy or narrow-minded miser. Therefore, as long as you work for a period of time, you find that the boss is not very generous, or you feel that the industry you are engaged in has no development prospects, so you immediately change jobs, and the result is that you keep changing jobs, and then, you keep cursing the stinginess and noness of the old boss in front of the new boss, until you are old, you still can't find glory and wealth. ”

It's a little interesting, Ye Da smiled slightly.

"There is no boss in the world, will send you glory and wealth, the boss can give you only opportunities, you only have the opportunity to grasp the opportunity, create wealth for the boss to increase income, earn more profits for the company, you can in turn borrow the resources of the company and the boss, let yourself also rise. Whether you are selling fruit or computers, or doing hot or unpopular industries, as long as you can figure this out, you can take over more glory and wealth from your boss like a little boy. Shi De stretched out his hands and spread them in front of Ye Da, "Ye Dong, I am the little boy who sells fruits." ”

"Hahahaha......" Ye Da was amused by Shide's appearance, "Are you still a little girl who sells matches?" But don't say it, Shi De, this story of yours seems simple, but it is actually very connotative, I understand what you mean, you mean, if I give you resources and channels, you will bring me wealth at the same time, and you will also benefit yourself. ”

"I must benefit the boss before I can benefit, which is the most critical premise." Shi De put down the shovel and looked at Ye Dacheng, "Ye Dong, I don't know if you like my story?" ”

"My child is about the same age as you, just call me Uncle Ye." Ye Dacheng also put down the hoe and walked towards the table and chair, "The story is good, and the truth is there, so I only have one last question." ”

"Uncle Ye, please speak." Shi De was secretly happy in his heart, Ye Da's recognition of him had reached 80 percent.

"Do you really believe in cause and effect and reincarnation?"

"Faith!" Shi De said categorically, "The Buddha said that even after a hundred eons, the work will not perish. When karma meets, the retribution will be repaid. This is the Buddhist view of cause and effect. But is the concept of cause and effect all from Buddhism? No, the Book of Changes says that the house of goodness must have afterglow. If you don't accumulate goodness, there will be aftermath. The old people say that good is rewarded with good, and evil is rewarded with evil, not that they do not repay it, but the time has not yet come...... All of the above are the inherent concepts of cause and effect of the Chinese nation. ”