Xia Bicheng was robbed by Xia Chuchu, and after thinking about it, he felt that what she said was also very reasonable: if only in terms of character, appearance and talent, Ye Ming is indeed a pretty good young man.

However, although Ye Ming is good, Xia Bicheng still feels that he is too far away from his daughter: if Ye Ming has a complete family, his parents have a half-official position, or he works in a provincial capital and has a certain material foundation, it is reasonable.

But now, he is still working in that small Xinleng county, and his position is still a deputy unit level, and if he wants to be transferred to the provincial capital, he has to start again. Moreover, he doesn't have any material foundation now, and his daughter has to post a lot when she marries him, and he, the director of the provincial bureau, still has to say hello and find a way for his job transfer and promotion, isn't it asking for trouble?

On the contrary, if Chu Chu finds Wang Xu as his boyfriend, not only will his family be superior, but his father can also play a great role in his career promotion, which is a great thing to kill multiple birds with one stone......

Thinking of this, Xia Bicheng, who had always had a good impression of Ye Ming, suddenly felt disgusted with him at this time: this young man looked hearty and sunny and upright, but he didn't expect his scheming to be so deep, and he actually came to pursue his daughter quietly. And I don't know what means he used, he actually moved his baby daughter, who was above the top in finding a partner, and it made people angry when he thought about it......

He estimated: Ye Ming must have used a lot of brains and thought in order to pursue Chu Chu. His purpose is also very clear, that is, he wants to become a veritable "master of the horse" in the Tianjiang Provincial Land Taxation System by falling in love and marrying Chu Chu, so as to lay the foundation, set up a ladder, and pave the way for him to climb up in the system in the future......

After analyzing Ye Ming's motives, he decided to remind his daughter, so he said to Xia Chuchu earnestly: "Chu Chu, you have also worked for so many years, and it stands to reason that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, and your ability to recognize and perceive people should also grow. I estimate: Xiao Ye must have spent a lot of thought in order to pursue you, and also used a lot of means that are enough to make you have a good impression of him. I don't know if he is clever or not, but now that you like him, it proves that his methods are indeed effective.

However, have you analyzed it: why does Ye Ming want to pursue you? What is his purpose in pursuing you? Is it because I am the head of the provincial bureau that he pursues you so hard? If that's the case, then is he sincere to you? Will it be as good to you as ever in the future? With such a big gap between the two of you, will you be happy in the future? I hope you will consider these questions carefully, and not be fooled by his temporary courtesy and enthusiasm, nor carried away by an illusory love.

I have always believed that there is no pure love in this world that can be completely separated from the material foundation. The kind of story that can abandon all external conditions, abandon the huge family and status differences between the two parties, abandon the basic material conditions, and desperately find the so-called true love can only exist in movies, television or novels, and is unlikely to appear in real life. The so-called pure love is, in my opinion, an unrealistic fantasy, an ethereal castle in the air.

Therefore, Chu Chu, I advise you: In this matter of interacting with Ye Ming, you must think clearly, don't be confused by his momentary rhetoric or vows, and don't only pay attention to appearance, and ignore the huge gap between the two sides in terms of family, social status, economic conditions, etc. Sometimes this gap cannot be bridged, overcome, or eliminated. Do you understand what I'm saying? ”

Xia Chuchu listened to his father's long lecture and preached, the central meaning was that Ye Ming pursued him with ulterior motives, and he took a fancy to him, his father-in-law, who was the director of the provincial bureau, and couldn't help but be angry and anxious: she had just tried her best to coax and scare, and finally dragged Ye Ming to her home, thinking about how to treat him better so that he could leave Chen Mengqi and be with her. If his father waited to talk to Ye Ming, he showed a little bit of contempt for him, with his bullish temper and self-esteem and arrogant character, it would be strange if he didn't brush his sleeves away! Maybe it will be difficult for me to meet him in the future......

Thinking of this, she was so anxious that she stomped her feet and said, "Dad, don't you spend the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain, okay?" People are not the kind of people you think! Let me remind you again: he has a very proud personality and a big temper. If you talk to him about these things and provoke his bull temper, he won't care if you are the director of the provincial bureau or not, and maybe he will hit you against the south wall on the spot and make you unable to get off the stage! Don't blame me for not reminding you! ”

Xia Bicheng saw his daughter protect Ye Ming like this, and he was screaming and angry in his heart, but he was helpless, so he had to sigh and compromise: "Okay, I won't say anything to offend him today." However, both he and Xiao Wang have a chance now and should play fair. So, you can't say anything nasty to Xiao Wang later, you have to take care of both sides, do you hear? If you offend Xiao Wang, I won't agree. ”

At this moment, Xia Chuchu's mother pushed the door in, said that it was time to eat, and asked their father and daughter to go out to prepare for dinner.

Ye Ming originally planned to give the bag of candy to Xia Chuchu and leave, but he didn't expect to be "kidnapped" by her and brought to her house. Moreover, as soon as he entered the door, he noticed that Director Xia didn't seem to welcome him. And the reason for this is naturally very obvious: Director Xia thinks that he is not worthy of his daughter. Talking about love with Chu Chu by himself is purely a toad who wants to eat swan meat!

Especially after seeing Director Xia calling Chu Chu into the study with a blushing face, this kind of meaning of looking down on himself became even more obvious......

Ye Ming is a very face-loving and strong person, belonging to a typical "spring character": you follow him, don't move him, he is safe and steady, not moving; However, if you press him and press him, he will rebound strongly, and the tighter and more you press, the more he will rebound......

For example, today, he didn't intend to treat Xia Chuchu as a girlfriend, but he was a little curious, wanting to see what the boyfriend introduced to her by others was like.

But now, when I thought that Director Xia looked down on him like this, and had to call Xia Chuchu into the study alone to interrogate and do ideological work, I couldn't help but feel arrogant: Don't you look down on me? Don't you think I'm not worthy of your daughter? I'm going to show you the intimacy with her today, and let you know that it's not that I'm here to slap you as the director, but that your daughter wants to be with me and want to have love with me......