Chapter 342: The Day Before the Wedding
Osmanthus also lowered her head, her face flushed with shame, this thing really shouldn't be heard by them, maybe when they become a family in the future, they will have children, but now this matter really can't be talked about. She really didn't have the face to say this.
"Okay, let's not talk about that. Hong'er, are you ready? Panic? Qiao Zhen hurriedly diverted the topic, afraid that if this continued, the girl would have no place to stand.
Qiao Hong was shy, and when she heard the eldest sister ask, she glanced up at the eldest sister and lowered her head again, but she nodded. Signaling that she was indeed flustered.
"Hong'er, the eldest sister told you, it's normal to be flustered, I don't believe you ask Sister Yun, she and your brother Baosheng are familiar, but when she got married, she was still flustered." Qiaozhen took Sun Yun as an example.
Qiao Hong glanced up at Sun Yun, Sun Yun nodded at her, and admitted Qiao Zhen's words.
Qiao Zhen said again: "I was familiar with your brother-in-law before we got married, we had a good relationship, I was generous, and I believed in your brother-in-law, but before I got married, I was just as panicked and afraid." In fact, this panic is half a yearning for the future life, and half is an uneasiness about the unknown life. is normal, you don't have to be afraid. ”
Qiao Hong listened to the words of the eldest sister, slowly raised her head, restrained the panic in her heart, and asked: "Eldest sister, this is the case, I do think so, I want to hold back, but I can't help it." It felt like my heart was about to jump out, and I didn't even know what to do. ”
Qiao Zhen nodded at her, and also nodded at Osmanthus, because although Osmanthus didn't speak, she was listening carefully, and she herself would have to take this step sooner or later, and she would understand more. I can think less about it in the future.
"A woman's life before and after marriage is different, although she is with her family before she gets married, she is alone a lot of the time. As long as you take care of yourself, you will be in the middle.
But if you become a parent, you are two people, you have to face a family, and the woman has the husband's surname, which is a person from someone else, in a strange environment, and she has to get along with a stranger. But this stranger is a family, and they have to be under the same roof every day. It will definitely be scared, it will be uneasy.
Life needs to be run-in, because of the in-laws, because not familiar. So my heart will tremble. In fact, people's hearts are the same, as long as they are regarded as filial piety to their parents, it is good to do it.
For your husband, exchange your heart for your heart, respect your husband, love your husband, and think more about him in everything, of course, not to ask you to blindly seek satisfaction. The two are mutual, as long as you hold heart for heart. As long as you treat people well, I'm sure they won't treat you badly.
Of course, there must be a process for everything, and you can be the best after the run-in, so you don't have to worry. Just go and live your life with peace of mind. ”
Qiao Zhen persuaded Qiao Hong and taught her some simple but trial truths.
"Yes, Hong'er, what the eldest sister said is, you see that when my sister first married your eldest brother Baosheng, he didn't like my sister a lot, although my mother-in-law was good to me, but she also had some scruples in her heart, afraid that I would really be good at people.
But you see how good it is now, my uncle has no opinion of me, and my mother-in-law is even more satisfied with me as a daughter-in-law, who is good to me when she is old, and our life is smooth. To be able to do this today, in fact, it is not one party to pay, it is two-sided, and the first thing to do is us.
As long as you treat your mother-in-law's family as your mother's family from your heart, you will be the same. It will definitely be in exchange for the other party's kindness to you. You see how good the relationship between my aunt and our grandmother is, like a mother and daughter, everything is mutual, you just have to rest assured that you are a good one, and my sister believes that your life will definitely be good. ”
Sun Yun also taught Qiao Hong.
Qiaohong nodded, she didn't understand this, she saw what her mother did since she was a child, and she understood what her sister-in-law did, but she had to adapt to it, so she panicked, what the eldest sister said was right, as long as she did it, she believed that she would definitely live a good life.
Looking at Qiao Hong's more and more determined eyes, Qiao Zhen nodded, she knew that her sister had this heart and would definitely live a good life.
After a few more words, Qiao'e came in with her son, and when the little one finished shouting, he went to lie on the side of the bed and watch his little girl.
Although he is not big, he is very sensible, he is not noisy, he does not move, he just quietly looks at the sleeping Rourou.
The first Qiao'e was afraid that he would be noisy and wanted to pull him away, but Qiaozhen stopped him, she told Qiao'e's son to let him take a good look at his sister, and if his sister opened her eyes, let him call them.
The child nodded obediently, and then looked at the little man on the bed, who was very attractive to him.
Qiao'e's belly was no longer small, and Qiaozhen hurriedly found the most comfortable sitting position for her and let her sit well.
Looking at Qiao'e, Qiaozhen sighed in his heart, this person's appearance will really change with his mood and days.
When she first met Qiao'e, Qiao'e was not ugly, nor could she be said to be handsome, but Qiaozhen didn't like her, because Qiao'e's appearance was so harsh. Xu is related to hating her and ruining her appearance.
Now Qiao'e, her face is full of happiness, she has a satisfied smile on her face at all times, and her eyes are also gentle, which adds a suppleness to her and makes people feel comfortable to watch. I am willing to look at her, and the more I look at her, the more I love it, and I will naturally feel pleasing to the eye.
A few people gossiped for a while, and there was chaos outside, and there were more people coming, and those who wanted this and that, Zhou and his two daughters-in-law couldn't be busy at all.
Qiaozhen, Qiao'e, Sun Yun, and Osmanthus all went to help, Qiaohong was in the house, she couldn't go out, she was responsible for watching the children.
After a busy lunch, Qiao Zhen was able to breathe a sigh of relief, there were many people, his brain was buzzing, and he was really making a fuss.
The second half of the day was much cleaner, because many people were led to the town by the Wang family, and they had to go to the man's side to settle down.
But there are still a lot of people on the Wang family's side, and they have to eat farewell wine at night, and the people who help in the Zhuangzi and the family are also making noise. It still looks noisy.
Qiao Zhen couldn't stop shaking her daughter, Rourou didn't know if she was scared or what, she kept crying, and she couldn't coax her. She couldn't find a quiet room to put her to sleep, there were people in that room.
In the end, there was really no way, Qiaozhen said to Zhou, hugged the child and went to her yard with Qiao'e and Sun Yun.
When she arrived at the new yard, Rourou didn't stop crying, she was still crying, Qiaozhen let the two of them feel free, she hugged Rourou on the bed to feed the child.
It took a long time to coax Rourou to sleep, looking at the girl who was still a little convulsed, Qiaozhen let out a sigh, the child was too young, take her to a strange environment, she was not used to it, and it was really difficult to coax people.
Qiaozhen saw that Qiao'e's son also tilted his head and fell asleep, so he put him away with Sun Yun, and let him sleep on the bed, and the three sisters gossiped in the house.
In the evening, a half-grown boy came over and shouted loudly in the courtyard for a few people to come over for dinner.
Qiao Zhen woke up in shock, just now she was unconsciously squinting when she spoke, seeing her like this, Sun Yun and Qiao'e didn't bother her, lowered their voices, and whispered.
Qiao Zhen shook his head, sobered up, and then went to look at the child, Xiao Rourou on the bed had opened her eyes, and she didn't know what she was looking at, and there was still a smile on her lips.
Qiao'e's son was reaching out to Rourou and retracting it after a while, playing a game of withdrawing his hand with her.
Qiaozhen fed the milk again, urinated on the child, changed the diaper, and then picked up the child, and several people went to Wang's house together.
Dinner was ready, eight cold dishes per table, four hot dishes, and drinks.
The people sat down and ate and drank.
The man crossed his fist and guessed the matchmaker, loudly persuaded him to drink, laughed, and drank so lively.
The women's side is mainly chattering, and the elders are talking at the table, and the atmosphere is quite peaceful.
The atmosphere at their table is somewhat sluggish, because there is one less girl in the family, although Zhou is smiling, he can speak with a little sadness, which makes people unable to laugh.
Mothers are like this, Qiaozhen looked at the child lying on the bed, if her daughter gets married one day, what will happen to her? It must be as uncomfortable as cutting the heart and liver.
In order to change the topic, Sun Yun took the lead in asking about Osmanthus's family.
Osmanthus was asked with a big red face, lowered her head, and didn't dare to eat the vegetables with chopsticks, and the steamed bun in her hand was broken into a star and sent to her mouth.
Qiao Zhen looked at her like this, and knew that Osmanthus was really moved, because when she talked about her before, her face was full of sadness, her eyes were dull, and she said that she would not marry, but this time she was completely shy.
Since she has moved her heart, she can't help but plan for her, and tomorrow she will send someone to the Zhuangzi to inquire about the future life, if she hasn't said goodbye, if she is still waiting for her, then it is the best, osmanthus can be regarded as having a home.
"Hua'er, I'll go to inquire about you after tomorrow, let's not worry." Zhou cheered up and talked to Osmanthus.
"Auntie, I'm not in a hurry, I'm in a hurry......" Osmanthus snorted in a low voice. She's really not in a hurry, as if the big guy is in a hurry for her, she just thinks about it.
"Look at this girl, I'm embarrassed. What's this? Zhou laughed, and his reluctance was diluted a lot.
"Mother, I'll send someone to inquire tomorrow, and when I have a letter, when Qiaohong returns to the door in three days, I'll come back and tell you, and we'll discuss it again." You don't have to make another trip. Qiao Zhen said her plan.
"Medium, this is also true. It's easier for you to inquire than to find someone to inquire. The mother will leave this matter to you, and the mother will wait for the letter. You've got to do it. You can't deal with it. Zhou explained to his daughter.
"Eldest sister......" Osmanthus screamed, but she didn't know what to say next.
"It's okay, Sister Guihua, you can rest assured if you leave this matter to my eldest sister, my sister will definitely be able to inquire and understand for you, and make sure you are satisfied." Qiaohong patted her on the back.
Osmanthus glanced up at her, stretched out her arm and gently pushed Qiao Hong.
Qiao Hong smiled, and the rest of the people also laughed, and the scene suddenly became a lot more vivid, and the sorrow was diluted. (To be continued......)
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