At the very least, is this what Xiao Shizi wants?

Mama Sun was a little confused for a moment, what if Xiao Shizi didn't want it?

Mama Sun also felt that she knew Xiao Shizi very well, but now it is difficult to say, just take this matter as an example, she doesn't understand it at all.

And the girls sighed helplessly after listening to Grandma Sun's words.

Yes, Xiao Shizi himself does look very soft, but when it comes to doing things, it is really not very soft, and he can make people move at will.

Don't look at Xiao Shizi's young age, it seems that he has no opinion, but he doesn't look at who King Cang and Princess Cang are, they are small, and when they think that Xiao Shizi feels ignorant, they begin to cultivate.

At that time, in fact, they couldn't quite understand that in this era, children were enlightened early, and they couldn't play for a few years.

But now it seems that there is no need for it, it is really used.

They didn't know how to say it, so they had a faint feeling that Xiao Shizi was deliberately cultivated by King Cang and Princess Cang.

What they think is not wrong, children have been cultivated since they were young, and this can be done well in detail. Let him have a certain self-understanding from an early age, and when he makes a mistake, he must understand how and why he is wrong, and he cannot be wrong in the future.

Of course, it's a process, and it's a must.

And Bingyan actually knows the cultivation of Tuan Tuan.

She was in business in her previous life, and she grew up from poverty since she was a child, she actually understands the hardships in the meantime, but you can't let your children live happily because of the hardships you have lived, so you really don't let your children suffer a little.

I don't want to prevent him from suffering, which is basically the psychology of parents who really love their children.

But you have to really hold your hands and protect the pain, really don't let the child suffer a little, they will definitely be really bitter in the future, without a little training, the child will not be able to grow. Who can guarantee that you can protect your child for the rest of your life?

And if you don't know the suffering of the world, do you really think you can educate children well, the more pampered you are, the less filial you are, and you dare not say that it is comprehensive, at least most of them are like this.

And in this era, these subordinates have been with their masters for too long.

Like in modern times, there are often people who still work with you during the day, and you go home at night with your family. But in this era, the subordinates follow you day and night, and there are people who keep vigil for you at night, which basically these subordinates can be said to be with you every day.

Then these people have a deep relationship with their masters, and often some of them will be pampered and coquettish.

Don't think that these are only found in some concubines, and these people also have this problem. Some rely on the favor of their masters, and even pretend to be powerful and do some things that are not on the table.

And these subordinates often only know how to coax the master vigorously, and the top doesn't even know what to say below.

Therefore, the subordinates of this era are also a very peculiar type of people, these people can often influence the thoughts of their masters, and they speak quite strongly.

Otherwise, why are some of those palace people in the palace obviously going to the general rule, obviously not being able to be real men, they are despised eunuchs, and they still let the important ministers of the court give in to one or two, isn't the problem here.

Regardless of whether some people are really polite, or they just don't want to cause trouble on the surface, so they are polite, at least like the father-in-law next to Emperor Tianxuan, and there are really few who dare to blow their beards and stare at him.

Do you know what this Cheng Gonggong said to Emperor Tianxuan, and what you might face in the end?

No one dares to try, so you have to be honest.

So it is precisely because of this that if the master is a soft-eared person who has no opinions, then often the master in the end will become a protective umbrella to protect the minions below.

So if the master is incompetent, he is often caused trouble by the slave in the end, and he finally knows that he has caused trouble, of course, often such a master is not a good thing in itself.

It's not impossible for the master to pamper the minions, but this requires a degree, and this royal method is a knowledge. can make his subordinates loyal and respectful, and he can really manage his subordinates for his own use.

It's not that you're completely harsh on your subordinates, but that the master must be able to distinguish between good and bad things that your subordinates say, and that you yourself have to understand the various stakes behind it.

But this premise is that the master must be able to distinguish between right and wrong, and he must have his own opinions, not a grass who can sway his thoughts with a word.

This is actually quite necessary, and the clouds and ice smoke are imperceptibly educating Tuan Tuan in this way.

Although Tuan Tuan is well-behaved, in this regard, these people who have been with him all the year round are really difficult to explain to him.

Mama Sun led a group of subordinates to think about the sky here, but in the end, she didn't come up with any effective way at all, but she was very depressed, and they all sighed, and they didn't seem to have much spirit.

At this time, it was not too early, and it was not time to continue to nest like this, and they all dispersed to rest.

Grandma Sun was just about to blow out the candle when a hesitant voice sounded outside: "Grandma Sun, I wonder if you can sleep?" ”

It was a male voice, and Mama Sun suddenly frowned: "Who is it!" ”

"Grandma Sun, I'm Qiangjing."

Mama Sun was stunned for a moment, opened the tent, and sure enough, she saw Qiang Jing standing with the moonlight on his back, and just finished talking to people about this Qiang Jing, and said in a very unhappy mood: "Strong man, it's so late, I don't know what to do with finding a slave?" ”

Qiang Jing also knew that it was so late, and he came to find someone a little abruptly, but he had no choice but to be abrupt.

Qiang Jing had no choice but to apologize to Grandma Sun first, and then explained the intention of coming over at this time: "Grandma Sun, this official came to protect the safety of everyone in the station on the order of the emperor. But now the official seems to be ...... Although the official was only ordered to protect, because there were also envoys from the Tiannan Kingdom and the King of Qi here, the official could not be rude. Mama Sun should also know that the people in the recent station seem to be very repulsive to the official, and even a little disgusted with the official, which really makes the official puzzled, but things can't continue to develop like this, which is really not conducive to the peace of the station, so the official imagines that Mama Sun asks for a solution. I also hope that Mama Sun, you can also give advice and tell the official some of the inside stories or knowledge. At this time, the official really has no other way. ”