Chapter 815: Thousands of Sycophants Don't Wear
In the living room of this dormitory, there is a wooden sofa, a tea sè glass coffee table, and several red lacquered high-backed chairs, which are probably equipped by the party school, in order to provide a place for these leading cadres at the department level to meet guests, because there are many people like Zhang Lingzhi, who are incumbent local party and government leaders, come to visit him or ask for instructions to report on their work during their study at the party school, and the school arranges a place like such a reception room for them to provide them with convenience.
Ye Ming sat down on a chair next to the sofa, Zhang Lingzhi also leaned back on the sofa, staring at the TV screen in front of him, and asked casually: "Is there anything wrong with Xiao Ye, just say something, you have just entered the class to study, if you have any life or learning difficulties, you can ask me to reflect, and I will definitely find a way to solve it for you." ”
It turned out that Zhang Lingzhi guessed that Ye Ming had come to find himself to set up a relationship, and he also knew that the eight new arrivals would be collectively evaluated and scored by the teachers and class committee members in the future, so he deliberately ignored him, and even uncharacteristically didn't even pour Ye Ming a glass of water.
Ye Ming and Yan Changgeng quarreled last night, he actually knew about it this morning, he has never had a good impression of Yan Changgeng, he feels that this person has a very heavy habit of rivers and lakes, a little ruffian and angry, and speaks without scruples, acts in his own way, it is estimated that this person will fall on his xìng grid sooner or later, therefore, he has always been respectful and distant from this person.
But for Ye Ming, he also has no good impression, in his opinion, a twenty-six or seventeen-year-old young man, just on the first day of the party school, dared to kick the door of the dormitory, dared to fight with a leader several levels higher than himself, no matter how much he is reasonable, such a young man is a big thorn in the head, and as a local leader, Zhang Lingzhi likes those subordinates who are docile and obedient and unconditionally obedient to their superiors, and cadres like Ye Ming who are unruly and dare to offend the dignity of the leadership at every turn, He is disgusted and repelled from the bottom of his bones.
It was precisely for this reason that when he heard about the quarrel between Ye Ming and Yan Changgeng last night, he drew a big cross for Ye Ming in his heart, excluding him from the list of friends he could make......
Ye Ming also saw that Zhang Lingzhi was deliberately indifferent to himself, and when he asked him if he had anything wrong, he replied with a smile: "County Magistrate Zhang, I just saw in the cafeteria that you didn't go home for the weekend, and I happened to have nowhere to go, so I came to visit you in the evening, I heard Director Cha Jiliang say that County Magistrate Zhang is well-read and rich, and talking to you is both a pleasure and a harvest, so I don't take the liberty to visit, I hope I didn't disturb County Magistrate Zhang." ”
It turned out that before Ye Ming came to visit Zhang Lingzhi, he had already imagined: if Zhang Lingzhi did not welcome him and was unwilling to talk deeply with him, how he should talk and how he should break the deadlock.
He heard Zha Jiliang say: Zhang Lingzhi usually likes to read very much, especially likes to read books such as classical classics and historical records, and he has always been conceited about his level of knowledge, although he usually does not show it, but whenever he talks to people about some historical figures and historical allusions, he is extremely active and excited, and sometimes he can even talk to others for a long time, and will throw out a lot of views and opinions that he has summed up by himself, trying to persuade others to accept them.
Therefore, Ye Ming decided to start with the topic that Zhang Lingzhi likes to read, hoping to arouse his interest.
As the saying goes, "A thousand wear it, but you don't wear it." Although Zhang Lingzhi was a little uninterested in Ye Ming, and he didn't want to have an in-depth conversation with him, listening to the short paragraph he had just said to himself, this young man seemed to have some goods in his stomach, and those idioms were used just right, especially the sentence "Talking to you is both a pleasure and a harvest", listening to it in his ears, he felt extremely comfortable and pleasant......
So, he withdrew his gaze from the TV screen, turned his head to look at Ye Ming, and saw that he had a modest smile on his face, sincere and natural, his eyes focused and enthusiastic, and what he said just now was also very appropriate.
So, the expression on his face finally relaxed a little, smiled slightly, and said: "Xiaoye, how did the inspector tell you that I came, that's right, I usually like to read some books, and I also like to do a little thinking and make a summary when reading books, look at your resume, you are a graduate of the Chinese Department, you should have some accomplishments and skills in literature." ”
Ye Ming hurriedly smiled and said: "County Magistrate Zhang, I like literature and history, but I can't talk about any attainments and roots, my superficial knowledge, compared with your erudition, can be described in one sentence, it is the light of the candle is more than the light of the moon, it is not at the same grade at all, hehehe." ”
After Ye Ming finished saying this sycophant, even he felt a little red-faced, he was not a person who was good at sycophancy, and he usually felt disgusted when he heard others slap the leader's sycophant, but today, after Cha Jiliang's enlightenment, he remembered that he was going to officially enter the official career in the future, and he would face a lot of slapstick people, hearing a lot of fleshy sycophants, if he didn't get used to it and exercise in this regard, he would be afraid that it would be difficult to adapt to this officialdom in the future.
Therefore, he made up his mind tonight that he must practice his skills and eloquence in touting people, and also see how the object of his touting reacts, so as to test his "sycophant efficacy......
Moreover, when he was working in the county local taxation bureau, he once had dinner with a deputy director of the county office, and the deputy director was a little drunk, and suddenly talked to Ye Ming about the "sycophant scripture".
According to the deputy director, any leader, no matter how wise and how bright he is, always likes to listen to his subordinates say good things about him, and likes others to praise them just right, sometimes, when a subordinate is touting the leader, the person who hears it next to him may feel a little disgusting and a little numb, but the touted leader will not have this feeling, and many leaders will be touted to be dizzy and fluttering, and have a sense of closeness and confidante to the subordinate who touted himself. This is the main reason why many people who are good at patting leaders on the back will gain the trust and promotion of leaders faster.
However, it is not so easy to pat on the back, there are many skills and experiences in it, the most important of which is: the sycophant must be targeted, not blindly shooting, let alone talking in generalities, but to grasp the most interesting things of the leader, properly touted it, so that the leader can be interested, in order to really scratch the itch of the leader, and really go to the leader's heart.