Ye Ming hadn't figured out what Liu Ziliang was doing and suddenly stood beside his bed, Liu Ziliang spoke softly again: "Director Ye, I'm sorry, I woke you up, I rushed here today to sincerely apologize to you, I hope Director Ye will forgive me for my presumptuousness and recklessness." ”

When Ye Ming heard Liu Ziliang's words, he came to his senses completely, staring at Liu Ziliang's face with a little panic expression a little puzzled, unable to figure out what medicine he was selling in the gourd, and how to answer him, so he had to sit there silently and watch how Liu Ziliang performed next.

Liu Ziliang saw that Ye Ming was expressionless and didn't say a word, thinking that he was still hating himself, and his heart was even more flustered, so he suddenly raised his right hand, raised the two "Hetianxia" cigarettes in his hand in front of Ye Ming, and said with a smile: "Director Ye, I know that you like to smoke, it just so happened that when I went back last night, a comrade-in-arms came to see me and brought me two cigarettes, and I brought them to you today......

"Director Ye, I don't mean anything else, I just feel that the night you came, District Chief Yan and I were a little uncalm, said some sorry things for you, and did some sorry things for you, and when you called me for dinner this morning, I was discussing with Captain Chen Guitian about the arrest of a murder fugitive with a lot of cases, and I was quite anxious, so I said a few angry words at the time, and now I think about it, I feel very ashamed.

"Later, when Captain Chen Guitian knew that the person who called me was you, Director Ye, he criticized me severely, and introduced to me in detail the situation of Director Ye, saying that you are a young hero with a big belly, great energy, courage, knowledge, affection and righteousness, and also an aspiring young man with both civil and military skills, outstanding ability, and a great future. I don't think these two sentences are wrong at all.

"At that time, Captain Chen asked me to call you to apologize and ask for your understanding, but I didn't do so, I think: I have done so many things to be sorry for Director Ye, and said so many sorry things for Director Ye, if I just make a phone call, it is far from being able to express my remorse and the sincerity of my apology, therefore, after I had a meeting in the team in the morning, I hurriedly took two mouthfuls of food into my stomach, and rushed over to find you non-stop, hoping that Director Ye would see my sincerity. Forgive me for my ignorant behavior and rude words in the past, in the future, I will treat you as my own brother, if anyone dares to do anything to your brother again, my surname Liu is the first to be polite to him. ”

Liu Ziliang's long apology and compliments made Ye Ming get goosebumps all over his body, especially when he heard Liu Ziliang himself say that he "has eyes but no beads" and "dog's eyes look low", he almost couldn't help but laugh out loud.

However, he knew that no matter how numb Liu Ziliang's words were, how they gave him goosebumps, and how ridiculous they were, he must not show boredom or a ridiculous expression on his face, because during this period of time, he has been reflecting on some of the fundamental reasons why he was not suitable for mixing in officialdom and could not be promoted in the past, one of which he felt was very fatal, that is, he would not cater to and compliment his superiors, and at the same time, he was not used to those who were sycophants, and he was not used to listening to those sycophants.

But in the real officialdom, Ye Ming perceived: If you don't understand and cater to the intentions of the leader, don't say good things to the leader in a timely manner, and don't bow down in front of the leader, then the leader won't pay attention to you at all, won't value you at all, and it is impossible to promote you and reuse you, of course, this is relative to most leaders, not absolute, some leaders, such as Secretary Li Runji, he may not belong to this type, but officials like Secretary Li belong to the minority after all, so, This point of view is still valid.

Correspondingly: if you want to be a leader, then, you must have a belly that can listen to all kinds of words: first, of course, the words of criticism must be listened to, which is the basic connotation and bearing of a leader, and secondly, for the sycophants and beautiful words of subordinates, even if these sycophants and praise words are numb and goosebumps, you must also have the patience and courage to listen, and this is actually a kind of self-cultivation, because once you become an official, you will definitely encounter the situation of subordinates patting on the back, If you blindly hate this kind of behavior and blindly reject this kind of behavior, then your subordinates will feel that you are pretending to be high-minded, that you are unapproachable, and even that you are impersonal, so they are likely to alienate you and stay away from you......

It is precisely because of this that Ye Ming is now gradually able to tolerate those sloppy behaviors, and gradually be able to take the initiative to lower his posture to cater to the intentions of his superiors, although he feels a little ashamed and embarrassed for this change in himself, but he knows that this is the road of psychological transformation that he must go through after stepping into the officialdom, and he knows that he must do it if he knows that he can't do it......

For example, now, when Liu Ziliang said such a meaty and goosebumpy thing to himself, if it had been two years ago, he would definitely not have bought his account, and he might even sneer at him.

But now, his mentality is different, so he tried his best to control his disgust with Liu Ziliang's words, after he finished speaking, he deliberately pondered for a moment, then showed a little smile, and said unhurriedly: "Captain Liu, you are serious, if I care about your original attitude towards me, I will not take the initiative to call you to dinner this morning, right, I think so: we are all classmates, and you Captain Liu is my senior, and in terms of position, you are still my leader, so I should respect you." I should take the initiative to have a good relationship with you, which is also conducive to us getting along under one roof, right?

"What's more, I am also good friends with Captain Chen Guitian of your Criminal Investigation Corps, and I have drunk together many times, and I am also very familiar with your Director Guo, since you and Captain Chen are a unit and a department, we have more reasons to be close to each other and have the basis for forming good friends, so although there is a little holiday and misunderstanding between us, you and I are both manly husbands, and we will never be obsessed with and miss for such a small holiday. Hehe. ”