Zhang Ruoyun was confused by Yang Shaoshi's words. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 She looked at him with surprised eyes: "Brother Yang, why do you say that?" ”

Yang Shaoshi sighed: "Alas, you were willing to marry him out of love, although you had the idea of 'repaying your kindness' in your bones, but you were too young at the time, I'm afraid you were only about twenty, right?" is still in a kind of youthful germination period. Because you have that disease, you get white eyes everywhere. When there is a man who does not dislike you and gives you selfless help, your emotional heart is already inclined to him. He is more than ten years older than you, and when he gives you and gives you love, it makes you feel a kind of fatherly affection. There is such a saying, 'The son is not ugly to the mother', and that is because the noble maternal love makes her child's aesthetic concept completely transcend her appearance. And your feeling is that he has given you a kind of reborn family affection... When family affection is sublimated into love, you have long been ignorant of his appearance! ”

When Yang Shaoshi said this, Zhang Ruoyun was silent, and her thoughts returned to the scene when she first communicated with the black-faced man...

Yang Shaoshi saw that she didn't speak, so he continued: "Ruoyun, people often say 'love at first sight', although you may not recognize him at first sight, but you were completely in a helpless predicament at that time. When your husband and the man you described as a 'beautiful man' appear at the same time, your husband's sympathy and love for you are compared to that man's indifference and ridicule. You must have thought that your husband was much more handsome than that man, right? From then on, when you accept help from your husband, the more you look at him, the more pleasing it becomes, and when you think back to the attitude that man showed at the beginning, you will feel that that man makes you hate and disgust. When your husband completely cures you, your feelings for him can't help but be hot..."

"Brother Yang, me?"

When Yang Shaoshi talked about this, Zhang Ruoyun had a feeling of waking up from a dream. Her beautiful face slipped down the tears of repentance again...

Yang Shaoshi did not stop, but continued to speak: "Since you married him for love, of course you have high requirements for him. Because he is much older than you, in addition to hoping that he can be a loving wife and pampered, you also hope that he can take care of you like a child, and hold you in his hands every day like a rare treasure..."

"Brother Yang, is that really the case?"

Yang Shaoshi asked rhetorically: "If you didn't have feelings for him at the beginning, and marrying him was entirely because of the so-called 'repaying the favor', then do you still care about his attitude and feelings towards you?" 'Returning the favor' is to give him 'a cow and a horse', can you still dislike him? And you are not like that, but want more from him. When he doesn't know how to be a good husband for you, your love for him changes. Since then, you have become more and more unpleasant to him, and a man you once despised took the opportunity to give you a trace of warmth. You immediately change your impression of him. ”

"Brother Yang, you...

When Yang Shaoshi exposed Zhang Ruoyun's tangled emotional window paper, she had mixed feelings.

Yang Shaoshi continued: "Let me talk about your so-called 'only man with a family can be entrusted with life, and a man without a family cannot be entrusted with life'. If you were still the little girl with hazy emotions when you first met your husband, if you have such childish thoughts, you can understand it. Although you are not very old now, you have a nine-and-a-half-year-old daughter after all. How can you not see the sophistication of the world? Your idea of snatching a husband from another woman is just the absurd idea of some ignorant teenage girl in today's society. Don't you just think about it, if he is a man worthy of being entrusted for life, then he will empathize with him? When he invests a relationship with you, he ruthlessly hurts another innocent woman. Is this a good man in a woman's heart? ”

Zhang Ruoyun was stunned for a moment, and quickly explained: "I filed for divorce with Brother Heizi, not for that man. Believe me, although the man made several overtures to me, I didn't give him my body. But he gave me a lot of comfort when I was most helpless, and in other ways, he also gave me a lot... He explained to me many times afterwards, and said many words of repentance, "I..."

"Ruoyun, since you know that he is not perfect, and your current legal husband is not perfect, then why don't you use this idea on your husband?"

"This..."

"Ruoyun, they are also imperfect. But he gave you some spiritual comfort when you had no worries about food and clothing. And your husband is in the most difficult time of your life, selfless help for you, one of them is for you to 'icing on the cake', and the other is for you to 'send charcoal in the snow'! You can weigh it carefully, who should this heart of yours belong to? ”

"Brother Yang..."

"Ruoyun, you listen to me first, when your husband can't give that man what he gave you, when you look at that man again, you no longer have the hatred you had back then, but feel that the more he looks at it, the more pleasing it is. Compared with her husband, she is becoming more and more unsightly, especially his bad habits. So, you need a man who is full of emotions in life without an existential crisis. I feel that living with that man makes me feel comfortable and happy in the future. However, I would like to remind you that life is a journey, and when you want to choose the most comfortable path to take, it can be the wrong one. It will put you on a dangerous journey! ”

"Brother Yang, why do you say that? Is that man going to do anything to me in the future?"

"Ruoyun, please think about it, he had such an attitude towards you at the beginning, but now he is chasing after you. Isn't it because of your beauty? ”

Zhang Ruoyun bit her lips and hung her head silently.

Yang Shaoshi continued: "He originally had a wife, since he didn't like that woman, why did he marry someone else in the first place? Didn't you see that you were younger and more beautiful than that woman? Since he can get tired of getting married, then I admit to you, you are eight or nine years younger than him, you should be regarded as an 'old husband and young wife', and you are still early in the time of 'old age and decay'. But can he guarantee that there will never be 'aesthetic fatigue' for you? Please don't forget this sentence, what you can't get is the best! If you let him get you, can you be sure of his consistent love for you? However, after all, you are a girl with culture and conscience, and you have not completely lost confidence in your husband at present. Otherwise, you wouldn't be so grief-stricken because of what happened to him! ”

Zhang Ruoyun sighed and said: "You are right, my feelings for that man are still very entangled, so it is difficult to take this step." I may still love Brother Kuroko from the bottom of my bones. Otherwise, when I feel like I've lost him, I wouldn't be so unable to control myself..."

"Yes, even though you have filed for divorce from your husband. But he was still reluctant to give up. Although he is not your ideal husband, you expect him to be like that man and give you warmth in all aspects. ”

Zhang Ruoyun said gloomily: "But all this is impossible, he is gone, and there will never be this opportunity..."

Yang Shaoshi said with a solemn expression: "Actually, he loves you very much, but he may not be like that man because of personality problems, he is not as good at confessing and favoring you as he is." ”

"Brother Yang, why do you say that? Do you know him? ”

Yang Shaoshi smiled bitterly: "Silly girl, can't you feel it?" Since he is a man who doesn't understand the mood of life, why did he travel abroad on a whim? ”

"Of course, it's because I filed for divorce...

"Now that you know this, do you still doubt his feelings for you?"

"This..."

"Ruoyun, you don't understand a man's mind at all. If it weren't for the pain in his heart that was really difficult to get rid of, would he have wanted to go abroad to relax? Ever since I heard you explain the reason for his departure, I have had a terrible thought. Why did he go abroad? Could it be that there are some extremes in the psyche? ”

Zhang Ruoyun's eyes widened and he wondered, "What extreme thoughts would he... ”

"He may have misanthropic thoughts because he is going to lose you, especially for a man with a very introverted personality, it is very likely to have an irrational impulse to hate because of love. Therefore, he may want to completely indulge himself before making extreme actions, and fulfill some of the last wishes of his life..."

When Zhang Ruoyun heard this, he couldn't help crying: "I'm sorry for him... Even if he really wanted to do that to me, I would rather he come back safely and destroy me with his own hands, and I don't want to see him again. ”

Yang Shaoshi sighed: "Don't be sad. He didn't attack you at the time, which shows that he was still very sane. Traveling abroad was enough to cool his angry heart. Perhaps, he was able to enlighten himself and let go completely. ”

"But now it's too late."

Yang Shaoshi's eyes suddenly moistened, and said: "There is no regret medicine in the world... If we can do it all over again, we will all know how to cherish it..."

Zhang Ruoyun was grieving, but when he saw that Yang Shaoshi's mood suddenly became sad, he couldn't help but be stunned: "Brother Yang, isn't your family also having a similar misfortune?" ”

Yang Shaoshi was silent for a while, and then said with a wry smile: "Ruoyun, please think about it, your husband went out alone to take a walk because there was a problem between you." So since my wife went abroad with other men, can't she prove something? ”

Zhang Ruoyun stopped her tears at this time, and looked at Yang Shaoshi's painful appearance in surprise...

After a while, she asked tentatively, "Brother Yang, can you tell my sister about the problem between you?" ”

Yang Shaoshi because she had opened her heart to herself, and she did not hesitate to tell her the story with the tall woman in detail...

Zhang Ruoyun opened her mouth in surprise as she listened, and Yang Shaoshi's experience shocked her even more.

After Yang Shaoshi finished talking about his love and marriage experience with a tall woman, he also regretted: "Since I saw her diary, I realized that she lives in pain and struggle every day... When you just talked about how your husband treated you, but I was able to tell you so much just now, but he was not as good as him! ”

Zhang Ruoyun suddenly burst into tears again: "Brother Yang, you are also a good person, but your attitude towards your sister-in-law is really wrong." Although she is wrong, she is a weak woman after all, and she needs a man to tolerate her and be considerate of her... You two are love at first sight, and if she is willing to marry you, she will regard you as the backbone of her life. But when she suffered so much humiliation at the wedding, how I wish you could stand with her, comfort her and give her strength... But you, like everyone else, treated her... ”

Yang Shaoshi also buried his head at this time, and he had just 'finished teaching' to Zhang Ruoyun. Now, it's Zhang Ruoyun's turn to 'teach' him...

"Brother Yang, although she is with another man now, it is not entirely her fault, because she thinks that you have reconciled with your first love, and she doesn't love her anymore, and she has to punish her emotionally...

"Ruoyun, please don't say anything! If God gives me another chance, let her come back to life... I don't mind which man she has been with, I must love her from the bottom of my heart..."

Knock knock...

A hurried knock on the door interrupted Yang Shaoshi's words.

Yang Shaoshi and Zhang Ruoyun were both stunned, it was already late, who could it be?

Zhang Ruoyun hurriedly wiped her cheeks and gave her daughter a look.

Celery willingly ran over to open the door...

It was Wang Hongming who walked in from outside the door. He walked in anxiously and looked around the room in surprise.

"What are you doing in my room? Is there something wrong? ”

Zhang Ruoyun was not familiar with him, so he asked a little vigilantly.

Wang Hongming immediately explained: "I came to find Cedar... It's the yellow-haired girl, I thought she would come to you..."

Zhang Ruoyun had communicated with Cheng Xuesong together, and when he saw Wang Hongming's anxious look, he couldn't help but be surprised: "What's wrong with that girl?" Isn't it gone? ”

Wang Hongming nodded gloomily: "She... she's missing!" ”