Qian Chong looked at Zhang Ruoyun's photo and exclaimed slightly: "Where does she look like a mortal?" It's clearly a fairy descending to earth! ”

The black-faced man listened to the words for a moment, and his expression softened. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Qian Chong took the photo and compared it side by side with the black-faced man, and then couldn't help but say: "Brother, if you two stand together, where will there be husband and wife?" If they are called father and daughter, some people will believe it! ”

When the black-faced man heard this, his face couldn't help but sink: "Even you are talking to her, do you think we have to disperse?" ”

Qian Chong smiled: "Brother, I didn't say that couples without husband and wife will not be happy." Now there are many ugly people who are beautiful and one who are pretty, but since an ugly man can't please a woman with his appearance, and let the other party follow him with all his heart, he has to rely on his love and wisdom. And you once conquered my little sister-in-law with your love, but after marrying her, did you show that you cherished her? ”

The sunspot man was stunned for a moment, and then defended: "Why didn't I have it?" Since marrying her, I've worked harder to earn money outside. has never been outside to hang out, and that Qi Lao Er often looks for flowers and willows outside. She thinks he's better than me..."

Qian Chong shook his head with a sigh and said, "Brother, you are over forty this year, right?" Why don't you know how to run a family yet? After listening to your legendary experience just now, I feel that you and that little sister-in-law are in love. What does it mean that she is so generous to you? It shows that she is not a girl who loves vanity, but a strange woman with affection and righteousness. Although you are not the type of man that girls admire. But if a woman is asked to appreciate a man with a mediocre appearance, it depends on the other person to show enough love. Of course, I don't deny that you love her so much that you can treasure her pictures with you. But you can't express it. You really don't know what the woman you've lived with for ten years craves in her heart. That's really sad! ”

The black-faced man wondered, "What do you think I'm doing wrong?" ”

Qian Chong shook his head with a wry smile: "Although I haven't been married, I also understand what kind of bumps and bumps will occur between husband and wife in daily life." However, as a man, as long as you always accommodate and care for the woman who stays with you as a child, you can solve all family conflicts. ”

This time, it was the turn of the black-faced child to smile bitterly: "She has already given birth to a daughter for me, do I still want to treat her as a daughter?" ”

Qian Chong tilted his head and asked, "Isn't this bad?" Some people say that 'the daughter is the ** of the previous life', and I think that the lover of this life may be the daughter of the previous life. Some people say, 'Sons don't hate their mothers ugly', that is because of her mother's love that has already faded her child's appearance. And if a man wants his woman to never dislike it, he must show fatherly affection. No matter what that man looks like, he will never get tired of being looked at by the other party. ”

The black-faced man still couldn't figure it out, he said bitterly: "But I'm good enough for her, but she always dislikes me for such and such problems... Alas, I'm afraid we are not all the way at all..."

"Haha, if you're nice enough to her, you won't let her find fault with herself. Because, although you have love in your heart, you can't fully express your love! ”

The black-faced man was puzzled: "Then how should I express it?" ”

Qian Chong glanced at him again, and then said solemnly: "Brother, just like you, it's not enough to just 'express', for the sake of love, you should pay, even sacrifice." But it's because you didn't. That's why it's the crux of her time to leave you. ”

The black-faced man really couldn't understand the meaning of Qian Chong's words, so he had to keep his head silent and listen to Qian Chong continue to talk down...

"Brother, when I was a child, I used to eat tomatoes, and one spring, I planted a tomato seed in my small garden, and it really grew a small seedling. Of course, I was very happy, so I went to water it every day and asked the adults how to fertilize and prune it. Originally, I was a very lazy child. But in order for that little seedling to bear tomatoes, I worked tirelessly, even painstakingly. I was very relieved when it finally produced big, red tomatoes, and when I opened my mouth to taste the tomatoes, I felt extremely happy and happy. Therefore, from this incident, I understand a truth: if you want to reap a joy, you have to give and even overcome some of your usual lazy habits. Only in this way can we get a real happiness reward. We are all very ordinary men, and we all have some shortcomings and faults, and even some vices. If your partner dislikes these habits, it depends on whether you can think about yourself from the other person's point of view. ”

The black-faced man raised his head and asked curiously, "Then what do you say I should do?" ”

Qian Chong immediately replied: "You have to overcome those habits that make your lover annoying." It's called 'sacrifice', to change the habits that you used to be comfortable with, but that she hated. In fact, this kind of 'sacrifice' is very easy to do, and it is not to give one's own life. It's just a matter of restraining one's bad behavior. ”

When the black-faced man heard this, his mind immediately showed the trivial things that Zhang Ruoyun usually quarreled with him...

Qian Chong saw a trace of guilt on his expression, so he took the opportunity to say: "As a man, in addition to knowing how to 'sacrifice', you must also know how to give. For example, the second Qi you just talked about, maybe you are very dismissive of him, but he also has something worth learning from him. Don't you think about it? He was very cruel to your sister-in-law at the beginning, but why did they suddenly get closer? He must have something to influence the opposite sex. This kind of 'probation' is to make a certain amount of dedication. Excuse me, has your brother done enough in this regard? ”

When the black-faced man heard this, he couldn't help but hang his head in shame.

Qian Chong continued to deliver his 'speech': "One of my classmates works in the Civil Affairs Bureau, and he specializes in helping people apply for marriage certificates and divorce certificates. One night while chatting, he told me that there were 50 couples who came to get married and divorced today, just to break even. When I heard it, I was very emotional. Some people compare marriage to a besieged city, where those in the circle have no choice but to kill out, and those outside the circle have to rush in. In fact, whether marriage and family are shackles or a harbor of happiness depends on people's subjectivity and objectivity. People's mentality is a window, and people with different mentalities will have different marriages. Only a wise person can know how to manage his marriage and how to manage his happiness. And those mediocre people who don't know how to manage a marriage can only feel that marriage has caused misfortune to themselves, and even describe it as a heavy shackle. So, brother, you have to change some of your personalities that are out of step with the times. It is necessary to have a correct family concept. Only by realizing this, you can win your ** heart back..."

Qian Chong's words made the black-faced man have mixed feelings, he looked back on the past, thought of the sadness and painful tears that Zhang Ruoyun had shed in front of him, and couldn't help but blame himself. He raised his head and sighed: "Daughter-in-law, I'm sorry for you!" ”

Qian Chong saw that his words completely moved the black-faced man, and he couldn't help but feel very proud, and he lost no time in saying: "You don't need to look for that Qi Lao Er anymore, he is not your competitor, your opponent is only yourself." Therefore, only if you defeat yourself can you regain the heart of your sister-in-law. In order to make your family full of happy laughter..."

The black-faced man put his hand on Qian Chong's shoulder very emotionally at this time, and asked in a very sincere tone: "Brother, you are too reasonable, please teach me, what to do?" ”

Qian Chong smiled: "If you still love her, then show your love, instead of burying your love in your heart like cherishing photos." In the future, you will not only break the habits that she doesn't like, but also do something that she likes. Men and women love each other, first of all, they do what they like. You want her to feel your love, and she is such a loving woman, how can she no longer be touched by you? ”

The black-faced man was completely moved, and he looked very remorseful: "When I understand this, I'm afraid it's too late, I don't know if I can get out alive..."

When Qian Chong heard this, he handed over the diary and ballpoint pen again: "Brother, let's leave a few words for her, let her know how much you love her." In this way, even if we really can't get out alive, our 'suicide note' can't die, they will be passed on sooner or later, as long as she sees it, there will be no regrets for herself. ”

The black-faced man finally took the notebook and pen in Qian Chong's hand, and then said solemnly: "I write!" ”

Qian Chong saw that he had influenced this former 'unstable element', and his heart was extremely comfortable. It was inconvenient for him to set his eyes on the notebook written by the black-faced man, but to turn his attention elsewhere...

When he turned around occasionally, he couldn't help but be stunned: Shen Junru was standing not far behind him and the black-faced man, she had obviously heard a lot of conversations between him and the black-faced man, and tears of emotion were still flowing on her beautiful cheeks...

"Xiaoru, why are you here?"

Qian Chong couldn't help but be extremely surprised when he saw her hiding behind him.

Shen Junru has been here for a long time. Because everyone has eaten the 'last lunch', they are ready to go. She noticed that Qian Chong and the black-faced man were talking far away from the crowd, so she came over to greet them. But she was shocked by the story of the black-faced man and Qian Chong's interpretation of marriage. She didn't interrupt their conversation, and listened silently until she let her tears come out of her eyes...

"Xiaoru, why are you crying?"

Qian Chong saw that she didn't answer and kept wiping her tears, so he asked again.

Shen Junru tried her best to restrain her expression, and said in a very disguised tone: "It's not too early, I came to urge you to leave, but I overheard the experience of this big brother Li, and I was very moved... ”

"Oh, I see, I thought you were moved by my words. Hey, hey..."

Qian Chong felt a sense of accomplishment for the 'great truth' he just said, and he couldn't help but feel a little proud. He returned to Shen Junru's hippie smile.

But Shen Junru's heart rippled, and Qian Chong's words that enlightened the black-faced man just now echoed in his ears...

She was deeply moved by Qian Chong's words of 'love must be shown', thinking about everything he had done to him before, and even this time for himself, he was in a desperate situation... Did Qian Chong's performance move him?