2046, in earnest regiments
(Cat flutter Chinese) Material conditions are met, and we must think about how to meet children in other conditions.
Which parent doesn't want their children to become talented in the future, and when the children grow up in the future, from the doted bear child to the bear adult, and then want to change at that time, you talk about how the child became like this, then it is wronged.
There may be children born with rebellious bones, this kind of must be a minority, to know that it is very important to teach by word and deed, very cultivated, and have time to teach children carefully, this kind of children are basically not crooked.
And those who only know how to give material needs, or the kind of rules and regulations, and their own cultivation and other aspects are very good, but they have no time to spend with their children, these two extreme situations are prone to problems.
Yun Cang's experience since he was a child made him have unbearable pain, he can grow up so much, many times he relies on his unconvincing strength to survive, because he has a grudge against what happened when he was a child, and at the same time pain, so he doesn't want his children to live like this life again.
As for Bingyan, it doesn't mean that she is suffering in the world, but her life experience in this world is also quite miserable.
Both of them had a not wonderful childhood, and that time was irretrievably past, and all time would not be turned back, so it was precisely because of their own hardships and difficulties that they didn't want their children to repeat the mistakes of the past, but if they spoiled because they felt that their children didn't have to suffer, it would be even more inverted.
On the issue of Tuan Tuan education, Yun Cang and Bingyan have a consensus because of this experience, and the two have also discussed before that they must not quarrel in front of their children, and when one party is educating, whether it is right or wrong, they should not refute it in front of their children, but in private, both parties sit down and say that if it is really wrong, it can be changed. If you make a blatant accusation in front of your child and lower the majesty of the other party, it will only make the child hesitate about her father or mother, which is very bad.
With this consensus, it really makes Yuncang and Bingyan a lot easier, and this teaches Tuan Tuan Tuan to know all aspects of the time, and they are also them, so naturally, they are very tall in Tuan Tuan's heart, of course, they can't always feel like a child is on top, they play with Tuan Tuan from time to time, and this degree is very good.
Of course, Tuan Tuan is so cute, the other subordinates in the house, even if Bingyan and Tuan Tuan want to make them natural, they can't do it, this kind of thing Bingyan and Yuncang don't force too much, sometimes, too relaxed for the subordinates, this is not a good thing.
The degree of control is indeed a big academic problem.
Anyway, that's basically the problem, because Tuan Tuan is getting bigger, and he is starting to imitate, the two talked for a while, and unanimously decided that they should pay more attention in front of Tuan Tuan.
The group also finished washing, and was led by Mama Sun step by step: "Dad, mother." ”
Bingyan smiled and waved his hand: "Tuan Tuan is washed." ”
Tuan Tuan nodded seriously: "Wash ...... Good. ”
Then let go of Grandma Sun's hand and walked to Bingyan, Tuan Tuan is now small, so under normal circumstances, no matter who it is, you have to hold your thighs first, and then look up at it.
Normally, when he looks up at this Yuxue's cute little chubby face and stares at the round and bright eyes, people's hearts are about to melt, and it is difficult to resist at all, and Tuan Tuan's expression is asking for a hug.
Ice smoke is not always as Tuan Tuan wishes, but there is a probability that there will be about six times out of ten, this time she bent down to pick up Tuan Tuan, touched Tuan Tuan's little head, Tuan Tuan directly covered the ice smoke, blinked his eyes to see his father, and it was really a pair to take it.
Yun Cang had a smile in his eyes, and the kitchen was already setting them food.
The family of three went to the dining room to eat.
Tuan Tuan said that he was thin, but for today's meal, he said that he wanted to eat more, but Bingyan refused to let him.
It's dinner, and after eating too much and accumulating food, Tuan Tuan will play with them for a while after that, and you can't eat too much, it's not good for your health.
Tuan Tuan expressed some unhappiness: "Thin! "I said vigorously that he has to gain weight, and he is also thinking about his father's mother.
Well, these are all Bingyan and Yuncang's own thoughts, Tuan Tuan didn't say this, but Bingyan said that it was enough to eat the usual amount of food, at most eat a little more, not more.
Tuan Tuan failed in his struggle, opened his mouth a little depressed, and puffed out his cheeks to eat.
When he ate like this, he had to look at Yun Cang and Bingyan from time to time, and when he saw that his father and mother didn't look at him, the two chatted with each other, all of which were trivial matters in life, but at this time the two had a lot of topics to talk about, and they didn't pay attention to Tuan Tuan at this time.
Tuan Tuan who is sulking is it for, I can't be angry now, the little adult sighed, and ate alone silently, looking really a little pitiful~
But this little master is good, he doesn't hold grudges, and he deliberately cares about things just now, maybe he won't remember it after a while, and then it's still about this meal, Tuan Tuan can eat three times a day, and he sulks all of a sudden, and he can't finish his anger, so when he eats half of it, Tuan Tuan has forgotten the depression just now to the back of his neck.
The grilled rice is fragrant.
Where can Yun Cang and Bingyan ignore him, they are paying attention to him with their spare eyes, seeing him eat a few bites, they can relax and continue to eat their own, from time to time they take a person who likes to eat, Tuan Tuan likes to eat, and the meal is quite pleasant.
After dinner, I walked around the house again as usual.
To say that there is really no place in this Cangwang Mansion that they don't know now, and the people who walk around here are all those scenes, can they not get tired of walking crookedly.
But originally, Yun Cang and Bingyan didn't come to wander around because of the scenery, one is to eat, and the other is to chat about nothing, even if it's a trivial matter, but when doing it with a loved one, they also feel an indescribable sense of satisfaction, this feeling is really wonderful, making this kind of thing a good habit, I don't want to change it, I can't change it, it has become a good thing in life, it's not necessary, but it's reluctant to change.
Tuan Tuan jumped in the middle of the clouds and ice smoke, the two of them carried Tuan Tuan Tuan in one hand and the other hand, and the old man who pulled the back of a family of three in the afterglow was inexhaustibly warm.
After a walk, Yun Cang Bingyan returned to his room...... (. Just love the net) cat flutter Chinese