Chapter 1703 The Science of Gift-giving

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As soon as they heard Du Guangming talk about prohibiting teachers from receiving gifts, the director of the Municipal Education Bureau knew why Du Guangming came here, and they didn't expect Du Guangming to say so much, which shows the importance of this matter, but they didn't feel too important, and the director of the District Education Bureau didn't pay too much attention to it, and after issuing the document, he didn't come down to check it at all, and the principal of the school didn't even read the document to the teachers, but just verbally told the teachers that they were not allowed to accept student gifts in the future, in addition, Didn't say anything more.

Hearing Du Guangming's words, the director of the Municipal Education Bureau smiled and said: "What Secretary General Du said is that students' respect for teachers is from the heart, not necessarily expressed through gifts, the municipal party committee requires teachers not to accept gifts is correct, we should strictly implement the regulations of the municipal party committee, and resolutely prohibit teachers from receiving gifts from students, but now the parents of students are also very annoying, as soon as it comes to Teacher's Day, they want to give gifts to teachers, so that teachers can take care of their children, this behavior must also be stopped, otherwise it will make teachers very difficult!" ”

Du Guangming nodded and said: "What you said is right, people are impetuous, and they want to treat themselves differently in everything and be special, otherwise they will feel uncomfortable, especially some rich people, who feel that they can't do things without money, and they want to open the way with money, but I think such people are still a minority, most people are still unwilling to do this kind of thing, and no one will be willing to take the initiative to send money to othersAs long as we can stick to our bottom line, even if the parents of students give gifts, we don't treat their children differently, will they give gifts again? There are benefits will be sent, there are no benefits, only philanthropists will send, I believe that many parents of students are not philanthropists, just now I met a few primary school students at the gate of the school, their dialogue is completely full of the language of the adult world, knowing that to give gifts to teachers, teachers can be happy, knowing that some parents of students send cards to teachers, teachers take extra care of their children, what does this mean? It shows that these behaviors of ours will be imperceptibly imperceptible to students, and let them be influenced by this behavior from an early age, what will they be like when they grow up? We are a country of etiquette, but by no means a country of gifts, we learn etiquette, not learn how to give gifts from an early age, now they know how to give gifts, when they grow up, this behavior will become a deep-rooted concept, so how do we build a clean government? How can this perverse culture be put an end to? Some people think that it doesn't matter if the teachers receive a little gift, it is a kind of behavior of the students to express their love to the teacher, I find it difficult to understand how this theory came out, how we didn't have this theory before, don't our former students know how to express their love to the teacher? Is it the kind of pure relationship between students and teachers that used to be?

Isn't it worth being missed? Do you have to give gifts to teachers to be so vulgar that teachers will be happy and students will love teachers? If you say this, the bribe giver giving a gift to the bribe taker is also expressing a sense of gratitude, after all, the bribe taker has done something for them, according to this theory, it is also a matter of course, everyone can receive as much as they want, you can also give as much as you want, you don't have to worry about anything, how ridiculous is this! Students' love for teachers can never be expressed in material interests and material forms, this is the concept that our educators know, we educators know better than anyone else, what should we do, what is the love for teachers, because teachers are the engineers of the human soul, if you don't even understand this truth, isn't it defiling the word soul? Just now there was a primary school student who had no money to buy flowers for the teacher, he was very anxious and scared, and he was also very helpless, he was worried that the teacher would be unhappy, he only had five yuan in his hand, which was still his lunch money, his parents were migrant workers, and there was no money to give him gifts, so he wanted to use the lunch money to buy flowers for the teacher, but he only had five yuan, and he couldn't afford to buy flowers, what do you say he should do? ”

Du Guangming suddenly gave everyone a problem, the director of the Municipal Education Bureau and the others looked at each other, I really didn't expect this situation to happen, if you don't have money to buy it, you won't buy it, can the teacher really be unhappy? That's too much to underestimate our teachers.

The director of the city education bureau said: "This elementary school student is still important to eat, even if he doesn't buy the teacher, he won't be angry, if the teacher knows that he uses the money from the meal to buy flowers, even if he collects it, he won't be happy!" ”

Du Guangming said: "We are discussing here, considering the problem from the perspective of outsiders and teachers, and the teachers can naturally say that if you don't give me flowers, I won't be unhappy, but in fact? When this elementary school student saw that other classmates were giving gifts to the teacher, and only he didn't give them, I think it was not a question of whether the teacher was happy or not, but whether other students would laugh at him, he was the party, he was in this environment, when he saw many classmates giving gifts, and the teacher was very happy, what did he think in his heart, it should be the same as us, isn't this very simple? If we are all giving gifts to our boss and only one of them is not, how does he feel? And what does the boss feel, isn't it the same? He is very worried that his classmates will ridicule him and the teacher will be unhappy, but in fact the teacher will not be able to find him alone to comfort him, so that he should not worry, in fact, this kind of thing will not happen, we should not idealize things, there are not so many teachers who are so responsible, most teachers are still ordinary engaged in their own work, we must consider the problem of the teacher receiving gifts from this starting point, the teacher is not a saint, nor is it not a firework in the world, in the construction of a clean government, we pay attention to the prevention of microscopic problems, We have to be even more so on this issue, because the giver we are dealing with is a student, a minor child, we must not bring the things in the adult world into their world, we can't feel that this is insignificant, there is no need to make a big fanfare, some people may say, you see that the corrupt officials have received so much money, what is the matter with the teachers receiving a little gift from the students? Very good, people nowadays like to compare with corrupt officials, good people like to compare with bad people, corrupt officials take money, so we have to collect money, bad people do bad things, so we can't do good things, everything is low standards

Qi, there is no bottom line in everything, I don't know how this theory is popular, if teachers put their own behavior bottom line to the same height as corrupt officials, then we can only say that they are no longer worthy of being a teacher, they should go to politics, to be corrupt officials, now many teachers don't want to be civil servants? We are scolding corrupt officials while thinking about comparing them with corrupt officials, this is the mentality of some people, if we don't ask, what will the end result lead to? I think that teachers can collect money from students' parents without a bottom line, take special care of the students who give gifts at work, and ignore those who have no money to give gifts, making the whole school a mess, and the pure land of the school will become a pickled land, and at that time, who will bear this responsibility? No one can afford it, there is a good saying, if the ** phenomenon in our adult world is only polluted by the river, but if there is also a ** phenomenon in the world of our underage students, it is the water source is also polluted, and no one can bear this responsibility! ”

Du Guangming's words made the director of the Municipal Education Bureau feel very shocked, they didn't think about it so deeply, they always thought it was just a trivial matter, so although they banned it but did not stop it, they were afraid that the teachers would be angry, but now when they heard Du Guangming's words, they did feel that this matter was very serious, because education work has particularity, students have particularity, if we demand ourselves by the standards of the adult world, it is a mistake, sending some flowers or something in the adult world, of course, is not an illegal thing, And it's a very warm thing, but in the underage world, giving flowers is something that costs them a lot of money, and they can use the money to buy school supplies or something, and they will feel a burden, especially some children who have no money.

Glancing at everyone, Du Guangming said again: "I'll talk about the problem of this primary school student just now, I see that he has no money to buy flowers, I see that he is very anxious, thinking that if he doesn't buy this bouquet of flowers today, he probably doesn't know how to enter the campus, so although I forbid the teacher to accept gifts from students, but I take into account his current mood, so I still can't prohibit it, so I helped him buy a bouquet of flowers, and he happily ran to the school, I followed him, but he didn't get to the classroom yet, I heard a teacher shouting there who did not give a gift to the teacher, the primary school student ran towards the teacher, and sent the flowers, but the teacher didn't even look at it and threw it aside, the flowers are already dispensable in the eyes of the teacher, and everything will be constantly upgraded, at the beginning it must be to use flowers to express the love for the teacher, but after a long time, the wisdom of our students' parents and the appetite of the teacher will continue to increase, and they will use other more expensive gifts to express their love for the teacher, I believe this is also the process of gradual corruption and degeneration of corrupt officials, anyone is aesthetically fatigued, the first time to send flowers, the second time to send flowers, the third time to send flowers, even if the teacher is not tired, the giver also feels that he can't go, there is no novelty at all, the teacher will definitely not be happy, if you want to make the teacher happy, you have to think of other tricks, this is the process of the development of things, this is not to the will of people for the transfer, if we don't care, please rest assured, in a few years, what will the school become, Everyone will think of it! ”

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