I remember when I first entered the school to sign up, I was bored and waiting, and suddenly I saw a young man, a slightly chubby face, and then very shy and introverted, and I was so shy and introverted, and I also had the rhythm of my personality, so I stepped forward to chat and chat, which was considered to be a friend, so I took the initiative to find friends again, the same kind, but well, there is no fate, there is no big social connection, after entering the school, different electives, there is no too deep communication, at most, even if it is an alumnus who has such a side of fate. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 info leave a contact information, the Tao is not the same, and it is true that it is not very understanding and communication play.

In addition, the new friends I met were all classmates in the class, first of all, the first friend I met, still the same personality characteristics, but his hobbies are better than mine, he likes some things like computers and chemistry, so although shy and introverted, there may also be educational factors, and the charm of personal hobbies. It's okay in school, and occasionally I can communicate with each other, but after slowly entering the society, because of the difference in their own development, followed by the absolute difference in ability, they are in two worlds, so they gradually drift apart. It's a pity, but it's not. Under closer examination, in fact, the same essence, the relationship is actually not so profound.

Why, because I still belong to the kind of life without self-confidence, absolute passivity. Therefore, after I left school, because of emotional reasons, I felt more of my own shortcomings, so I didn't have such an active and cheerful play mentality. Unlike school, I can occasionally take the initiative to find friends, play and communicate with each other. As a result, there are not many friends, and they are naturally faintly estranged. And friendships and even more wonderful relationships need to be maintained. The key is how much you need, how much you can give, and how much you take the initiative. Ha has been able to get what you need.

To be honest, because the composition of the class is small, there are not many friends, especially the classmates who have fun after the relationship level ranking is also different. At the beginning, the relationship was actually good, because of the slightly same personality, plus simple campus life. So I was able to communicate a little.

Secondly, after entering the society, the friends are slowly familiar with and gradually distant. That's just three of them. A friend who is drifting away belongs to the campus and slowly becomes familiar with the faint contact of the new society, and finally has no contact, on the one hand, because of my personal factors, lack of self-confidence and confidence, and I don't know how to deal with the relationship and contact. On the other hand, it is also the pressure of each other's respective lives. The only time I attended his birthday party, I always thought that if I mixed well, I could invite him once, but unfortunately, I was forced to play the world arrogantly.

The other two friends, one friend belongs to the children, much younger than me, in school, not very familiar, and because of playfulness, often on the Internet, and occasionally conflicted, Ya is sleeping, was woken up, tyrannical mentality wants to eat people, quite scary, although very small, but Ya grows tall, quite deterrent.

For this friend, it belongs to the gradual familiarity and contact play from school after growing up, and finally graduation, boring to find friends to play, and then, gradually familiar, that is, my passive attributes, as long as you are sincere friends, not a pit person, then you can still respond very well. Although for various other reasons, I don't take the initiative to communicate.

But because of the nature of the house, when he was bored and looking for me to go out to play, he readily agreed. Anyway, it's no problem to pass the time at will, and slowly there will be a certain good relationship, a kind of familiar friends, and gradually understand and recognize. It belongs to actively looking for friends to play, to slowly recognize.

And another classmate and friend love the Internet at school, and sleep at school like the previous classmate, every day. Therefore, the relationship was average at the beginning, and there was no in-depth communication after graduation. It belongs to the relationship between ordinary classmates and friends, but slowly because he is very familiar with the previous child playing online, and he is called a confidant if he smells alike, so he gradually has a connection under his contact, plus so many times to travel together. deepened the relationship and gradually gained more recognition. People still need more communication to be able to slowly recognize.

In addition, there is also a junior high school classmate, and it is because of the repeating problem of that classmate's child. Re-contacted a little fat junior high school classmate, but generally speaking, the little fat man is a little damaged, not very popular, listen to him when playing with that child.

However, people, although they usually have some small flaws, but they understand those things in their hearts, and then slowly understand them deeply. Growing up slowly, as long as it is not too much, in ordinary life, slowly communicating and communicating, you can still have some familiarity.

In the end, there was gradually more contact, which can be regarded as a kind of slow recognition. After that, I slowly became so few friends. It's not much, but it's okay, and the only thing that needs to be confirmed is to see how far you can go on the road in the future. How perfect the future can be.

July 17, 2016 16:20:28

Friends this thing.

People aren't really lacking.

What is lacking? , in fact, is an extreme emptiness,

When you are alone, you can dare to go and look for the few people who accompany you.

And because of me, lack of self-confidence and a certain amount of confidence. So, never approved in my heart.

Because there are always a lot of worries. Thus there is no confidence, self-confidence and ability.

This is a kind of friend that I lack,,, belonging to a child who can occasionally be bored and come to me to play with,

But I won't, bored to ask him to accompany me.

This is a kind of,,Recognition.。。 A faint self-confidence, which I don't have at the moment, is oppressed by reality.

I am bound by myself,,, eh, I don't understand. It's casual,,Anyway, it will,。

Of course, maybe I'm still so lonely, lonely, and widowed,,,,,,, haha

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