In this world, everyone's way of life is completely everyone's self-psychological condition and inner world in the self-requirements to be deployed, what kind of needs people have, he will unconsciously adjust his own life to the state of existence he needs, and then Bin looked at the short life of his second brother, he found that his second brother's life from the university was only in those months he was the most leisurely in the process of the exam, Except for the month before the first exam, he tried to stay at home and study hard, and for the next six months, he lived a life of leisure, and then whenever there was an exam, he would go back to the exam, and when he didn't, he would help his mother do something at home. The only thing he didn't give up www.biquge.info was the creation of one of his novels, and during that time he only maintained the speed and level of writing 300,000 words. For the first three months, he spent a month studying for exams, the first month and the next month to use the morning to start creating, in the afternoon he began to help his mother with farm work, and for the last four months or so he went to help out in a new furniture store opened by their maternal uncle, and during those four months he basically did not give up his work except for one month when he read one book a day and a month. Just when he was writing the two ends of the month when his father's exam was written, the beginning was when he was preparing to register for the exam, and the end was that he had come back from the exam, and it happened to be the time of engagement and marriage before and after, and everything was completely a matter of stapling, and nearly ten years of feelings had already been integrated into their respective minds at that moment, and as for the end and a new beginning, it was so natural, and the last time we said, the people in his engagement team were playing mahjong, Even people who don't play mahjong also go over to see the excitement together, leaving only him Wu Yuan a person you don't want to play mahjong and don't want to watch others play mahjong, so he can only sit where to play his mobile phone in isolation, his biggest goal in life is to create, and he is bored to create something, dozing off for a while, and finally staying up to the time for dinner in the afternoon, a few people sat together and ate a meal without language, and then said goodbye from the woman's house, and then returned to his hometown. Then it was the process of Ben's wedding that he experienced after the exam, at that time he had already passed the exam thoroughly, and there were no worries in his heart, but he wrote for a few days while slowly doing farm work that he had not done for many years, which made him almost want to lie down, but finally continued to persist under his strong will. Of course, in Bin's opinion, if his second brother didn't have so complete willpower, he wouldn't be able to go to the back road, it is completely possible for people to live in poverty all their lives, but if a person wants to stay in the world of books all day long, it is difficult for anyone in this world to do it, and these are undeniable facts, and in the end, even when helping his mother do those very hard farm work, He also thoroughly showed his spirit of never giving up on what he was engaged in, his spirit is that when things are more difficult and painful, he must choose to persevere, he feels that he may not be able to do things better, but he can get the greatest tempering of his body and mind because of this. Just three days before Ben was preparing for the wedding banquet, which was also the last time for their father Ming in his life but a responsibility that he had to take on in his life, Wu Yuan, who was helping his mother at home with farm work, was called over, and from that moment on, a banquet in the rural world was slowly surging around him.

Ben's mother, Li, took the lead in finding a one-stop stir-fry chef, selected the dishes and seasonings that needed to be used at the banquet, took the menu back first, and then took the lead in the order of drying first and then wetting, the longer fresh-keeping time first, and the shorter fresh-keeping time lasting. There was also an unusual thing happening in the middle of this, because Wu Yuan and their uncle happened to have a tricycle that could pull goods, so they made an appointment with him the day before, and gave them the goods that had been purchased on the street the next day. Losing a day's wages is not counted, the most important thing is a little thing that wasted his time in vain, and he quickly regrets and changes his mind.

His method of dealing with it was: first make a phone call to his nephew Ben on his mobile phone, and first ask Ben if there are many things to buy the next day.

When he suddenly heard such a question without a more accurate estimate, Ben couldn't say why for a while, he thought that his uncle asked him how many goods he had just so that he could take care of things and arrange his own time, so he casually gave him a general reply from this uncle: "There are not many goods." After that, he didn't say any more.

When he pricked up his ears to listen to what he was going to say that he would give him a better request and suggestion, what he didn't expect was that his uncle replied to him: "If there is not much goods, then you can carry it by hand tomorrow, and there is no need for the car to go, I can still do a day's work tomorrow." ”

He was also talking to his nephew in a consultative tone, but when he heard his uncle's words, he couldn't say a reason for a while, just when he heard his uncle say that he wanted to do another day's life the next day, a faint anger rose inexplicably in his inner world at that moment, but he still had the upbringing he should have on the surface, and he quickly replied verbally at that moment: "Okay, I'll just find another car to pull it tomorrow." ”

As soon as he hung up the phone, he began to growl and complain a little in front of his father and mother: Back? If you use so many things on your back, you may not be able to carry them all in a day, and it rains all day after such a long journey, so it is very safe to carry it? ”

When his father heard him say this, he asked him in a slack, unequivocal tone, "What is he talking about?" ”

Ben explained to his father in his own tone: "He said that he wanted to do a day of living tomorrow, and told us to use our backs. ”

His father's words, he said that, and he didn't say a word again. His father waited until they all stopped talking to Hua Wan, first smiled, his inner world already knew the character of his little number, and then said to the two fathers and sons: "No, let's find a car again tomorrow, I see that the little swallow on the mud slope also has a tricycle, if it doesn't work tomorrow, just ask him to pull it, if it doesn't work tomorrow, after buying vegetables tomorrow, it's okay to find a new tricycle from the street, and call any one to pull it, it's nothing more than to give him dozens of dollars more." As soon as he opened his mouth, he crackled and listed the ways and means of dealing with things in his thighs.

After listening to his mother's words, Ben nodded and said, "Okay, tomorrow I will call the little swallow of the mud slope to pull it." After saying that, he went upstairs to his room, leaving his mother alone in front of his father, talking and nagging, and his father's tone and voice with some categorical sound, in fact, he had no need to speak, just listened silently beside him, and finally the reason why he could still hear his tone in those homes was nothing more than to tell his wife that he was still by her side, and was still listening to him carefully. Then his wife's chatter went on and on.

The next day, when Wu Yuan rushed to their house early in the morning according to their distress agreement, the first thing he heard was everything that happened to them with his aunt the day before, Wu Yuan listened to them, and also expressed the character of their uncle at that time, and then it was a busy day to go to the county town to purchase, the only difference from what they had accumulated before was that after buying what should be bought, Ben did not call his uncle to go over to pull vegetables, Didn't call any swallow pigeon to pull, in fact, he went to the place where he lived in the county town and rented a gray car of Citroen brand, and then he himself loaded the vegetables he needed to buy that day in the car and slowly pulled it back, and Wu Yuan only cared about the way of a porter from beginning to end to witness the wedding Western-style feast in the rural world where he had been reunited for a long time, but because of this, his inner world was already full of expectations for that feast. Then he went to Ben's maternal uncle's house once at noon, which was also the second time Wu Yuan went to his maternal uncle's house, and once when he went to his grandfather's grave before, all things were experienced twice before and after a person, and everything slowly became somewhat familiar from strange. Their aunt was still as warm as he remembered. As soon as they arrived, Ben's mother began to chatter and start chatting with their aunt, and finally the sound of them talking made their lunch break and then Wu Yuan heard them say that he had a cancer in his brain before, and went to the hospital in the tunnel bearing to have a surgery, and since then he began to feel compassionate, sometimes even losing his temper, and then when Ben and his mother, and his aunt heard movement in his uncle's room, the sound of chatting suddenly stopped, Then he saw his uncle come out of the room with a cane, and then slowly sat down on the sofa beside him and began to talk with his youngest sister, first about the family in the village where the child had been married, and the banquet had been for nothing. When the topic came to this point, Ben's mother seemed to suddenly remember that there was nothing he had done yet, and then he suddenly remembered that it was he who had asked Ben's aunt to give him money a few times before, and he had not given them his aunt until now, and then he took advantage of the fact that he could still think of it, and then returned to the chair to chat with his uncle, and finally talked about Ben's marriage because of his illness. He suddenly talked about it was his relative who told him not to go, saying that he was afraid that he, who was an uncle, would suddenly cry and cry at his grandson's wedding, and that when the time came, it would bring bad omens to his grandson in the rest of his life in someone else's house, and then he would not let him go. When he said this, the little crying problem on his body suddenly showed itself at that moment, and his tears soon passed through his own hands, and then as if tears flowed down his face, Ben saw this situation, and quickly said in a somewhat tough and categorical tone inherited from his father, as if in a comforting tone: "Uncle can go over when the time comes, go and sit and play, if you can't go, forget it, next time you have time to play in the past." ”

His uncle slowly cracked his own tears, and then found out from his pocket the handkerchiefs that people in the twenty-first century no longer use, and switched to disposable tissues, but which were still very popular in their time. In their time, Xi Shi has red and white ceremonies, of which red ceremonies refer to marriage, white Shih Tzu refers to the death of the elderly, whenever there is a red ceremonial event, the bride will bring fried rice and small square handkerchiefs from her mother's side, and then use a small square handkerchief to wrap fried rice and send it to children or younger than the groom's younger brothers and nephews than the age of the groom. The small square handkerchief was then shattered by the impact of the new economy in the new era, and gradually disappeared from people's sight. But some older people still maintain the habit of carrying a handkerchief with them instantly.

After Ben's uncle touched his handkerchief and wiped away the tears on his face, his complexion and mentality slowly returned to normal, originally Ben and his mother also knew his uncle's psychological condition, so they didn't say anything, they only vaguely felt that his uncle was slowly approaching the last memorial of their Shang Ming, who had been outdated for many years, and his body was slowly declining, but after seeing this scene, Ben's mother was even more emotional in his inner world, she felt that their father seemed to be back with them, and they suddenly found the familiar feeling of the past, and the more they reached this time, they had a kind of admiration for this body that was slowly declining in their inner world. In this world, everything that belongs to people independent of other creatures ultimately acts on the memory that everyone has only their own, and when each person's life has a rare memory, their inner world will invisibly have a little more nostalgia for each food. The reason why the people who come and go all day long on the street is actually alive or dead is simply because their brains do not contain the memories associated with them at all.

While Ben's mother was chatting with his uncle, the things they needed to take care of began to be taken care of, and they took a small bucket of marsh peppers, a bundle of green onions, and a large bundle of garlic seedlings from his aunt, and then they took their leave, and his uncle and aunt came out and drove his car rented from the county rental office and went back to the county town to buy other things. By the time all the goods needed to be purchased on the first day were enough and I returned home, it was already three or four o'clock in the afternoon. At this time, those who contracted the one-stop kitchen service for this wedding banquet also used one or two tricycles to pull the various tools they needed for the wedding banquet Dehou Junior High School at this time, and then they had a few hands to carry all the kitchen utensils to the place where Ben's mother specially prepared for them, and after they finished carrying it, they ordered all the goods issued this time by themselves, and when they confirmed that the goods they sent were accurate except for the loss of a basket, When the fire was stirred up again in the hands of the master's house, and the resident was asked to make sure that the goods they had received were accurate with the goods on the list, a temporary contract for the goods was concluded between the two parties, and then they hurried back with their or their tricycles.

There was nothing to say there, but after returning home and putting away all the things that should be put away, it was less than a moment to rest. Ming first called his friends who were able to get Gou Qing, including Wu Yuan and his father, and invited them over, and after the friends who should have been invited were all in place, then he became bigger and called the manager in the village who was okay in his heart and the escort Mr. Lang they were going to invite in distress, but after the phone called, the manager said that they were all drinking in Mr. Lang's house, and they would come over together after a while. In fact, everyone in each village knows very well in their hearts that the contradictions and turmoil between Ming and the entire village represented by Tao have not passed for a few months, and almost all of them will still be in the memories and aftershocks of this incident, although there is no more direct conflict between the domain names in the hearts of a set of people who represent the accident, but Ming's previous drunken exaggeration with some of the exaggerated remarks that are almost arrogant in their eyes has also indirectly and slowly hurt their hearts. Up to that time, almost all the people in the village were still sitting on the fence when Ming had stopped the marriage of his youngest son, Ben, and from their own point of view, a subtle psychology had taken place in them that even they could not have seen themselves, and they were both silent venting about what had happened to them, and at the same time they were really envious of the lives of other people's families. In their own words: "There was such a big thing before, now it's up to him how it ends." ”

In fact, probably Ming also had his own awakening to the mistake he had made before, and since that incident he had not left his house for the next few months, and he had seen through all the mundane worlds of this world, which suddenly prompted him to be mentally isolated from the whole world and retreat to the mountains and forests; At the same time, he thought about a person who had already realized that he had made a big mistake and hid in a corner by himself, afraid of the punishment of the adult, and did not dare to say a word. In those months, even Wu Yuan's father, Guo Yeming's best friend in the village, also said: "Let him calm down for a while first." ”

Probably because of this, since the long-term accumulation of hatred between him and the village, which has been a long-term accumulation of hatred, and the vaguely formed contradictions in the village, until the two nights before Ben's wedding, he has only been to the village once, and that time was also from the time between Ben's engagement and his marriage, and he drank and chatted with their father once in the middle of the marriage, and then he went straight home and never came out except for a few times on the street on the way.

It wasn't until one time he called to invite the chief steward and the escort in the village that Ming heard from their words and deliberately excused himself, with his decades of experience in society, where could this little trick escape his ears and speak, when he heard the other party have flickering prevarication in it, he suddenly aggravated his characteristic tone and only stood on tiptoe and said: "Do you want me to call someone to drive over to pick you up?" ”

Even if the other party has such a meaning, but in line with the weakness that everyone should have, they dare to express their original inner world thoughts directly, given that when they first talked to them, they themselves said too absolutely, and they couldn't get off the stage for a while, for an individual with absolute self-esteem, he couldn't listen to Ming's words and then say "Let's come right away"! So although they did feel a little uncomfortable after listening to Ming's words at that time, they really lived up to the invitation of others without damaging their own self-esteem, so they could only slow down their tone further and repeat the sentence just now: "Come over later, I'm drinking." ”

Although Ming also heard that there was some softening and compromise in their tones, but he had also said it in advance in order to achieve his own purpose, and he would never be stingy with what he had said and the promises he had made, his tone not only did not weaken, but also had some aggravation, and he said to the other end of the phone again: "Okay! I'm calling someone to pick you up in a car. After finishing speaking, he immediately put down the phone, but did not hang up the voice as usual, and then he walked out of the door, stood in the courtyard, straightened his neck, and shouted to Ben, who was arranging a new house upstairs: "The third child! ”

Ben heard his father's voice from upstairs and said yes to his father, and quickly ran out of his upstairs room.

"Drive and fetch them," his father continued, after seeing him quickly walk out of the room after hearing the call, "Xiao Jiang and Xiao Lin, they are both drinking at Xiao Jiang's house. ”

Ben listened to his father's instructions, and with only an "oh" in his mouth, he quickly ran downstairs, took out the key, reopened the Citroen he had rented from the market, and drove out again. But Ming turned around and went back to his downstairs living room, and began to talk and laugh with Wu Yuan, their father, and a group of friends again. Immediately, his second brother and third brother, who belonged to half of the master, also rushed over, and soon a large table was gathered, and the night before the wedding celebration also got a silent luck and beginning at that moment, and the group of men who were nearly middle-aged were eager to try for an upcoming wedding carnival.

Ming took the lead in talking: "I called Xiao San to turn on the car to pick them up, come over and eat first, and then persuade them to hand over all the things that should be at the junction, tonight, a few people just sit up and drink some wine." Then they chatted about something else, and when Ben drove the car back again, the third brother of the fifth daughter-in-law of Gui named Xiao Lin was also picked up by him with the car, accompanied by Chun, Ming's god-relatives probably also drank together in the Bao family of the second-generation village that was elected by the public in the second-generation village where the son inherited his father's business, and two or three of them were also on their own feet, and another person was also pulled back by a car, but in the end, Xiao Mingjiang, The person who was going to be invited to be Mr. Pressure Li because there was really something at home didn't come together, but Xiao Lin, who was invited to come over for all the daily affairs of the prime minister in the past few days, was invited over. In fact, they have experienced this kind of affairs in the village countless times, and the process of the matter has already been familiar to them, and they can handle the things that should be handled well without explaining how to explain them. The reason why he had to call them all over a day in advance was that for Wu Yuan, who was present at the time, it was just within the scope of the etiquette of the master in the world to entertain guests, and as he had experienced before, only after the person who was invited over accepted the corresponding etiquette given by the host's family, this indirectly proved that he was willing to accept all the things entrusted by the master's family, and the host family could rest assured and boldly entrust the things that needed to be handled with the guests next, and only after that, Only then can the host and the guests get along more harmoniously and handle all the things that need to be handled well, which should be said to be the first salute and then the soldier. Xiao Lin and Wu Yuan and the others also accepted the courtesy and customs given by the master in the same time limit, and then by the way, they were ready to work overtime for the master in the next few days to do everything that should be done. Knowing that everything was done that day, only Wu Yuan and Ben were still busy, and when they were busy with everything, it was time to rest at night, so Wu Yuan directly arranged to rest in the upstairs room of his house.

After a night of silence, until the dawn of the morning broke again, the things that needed to be busy in the new day slowly rose with the dawn of the morning and re-entered his reincarnation. Probably because of the smoking that has been rushing his brain, Ben has always been unnormal in those few days, almost every day is being renewed in his inner world to sprint to sleep, he found that he suddenly wanted to go back to his teenage years and suddenly needed to do something the next morning, even if he slept late the night before, but as long as he felt the dawn of the sea of the ship a little shiny, As if there was something exciting that he needed to do right away, he would suddenly wake up from his sleep, and the first thing he would do was the other cell phone that was sitting next to his pillow, and then turn it on and squint at the time in the light that suddenly came out of the still dark air, and he wanted to see if the time he had scheduled to wake up the night before had arrived. When he saw the time exactly after the incident he had expected to get up, he suddenly sat up from the bed when he wanted to laugh when he woke up, yawned first, stretched his hands hard to the roof, stretched hard, quickly put on his clothes and then got up, the long-lost youthful feeling suddenly came at that moment, and the habit in his heart prompted him to be treated in time is that he will not feel tired after sleeping for five or six hours, but in the past, shortly before her marriage, Since he really entered the society in school, due to work, he will become a night owl every day, and when he gets up every day, it is already eleven or twelve o'clock at noon, and sometimes he even gets up at one or two o'clock. If it weren't for work, he suddenly felt bored in his life for nearly ten years, and he suddenly didn't feel how meaningful life could be except for the need to survive and get a lot of money.

In the whole human world, although everyone is afraid that they are living in infinite suffering, and everyone will try their best to avoid the painful life from coming to themselves, it is impossible for people to enjoy the happiness of this world with their hearts and minds when there are no storms and storms. At that time, people will only use cigarettes, alcohol, mahjong, and games to try to numb their brains, but once they are freed from these taboos and objects and gadgets that are not suitable for children, their inner world will feel bored exponentially, and their mental world will in turn stimulate the painful nerve in their respective brains, because the mental pain and their physical pain will also make the nerve in their brain that can feel pain suffer the same suffering and suffering. Who can imagine that there are few people in this world who do not want to be able to obtain their own happiness, they are trying their best to avoid all the pain they have suffered in life, but sometimes, the strong desire for a happy life in the inner world does not mean that a person can be endlessly happy, and there is a possibility that when we are all in unlimited desire and pursuit of their own happy life, Time seems to be following the desire for happiness in our inner world to obtain in the rapid passage of time, and when people turn back, everything seems to be regarded as happiness in the pursuit of happiness in the pursuit of happiness in the process of running and yearning for life is regarded as the most direct and cheapest fuel for his life, when people need the heat of happiness. The passage of things that have been used as the fuel for the pursuit of a happy life will be increased, and when the fuel of happiness has burned out, the pursuit of an infinite happy life will come to an abrupt end, however, we never have to doubt that as long as they are optimistic, they will eventually have a way, because when they look back at their lives, they have lived a happy life except for the last nothing. And only pessimistic people, they are always afraid that they will lose everything, and even in the end they will always have nothing, so they would rather be more miserable in the reality of China, and then leave everything good in their lives, so their lives will always be very poor. They are even willing to accept all the pain in life, seriously, hard, and assiduously manage everything they should need to have in life, and with the management and tempering of time, they eventually became billionaires in this world, just when everyone feels that they are happier than most people in this world, in fact, they live more painfully than most people in this world, and then they accumulate more material wealth in their lives, But in the course of their lives, their souls have accepted all the trials and pains that they should and should not accept in their lives, but they console themselves in the market that they are rejoicing in suffering, and therefore they also have their own happiness in the depths of their souls, which in their own words is called fame and fortune. Happiness and joy and even all the pain and wealth in the world have been experienced and owned, and what do couples want. The fact has developed to this point, in fact, we have no way to find that most people in the whole world are pursuing a happy life, on the one hand, is based on the material health, that is, the kind of pessimistic people we said before, as for the optimistic people, their happiness is completely different, their happiness can only be built on the basis of the spirit, if you want to ask what kind of lifestyle in this world is called happiness, in fact, it is happy anyway, Because happiness only lies in the fact that people can have it when they want to have it, and people care that time cannot change their material life, or can they still have their own mentality that can be changed, so in this case, when we ask the other side, what is there in this world that is just unhappy? As for Ben's kind of happiness, Wu Yuan believes that everything is based on the supremacy of spirit, and time is proving that he is slowly entering his marriage hall step by step. The happy life of the upcoming marriage is close at hand, burning eyebrows, this state and trend has been going out of his mind to live in excitement, he is like a note to write a very effective stimulant, even if the sleep is very short, but there has never been a haircut, the whole person is working hard for what he needs to do, running up and down all day long, running far and near, even if he is too busy, his face is still full of entangled smiles, maybe that is the power of love in the world, At least Wu Yuan, who has rarely experienced these worldly activities in the real world, does think so in his own inner world. All he knew was that when he got out of bed, the three of him were already busy, even though none of his guests had come but him.

After Wu Yuan washed up quickly, he returned home happily and went back with clothes. Mr. Bao, who had been picked up by car the day before but did not come with him because of something, also came over at that time. According to the plan that had been agreed upon, there were two things to do in that day. The first thing is to arrange a group of people to give gifts to the woman's family, and the rice, wine, cigarettes, drinks and other items bought the day before have begun to come in handy at that time, almost half of the things have to be divided into two, and then a team with a gift will be sent to the woman's family together. The second thing is that the host needs to kill a pig to entertain all the guests at this feast, and the final time for killing the pig is also scheduled on this day. In the rural world, killing pigs is also a festive thing, he also represents the rural world in the happy and blessed after a year of harvest, so every family kills pigs at home to raise some better relatives and friends, the more people represent the more festive the days of life, at this time, Ming for a year of pigs no matter how pure they are not willing to kill, the purpose is to wait until the day that has been predetermined to be happy and happy. All the happy events are also slowly running from that moment on.

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