With the passage of time, when their names for each other gradually increase on the original basis, they will become more unfamiliar with their relationship with each other, and they gradually copy each of their life forms into a family group in their own life system, and as a result, when they all develop into a life system, except for a few brothers and sisters who are on a blind date, they forget that it is a relationship of one lineage, and when the relationship becomes a little strange, There will be less tolerance and mutual understanding, and more about the competition between interests, when a family loses their relationship of mutual tolerance and mutual tolerance. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info will also be a little more strife, less harmonious, more will only be some small things to compete with each other, less belong to their sense of belonging to their own life, but more distrustful of each other.

When the village developed to Wuyuan and their area, it was already the eighth generation of my surname descendants, they not only had the name of the big village and the Shau Ketian with the region as the belt, but also the overall name of the region as their family branch, and at the same time they had their own name within the big family and their own small family. Later, Choi moved around what he considered to be a family system that belonged to him closer, and it was a small family system formed by his grandfather's father's father's three sons. But whenever there is still something in the village, his mother will still come over to maintain their main connections in the entire Wu family, to a certain extent, his mother has not separated from their family relationship and sense of belonging in the family system of the whole village, they will still consider that one day they have wandered outside enough, and they no longer want to stay outside, they will still return to this land where there were his childhood footprints and his father's bones are buried. The land on which his father built the house is still his father's ancestral inheritance, and although the house is now dilapidated, he can still find his own sense of belonging in this land. Although he didn't understand what this feeling was, he had to admit that it calmed him down every part of his psyche, and at the same time made him feel safe when he thought about the things in his life that he didn't have at any other time. This feeling made him feel that even if he had found nothing after years of wandering outside, his life would be safe, and that it would be a big deal for him to return to the land that his father had left him, and that he would still be able to feed himself with the acres and thirds of the land that his father had left him.

As a person gradually enters adulthood and middle age, he becomes less and less secure about the outside world. When they are young, they can create a place for them to survive with their physical strength, but when they consider that they themselves are gradually losing their physical labor, their own wealthy families will be left with nothing, and when they lose their own physical creativity, everything they have will be dull day by day and disappear with the consumption of their lives. Every human being, if they have a clear understanding of their own life, will reserve for them the material things that will enable them to spend their old age in the future when they are not able to work, rather than squandering everything they have created while they are still creative. When a person is able to make a plan for their old age when they are unable to work themselves, they will gradually mature in life. Their maturity also lies in their ability to make a plan for their own lives that ensures safety and development, rather than just temporary joy and joy as when they want to laugh. From these conditions, it is enough to prove that the person who already has a life of his own is mature, whether he can make a more long-term plan for his life, and the more mature he is, the more he will be able to challenge his whole life as they have never been before, because they can fully compensate for their own needs in the long run. When their current life is satisfied, they need to plan their current creative ability to a more long-term future, reserve all the materials they may need for their future, and be able to make the use of the materials they do not need in their lives more long-term and safer, instead of using them today and returning a new one tomorrow, which will only make their creation of less and less material, and not necessarily how much they can plan for their own lives. People who can see more long-term will be more careful about their life planning, they must make all the plans for their own life while they are still capable of creating, if a person can make a more long-term plan for his whole life, at least such a person will be rich for life, because they have learned to use wisdom to plan their own life, they understand that everything is in the process of creating for themselves.

At least he has experienced more hardships than others in his life, and he has honed himself to be more mature here. When he has more than ten times more material conditions of life than his father did today, and has obtained the honor of his own life and the material prosperity of his life, he does not need to bear all the responsibilities and all the sufferings in his creation, he needs to obtain everything at the same time, he must give and take responsibility, which is also the process of the development of things that those like him must go through, but those who understand all this will also understand the true meaning of their livesThey are not enjoying life alone, but life brings them more distress and constantly catching up with the creation they need to continue to move forward, and you don't need to take on the creation equal to your enjoyment while you need to have something, he must bear all the pain and pain in their own bones while she is acquainted, and then let them become the energy that they need to continue to move forward in life. A person who understands their own life will never choose to flee from the pain and troubles they need to face, they can only choose to avoid it as much as possible, if they can't avoid it, they will directly face it, and all evasion will only make them destitute.

After more than ten years of his creation, when he had everything that he had basically satisfied so far in his life, it was also related to his father's death and their siblings' mother who followed them to marry their stepfather, and the suffering he endured in the process also gave him a lot of blows and re-education, until later he had not only surpassed everything his father had used before his death, but also had the material life that he had already surpassed and had already surpassed his father's eldest brother, Although he was a few years younger than his cousin, the creative ability and material abundance he possessed today had long surpassed that of his cousin. The reason why there is such a big difference between their achievements today is that the life education they have taught is completely relevant, they will have the love of his father and the end of his wayward character, and under the world where his father supports the whole family, his life is basically free of any responsibility and commitment, he can squander everything he has created, and he does not need to take any responsibility for his whole family and himself. But wealth is different from him, he has to bear the pain of his father's death and his mother became an orphan overnight and his mother remarried after their sisters and heirs toiled for a living under the fence, as a result, when he had a job of his own, he cherished this hard-won financial source and income to support him, and after more than ten years he has been insisting on his own business, learning his own craft and technology, and finally he began to create his own business, Then he had his own family background. And Hui is different from him, he has been away for more than ten years, but when he comes back, he still has nothing, he lives in the house that his father gradually built after the age of fifty, from more than ten years to the present, in the end he still has nothing. Until later, he still lived his life of working hard outside, and he did not have the time and funds to establish a system of his own, let alone get the embodiment of his maximum value like money. In the course of his life, he had completely detached himself from the family system of personal technology inherited from his great-grandfather's generation, and until later in his life he still had to sell his physical strength to earn every expense in his life. He was no longer a cook in the kitchen, like his grandfather, a master stonemason, a country doctor like his grandfather's three brothers, and not a plasterer like his father's three brothers, one a carpenter, one a driver, and the other a plasterer in the new development. is not like his two younger sisters, who have a stable job of their own through the process of studying. Including the three sons from his great-grandfather, *, Ming, and Hua, his father's generation of Qing, Chun, Qi, Bo, Zhong, and Tai, and his own generation of Renjun, Song, Chao, Yong, Cai, and Hao, they were all the ships of the next generation that had been conceived among the brothers, laughing, *. Except for being good, laughing, and still just a little hairy child, each of these children and grandchildren under his great-grandfather used a craft that they could survive without relying on others. * is the chef in charge of the village, his two sons Qing and Chun both have the skills of pig slaughterers, and Qi is a professional household in flue-cured tobacco cultivation and has the technology of flue-cured tobacco; Bo is a well-known carpenter, Zhong is a tractor driver, led by Tai, including the military, Song, Chao, Yong, ship, they are all plasterers were born, Cai is engaged in aluminum alloy decoration material technology, and later will be even more unable to bear this kind of self-employment and get the hardship of survival, he would rather sit indoors from morning to eleven o'clock at night than accept the lifestyle of the Yulin sun outside, but until he has been in his thirties, He still didn't have a profession that would stabilize him and allow him to learn a professional and technical profession, his eyes were still only living on the thousands of dollars they could earn a month, and he never thought about what he would need to do when he lost his own ability to work, and he never thought about how long he could stay in the outside world where he lived, and judging by the creative power he was currently using, until the day when he no longer dared to dare anymore, how much value he could create of his own, What's more, when he no longer likes to stay outside at all, how many valuable things can he have to bring back to his lifetime, and whether all the wealth he has created outside can be converted into the value of survival that he will bring in the future. At the moment, he created more value than all the members of his family in the village, but could he keep all the money they had until the time when he didn't want to do it anymore. While this consideration was a bit too high for him, at least so far his income was still higher than that of the other older members of his family, and even more so than the individual income of most of the people in the village. But he never thought about it, and even most of the people in the whole village didn't think about it, in fact, the money they spent most of their lives hoping to earn came easily, and when they went, it would be more quickly, and when the money they used their own bodies to transfer was squandered in the blink of an eye, the time they used to create money value was wasted by themselves themselves, and what they lost could never be returned to their own hands. They must have the need to spend their own youth to impulse creation, but then they are still losing their own youth.

All of Hui's misfortunes from his grandfather down to the fact that they didn't own a house that looked pleasant, and even from all the uncles and brothers under his grandfather, they were all troubled by the problem of Cotton Ren. For the first forty years of his life, the youngest brother was faced with the distress and panic of his difficult living conditions and not fleeing to his daughter-in-law, but when he was faced with his own troubles, even he himself could not change things, he always lay in his own bed every day and wondered how his life needed to be changed, he reduced his own life to everything because he himself was penniless, and from the esophagus he only spent all his energy thinking about how to make money, On the basis of how to use money to improve his own living conditions, as a result he spent all his free time in the fantasy of lying in bed and his life of playing mahjong for entertainment. He had never considered that many things were created by man before, he himself was a labor ability in all his labor time, even if he had no money, but he had his own hands and a body of creative ability, he could paint everything he wanted to have for decades, and he could get it with the creative ability of his own hands, and as a result, she didn't care and naturally had nothing, until in the end, the longer he was alone, the greater the youth and life he had, the greater the consumption of his youth and life, He became more and more panicked as he grew older, but in the process of panic it remained nothing, because all his creative abilities were wasted on lying in his own bed, and he could only see in his eyes the world of money, which was still nothing, and as a result, the more he craved it, it was always difficult for him to get to him, and he himself was even more unable to use it to create his own house. He never considered that in his own free time, others spent one day creating the value of four people, he could have spent four days creating his own value through his own labor ability, and in the twenty years of his life, not to mention just a house, he could have spent more time creating his own valuable things. The most important thing is that he has a fantasy of his own province, and at the same time, he has no goal of his own, let alone what kind of plan he will have. When he squandered all the money he had created, everything he had before would be consumed by himself, and in the blink of an eye he would be left with nothing again.

Wuyuan's eldest brother has emphasized many times that the most important thing in this human body is the time he has and the ability to create the value of oil prices in the process of the time he has. When Tai is still lying on his own bed thinking about his own life, before he thinks of his own valuable method, what he thinks about will still have his own value, when he has his own valuable method and he is still lying in bed and doing nothing, he is already consuming the time of his youth, and as a result, his consumption is twenty years. All the results can be boiled down to the fact that he did not find a piece of money that could create value for him, but he did not sleep and did not know that he still had his own ability to work, and when he still had his own ability to work, as long as he could have a goal of his own, he could create value that he did not expect. He has never considered that he is creating value when he can create value with the time he has and all the labor power he has, but if he has his own time and at the same time he has his own labor capacity, and he does not create the value he has, then he is wasting his own youth and time. It's just that he has never studied the economics of labor value like Champagne, and when he has never felt that he has never been powerless, when he himself has not yet reached the age of forty, he still feels that he is a teenager who has not grown up, and he still lies in his own bed and carries out his idealistic fantasies, and the utopian fantasies that do not put time into it can only limit his thinking to certain scopes and limitations, and so on. Even if he had been dreaming for years, no matter how many years he had been thinking about it in his bed, his mind could only spin in place until the problem in front of him was solved. He was always thinking about his own life and the problems he encountered in life for the sake of the problems that he needed to solve most at the moment, and he thought about it for twenty years. The reason is very simple, he has not stopped thinking about his present attainment and what he needs to achieve in the future during these twenty years, but as a result he has not done anything that he should have done for these lives that can change his present state of existence, and as a result, his life has not changed in any way for twenty years, and God has not even changed the sheets on which he lies every day. As a result, twenty years were spent unconsciously in the blink of an eye, and the result was such a thing, what he was like when he was an adult, and what he was still like when he was forty years old, and he was in the direction of the bed where he and himself never changed her sleeping position, and what he looked like was what he was, and finally it was the government relief that broke the pattern. Almost everyone in the village felt that their sister should be worthy of relief, and this was the opportunity. For the first time in his own life, he quickly took action, and then he rebuilt two houses of his own next to one of the houses left by his father, his one that had been lying for decades, and he had not changed the sheets and bedding several times, he had not changed the direction of his sleeping position, and when he himself recalled the time he had experienced, his inner world would have a panicked bed, and he also regained his eldest brother, sister-in-law, and nephews and nieces while his father was still alive. and moved down from the floor of the house that he was holding with his mother, but soon after he moved down to live in a new house built with government relief, there was a time of fratricidal killing between brothers in the Han family, and in the process of their brothers' quarrel, the brother took out the folding knife he usually used for small fruits, and in a panic, he lightly stabbed his second brother from the left inner side, but he didn't expect this generation to stab the vital point, his second brother's wife and son heard that their husband and father were killed. As a result, they were so angry that they chased their brother-in-law and ran all over the mountains. His uncle's knife was just to scare his second brother, but in a fit of anger, the knife really stabbed in. The moment his knife stabbed into his second brother's body, he himself felt a panic, and at the same time, he felt that he was at fault, and saw his second sister-in-law and his nephew coming in her direction to find him desperately, but he ran away. His sister-in-law and nephew were also in hot pursuit after him, and at last almost the whole village ran through, and when he looked back and saw that his sister-in-law and nephew had not chased after him, he stopped and breathed a sigh of relief. His sister-in-law and nephew took off the news of his second brother's death the next day, because it was a criminal case, the second uncle in his house was a person who had been a village intellectual, knew some legal knowledge, and reported to the police after hearing about this incident, and the people from the police station rushed over to conduct an autopsy, and after figuring out the development of the matter, they circled the fact that the criminal case had constituted a crime, In the end, they ordered the brother who chased him to come to the case and take his due criminal responsibility. After killing his second brother once that night, this little brother of his never returned home again, and the next day he heard the news that his second brother had died. After hearing the news, he kept hiding and did not dare to come out, but this group of police officers laid a net for several days, and finally arrested this little brother of their family, and after approval from all sides, he was sentenced to ten years in prison.

Less than two years later, Tay took over the widow, whose husband had already been killed by his brother. It was only at this time that Tai re-formed a new family of his own, but when Tai had his own house and his own family base, his career actually developed in a hurry, and suddenly he lived a rich life with no worries about food and clothing. When he took over the Han family's brother and widow, whose husband had just been killed by his brother, to start his own family, the latest difficulty he faced was the opposition of her son, as if the first abuse she had received in her life was that he had been forcibly weaned by his mother, and he had not yet had such grief since his father was killed; Then the second abuse of his life force must have been that his mother had abandoned him and given it to someone else, and he could not tolerate his mother's love being given to anyone else unconditionally, and things were completely unexpected, and in the end he blamed all the blame for his mother's departure to Thai's provocation, and he ran to Thai's house with an unprecedented anger and wail, and as a result, he did not listen to his advice at all. Tai closed his door in this situation and let it wail there, and finally waited for two days before the sound of this wailing weakened, the widow's son of the Han family seemed to know the doom of this end, all this was his mother's willing decision, he knew that there was nothing he could do about it, and in the end he had to admit defeat, but he no longer wailed to his mother and Tai when he went down, his mother suddenly walked back to his house when they were usually at home, Continuing to deal with some of the things that his mother should have dealt with when she was at home, it was only then that he realized that he had not lost the maternal love he had since birth. The wife's move of going too far won over the widow's son, who was still strongly opposed to the two of them together, and the house he had hired was suddenly full of popularity, which also suddenly added a rare person to him in the career he developed later, and Tai suddenly found his sense of responsibility as the head of the family in this process, and he suddenly dared to jump the beam that he couldn't dare to provoke before, Then he led his stepson, led by his wife, to contract some things that he had never considered before, and this change turned out to be that his income suddenly increased several times on the original basis. His family has suddenly become more abundant than before, and the state of human existence has been changed like never before, which is also something he had never thought of before, and it also directly reflects the important role and role played by a woman in the family, and this role and role is so irreproducible, and it is so irreplaceable, which is also something that he has never considered before he trampled on his own family. He suddenly understood that a person not only needs to create value externally, but also needs to create value for himself. A person owns his own house or some kind of noble career, it is just a kind of framework creation, these sensible things are also within the power of men, but if you want to build something richer in this framework, you also need to fill in the creation with Superman Weiwei, only in this way will life not seem empty and cold like only having an imitation, and even more unpopular. This kind of happy life originally belonged to the world of two people, and if there were only men in such a world, then their world would only have a framework and no substantiation; In the same way, if there are only women and no men in this world, then their world will only be a messy mess. This world is originally a combination between two people, and when they lack one of them during their summer vacation, then their whole world will be out of balance all of a sudden, and it will no longer be a perfect lifestyle, which is why this world has the ultimate combination of man and woman. The biggest reason for them is that you can't live without me, and I can't get along with you, and if my life is without your existence, it will be imperfect and full of more flaws, so they will find the needed side of their own lives together. They are still as hungry as they were in their youth, precisely because of the scarcity between each other in their lives, and when two people have their own scarcity and are united, they are not only not an increase in scarcity, but a perfect combination of a happy life. The union of the widows of the Tai and Han families is that they have both passed the kind of light youth, and their union is more about the mutual needs of reason and the complementarity of the needs of their lives. When a person has passed the prime of their youth, when their life has passed the age of their own forty years of life, they will be able to understand more what the most real and scarce thing in their life will be, and when a person knows his own strengths and weaknesses, they will look for ways to make up for their own shortcomings, of course, the things that can make up for a person's shortcomings are better than a person, and at the same time they will continue to expand their strengths, The potential of their lives will be more powerful, and it is the exertion of this life point that will enable the cohesion of their lives to reach the highest point of creation, and then their lives will form a powerful creativity. Tai finally got rid of the lack of a house that his father left to his three brothers, and at the same time he had the other half of his life that could make up for him, so that he would not spend the last part of his life in solitude like his uncle Hua, at least he could be regarded as overcoming the loneliness he faced in his life, and no longer the empty and deserted house that left him and his own after his mother died, If this was the case, he felt that he might as well not repair his own two houses later, and when he faced those empty houses alone, if there was no later scene, he would only feel more the loneliness and loneliness in his life. If that were the case, he might as well have lived in the house that his father had left behind, or at least so that he could appear to be living to the fullest. It's just that in the end he has fought for his own results, so everything is just a hypothesis.

* The youngest of the three brothers, Hua, had no sons in his life, but only three daughters, and as a result, all three of his daughters were married to others, and he was the only widow and old man left in the three houses built in front of him. But Watsal was a versatile and rare talent, he liked medicine since he was a child, when he was still studying, he sat in the classroom every day and copied the medical books he borrowed from others, and after a long time, he gradually became a person who knew a little about Chinese medicine, and he was proficient in general medical miscellaneous diseases, especially for the treatment of trauma, he was still a little accomplished, and he also saved lives or many people through his medical skills, but after he lived to be seventy years old, He died of lung cancer, and he studied medicine all his life, but eventually died in the medical books he did not learn. Hua is also because of the skill of soil medicine, he has traveled almost all over the townships and towns of the county, and his reputation is also famous in the surrounding villages, and it is precisely because of him, a person at the level of a local doctor, that has caused Wu Yuan's father country and mother Xiu to have such a marriage today.

Wu Yuan's mother, Xiu, the eldest daughter of her second uncle's family, was also a cousin of hers, Li, who had an illness, and as a result, Xiu's second trial found Hua to help her heal, and later the disease was really cured. At that time, Xiu went to his grandmother's house to play in the hot weather, but when she walked to the river, she took off her shoes, and before the sweat on her feet was dried, she went directly to the inside and soaked her feet in cold water. Her hot feet were stirred by the cold water, and the dilated capillaries poured into the cold water, and as a result, his feet fell to the root of the disease, and every once in a while her disease would attack, and in severe cases, there was even a lame imagination. Later, they heard that Hua would cure the disease, and they also took advantage of Hua to treat Li's illness and invited Xiu to see the root of the disease on Xiu's feet. In fact, it was very simple to cure this problem on Xiu's feet, as long as the blood veins on her feet could flow smoothly, his disease could be cured, but if the blood veins on his feet could not be unblocked and epidemic, the root of the disease would recur. Later, when Xiu knew that the problem in his feet was here, she only had to go to the pharmacy to prescribe two bottles of drugs to relax the muscles and invigorate the blood, and after eating it, her illness suddenly became gone, but before Xiu didn't understand the principle at all, she asked Hua to treat her after the disease, Hua also drank two sips of wine and just talked about wine. At that time, as long as they were craftsmen, what kind of thing they helped a certain family to do, they would be warmly welcomed by the host's family, and they would be treated as guests, and they would be warmly greeted with good wine and meat. After Hua drank some wine, he said that he wanted to introduce a mother-in-law to Xiu, Xiu's girlish mentality at the time, and Hua was also in a state of complete belief, so he agreed to Hua's words in the process of drinking, and later Hua really introduced his mother-in-law's family to Xiu, he probably saw that Wu Yuan's grandfather was honest with himself, and Xiu was a woman who had lameness, and after he came back, he directly introduced Xiu to Rong's eldest son as a daughter-in-law, and this was the case. In the first two months after they got married, Xiu's mother Zhong died early, and she walked into the palace of his marriage just after his mother's funeral. In the entire family of Xiu, Xiu's branch was originally the ancestor of the surname You who came from other places to intervene in the door, and the ancestor of the surname You also had his own family, and also had the family business left to him from his grandparents, and according to legend, there was a lot of family assets, but after his parents died, he was worried about the thieves, and finally those thieves who had been thinking about it for a long time finally came to the door, and they came blatantly to seize the few taels of silver that the ancestor surnamed You inherited from his father. The surname You was also a person who could afford to put it down, he easily threw a few taels of silver left by his father on the ground, and let them come and pick it up by themselves, at this moment, the ancestor took a Yang fork, and shook his hand to fork the Yang fork in his hand to the thief, and then he escaped from his own home, and he never returned to the house left by his parents in his life, and after coming to this place, he directly changed it to the surname of the entire family born in Wu Yuan's mother Xiu, After that, it directly developed into a total of six sisters among Wu Yuan's maternal grandfather.

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