Chapter 48
In any case, when people feel that everything they do is just to be able to survive in this world, for some reason, Wu Yuan always feels that their lives are suddenly much more noble than those words about how much money they make all day long, how much he has a monthly salary or how much he has an annual salary every day. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info just by virtue of this sentence, whether it is a top ten billionaire or a penniless life, they will exude their dazzling brilliance and their own value. I don't know why, even though it was just a simple sentence, but he thought it revealed the essence of life. Do not reflect their own external value in the eyes of others, but really reflect their own inner moderation, but also reflect the most profound understanding of the value of each person's own life, there is always a saying among the people, called "the drum does not need to be hammered", the intrinsic value of the self of life He can be shown and exude dazzling brilliance in the course of his own life, but the premise is that the human mind can make a deeper understanding of the life of the self. Wu Yuan always believed that those who were obsessed with their own life dreamers, but at the very beginning, they were only known as those who were engaged in lowly life activities, and under their strong physical and mental pursuits, they would eventually be able to go to their own world-famous achievements. From beginning to end, the truth of bitterness and then sweetness has never changed in the law of human life, and people can only live in this world and work hard, accumulate and create their own value of hard work, and make their own due contribution to the whole world, then life will also be able to obtain the greatest embodiment of the value of life belonging to oneself under such circumstances. In this, the wisdom of the human mind and the individual will also play an indelible role, and this is also manifested in the fact that on the one hand, people can obtain what they can obtain in a more difficult environment, and on the other hand, they are also trying to ensure that their lives and property are lost to the smallest extent, because in more cases, individuals can only accumulate their greatest strength in a lifetime. However, the power of this life is inseparable from a person's perception of life in the decades he is in and the experiences that various lives may suffer to make a strong prediction, and people will eventually be accompanied by various unusual experiences of life to promote themselves to the highest point of life and growth, but people must also rely on their own wisdom in the process of growth to seize the opportunity to let themselves get up, in people's minds originally need such a process of development between quantitative and qualitative changes, In this way, our thoughts are broadened and expanded in the relationship between our own existence and the existence of all things. In his Wu Yuan's view, this is the ultimate task and result of learning to let one's life obtain its own survival in the complex environment of the whole world. In his inner world, those who only think that they are just creating the conditions for their own survival have found a common hobby and a sense of belonging in life. Probably because of this, he doesn't have much feeling for the joy of enjoying the hustle and bustle in life. People only need to be able to keep their own hearts and bottom lines, and understand whether to change or not change within the scope of their bottom lines, and the whole world can also be displayed more broadly in front of his eyes. The most incomprehensible thing is that when a person grasps the bottom line of my life, the narrower the scope of his life, the more clear and clear the life line of his life will be, and the more because of this, the more he can accommodate each other with the whole world. In his opinion, but the more single the bottom line of a person's life is, even when there is only one day left for his lifeline, his life will be to the legendary "unbeatable Xiaoqiang", as long as there is space left for his dog, he will be able to fly and climb to any corner of time. Of course, the prerequisite is that it must have the prerequisites for its own existence, and in the whole human world, there is probably only a strong Jewish people who have been educated to such an extent. On the other hand, the more preconceived notions are guarded in a person's inner world, then their lives will also come to a unified front because their opinions are difficult to integrate with the world. The knowledge in this world lies in being able to gradually dissolve the inherent prejudices that people should not have in their inner world, retreat to the last concept of self-bioethics, and sharpen their own life concept into the concept of Xiaoqiang that cannot be beaten but can be integrated with the whole world, then life will also bloom with his value and dazzling brilliance.
The people present, with the fist with a somewhat vague voice of please, gradually became stronger and stronger, in the midst of a burst of some free under the urging of alcohol, the wine war also went to a climax with the victory or defeat between the two sides, and then under the urging of alcohol, the regional prejudice between the two sides was finally provoked and wiped out, as if in the fist of the ten fingers of the comparison from the beginning of the wine war, the advantages and disadvantages between each person were also vividly reflected, As the wine war developed to its peak, even Ben's brother-in-law, who was originally taciturn, reached a critical situation of mutual harmony and laughter with the other party's group of people, and the originally somewhat indifferent atmosphere also went to a climax, and the sound of punching each other gradually decreased, but the sound of the two sides talking to each other has begun to stop, and the original battle scene turned out to be like the war between the two sides that Wu Yuan saw from the history books at the beginning of the confrontation between the two sides. But later, it also became a catalyst for the two sides of the confrontation to converge, and the good character of the parties between the confrontations was also highlighted and reflected at that moment. The beautiful things in this world are always the things that people should pursue after the origin and development of human beings in the civilized world, and anyone will have the concrete realization of maintaining such beauty. People sometimes in the case of maintaining the beauty that they embody and are admired and worshiped by people from being violated, they will even be angry with others in those occasions of fierce struggle, to the point of killing people, which is probably the most primitive psychological motivation of criminal psychology that people are familiar with. For individual beings who are like ants in the entire universe, the danger is indeed extremely powerful. People want their beautiful side to be reflected in front of others, and only when the beautiful side that they can feel can be reflected in others and fed back to themselves, proving the existence of their own value, people will feel that they have found someone with a common hobby. It is precisely because of this that in his inner world, he can feel that he has found someone who has found a common hobby, and then the eyes that were still a little strange and confrontational were finally alleviated, until that time, the wine war that was still in Wu Yuan's place slowly became relaxed, and the table became horizontal, and the cups and plates were in disarray. The people in front of the table no longer sat involuntarily between the two sides as before, for fear that their own shortcomings would be caught by the other party, and the figures began to turn crooked, some people were leaning forward in front of Christ to listen to each other's conversations, and some people directly leaned on the body of their classmates and whispered to discuss some Wu Yuan, an outsider, who was difficult to get involved in moral issues. And in the eyes of outsiders, except for a small number of people who still maintain the image of sitting upright, at first glance, they will feel that the image of this group of people is good in their inner world, but as the insiders in it, they have already resolved the arrogance and prejudice in their inner world in the battle in the wine field in the past few hours, and this state has made the whole person in the field extremely relaxed. The whole process lasted from eight o'clock in the evening to midnight, as long as twelve o'clock passed, according to the requirements of this side, you can send relatives directly. As the master of the other party's house, Ma Bi came over again and saw that the time and occasion were almost the same, so he came over to remind the people in the wine field that they could put away their fists, and the wine field development that had begun to disappear in the winery was instantly re-active at that time, and both sides decided to have a final battle in front of that rare opportunity, and then the representatives sent by the two sides before drew six punches as the closing ceremony as the end of the wine battle, until this moment, both sides have their own needs, Whether it is a loser or a winner, and whether the individual value is reflected or not, he or she has obtained the need to be happy in his inner world. Between the two sides saw that the end of the battle after a long journey was in sight, the whole long began to condense the climactic cheers of the battle, and then someone had a final decisive battle to open the fist, although in the end it ended with the defeat of the entire welcoming team, until the end as the representative of the welcoming team Bao because of the beginning after the previous opening ceremony and did not make any excuses to announce the completion of the closing of the six punches, the wine battlefield also began to disperse, But those who found a confidant in the wine hall actually held each other's hands tightly with me at the moment of the closing of the wine hall, as if they were closer than old friends for many years. Ben's brother-in-law, who was the escort of Mr. Lang, even held the hand of one of the other generals, and the other hand of the other party was on his shoulder, and the two talked to each other for a long time before parting. As soon as the wine battle ended, one of Ben's friends had just walked a few steps away from the table at the drinking hall when he heard a "bang" sound coming from his throat, and he vomited all over the ground, and the sequelae of excessive drinking were immediately reflected and flare-up in his body, and several friends around him hurriedly helped him.
Immediately, the other party began to benefit from the marriage under the command of the general manager, and Wu Yuan here was assigned to undertake the task of carrying the other party's dowry items because he was one of the few people who did not participate in the wine war, and all the items that could be loaded were stuffed into the trunk of the vehicle that the wedding team was driving, and after all the dowry items were ready, Ben's brother-in-law, as the representative of the entire wedding team, was already drunk and shook his body and came over to check whether the personnel of the wedding team had arrived. And the treasure over there, who is Mr. Pressure Li, has been accompanying Ben to do all the etiquette work that needs to be done when he is married, until finally Ben's brother-in-law entered the car of the last greeting team under the escort of Bin, a person who is still sober, but at this time, Ben's brother-in-law turned out to be the second sequelae after excessive drinking, and he had to get out of the car and exhale on the side of the road, and it took most of the day to get back into the car. Originally, the car was already the last one in the welcoming team, after such a toss, under the order of no unified punishment, the thoroughness of the entire hard team did not know when it had led the other welcoming teams to drive out, and after Ben's brother-in-law re-got on the car, he drove out again, and there was no trace of the entire welcoming team. The driver of the car was originally transferred from their unit under the call of the wolf, and he was completely unfamiliar with the existing geographical situation, and Ben's brother-in-law almost entered a state of deep sleep. Only then did he decide to park the car at the fork in the road where the welcoming team had to pass and wait for the arrival of the welcoming procession, which was still behind, while Ben's brother-in-law leaned against the door of the car and vomited several times along the way. It was only at this time that Wu Yuan felt that the entire welcoming team did not reach a state of harmonious and unified deployment in the city, and when the entire welcoming team drove from the direction of another fork in the old street of the county, Wu Yuan and the entire car they were riding in slowly followed behind, just when Wu Yuan found that the entire welcoming team was extremely disharmonious and unified, he took the initiative to pay attention to the various details that the entire team needed this kind of, and then quickly implemented and implemented. That time was also in his vitality to fully play the leadership side, he fully put his inner world in the whole team encountered all kinds of problems after straightening out, and then one by one the details of the implementation and solution, and then his voice quickly shuttled through the regrouped greeting team, after making sure that all the problems were solved, then re-got on the last car to follow the entire convoy of the greeting team towards Ben's home. This side of the wedding team took the lead in setting off a salute, and then there was a cupola flower on the other side, which was regarded as welcoming the arrival of the entire wedding team and even Ben's bride. A couple held up a red umbrella, and Ben was doing another coolie to carry the bride in a red flag dress to his already thin back, and walked step by step to the hall of his house. The bag that had already been prepared followed them to the right side of the middle of the hall, and then announced loudly to the couple standing in the middle of the hall:
"Bow to the clan in the Chen family, three bows." After hearing Bao's shouting again, Benhe's bride, who had already passed the door, bent down lightly three times in front of the family god.
As soon as he stood upright, Bao shouted beside him again: "Bow to my parents, grandparents, and grandparents." The newcomer nodded forward three times and bent his head three times as Bao commanded.
Immediately, Bao shouted directly: "Bow to my aunt, uncle, mother, and uncle and mother." The newcomer bowed three more times to the family god.
Bao shouted again: "Husband and wife worship each other and send them to the cave room." Trust bowed face to face, and then walked hand in hand towards the upper floor, in which the people of the stockade moved all the pretenses to the room.
As early as the operation of the entire convoy, he soon felt that Ben's home, which was completely ready, Wu Yuan quickly charged out of the convoy and ran to the upper floor of Ben, and then called the waves. After the convoy arrived, the first problem he needed to solve was to get Ben's brother-in-law, who was almost asleep, out of the car. But just after going downstairs with Lang, he immediately doubled to carry a large basin that could only be installed in the car of the wedding procession, and he told Lang the specific location of Jiang Lang's brother-in-law, and he went over to carry the dowry along the way, and then after moving all the things to the east, Wu Yuan asked Ben's mother that she still needed to buy the dishes for the wedding banquet the next day, and Wu Yuan, who was busy for several days, finally got Ben's mother's leave, When he told him that he didn't need to follow the purchasing team the next day, he immediately took out the bill for the dishes he had purchased and reconciled them with Ben's mother, and compared them with his subtle account of the funds in and out, and then she handed over the rest of the funds and his bills to Ben's mother, and after there was nothing to do, he turned back and walked home, which was the first night since Ben's invitation and slept in his bed again, From that moment on, he knew that nothing would happen to him anymore, because the next day was a lively wedding party, and that kind of occasion was no longer needed or suitable for him, and he could finally be an idle outsider with nothing to do, and it was only a thought for him to go and stay.
The most striking thing in May is the big red cherries that have ripened on the trees, and the director of the office of the county party committee is tired of the hustle and bustle of the city, and he often drives alone to the home of the old house in the countryside where his father Rong and his eldest brother Guo live, no matter what in this world, only the place where our parents still exist is the place where each of us is home. The old house where his father lived not only brought him memories of his youth one after another, but also became a place for him to go back to recuperate after being tired from work. Just when he was tired of living in the county town where he had been toiling for decades, he would go back to his hometown once a week as long as he had a weekend and nothing to do, and the huge red cherries growing on the trees did not know how many memories and thoughts he had evoked in this family in his youth, and in those thoughts of life, he also redrew his sense of belonging in life. And that time when he rushed back, it happened to be a small May Day holiday, just when he dared to go back to his hometown, he happened to meet Wu Yuan, who had come out of the noisy wedding scene, and was doing nothing in his own home after a while, while continuing his life creation, while sitting alone under the warm sun and basking in the sun, since the world no longer needed him to intervene in anything, he also found a self-leisure, His introverted personality made him feel that there was no need to waste another minute of his time on anything that he didn't need, but rather that Chen re-lived in his inner world in that sunny moment, and let his inner world fly in a specific environment, which he had developed for many years.
Qiang who walked into the courtyard casually folded a few cherries in the branches and leaves of the cherry tree and ate them into his stomach, since he graduated from college and had a social job, he has not stayed in this home for a longer period of time, he remembers that since then he has stayed in this home for the longest time a year is only three days, and then because of the needs of work, after he was transferred to the county, he rarely took two consecutive nights in this home, he rented a house in the county, and lived in it for more than ten years, He didn't even spend the night in this house on his wedding night, at that time, although his eldest brother's new house had been completed, but there was still nothing in it, and then he just bought a bed, a sofa, a coffee table and an antenna color TV when he got married and bought furniture, and the whole new house was gradually filled with such a decent set of furniture. It wasn't until later that Bin learned from his uncle that the economy of the furniture came from the money she had paid for the furniture, and his wife, who had matured for ten years, kept talking in his ears, but for all this he had no complaints about the family that had raised him through college and successfully found a job of his own. As is true of everyone, when life will bring them to sharpen them, this process of magic on their lives will only make them stronger, and patience for suffering is a manifestation of human wisdom. Since then, Bin has discovered that his uncle also has the strong and patient character inherited from his grandfather. Just when he learned that his uncle had also possessed perseverance and patience in the face of adversity, he also believed that with his strong character he would be able to defend what he had gained in life. At that moment, he was already one of the youngest leaders in the county, and many people saw that he still had a great future in his life. This is also the reason why Guo said that his brother's life was good, and he was guided by the feng shui treasure from his grandfather Jing after his death, and even in his later fate, he would rise to a step in almost two years, and in more than ten years, he was promoted from an ordinary public security officer to one of the leaders of the county party committee, which in itself represents his outstanding ability and extraordinary opportunities. For his vitality and the beneficial life opportunities of ordinary people, it is beyond the reach of Bin, who has also gone into politics.
Of course, for the robbery who was tired of life in the city, he found that Wu Yuan at that moment was the most carefree in the world, he didn't have any backfall and burden from life at all, and never thought about the tedious struggles and life problems in life, and he couldn't see the outline of life to others and blows from his eyes, and he didn't need to endure all the blows that the worldly strife had on people, and the experience of those painful lives in the world seemed to be very far away from him, I don't know why, Even Bin felt that this second brother of his had the imprint of life left on his body by the innate purification of the dark side of the world, as if as he himself understood, as long as people can grasp and keep their own hearts, others will also be printed and become like this.
For the hustle and bustle that came from that side, Wu Yuan had no intention of paying attention to it, the most rare thing in his inner world was the peace away from the hustle and bustle of the world, his heart still seized all the useful time to survive in his ideal world, and established his own ideal space structure, originally he also planned to spend his life in such a dull and uneventful day since it returned to the rural society. But their uncle, who was already in a high position, was more or less distracted by his desire to live a quiet life, no matter how disgusted he might be with the worldly life. But in his inner world, he still surrendered to the guidance and outline of this life with a certain connotation in nature, not to mention that his life is sometimes reserved, but with the height of the four-dimensional space condensed in his body for many years, it can quickly see through everything and give up the completely unnecessary reserve and prejudice in his own life. As long as a person can give up the city construction and reserve in his inner world, his inner world will instantly become pure as a blank paper, and the fog will clear in an instant. The ugly side of this world is originally created by the fact that people can't tolerate the slightest flaw in their inner world when they pursue the absolute beauty of the mouth, and it is precisely because of the pursuit and admiration that they have the most absolute reputation to bring the world the absolute reputation of the mouth, as if the darkness and ugliness of the whole world need to make way for him to make a wide avenue. Under the impetus of those positive energy, theoretically speaking, all the bright dark side of the shoulders should make way for him, but if the desire for the good side of fish is too harsh in an otherwise equal world, it is also advocating that the dark side of a person is developing together with the bright side. Probably because of his understanding of this ideal life, in the face of this kind of light and darkness, Wu Yuan still feels that he still believes in the Buddhist saying, evil comes to trouble, and is coming to get rid of troubles; There is no good or evil, and there is no doubt about it. Putting aside the meaning of those religious foot jumps, he feels that this is at least the discrimination and perception of life and even life that can only be obtained through countless years of tempering, and sometimes there is no need to define some things in a specific way, so there is no need for people to be stubborn because of this, and maintain those already meaningless reserves. In the face of unnecessary right and wrong, people might as well be able to do a floating float on the water, with the movement, you can send it to the water, when the tide with the wind or the tide Wang Dongxing walks, but it is better to go down the river and towards the east of the world to take a look, if the tide and the direction of the wind is to the west, you can also go west to take a look, maybe the wind direction and the trend below will also bring to a beautiful scenery sound place, or he will show us more than the scenery, There may even be experiences that affect our entire lives. Immediately, Wu Yuan, under the call of his uncle, made more melancholy or encouragement, and was already in a lively atmosphere, and were preparing to invite the neighbors, old and young, to hold a wedding dinner and drink party. But when Wu Yuan and his uncle arrived at the lively wedding banquet, he found that his inner world could not be integrated into the noisy and lively occasion anyway, and the long-term grinding and solitude had already made him tired of those mundane things, relatively speaking, he found that at that moment he liked the peace that only belonged to him when he was alone, and this personal solitude and tranquility thoughts and habits accompanied him all his life in the future. It never changed until the end of his life. Since then, he has felt that only living in what people think is a fantasy world would be more suitable for him. This also made him more convinced that only after people have really walked can they know more clearly what they want to get the most, and what kind of road is the most suitable for them. After that, he suddenly decided that he had to return to the environment that was only suitable for him, and only in this way could it be of its greatest value. It turned out that although he, Wu Yuan, had also experienced the life of a civil service exam, but when he found that those things were no longer suitable for him, he finally made up his mind to let himself go. What kind of road and way of life is suitable for people should return to the path and way of life of life, because only the place that is suitable for a person's living environment can really make a person like a fish in water, and then return to his own life path, perhaps only in that environment can a person's life play his most powerful value, which is probably his final inner decision and choice of Wu Yuan, and his life will not choose to turn back. Rather, you may be heading towards a big river that is more suitable for you.
And Ben's wedding gradually came to an end in the next wedding banquet that occupied a certain position in the eyes of others. As Xiao Lin as a whole, although his identity symbolizes the landlord status of the owner of the entire wealth every year, it is not the first time that he has experienced such an ability to manage some large and small affairs in the village. In the village, Zibao's father Cheng decided to quit and no longer do the big and small affairs that can kill almost the entire village, and is almost the recognized leader and leader in the entire village, among the other people is a cousin of Cheng, a businessman who used to be the director of the Han family, and then the next generation of two sons including Cheng's two sons Bao and the one who often got drunk and went crazy after being drunk in his youth, the two brothers because they had his father's influence in the entire village, The people in the house don't look at the face of the monk and look at the Buddha's face, at least they will leave a little thin face for his father, so they also have a certain prestige and status in the house, so that even if the people in the whole village have a side that is not satisfied with them, they will also have their temporary patience and obedience, and then the person who has such an ability in their peers is Xiao Lin, and the salvation of the next generation of the whole family is unified in the army with the ability to plan in this regard, And these people are one of the candidates for the workers who have come through the tempering of many large and small affairs, and have grown up under the leadership of the general manager of the experienced workers in the jacket, and these things are naturally a matter of fingery things for them. This wedding has been completely inherited from Ming's body since they were picked up by Ming Ben in a car, and it has been inherited from Ming's grandfather and father's bones, and it has also been won out from the turmoil in the relationship between Ming and the village with atmosphere and pomp. From that moment on, he was arranged like a pillar in the management of the internal affairs of a normal wedding, although many things did not need to be arranged and done by him. All the big and small affairs in this village seem to have been fully educated and washed in their inner world by the previous people as an optional choice, and the rules they designed for the whole village seem to have gradually integrated into the minds of the people in the whole village, and in this kind of affairs, even small children will naturally know how to be humble to the valuable guests of the host's house, and take the initiative to make way for those original guests from other villages, and everything will come first to them. In the whole village, many things of this size, even if they do not take the initiative to arrange them, as a person who is an overview, almost all of them will regulate their habits and behaviors in the whole living environment. It is precisely because of this, as a general Xiao Lin from beginning to end only wants to be an idler with the name of the manager, he has not gone abroad to meet several times since the beginning of the wedding, and the most he has done is that those people have assigned them those tasks, knowing that these candidates and tasks are all allocated, the people selected in the whole village always seem to be able to be kind and the characters that need to be completed are completed, most of the things when he first saw it as a person as a manager, Those who he arranged to give the task would be enthusiastic to be one step ahead of him, and then he would prepare the tasks he needed to complete in seven days, and everything was carried out in an orderly manner, as if all the people were enjoying the happiness they could feel when they had their own things to do in those big and small affairs in the village, and their value seemed to be reflected at that moment, but as a general observer of the general field, they had to be more idle. Even to the point where one more word makes people feel bored and bored. Therefore, when Xiao Lin, as the manager, saw that everything could go smoothly, he didn't bother to say a word of nonsense, until the field was too far away, and the naturally formed backstage operation system could not be taken into account for a while, he would stand in the position of the leader for a simple coordination, and then things could return to normal smoothly. After that, he envied those who were busy going back and forth in the middle of the routine, and he always fantasized that those people seemed to be able to reflect their value in the whole neighborhood, old and young, as well as the distant relatives and friends of the master's house, than he was a general observer, until that moment, as if he felt isolated in his inner world, and finally he could only stand still and watch the whole field operate normally. The whole wedding banquet is also the most lively moment in Ben's normal wedding, but the more at this time, as the person who appeared the most times before and after the whole wedding, he chose to hide himself in the most lively wedding banquet, at that time he hoped that the whole world would forget about him, and he only passed by twice in the whole wedding banquet from beginning to end, once he went to a luncheon with his uncle, and then also participated in the afternoon dinner, After attending the dinner, he played poker with Ben and a few of his friends a few times, drank a few glasses of white rice soaked in white rice, and then said that it can absorb the spirits, and then quietly he chose to leave silently, and the whole wedding banquet has been busy since the morning dawn, and then more and more people came to attend the wedding banquet, until noon and afternoon Casey's busyness reached the white heat of the normal wedding banquet, Then he continued to be busy until all the guests had dispersed, and the two uncles of the Ben family were also the last two to leave. The fun-loving men in the stockade also played to the end in the joy of their salvation, and finally drank enough to be full, from beginning to end because they were all expensive in the joy of a long time, from the beginning of the whole wedding feast to know that their afternoon departure had not even eaten a drop of rice, their forgery had been saved who to swell, and by the beginning of the real wedding feast, they could not eat a mouthful of food, but they were still gulping the crystal clear hot liquor, Eventually, until the extreme urging and regulation of the brain is unable to support the normal functioning of their waking and waking hours, their entire life system can only be temporarily paralyzed in sleep. In the afternoon, Lang was directly drunk by several of his relatives and cousins until he was paralyzed and lay on the bed and couldn't move. Knowing that the last guest at the normal wedding reception had left, Ben's wedding came to an end. As we have described before, not long after the wedding, he used the money he received from his father to buy himself a car, and the burden of his life was about to come to an end, but his heart was still tied to the necklace of his mother, who was still alive in this world. Only his mother is his most arduous task and concern in this world, which seems to have become one of the most admirable virtues of the entire Chinese nation, and it will also declare that the hearts of the entire Chinese people will be united.