Seventy-two clouds Darkness descends 7
Psychology usually uses five dimensions to analyze a person's personality. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 The INFO study found that the lucky ones had three personality traits that were significantly different from the unlucky ones. First, the lucky are much more extroverted than the unlucky.
In addition to liking to take the initiative to talk to others, lucky people also seem to always be able to attract others to approach. This "social magnet" attraction often attracts strangers to come and talk to them when they attend various activities. If expecting good luck is one of the most effective ways to create good luck, then a pessimistic attitude is one of the quickest ways to attract bad luck. If you feel good about yourself, not only are you more likely to attract good luck – because you open your heart, but others are more willing to surround you and offer more opportunities. But if you feel bad about yourself, it's the opposite: opportunities will slip away from you because you're wrapped up in despair, and the people around you are going to feel uncomfortable, so they won't give you the opportunity to increase your good luck. In short, to attract good luck, you need to imagine and feel good luck first.
For example, when walking on the road, someone will ask him for directions or time, and many future nobles will often appear.
Further research by psychologists has shown that the reason why these social magnets are super attractive is highly related to their body language and facial expressions.
The study found that lucky people smiled twice as often as those who didn't smile over a period of conversation, made significantly more eye contact with others, and adopted open body language (facing the person being talking, spreading their arms and legs, and showing a palm-up welcome gesture) three times more likely than those who were unlucky. So, to change your luck, start by changing your body language!
Second, the lucky ones have a relaxed attitude towards life.
Among the five personality traits, there is a "neurotic" person, and those who score low on this area are calm and relaxed, while those who score higher are anxious and nervous.
It turns out that the lucky ones are much more relaxed than the less fortunate, and because they are relaxed, they are more likely to notice good opportunities, even if they don't deliberately look for them.
A girlfriend was reading the newspaper leisurely while having afternoon tea in a café, and saw an interview with an artist in the newspaper, which mentioned that he was in need of a marketing professional to help promote his art products. On an idea, she found the artist's studio on the Internet, and soon became not only his marketing director, but also his fiancée.
Think about it, if she had a solemn face and anxiety at that time, she would probably miss the most important opportunity in her life!
Therefore, if you want to improve your luck and try to relax at any time in life, it will be easier to perceive great opportunities in the environment. Third, the lucky ones are open-minded.
Another aspect of the personality dimension is openness. People who score high on this item have a colorful life and are happy to try new things. The study found that the lucky ones are always curious about life, have a very positive and open attitude towards everything, and are willing to try and participate in everything.
In an interesting study, psychologists make arrangements, there is money on the ground, and there are entrepreneurs in the café. As a result, the lucky one wandered around, not only picked up money on the ground, but also took the entrepreneur's advice to try new drinks after entering the café, and thus made friends. Those who are not lucky have not seen the money on the ground and are indifferent to the new advice given to them, so they miss the great opportunity to meet entrepreneurs.
So, if you want to improve your luck, enrich your curiosity, and be willing to try any invitation, a lot of good fortune will come to you unconsciously. Lucky people feel that they deserve to meet good fortune and live with great expectations. They will never allow misconceptions to distort their self-evaluation and their perception of luck, so that they can create their own good fortune when they encounter chance. The first step in embarking on the path to a lucky and happy life is to change your perception of yourself and your perception of luck. All change starts with you. --------introduction
"No, I really think of you as a friend, I ...... "I like you...... It's a few simple words, but I can't say anything in my mouth.
In that dark alley, in the midst of a messy and happy heartbeat, I missed the best opportunity to express my thoughts, and then I never had the opportunity to say it again, and I never got to say it again.
"Friends? If you really think of me as a friend, why would you suspect that I am from the Sacred Heart Orphanage? Why would you want to use me to find out who is behind the scenes? Death looked at me, the heroic features on his pale face looked so haggard that it made people feel distressed, "Yun Jie, is this how you treat your friends?" Suspicion, exploitation, and betrayal! ”
"I didn't!" I shook my head and explained, "I don't want to doubt you, but you have too many suspicions......"
"During this time, you no longer come to me and no longer contact me, just because you found out that the mastermind behind the scenes is Duanmuyan, and I have lost my use value, right?" Before I could finish my words, Death Death opened his mouth and directly interrupted my words, "Yun Jie, even you only approached me to take advantage of me, right?" ”
"I'm such an idiot, how can anyone in this world want to be friends with someone like me?" A smile on his face was extremely bright, so bright that it was almost as hot as the scorching sun in July, but such a heat did not burn into his originally dark eyes.
The eyes that disappeared at this moment were so cold that there was no trace of temperature. He looked at me with a calm gaze, just at me, and I even wondered if the focus of his gaze really fell on me.
"You know, at the beginning, although you always made trouble for me and prevented me from doing what I wanted to do, I was always angry with you and angry at you, but at that time, I was really happy because I finally had someone who was not afraid of my superpowers and was willing to be friends with me even if he was unlucky." Death spoke, his thoughts seemed to return to the time when we first met, and there was a faint happiness in his tone, "When we escaped from the toy store hand in hand that day, and you grabbed my hand back, I told myself that from that moment on, I must cherish my life well, because I finally have someone I want to protect well." ”
"Death ......" My heart trembled, because of this guy's sudden affectionate confession, but also because of his warm and blank eyes, and that sad look.
"I thought I could have the same happiness as a normal person, I really thought I could have it, but in the end, it turned out that it was just a dream after all." Death smiled, looked at me again, and finally there was a fluctuation, but the fluctuation was sad, with resentment and ...... Despair.
Yes, despair.
Extinction looked at me, as if I saw my last hope, little by little, and saw my world change from color to black again.
"No, it's not." I shook my head in a panic, "Death, you listen to me, things are not what you think." In the beginning, I approached you, and it had nothing to do with the case. ”
"In the beginning? So, what happened later? And then it becomes exploitation, right? Death shook his head, not accepting my explanation.
"No, I never wanted to take advantage of you!" I said out loud, "If I really want to take advantage of you, why should I choose to hide from you all the time from the day I started to doubt you?" Shouldn't I be more positive about approaching you and getting the information I want from you? ”
"You've been avoiding me since the day you started to suspect me?" Annihilation looked at me, a flash of understanding on his face, "So you mean to ...... Your suspicion of me began that night! ”
Death smiled, laughing uncontrollably, smiling sadly and desperately.
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