Some people always consciously or unconsciously set up an "imaginary enemy" for themselves, and this person may be a friend, a rival, a colleague, or even a parent. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 The so-called "imaginary enemy" is an enemy that does not exist at all, but a fictitious opponent in the heart, and will spend a lot of psychological energy to fight against this opponent, and inadvertently bring this "fighting" mentality to real life and affect one's own life.

In the workplace, it is common to see such people who have made certain achievements in their work, but they always feel that some colleagues are criticizing them behind their backs. Therefore, they regard these colleagues as their "enemies", and no matter what they do, they want to compare themselves with their colleagues to prove their abilities. Over time, they find themselves being chased by these "enemies", and if they pause, they may be overtaken and made fun of.

In fact, many people in the workplace may have encountered similar problems. There will inevitably be competition and interest relations between colleagues, and those who are more withdrawn, self-assured, and not good at cooperation are most likely to easily regard some relatively good colleagues who are at the same level as themselves as competitors. In the final analysis, the root cause of the existence of "imaginary enemies" is competition, and the psychological defense mechanism brought about by competition.

It may be true that these people think that their colleagues are competing with him, waiting for the moment to surpass them. However, it is more likely that this is an illusion magnified by himself, a projection of his own inner world. The reason why people set up "imaginary enemies" is actually a manifestation of a lack of self-confidence, and the real enemy is not others, but themselves. It is generally difficult for such people to accept their own shadow side and to accept that others are better than themselves. If an "imaginary enemy" is set up in the heart for a long time, it will consume psychological and physical energy, and eventually destroy the fighting spirit and hinder personal development. In the long run, the work will get worse.

If you're busy battling an imaginary enemy, it's time to adjust your mindset. Don't always look for someone to compete with, and don't blame your failures on innocent colleagues. You must know that the appearance of an "imaginary enemy" may be a reminder of your work, and treating him as a friend is more conducive to self-growth and work progress than being an enemy. ----introduction

"Duanmuyan, you, you...... Don't come near me! I nervously watched Duanmu Yan's figure slowly approaching me, and retreated towards the door step by step, trying to find a chance to escape, "I warn you, don't think that after my plot is uncovered by me, as long as you kidnap me, you will be fine." Sooner or later, your crimes will be discovered by others, and it's only a matter of time before you get punished......"

I saw Duanmuyan bow her head and smile disdainfully when I said about punishment, and immediately saw the opportunity, and quickly escaped from the bedroom and ran towards the door.

Yun Jie, run away, you have to run away! Can't let Duanmuyan catch it, can't let her mother worry about herself, and can't let Duanmuyan find out that her mother is also at home...... I gritted my teeth and ran to the door as fast as I could, only to run out of the door when a dark shadow stood in front of me......

Duanmuyan smiled and appeared in front of me with Ximin in her arms.

Alas...... I looked at him helplessly, and I knew that if I faced him head-on, I would not be able to escape from this guy's "clutches" at all.

"Idiot!" The guy said as he threw Xi Min aside, and deliberately closed the door in front of me, "As long as your behavior is not too exaggerated, your mother will never notice that a stranger has broken in, so you don't have to run away like a life." ”

Belch...... I looked at Duanmuyan in a daze: What does this guy mean? Is he saying that if my mom finds out that something is wrong, it will definitely not be because of him, but my fault? Isn't this a disguised scolding of me for being an idiot who only does bad things?

I glared at him angrily, if it weren't for the fact that this guy's superpowers were so powerful, I swore I would have pounced on him and fought him like a boy.

I glared at him, fantasizing in my head about punching and kicking him.

"Duanmuyan, what do you want? What do you mean by kidnapping Xi Min? I'm telling you, even if I'm not as good at fighting as you, I'm going to do my best to protect everyone and won't let your plot succeed! I clenched my fists, struck the classic fighting stance in the TV series, and glared at him.

"Idiot, you have a conspiracy on the left, another conspiracy, and you are sure that I did this kidnapping incident, so I want to ask you, what is my conspiracy? If I really want to kidnap this stinky girl, for what? Duanmuyan pointed at Xi Min disdainfully and asked.

Belch..................

I glanced at Xi Min, the ............ Regarding the kidnapping of Xi Min, it seems that it is indeed different from previous cases, how can I explain it?

"Who...... Who knows what's going on in your mind? Maybe your goal is to occasionally catch a few inconsequential people to confuse everyone, so as to hide your real purpose. I said.

Duanmuyan raised her eyebrows: "If you can not waste your limited IQ on boring assumptions, then, maybe you won't be like you are now--not enough to achieve things, but more than to fail!"

Wasting my limited IQ on boring assumptions? What does this mean? This guy can't be scolding me for having a low IQ, just random speculation and bad things, right?

"Duanmuyan, don't think that your IQ is higher than others, so you can look down on people like this!" I yelled at him angrily, "People like you are the ones who really deserve to be despised!" ”

"Humph!" Duanmu Yan snorted coldly, "I despise you, it has nothing to do with my IQ, but because you, an idiot, have investigated for so long, and you haven't even found out that the real enemy has been around all along." ”

"I ......"

It's okay to be scolded as an idiot once, but this guy has been scolding idiots since he appeared and closed his mouth, and it feels so bad that it might as well let me be frozen directly.

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