110. The Woman of Misery 3
Xu Qingping also selected some young people who are upright and dare to stand out to form a public security team to go all out to crack down on petty theft and abduction. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ļ½ļ½ļ½Uļ½Eć infoIn the case of petty theft and other serious violations of the "Village Rules and Regulations", the security team immediately took coercive measures against them, either by turning them over to the village committee or directly to the police station.
Dealing with chaos requires a heavy blow. Although compulsory measures are needed for the goal of correcting village customs in the short term, it is necessary to rely on education and guidance in the long run.
On the one hand, Xu Qingping relied on coercive measures, and on the other hand, explored various methods to carry out propaganda and guidance.
He first carried out the "Five Good Families" selection activity. For families that abide by the "Village Rules and People's Covenant" and moral norms in an exemplary manner, the village committee names them "Five Good Families". Not only was the commendation carried out with great fanfare and certain material rewards were given, but the plaque made in a unified manner was hung at the gate of this family. Later, various advanced selection activities such as "good daughter-in-law", "good mother-in-law" and "moral model" were carried out one after another. All honorary titles are evaluated once a year, and all kinds of plaques are subject to flow management, and if they are not selected in the next year, they will be withdrawn immediately. In addition, he actively carried out various literary and artistic activities. Gather the people in the village who love theatrical performances to write and perform various theatrical programs, and use the things around them to educate the people around them, and anyone in the village can become a character in the play. By watching theatrical performances, the villagers were unconsciously educated.
On the one hand, compulsory measures should be adopted, and on the other hand, education and guidance should be strengthened. The village style in Xiashan Village has been fundamentally improved in just a few years.
While grasping moral construction, Xu Qingping also vigorously grasped the economy and led the villagers to be self-reliant and work hard. He led the villagers to build a pond dam on the hill and turned the slope into terraced fields. Then cash crops such as pepper, jujube, and hawthorn were planted on it. He also mobilized the capable people in the village to engage in the business of transporting and selling agricultural products, and the agricultural products grown by the villagers not only sold quickly, but also increased their prices. The material life of the villagers is getting better and better.
Such remarkable achievements in just a few years fully prove that Xu Qingping does have extraordinary ability. For Xu Qingping, she not only admires, but also admires. In her eyes, Xu Qingping is a great hero and the undisputed number one person in Xiashan Village.
Xu Qingping's achievements, she saw them all. And Xu Qingping's efforts for this, she saw it even more. While admiring and adoring him, I was also moved by his selfless dedication to the village.
Xu Qingping is usually busy outside during the day, and only goes to the office at night to plan, summarize, and deal with other written work, and comes home late every day, or simply sleeps in the office. He has a single bed in his office and often sleeps in the office when he's busy.
Since she is engaged in family farming at home, she does not spend too much time in the office during the day, and often goes to the office at night. Anyway, she lived alone, and it was the same everywhere. Every time I go, I always see the lights on in Xu Qingping's house. She would often come to his office to sit for a while, mainly because it was difficult to see him during the day, and there were some jobs that she didn't know how to do. So I took advantage of this time to consult with him.
After a long time, she finally understood that the reason why Xu Qingping went to the office and even slept in the office every night was not just because he was busy with work, but because he had a bad relationship with his wife and was unwilling to stay with his wife.
Xu Qingping's wife is a well-known shrew in the village, and she often quarrels with her neighbors. Xu Qingping took care of her, and she continued to quarrel with Xu Qingping. Xu Qingping couldn't stand it anymore and beat her, but after the beating, it was still like that, it didn't work at all, Xu Qingping was very helpless.
After Xu Qingping's son went to Chaiyuan City to study in middle school, he only came back for one or two weeks to stay for one night. Xu Qingping and his wife are even more incompatible at home, and quarrels have become commonplace. So, in order to avoid being idle, Xu Qingping simply didn't stay at home, can't I hide from you if I can't provoke you?
Xu Qingping didn't tell her these things, she knew them from other people's mouths and her own feelings. In fact, she didn't need to be told by others, she could feel it from his depressed eyes.
For this reason, she often feels unfair for Xu Qingping. An upright village secretary, busy with the affairs of the village every day, tired physically and mentally, but when he comes home, he can't feel the warmth of home, and would rather sleep alone in the office. In the past few years, the work in the village has risen to a higher level every year, and as the leader of the village, Xu Qingping should be considered successful in his career. But at home, he was not happy. She couldn't understand why Xu Qingping, as a good man with achievements, couldn't his wife be gentle, kind, virtuous, and treat him better.
Xu Qingping didn't tell her about these things, and as a widow, she naturally couldn't care about other people's housework, so the two basically only talked about work together. Although she occasionally thinks of Xu Qingping sleeping alone in the office at night when she can't sleep at home, she has never had any extravagant hopes. She is not a bad woman, she has received a simple rural traditional moral education since she was a child, and she will not do things that violate morality and make people despicable.
Although Xu Qingping never told her about his family, he often told her about the troubles he encountered at work.
At first, she listened quietly, and then said some reassuring words to comfort him. Because she understands that he is not pointing to her to give him ideas when he tells her this, he is just telling his own distress, and if he says it, he will feel less distressed in his heart. Although he is a strong man in her eyes, a strong man is also a human being, and there will be troubles, there will also be things that are difficult to deal with, and there are hardships in his heart that he also needs to find someone to talk to. Therefore, she always consciously acts as a listener and then picks up a few reassuring words at the right time.
Later, when she has been in the audience for a long time, she will also give him some ideas according to her own ideas. She didn't expect him to adopt it, she just wanted to make him happy and help him get emotional. But slowly, he felt that her ideas were getting better and better, and gradually turned telling him to discussing with her, and she slowly became his right-hand man. She also slowly came out of a kind of "psychological dependence" understanding of him, and gradually regarded him as a partner at work. The relationship between the two gradually changed from "ministering" and "helped" to the best partner at work.
After becoming the best partner with Xu Qingping, her enthusiasm for work was further stimulated. She was originally a rural woman with little education, but now, she has really found her own value. Looking at the new results she has made in her work, she feels sincerely happy. It turns out that she is also capable? She's not just an ordinary rural woman, is she?
Xu Qingping is also very happy about her gradual maturity in her work, and often smiles and says some words of encouragement and praise to her. With his voice of encouragement, she also became more and more confident......
However, the relationship between the two did not end up at the level of the best partner, but has been further upgraded.
That time, when she came to the village committee at night, she saw Xu Qingping's office lit up, so she went to his house to sit down as usual. As soon as I entered, I smelled a strong smell of alcohol. Xu Qingping was lying on the small bed, obviously drinking too much.
"Why do you drink so much?" She walked up to him in disgust and tried to help him take off his shoes and let him lie down on the bed for a while. But when she walked up to him and was about to help him take off his shoes, he suddenly stretched out his arm and hugged her.
She was startled and struggled. But he hugged it so tightly that he couldn't struggle at all.
While hugging her hard, he muttered, "Don't go, stay with me, listen to me, I'm upset!" ā
She obediently stopped struggling and let him hold her.
He began to tell her about the anguish in his heart and the troubles of family life, and scolded his wife.
It was the first time he had told her about his family. Although she basically knew it, it was the first time she had heard it from his mouth. As she listened, she wiped the tears from the corners of his eyes with her hand. At this time, he buried his head in her arms, like a child who had been wronged.
Later, when he began to undress her, she did not resist, but obediently allowed him to strip her clothes naked.
That night, she didn't go back to her home, and let him hug him all night on the cot in his office.
After that, the two often found opportunities to stay together. Or she stays in his office and doesn't leave, or he sneaks into her house at night.
Still, she didn't think about destroying his family.
In the countryside, divorce is not as casual as in the city. Loyal and honest people rarely get divorced, not to mention that he is the secretary of the party branch, and he has been focusing on moral construction. If he divorces, the impact in the village will be unprecedented. Therefore, she did not expect to be his wife, she was with him, but two wounded hearts comforting each other.
Despite the secrecy of the two of them, there was no impermeable wall, and the story of the two of them reached the ears of his wife.
So, his wife began to look for opportunities to scold her, and even went to the town to find it. But no one has seen this kind of thing, she and Xu Qingping don't admit it, and no one can do anything. After Xu Qingping beat his wife hard, his wife stopped for the time being. But no one expected that at the on-site meeting attended by 18 towns and villages, his wife would come to such a show. It's not just about disgrace in the village, it's about throwing people into the city. She doesn't care, she's just a women's director, it's nothing more than a shame. But Xu Qingping is the village secretary, or a typical example of the moral construction of the city tree, how can he end up now?
She didn't know that Xu Qingping had beaten his wife hard and made up her mind to divorce his wife. She didn't even know that the Propaganda Department of the Municipal Party Committee and the Town Party Committee were also worrying about this matter.
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