Chapter 103
Lin Chuxue had met Li Cheng on the first day of the Lunar New Year this year. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
In Y City, most areas celebrate the New Year early in the morning on the first day of the first lunar month, and neighbors walk around each other. It's not very grand, it's just that every family prepares melon seeds, snacks, cigarettes and hot tea. Most of them are children who come together, say a few auspicious New Year's greetings, eat snacks and drink tea, take loose cigarettes and leave the next house.
All in all, in Y City, the first day of the Lunar New Year is a day of entertainment for all. Because there is no swearing or swearing on this day, and there is no need to entertain relatives, the adults almost spend it on the card field. Children are also energetic to play.
Therefore, on the first day of junior high school, Lin Chuxue, who returned to her hometown for the New Year, followed her brothers and sisters to the city to play after dinner. That day, Su Ning called Li Cheng over and introduced him to his younger brothers and sisters.
Lin Chuxue knew that Su Ning at that time seriously wanted to get along with Li Cheng. Otherwise, she wouldn't have made the time to introduce people to them. At that time, Lin Chuxue and the others all felt that Li Cheng was still reliable. It's not the kind of person who has an oily tone, but looks a little honest. Although he is not good at talking, for the sake of Su Ning, he is willing to take the initiative to find a topic to warm up.
In any case, this was Su Ning's first blind date to accept. Just when everyone thought that they would develop smoothly until they got married and had children, there was suddenly news that the two broke up.
Li Cheng is really attentive to Su Ning, but after all, he can't resist his hatred. He was thirty-one years old after the New Year. The children of his peers are all in elementary school, and the family is anxious and has been urging, Li Cheng also wants to settle down as soon as possible. asked Su Ning for an engagement, but Su Ning refused on the spot.
Frankly speaking, Su Ning doesn't hate Li Cheng, whether it's his ordinary appearance, or his character and personality that she doesn't fully understand. But this doesn't mean that Su Ning likes Li Cheng, although she doesn't know what type of boy she likes, but she is very sure that she doesn't have that kind of affection for Li Cheng. Su Ning told her elders and introducers about her thoughts at the beginning, but she was forced to encourage her.
Even Li Cheng himself said that feelings can be cultivated slowly, and he is willing to wait for Su Ning to accept him sincerely. Everyone gave Su Ning a promise, so that she would continue to associate with Li Cheng. And she also tried her best to do what she promised her elders, even if she felt that the date was boring, every weekend when Li Cheng came back from X City, she would go to see him, and strive to create and maintain opportunities to get along with Li Cheng.
But no matter how much it is, Su Ning can't do it. Not to mention the interaction between lovers, even if Su Ning took the initiative to call Li Cheng, she didn't have the desire and impulse to dial.
When Li Cheng said for the first time that he wanted to get engaged, Su Ning felt that it was impossible between her and Li Cheng. She hasn't even entered the state of love, so how can she talk about getting engaged? You know, there is no difference between getting engaged and getting married in City Y. It means that the woman is already a man's person, and she can move to the man's house openly.
Su Ning couldn't imagine what it would be like to be in the same room with someone she didn't know too well, and more importantly, she didn't like it. Therefore, she decisively rejected Li Cheng.
At that time, Su Ning thought that she and Li Cheng would blow. Who knew that Li Cheng compromised, refused to break up, and swore that he would give Su Ning time.
However, the good times did not last long, and when the two dated for nearly three months, Li Chengjia was forced to marry again. This time, it was no longer Li Cheng who spoke to Su Ning alone, but after a meeting between the elders of the two families, they collectively forced Su Ning to marry.
Su Ning still disagreed, and she bluntly said that she was not ready. It was also these words that made her feel like she had stabbed a hornet's nest, and was blamed and bombarded by everyone, including her parents. The sharp words of questioning swept Su Ning like a cannonball. It was as if if she didn't marry Li Cheng, she would be a sinner who destroyed the world.
Su Ning didn't refute, she just coldly proposed to break up. Su Ning, who delayed Li Cheng's youth, wasted Li Cheng's mind, and consumed Li Cheng's money, returned the gifts Li Cheng gave her, the meals she had eaten, the movies she had watched, and other expenses, and then returned them to Li Cheng in cash. Then resolutely deleted all of Li Cheng's contact information, to show that the two of them have returned to the bridge since then and have nothing to do with each other.
"How did it get to this point?" The specific reason why Su Ning and Li split up became the responsibility of Su Ning alone, under the propaganda of the elders. In and out of the words, it is said that Su Ning is so ambitious, and his eyes are higher than Xiang. It's been a long time, and even juniors who don't understand the inside story think so. But Lin Chuxue won't believe it, she knows what kind of person Su Ning is, she will never treat marriage as a child's play, and she will be more cautious than anyone else. Cautious enough to be celibate rather than compromised.
And Su Ning finally let go of her principles and gave up, but ended up like this.
Listening to Lin Chuxue's emotion, Su Ning laughed lightly: "Yes, how did it come to this point?" I have always insisted that if I have to get married, I must find someone to love. Because of love, even if you are wronged, you will be willing. If I really can't find such a person, when I am thirty years old, I will listen to my parents' arrangement and find someone to marry. Perhaps what the elders said has a point, it is not only love that maintains marriage. ”
Su Ning's voice was very flat, but Lin Chuxue's eyes were red when she heard it: "Cousin......"
"But I don't know why, I just can't. I couldn't force myself, and no matter how much I tried to convince myself, it didn't help. If you don't like it, you don't like it, how can you force it to like it? I don't like him, and I don't even feel comfortable holding hands. Su Ning said, looked at Lin Chuxue, whose tears were rolling in her eyes, suddenly burst out laughing, took out a tissue and handed it to Lin Chuxue, "What are you doing here?" Think I'm pathetic? Actually, I don't feel pathetic, it's good to be alone, really. Instead of forcing yourself to be with someone you don't like, it's better to be alone and at ease. ”
"Seeing him get married and have children, cousin, don't you feel angry or sad?" Lin Chuxue wiped away the tears that had not yet overflowed in her eyes, and asked angrily.
"Of course not, I actually like to see lovers eventually married." Su Ning replied, "However, calculate the time, not long after we separated, they should be together." It also turned out that he just wanted to find a mother for his future child, and it didn't matter who the object was. ”
Lin Chuxue frowned: "Isn't this a fast-food marriage?" It shouldn't be that all blind dates are so fast, right? ”
"Do you mean marriage alone, or do you include pregnancy and having children?" Su Ning stirred the milk tea in the cup with a straw, and said casually, "I have a friend of a customer who got married after knowing each other for three days. After a pause, he added, "However, they divorced again after three months." ”
"These people are too child's play." Lin Chuxue was speechless, "It's terrible." ”
Su Ning said with a smile, "The blind date is generally left over men and women, and most of them get married for the sake of getting married. After a few days of getting along briefly, I got married in a hurry. Although there are many disadvantages of marriage under this model, couples who fall in love freely and drag on for a few years may not be happy after marriage. I think it's still a matter of fate, people who are destined, even if they go around and around, they can get together in the end. People who are not destined to get married, they are just walking together for a while, and they will soon part ways. ”
"Getting married or something, it sounds complicated and troublesome."
"Don't, don't think so, it's just right for you to fall in love at your age." Su Ning saw that Lin Chuxue was about to follow her train of thought, so she hurriedly spoke up, "So, let's talk about your big brother Han." ”
"Poof" Lin Chuxue just drank a sip of milk tea, and before she had time to swallow it, she was all squirted out.
"Ahem", not only was the milk tea sprayed, but Lin Chuxue was also choked. Su Ning hurriedly handed Lin Chuxue a tissue: "Oh, why are you so careless, you can choke yourself by drinking milk tea." ”
Lin Chuxue took the paper towel and wiped the milk tea stains off her mouth. It was not easy to calm down the cough, and when she heard Su Ning's words, she couldn't help but give her a roll of the eyes: "It's not you, it's good to say anything about Brother Han." I just have two brothers, a brother and a cousin, where did the messy Brother Han come from? ”
"Ah, I heard that the other party's surname is Han, it seems to be called Han Gexing or something. Don't you usually call him Brother Han? Could it be that he is called a brother? That's a bit too numb, isn't it? Su Ning said, and pretended to shiver, looking disgusted.
"Sister, you should die, I won't fall for you." Didn't you just want to go around the bush to find out about Han Gexing? Lin Chuxue said that she saw through it at a glance, so she wouldn't be fooled.